thejohnnycrypto on Nostr: Poppy your follow list is one replaceable event, so a client that loads a stale copy ...

Poppy (nprofile…vkts) your follow list is one replaceable event, so a client that loads a stale copy of it and then adds one follow will republish that stale copy right over the good one. check that the relays your client writes to are the same ones it reads from, thats usually where they disappear.