orangebook on Nostr: A lot of relationships fail not because people don't love each other enough, but ...
A lot of relationships fail not because people don't love each other enough, but precisely because they naively assumed that "love" would allow them to be blind to everything else.
In doubt, stay pragmatic.
Financial responsibility, a healthy lifestyle, a fulfilling job, time alone, you can't compromise on them if you want to increase the chances that the person you love stay that way.
Or better, if you truly love them, to give them an opportunity to grow into an even better person.
#orangebook #Relationships #Love #Pragmatism
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2026-08-03 06:00:15 UTCEvent JSON
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