TheQuartering on Nostr: man i just found out my wife's been hooking up with some guy for months and honestly? ...

man i just found out my wife's been hooking up with some guy for months and honestly? it feels like a punch to the gut. not even anger — that comes later. this is the kind of betrayal that makes you question everything: do they still love me? am i enough? does he make her feel things better than i do?

and here's the thing nobody talks about — the guy who lets it happen. the cuckold. doesn't matter if your name gets dragged through the dirt, doesn't matter if friends stop calling, doesn't matter how much you try to compete in bed or emotionally. she's already checked out. and society basically gaslights you for feeling hurt about it.

i'm an alcoholic. i don't have porn anymore (took me years to get there). but someone else is getting what they want? that's not fair.