Sounds like a typical rebutthead to me. But it *does* have to be the community's shit, because he's part of the community, just as you and I are, and everyone is. When community members have awful feelings and trauma about a word, it's not always good to normalize it in the community.
Especially when the trauma is continuing, and absolute nutcases are trying to steal legitimacy right now by using the word to shield their delusions.
Her video is kind of skeezy though and it's a rebuttal of a rebuttal... I'm not really liking her... sliding around on terminology. Spirituality is not the search for meaning in life.