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Broken Scholar (alittleodd) on Nostr: The problem being your financial responsibilities prevent you from even attending a ...

The problem being your financial responsibilities prevent you from even attending a con to meet anybody in the first place :blobfoxupsidedown: at the risk of coming off like I "deserve" anything, it's admittedly a lot more difficult to get your foot in the door in ABDL/babyfur connections IRL when the actual logistics of that involve both finance and/or location. Sometimes I genuinely think the "this is a terrible idea for your anonymity long term but you might be happy for awhile" is the only option that feels possible, and I hate that.