She is clearly interested in you
so either
a) yer being obtuse for the "bit" and will have to go through the anguish of "breaking her heart" for the "bit" because no woman in your life will ever meet the insane standards that you have laid out for yourself
OR
b) yer actually obtuse and don't have a proper reading of the situation with foid meaning you don't actually have the persona irl that you project online
I am saying that out of respect, like I know we've had our back and forth at times but I'm just responding to what I'm reading from you and giving an honest opinion. Whatever you decide to do, it's you that's going to have to live with it
