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What do you think about marriage ultimatums? I can’t help feeling a bit sad when I hear a couple got engaged that way… Am I the only one who feels that way?
Lately, I’ve seen quite a few women I know give their boyfriends an ultimatum lately and then received the ring, so technically, it “worked”.
Still, I can’t help but wonder if marriage ultimatums might lead to insecurities later on, on both sides.
Or maybe I’m just being judgmental about others people’s decisions🤭 But when it happens to people I care about, I can’t help but worry.
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2026-01-24 16:36:58 UTCEvent JSON
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