I have no trouble understanding why a bf/husband would have an issue with it. I can understand the position of support, but would be concerned about the passion.
In the areas where men are treated poorly - let's say whatever combination of things that makes them far more prone to suicide - when a man lashes out violently as a result, I could be sympathetic to him. However, if my bf were passionately defensive of him and made that defense a major focus of his energy, I would have a serious issue with that.

