I mean... damn dude you just called me "young man." do you not see it?
to most people, being comfortable using little verbal *flourishes* like that is either foid- or gay-coded. real dudes have to keep this impeccable masculinity thing going or else they risk getting attacked. it's the law of nature-- worst thing that you can do is look like a fag and show any kind of *sensitivity* because males are in constant competition. anything you say can and will be used against you.
notice I had to italicize "flourishes" and "sensitivity" in that sentence, to put some distance between myself and the word, to make it clear I was being sarcastic with it. that's male-coded speech.