I understand there are some situations where a specific word fits the situation perfectly, but...
If you (speaking collectively) can't express yourself without relying on cursing, you need to improve yourself. Your vocabulary, your temperament, your patience, all of it.
I'm in my thirties, I have gone through all sorts of pain and problems in life, yet I still intentionally choose not to curse. I may use a substitution here and there in casual speech, but if I were to fall into cursing, that would be a sign to me that I have completely lost control and need to focus on problems beyond what I'm dealing with.
