Jules she/her on Nostr: Okay Mastodon, cultural appropriation question, I'm a bit stumped here. I picked this ...
Okay Mastodon, cultural appropriation question, I'm a bit stumped here. I picked this parasol up in a charity shop for Pride a while ago and have been using it to walk to work in the heatwave. I'm white British.
This morning one of the cleaners at work, who is from Hong Kong, saw me with it, asked me where I got it from and got quite upset when I said it was from a charity shop. He said in his culture you should never use these parasols if you don't know where they come from as they may contain ghosts and will bring bad luck. I ended up asking him in all seriousness if there was a way to remove ghosts from parasols, but apparently not.
So basically what I'm asking I think is should I stop using the parasol if it's upsetting East Asian people in a way I didn't realise it was?
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