sometimes the thrill of the perceived solution from an outsider - "i know it will work if we just did this" - imposed on someone who does in fact know what happens if we just did "this" .... produces more conflict than stepping aside and letting the realization wash over why we don't just do "this". just wait until you say "no" because you are tired, overwhelmed, confused, upset, honest. #thebeehivetavern
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