It’s not getting better. Miscommunications, the tradie making assumptions about what is required…
I’ve always liked to be involved in decision making processes, either by being in charge or at least n a committee/in consultation.
Partner & I usually discuss & consult, but I think his guilt about letting stuff go so long (triggered by visit to NZ & really seeing how badly let go his parents’ old place was (great on the surface), prompted him to act impulsively & without proper discussion.
Hence I feel hijacked.
