Ivan on Nostr: What is the state of Lightning wallets for Nostr zapping? I tried zapping people who ...

What is the state of Lightning wallets for Nostr zapping? I tried zapping people who commented on my recent post, and it seemed like half of them failed. I think most were people who have Alby but, I guess, never updated to self-hosting? I am still using a centralized solution, Coinos, but the most functional seems to be the Primal Lightning addresses—another centralized solution. Who is using self-hosted solutions for zaps, and what is the best seamless solution you’ve found compared to centralized ones? Any friction is a turn-off to new people.