People puzzle me more each day that passes.
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Last Notes npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley You’ve excelled yourself with your typos this morning. 😂 npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Post-treatment I found employment but despite working from home for a couple of years my employer eventually insisted I return to campus. The person for whom I cared was terrified. Ultimately I had to give up work, which had been my only (unbelievably) respite and source of non-‘caring’ interaction. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley After a couple of years completing a 4 hour round trip to care, whilst working full time, using annual leave to support medical appmts etc (I must have been mad to let this go on for so long but… reasons…) After moving closer, within 2 months I was diagnosed with cancer, so before any social network cd be developed. Then blow me, COVID hit and we lived like hermits for years until I almost ‘broke’. Zero help from anyone, only platitudes from professionals. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley In my experience no one cares for the carers. There are the occasional glib phrases from professionals and the rare occasions a past acquaintance might contact “If you don’t look after yourself first, you can’t look after her…” npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Hope you have a swift and smooth recovery. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley My daughter pointed out today that one of my front teeth is chipped. Heck did that make me feel old. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Ooh… just remembered ‘The Thornbirds’… Crikey how long ago was that! npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Think I’ve seen you mention humidity before now you’ve said that; for some reason I always imagine Australia has ‘dry’ heat unless I concentrate and think about it. Yes, humidity is awful. I could only cope with Florida late in their season and spending most of my time in a pool. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Truthfully I do. I’m a northerner. I can cope better with the cold than the heat, though no doubt being overweight has more to do with that than anything else! npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Hope all’s well in your world. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Thank you so much for sharing. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Now I’m thinking of Grenfell and other injustices 💔 npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I was lucky enough to have a secure job in banking during the Thatcher era. (Not so secure these days but completely different then.) Living in the north east I’d have had to be blind not to see the consequences of that woman’s evil ideology. My family suffered and the wider community still hasn’t recovered. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I like everything I’ve heard so far. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley You’re right of course. But we, your cousins across the water, can do little but watch, worry and admire… npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Be safe ❤️ npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I know only too well that the consequences of domestic abuse trickle down the generations and are incredibly difficult to escape. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley It’s quite the ‘cold shower’, isn’t it? npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I worked in the private sector, followed by a spell for a local authority (I left because although a well paid job I couldn’t bear the corruption) then in HE. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I absolutely did. Worse in many ways actually. I was employed in HE for the penultimate 14 years of my working life. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I couldn’t believe the reduced salary suggested on receiving my first job offer after a few years at home with my child. The company had seemed so enthusiastic after reviewing my experience so I didn’t expect it. A third of my final salary in my last role. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley So many consequences. Children growing up with a parent(s), working longer hours as they try to keep a roof over their heads. All the obvious difficulties in paying bills, buying food and so on. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I used to see them in my garden too but they’ve been missing for a few years now. I wondered if someone had disturbed/destroyed their roost though I couldn’t think where it might be. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley If neoliberalism works, why is everything falling apart? https://www.taxresearch.org.uk/Blog/2025/07/29/if-neoliberalism-works-why-is-everything-falling-apart/ npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I usually ignore your typos, but can you please amend "he" to "she" please. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley "The UK has a Terrorism Act that jails grannies for protesting against genocide and an Online Safety Act that hides Gaza images until you sacrifice online privacy. Put simply: we are losing our freedoms day by day to protect genocidal Israel." npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Trish, regular readers of their posts/blog will be used to them, from both. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Much of that sounds wrong to me. Replacing one injustice with another is not the answer. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'm regretting I've not done enough on this topic, and I doubt this will be of much help, but it's something. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley It's a bit late for me to delve too deeply, but your post Alex reminds me of things that happened when I was a young teenager. Things that I didn't fully comprehend at that time, that mystified and frightened me but that I instinctively knew not to discuss. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Sorry, but I can't resist thinking, "This is not news to me..." (and no doubt many, many others. Witnessed and experienced from the age of 5 in my case.) npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'd like to think that Paul, but it's more likely my love of crisps talking... npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'm craving crisps and trying not to tell myself "It's okay. I must need the salt..." npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley This northern gal finds 24 degrees difficult enough... npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Ooh, I hadn't heard of them either. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Did you see the piece on #BBCBreakfast this morning, where some random woman made unsubstantiated claims about claimants? npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley What is it about words that Keir Starmer does not understand? https://www.taxresearch.org.uk/Blog/2025/05/09/what-is-it-about-words-that-keir-starmer-does-not-understand/ npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley This encounter brought my daughter and I a good deal of joy and wonder today - late afternoon close to Alnmouth. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Homemade? Yum! npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Thank you. You're always so kind. ❤️ (And willing to give me a kick up the a*** when I need it. 😂 😂 😂 ) npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Decided to give Tai Chi a go... Managed to start a class one week before they finished for the holidays! 😂 npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Oh dear... "considering" is doing some heavy lifting here, I suppose. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I loved 'Dead to Me' too. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley One desperate day recently, I foolishly started to watch this... (I wanted a light, frothy distraction...) npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Was FURIOUS this morning to hear Justin Webb ask for "the stick" in relation to the reforms to 'employment support'. (Think he was interviewing Alison McGovern.) npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I very much doubt men have the first idea of what women endure. I wouldn't be surprised if even perpetrators somehow persuade themselves they're not doing anything wrong. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'm in my 60s. It wasn't something people talked about when I was young. In my mid-20s I finally spoke to someone about an instance of what I'd endured (step-father), they'd experienced worse (father). npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'm sorry Jamie, but I think you've been living in a 'bubble'. (And I'm happy for you that this is/was your experience.) npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Thank you for your openness in your thought-provoking contributions. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Oh, I wasn't remotely suggesting you thought it's an easy choice. As I said, I'm "torn" on the topic. Hard to reflect everything I feel in a limited number of characters. I was just participating in the conversation... npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'm torn on this topic, as I suppose are many others. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley 'She continued: “Today’s Labour Party is unrecognisable. I cannot in all conscience remain in a political party that is pursuing an authoritarian political agenda whose primary objective is to retain the neoliberal status quo, serve corporate interests and protect the ruling class”.' npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley 'Paul Kissack, chief executive of the Joseph Rowntree Foundation (JRF), said: “It’s deeply worrying that we haven’t seen changes to social security that will seriously bring down hardship. In particular private renters will feel let down by the choice to keep Local Housing Allowance frozen means that it will become further out of step with local rent levels, which have soared in recent years.” ' npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley The topic of assisted dying, and the potential ramifications, are much wider than the media discussion portrays. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Ooh, thank you for sharing this... npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I've no direct personal experience on this topic, I've never cared for someone in this situation. I'm sure if I had it would colour my view. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley What I've read about Canada's experience makes me very concerned about 'the slippery slope'. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'm glad you rang for advice because it did all sound extreme. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Good grief! npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Seriously, someone tells a touching story and you want to pick them up on the way they've expressed it? npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Don't forget Spike Milligan. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley We're all occasionally a "fucking idiot". (Just some of us don't recognise/admit it.) npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp3w7kv43yqo npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Wow! Amazing that there were no injuries, thank goodness! npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Such a sad, sad story... npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I agree, though I'm still struggling with the machine. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/oral-epilepsy-drug-eases-symptoms-osa-2024a1000h8l?ecd=wnl_sci_tech_240925_MSCPEDIT_etid6856439&uac=325933MY&impID=6856439 npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Looks yummy! npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Shocking. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley It always provokes a snort of derision from me when people talk of Leeds (or Manchester) as "the north". npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Greed and apathy have brought us here. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I moved back to the north-east from West Yorkshire for several reasons, which mattered more to me than money. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I can't resist pointing out, you had your gender in your favour. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley 'Last Night of the Proms', Angel Blue... npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Post-motherhood, I moved from the private to public sector. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Sounds as though it was wanted, so that's good. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Is that good or bad...? Or was it your mood? npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley [@anathema_device](https://bne.social/@anathema_device ) a bit tame by your standards, but you do like this sort of thing, don't you? npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Didn't anyone tell you they're entitled...? npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley 😂 😂 😂 npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I don't have one. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Oh, they know about 5 seconds after I've answered the door... 😂 😂 😂 npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I have a 'bee in my bonnet' about this... npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I daresay, but I don't see why I should have to deface my property. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I'd hate to have a job where I am obliged to knock on strangers doors, trying to sell them something. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I don't want to frighten you, but a friend of mine had a similar cyst, so when I got a lump I assumed it was the same thing. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley In the universities I've worked, pre-pandemic academics did whatever they liked regardless. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Also, the culprits have the time and means to prevaricate, whilst the vulnerable suffer and lose what cannot be regained. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Lack of enforcement is what angers and frustrates me about disability legislation. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Weather update. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Did anyone else enjoy this? I certainly did. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley "Researchers assessed the cost-benefit ratio of policies across a range of departments in a drive to convince Rachel Reeves she should downgrade costly road projects such as the Lower Thames Crossing in favour of putting more cash into health, education and skills to boost to the economy." npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley "Spending extra cash on mental health services would boost economic growth and improve the nation’s wellbeing more than building new roads, according to an academic analysis." npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Thank you for caring enough to comment. I'm grateful. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I wish I knew how many people are living like me... more or less like a hermit. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I care for a vulnerable family member. It's approaching 4 years since I contacted their local authority regarding the need for remedial work to resolve a damp problem. There are also pests in the property now. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley I've just driven past the aftermath of an accident. An old lady was lying in the road; a Policeman was sitting next to her. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley When you constantly feel manipulated by the person for whom you care... how do you try to decide what is reasonable? npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Not at all surprised to learn this about you. npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 Beverley Feeling less bad... Just remembered this element of the convo'...
