2026-07-28T15:59:11Z https://nostr.ae Beverley https://nostr.ae/npub142wkkcyvzeyrqgplwpt9lvglfewqqx8mgkxhgc7q0nvhhwwjnweq29n2y5 https://media.mas.to/accounts/avatars/109/336/029/902/161/678/original/1e81282dbeb85e27.jpg https://media.mas.to/accounts/avatars/109/336/029/902/161/678/original/1e81282dbeb85e27.jpg https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqrsr86a8muwj2yvvcqhrs9y8rkpjjm92nat8h3vu48kaqhsjzwmqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmymyj6nn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs980vzhwkdhfhmclrer0s3uxxqy0ttk8wp4tw7ddwhqa5zp2msf3qmmfepx'>nevent1q…fepx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You’ve excelled yourself with your typos this morning. 😂 2026-03-01T10:24:11Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspsa3qgtld53cw5mm4l6dpkl0lydsej8l3ap69xd5y28ycr3n42eqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmywrxkgf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszdyk7k8u5knxwzph2q078zazj0m6j83tmwd59cqqzd9yaew5u47qkwx7ut'>nevent1q…x7ut</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Post-treatment I found employment but despite working from home for a couple of years my employer eventually insisted I return to campus. The person for whom I cared was terrified. Ultimately I had to give up work, which had been my only (unbelievably) respite and source of non-‘caring’ interaction. <br/><br/>If I had a £ for every time some bright spark offered their unsolicited ‘advice’… Hah! I can’t be polite about it. Oh, and I’m not as bitter as it sounds. 2026-02-09T21:02:08Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszdyk7k8u5knxwzph2q078zazj0m6j83tmwd59cqqzd9yaew5u47qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyxwkt4t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfqvvqltmxjtvx58ez7da6lechxdyu3rn7ygz9fvqldq58pk4s9yc9829r6'>nevent1q…29r6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>After a couple of years completing a 4 hour round trip to care, whilst working full time, using annual leave to support medical appmts etc (I must have been mad to let this go on for so long but… reasons…) After moving closer, within 2 months I was diagnosed with cancer, so before any social network cd be developed. Then blow me, COVID hit and we lived like hermits for years until I almost ‘broke’. Zero help from anyone, only platitudes from professionals. 2026-02-09T20:55:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf5qupdnzcs8yg99mf0g99rlfpq0s8e0zqwph3ves7ldg8yvt4h3szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmym6c7va In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdzhe0xhdlfhl40dy52t3f2uspamwghekn0edaay4lfyyx7ywuctsnafuy9'>nevent1q…fuy9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>In my experience no one cares for the carers. There are the occasional glib phrases from professionals and the rare occasions a past acquaintance might contact “If you don’t look after yourself first, you can’t look after her…”<br/><br/>Yeah. Fine and dandy. You come and try it if you think there’s some sort of easy choice I’m overlooking. I have no life of my own and no choice to do otherwise, unless I decided to be an absolute *rse of a human. 2026-02-08T21:54:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstgd9lfw8jy69cqk2s75lw6p6c30t7d2xvrhha4376g028w9dgt9qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyw7rh07 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs96e8sraldj8077qsavqvxz07fchgl3zh9ldcgnwkl2dh422nf6tqqvrn5h'>nevent1q…rn5h</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Hope you have a swift and smooth recovery. 2025-12-17T10:48:22Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgzervkyhzgdv6x7c0r7x8n0y5gnjy6t4uv2qgrf58td2nedz34jczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy3ual35 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvpkvhzl79z6ehhxt6jfkmuk5ndyqqd4ee20fgpukqh32c2a3p7hqevprx9'>nevent1q…prx9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My daughter pointed out today that one of my front teeth is chipped. Heck did that make me feel old. <br/><br/>Fortunately it doesn’t hurt. If she hadn’t noticed I don’t know when I’d have realised as I’m not in the habit of looking in the mirror if I can help it. <br/><br/>It was too late to call the dentist so that’ll be a job for tomorrow. 😞 2025-10-29T20:40:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdygg3dkgxvmcvycgzypyahvnxyeltu25d5dnf78r6y5ayrgx673czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmysz4adm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8nkuwkmarw4ysutk5m6e2klyuv2ekl3epz5yxf825dpw0qh30e4s297m7n'>nevent1q…7m7n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ooh… just remembered ‘The Thornbirds’… Crikey how long ago was that! <br/><br/>(Will check…) 2025-10-24T22:31:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs97ld0mh6mknfjpr9dgz3kl6jggraqpp4a23mt94ml833f60uu88szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy9n369r In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqh4egpv64wy9pecqhafsgmj4k5pwvv9qrt309wtmp2udyqvr2g4g75nwnu'>nevent1q…nwnu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Think I’ve seen you mention humidity before now you’ve said that; for some reason I always imagine Australia has ‘dry’ heat unless I concentrate and think about it. Yes, humidity is awful. I could only cope with Florida late in their season and spending most of my time in a pool.<br/><br/> I know Australia is HUGE and doesn’t have the same climate everywhere but have never been, so the first images that come to mind are from television. (Ssshhh… MAFS Australia is my guilty pleasure.) 2025-10-24T22:11:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz2l2aw4w5sq6cgaqndnkgla42ftjc2whanj3tk4susgxpm8d5v8qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmygtsee8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq6pgnmjjve8hs2f80qkv902qzzy68t54f8qt6ddwqgcsrrjqtlrcyempvn'>nevent1q…mpvn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Truthfully I do. I’m a northerner. I can cope better with the cold than the heat, though no doubt being overweight has more to do with that than anything else!<br/><br/>Can’t imagine how I’d cope with what you consider “sweltering”. Anything over 25 degrees and I struggle. I imagine that sounds pathetic to you. 🥴 2025-10-24T21:10:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxgu5jd5elljnezhfapwj33c0luuywn9gff6daucghasrhvgan2kczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyqprmha In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvg5ayke2xaz3g0uzs7neg7art3xgshtxnye2ne6mp4u22tgkjfcgx3p5uh'>nevent1q…p5uh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Hope all’s well in your world. <br/><br/>The weather has turned here, so it’s big coat, scarf and gloves time. <br/><br/>No doubt you’re frying. <br/><br/>Take care. 2025-10-24T20:42:50Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0mxvafccmvq0c0c94fmqg99q6a0fkrxhxacz5f4gk4wuhswjdl3szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmydxjp9y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxu0xc3fjvv7n5xm7pfntttgy3svc673y903szrs4xzgkrkkhugeqcn79yr'>nevent1q…79yr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you so much for sharing. <br/><br/>[@anathema_device](<a href="https://bne.social/@anathema_device">https://bne.social/@anathema_device</a> ) I think you might appreciate this. 2025-10-24T17:26:49Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfk75g6rqy8dtlxw7tkgcfrv6vsdc240cv58wsq0zgjn9ph50tkuqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy5usknl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrnc8ps4mla5hy7g36e73jphn958uzgy0qq4zemejkxaun5eepq3qqpmsky'>nevent1q…msky</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Now I’m thinking of Grenfell and other injustices 💔 2025-10-22T15:52:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs256f5c82murgynhz2fwzvzes0nushdc2x3vf9v2v0jkuegma8awszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyyp7zcp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspvf8657qqyw0cq39xzw28ulp2nmu084w5ugtf8u97p7jseje65kqd3aawp'>nevent1q…aawp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I was lucky enough to have a secure job in banking during the Thatcher era. (Not so secure these days but completely different then.) Living in the north east I’d have had to be blind not to see the consequences of that woman’s evil ideology. My family suffered and the wider community still hasn’t recovered. <br/><br/>Perhaps those in the south east didn’t witness the same devastation. <br/><br/>Some people have to feel pain themselves to understand situations. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2025-10-21T22:47:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr36auf59j54wwu7flj5swctq3cshzvm2rlgudqgecpsl09uf52agzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyzwlmz8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq7yx6lp5tcwcv2whx2jkye8p5aus77ttsxtdsylzn7zv62edajucc3ea38'>nevent1q…ea38</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I like everything I’ve heard so far. <br/><br/>Bit concerned about something he was supposed to have said in his past, but my age prevents me from remembering what it was!<br/><br/>But otherwise he seems like a breath of fresh air. <br/><br/>Love how he’s able to reframe trite questions and hit the mark, pointing to what really matters. 2025-10-21T22:34:50Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs84xjd7lvwwnh8t7t9umyv7dka0j8dnmazzntxm28fdnylwz9f46gzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmysklq5n In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy8u03r9z4gmrxs2tllvqx25c35mf9p3td722zdcpfvkkayfrcm0qepjkly'>nevent1q…jkly</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You’re right of course. But we, your cousins across the water, can do little but watch, worry and admire…<br/><br/>So all we can do is offer warm words and hope. <br/><br/>That said we have similar problems here and I can’t see a solution for our troubles on the horizon. 2025-10-13T00:02:07Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrkmfq9n9rn4etp0279qt9k7hg8x9r7psgqmsdkrtp3we9t8spnxgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmya4qrwu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvgurk0f76fdew50j90azghgjdvtk5jaljfyevv70hgswyv92xxuqedumw6'>nevent1q…umw6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Be safe ❤️ 2025-10-12T23:35:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz7xwt55cc6vzyg99hyra986fc3wv64ylmlh2zt4hdxw3zhksmyvszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyt6vac2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfgjd58uve9x4ajgargzrjeawz7y7ncgkrrxz7l6lxc3lhjsnv47cfhkhk8'>nevent1q…khk8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I know only too well that the consequences of domestic abuse trickle down the generations and are incredibly difficult to escape. <br/><br/>The impacts are not only physical, but emotional, financial and more. Decisions, choices, relationships… Hah! I could write a book. <br/><br/>Unless the people making these decisions have ‘lived it’ I very much doubt they’ll ‘get it’. You have to have felt something to truly understand. <br/><br/>#DomesticAbuse 2025-10-10T10:57:11Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfhpe76hxrrvxr7r3999eg05vcklws4ha6vtevykgn6w5x4ly3z7szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyup4cmd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8ueaxgzxmp6paka3uvlh0w4usjv0y5a23q8rawsf3yys32e6t02sj4ryu7'>nevent1q…ryu7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s quite the ‘cold shower’, isn’t it?<br/><br/>That said, a friend moved in the other direction, from the Inland Revenue to one of the big accountancy firms. The stress almost killed him. Sadly I’m not exaggerating. 2025-10-04T12:48:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0rjwsqtchkjt65ja5xelq62rn9plnrtp8lhd62t0hh7rp7hht2cszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmydhpdxa In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs23pdt4g00xphz4dgvlgxqcxm9as9g27zeqfslxuxw34ufvpynsyqyykz3m'>nevent1q…kz3m</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I worked in the private sector, followed by a spell for a local authority (I left because although a well paid job I couldn’t bear the corruption) then in HE. <br/><br/>I know that toxic environments can be found anywhere but in my experience my time in the private sector was by far the best of the three environments. A sweeping generalisation but I feel the public sector is stuck in the past with length of service rewarded over ability. 2025-10-04T11:32:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswpdtkjlcf5my747cdxdgv6udj5m0d9kpnf3eckk59n7yap9hgwzczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmykjpdf2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2xde40nkqpfky72dgyw0xma6a6vc7s88tfm5d2tjrefkx6ztpjcqtefmtf'>nevent1q…fmtf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I absolutely did. Worse in many ways actually. I was employed in HE for the penultimate 14 years of my working life. <br/><br/>The puerile hierarchies, misogyny, antiquated working practices… I could go on… 2025-10-04T02:00:06Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszshzz66p3axfnth8wxlg69knc0l3ygy85mf3fl49afkchgspm76szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyj7k6pe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsptfuhaj9d30glr78cjkl452f9aulqj936dhjah67ht6e24n482ygl7etht'>nevent1q…etht</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I couldn’t believe the reduced salary suggested on receiving my first job offer after a few years at home with my child. The company had seemed so enthusiastic after reviewing my experience so I didn’t expect it. A third of my final salary in my last role. <br/><br/>I protested to the HR director. Her response was that it had happened to her after she had children and that it was to be expected. Almost as though I should be grateful for the opportunity to return to work. <br/><br/>🤷🏻‍♀️ 2025-10-03T18:49:12Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsptfuhaj9d30glr78cjkl452f9aulqj936dhjah67ht6e24n482ygzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy7qpsfn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspzh0tnwaavuqfnnx3rgvqck6gvcfj2p3s3a99zl0ytqdnmu0dcxgwhp8zm'>nevent1q…p8zm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>So many consequences. Children growing up with a parent(s), working longer hours as they try to keep a roof over their heads. All the obvious difficulties in paying bills, buying food and so on.<br/><br/>Constant guilt at not having enough time for the child(ren). As a single parent since my child was four, this has touched a nerve. Not news to me, but a painful reminder of the exhausting juggling act.<br/><br/>And then now there’s the consequences for pensions. Poverty (and cold) in older age. 2025-10-03T18:40:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq3luddwwenmkkhzl4eku8urllmls6rujayd0t3cmalvce7ezfayqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyr37jvp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfw83sayql8nrkknmnme9657tpjh2jldfrzydh20f6fn3lcvy8xcgv2x0n0'>nevent1q…x0n0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I used to see them in my garden too but they’ve been missing for a few years now. I wondered if someone had disturbed/destroyed their roost though I couldn’t think where it might be. <br/><br/>Foolishly I didn’t think of illnesses. 2025-09-14T23:14:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyfaf6y0q9r9fwz2x4ydy933d20cpdq2ng032h3s9yjzrjfj89y6qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy4c06pr If neoliberalism works, why is everything falling apart? <a href="https://www.taxresearch.org.uk/Blog/2025/07/29/if-neoliberalism-works-why-is-everything-falling-apart/">https://www.taxresearch.org.uk/Blog/2025/07/29/if-neoliberalism-works-why-is-everything-falling-apart/</a> 2025-07-29T20:31:37Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv94zmj7g0zgp4kljz0pgzv5fehaxhzrgk6kgcut4vd9d7rm80lsczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmypuaevp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfephqsp2fxv75q83v35p66kd7rmvd6u5ud53aarsvwntkcu6jpjsw4se3x'>nevent1q…se3x</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I usually ignore your typos, but can you please amend &#34;he&#34; to &#34;she&#34; please. 2025-07-27T17:20:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrg7ztjjpuygywvxkq2dstjxm5jcutrddzvgyhgqtf2jns9222v5qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyhx5ywg &#34;The UK has a Terrorism Act that jails grannies for protesting against genocide and an Online Safety Act that hides Gaza images until you sacrifice online privacy. Put simply: we are losing our freedoms day by day to protect genocidal Israel.&#34;<br/><br/><a href="https://www.councilestatemedia.uk/p/the-online-safety-act-is-not-about?utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web">https://www.councilestatemedia.uk/p/the-online-safety-act-is-not-about?utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web</a> 2025-07-26T10:25:06Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgyenj50qsc3ydge64jc63ee22ptlku3y9pa28v7f37uuzhhufkfgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmynwj3yw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdvkakw9eu9hn7g88k4nwj56y089c20lr7ktp0ts70sjk5h9cj7rg7jzvna'>nevent1q…zvna</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Trish, regular readers of their posts/blog will be used to them, from both. 2025-07-22T09:41:22Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx8qule0zm57zujzz5rwdqw3t88ykf0y6vmwy58cqxkcz88l53p4czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyyt228w In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqe2yymszzm7tvu5aaawj2kf7deyy4veyqrjnheshr4wht4jqd66ceue68s'>nevent1q…e68s</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Much of that sounds wrong to me. Replacing one injustice with another is not the answer.<br/><br/>There needs to be a concerted effort to address the problem not piecemeal approaches. Generally, drinking and driving is no longer acceptable. I can&#39;t remember the last time I heard a &#39;mother-in-law&#39; joke...<br/><br/>It could be done but requires the will and consistency, across various institutions, Police, schools, social media... Doubt it will happen though... 2025-07-01T09:02:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2p3euzqq3gt4dqadgmz66pgwgsuf6dex72fsp74e8snssqfjehvczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy8ltm2t I&#39;m regretting I&#39;ve not done enough on this topic, and I doubt this will be of much help, but it&#39;s something.<br/><br/>#WelfareReform<br/><br/><a href="https://the.organise.network/surveys/pip-reform-urgent-june-tactics">https://the.organise.network/surveys/pip-reform-urgent-june-tactics</a> 2025-07-01T08:56:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9n38pll7y4hfqhpwdqmmldqgslv5n8jxrq76gvcg0z76nvjpl6hszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyutxhm2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9kg79c8m0r42z5z4647p79ucp0n79s78hqqsz7n7ykpt06xust5cjm8j8z'>nevent1q…8j8z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s a bit late for me to delve too deeply, but your post Alex reminds me of things that happened when I was a young teenager. Things that I didn&#39;t fully comprehend at that time, that mystified and frightened me but that I instinctively knew not to discuss.<br/><br/>I can&#39;t know how much of this men will recognise, if they&#39;re oblivious to the actions of their peers... and surely such episodes happened to women my mother&#39;s age, but there were no warnings... 2025-06-30T22:47:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsg3jkdy3skfzhw8wmvl7l03lj8unk4x45g9dnztn60sh482fgqm5qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy3yj7wu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw4s9fz3uqvdlzfh5sdgkyg233usyvy2hckqgpkh43855vj2yldmsy6wnn7'>nevent1q…wnn7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Sorry, but I can&#39;t resist thinking, &#34;This is not news to me...&#34; (and no doubt many, many others. Witnessed and experienced from the age of 5 in my case.)<br/><br/>And now I&#39;m thinking of Women’s Suffrage and how change rarely comes without a &#39;fight&#39;, certainly when it means the powerful giving up the control they enjoy.<br/><br/>I think I&#39;m generally a positive person, but in this instance, I am not hopeful. 2025-06-30T22:28:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs05ru6fxyhq3hadexy6jcaqg0ny8tsu4gc0jjqymrl0nd7hvxzcsgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmynfekt0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspdx870sjdkplljsc3en6tdf39fyg5h6r2ehhhqv2c0trv7g4x0csju20dt'>nevent1q…20dt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;d like to think that Paul, but it&#39;s more likely my love of crisps talking...<br/><br/>Ha, ha, ha... 2025-06-30T13:46:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2vrrfz8fmnq6t8m3fg6kafthu4vh9nhrjw2v2w0s3wxhn5xps6qszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyevjtvd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxmx60m6pcftat8pzxvzfz7a4sp50wnsha4gn96l3ss54aru8w0esz8zewx'>nevent1q…zewx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m craving crisps and trying not to tell myself &#34;It&#39;s okay. I must need the salt...&#34; 2025-06-30T13:45:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszeqevasun9x2235mgplgut2rkxvfg402htmdwp78q7t5hh5yrj2szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy072d83 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfesrdj90lwc5se8mpdqtrdxhte8tcrgg0rpzvzsf7k4tyv3fmafgekemkg'>nevent1q…emkg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This northern gal finds 24 degrees difficult enough...<br/><br/>It&#39;s 24.9 in my bedroom. 23.8 in the coolest room in the house. Supposedly. Eurghhh... 2025-06-30T13:02:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxvktvtlkjj2yqf0f3htr3zc6zym2s7v9eynfhtpc2q7pzy7xpy7czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyxvka2h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp3ccxwqn9yqj3phcy9wt3swgvwhm2ad24qyh2ec2d94eycswyutsgl9tk4'>nevent1q…9tk4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ooh, I hadn&#39;t heard of them either.<br/><br/>I try not to use Amazon but have occasionally when I couldn&#39;t find what I needed elsewhere.<br/><br/>Thank you for asking the question Geri and thank you Tony for the helpful tip! 2025-06-30T09:56:50Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstdsf33dfymdm3y8h50qnna3u3q6xzcjn0ast8t34a74a9lawxr7gzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyngu3us In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8zvpcmz548cqj89y8nz7r45d3tfkw42dk53ry9vxxkcke54yf8dgq8m48d'>nevent1q…m48d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Did you see the piece on #BBCBreakfast this morning, where some random woman made unsubstantiated claims about claimants?<br/><br/>Apparently &#39;Jill&#39; &#34;thinks change is needed&#34;. We&#39;re &#34;spending huge amounts of money which this country can&#39;t afford... there are a lot of people getting those benefits that perhaps shouldn&#39;t be...&#34;<br/><br/>Ah yes, well-known &#39;expert&#39; Jill...<br/><br/>The #BBC lost its way some time ago. (I mainly put it on for the clock in the corner/local weather forecast.)<br/><br/>F&#39;in&#39; FUMING! 2025-06-27T08:14:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyqth5hr2w9auxprvl7v89tedvnngfajmw0nhu07zvnuxqgxjwt4czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyefde03 What is it about words that Keir Starmer does not understand? <a href="https://www.taxresearch.org.uk/Blog/2025/05/09/what-is-it-about-words-that-keir-starmer-does-not-understand/">https://www.taxresearch.org.uk/Blog/2025/05/09/what-is-it-about-words-that-keir-starmer-does-not-understand/</a> 2025-05-09T22:37:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs84xuma2wk7x5ejqcrl8srl6w5j62mglq4jv5rx84he3n0s60pcpqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyk9zlex In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp50eg6ux6uqxrlz40sp8eflfd7e7pj6098lwef2wz0qrgv8hlz2s0l95nv'>nevent1q…95nv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This encounter brought my daughter and I a good deal of joy and wonder today - late afternoon close to Alnmouth.<br/><br/>We also saw pheasants, swans sat in a field, deer, ummm... I know there was more... Oh, and something that I thought was a stoat but daughter thinks was only a grey squirrel. But I thought it was too slim and long and the way it moved... <br/><br/>We had quite the afternoon driving along the coast then inland to Alnwick.<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://media.mas.to/media_attachments/files/113/738/847/642/690/003/original/4a3849b4a611d983.mp4"></video><br/> 2024-12-29T02:07:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsprwh5yll0g3jdu3h5zhvl8nwggjt2kmr05wdwh3h07nwp4vx8hyszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmypgjwc6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy3gqs2zuuyaaglhmnkuzmgs7434u2pyklk3ecwdnucd9un5r6ynqsdt954'>nevent1q…t954</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Homemade? Yum!<br/><br/>Wishing you good health, peace and happiness. 2024-12-24T22:48:25Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2vqwmg8vklq8nd65watvczckledpa0d2swcac2p5k0lqm7p9vc6szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmylwv05s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9fs5dqpc4z0n9jpkdlk76len2005v79t3qxy93wlg79aumm29z0sxskpy9'>nevent1q…kpy9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you. You&#39;re always so kind. ❤️ (And willing to give me a kick up the a*** when I need it. 😂 😂 😂 )<br/><br/>Yes, finding the good ones seems more difficult since COVID emerged.<br/><br/>I&#39;ve let months go by, trying to resolve health issues and not taken a grip of &#39;living&#39;. I&#39;ve also struggled to adjust to not working.<br/><br/>Stopped taking some med&#39;s and concluded some problems were actually side effects. Hoping to finally get myself into gear now I&#39;m feeling somewhat better. <br/><br/>🤪 ❤️ 2024-12-24T00:29:58Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswnq3snr3274rnq8njym0s2t0nfcjk9v4uxr984p03z8p94yglc6qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy6r9scf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv2h2z5rynt8zwtqyr2kz7dp7r34vvywz86cajyh20ysp2hfx6y6cg0lgka'>nevent1q…lgka</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Decided to give Tai Chi a go... Managed to start a class one week before they finished for the holidays! 😂 <br/><br/>It was SO hard. My natural setting is &#39;zoom mode&#39; and making myself move slowly was incredibly difficult.<br/><br/>But I like a challenge and I think it will be good for me, so I&#39;m not giving up yet! Doesn&#39;t restart until the 15th though.<br/><br/>Looking at finding something else too, before what I have left for a brain totally decomposes! 2024-12-24T00:21:02Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv2h2z5rynt8zwtqyr2kz7dp7r34vvywz86cajyh20ysp2hfx6y6czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyvqpd35 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0g7tgynjwjkp2j4ve9kaf9egavq9j5jm2y6gv6m2h7ryujs6xg4sr9sk9e'>nevent1q…sk9e</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh dear... &#34;considering&#34; is doing some heavy lifting here, I suppose.<br/><br/>Me? Usual roller coaster/can&#39;t see the wood for the trees stuff.<br/><br/>Having a tussle with some tradies which doesn&#39;t help. Very frustrating, but seems to be the way of the world these days. Finding someone who can do a job without making things 10 times worse seems impossible.<br/><br/>Trying to &#39;breathe&#39; through it but the grey, miserable weather doesn&#39;t help. 2024-12-24T00:17:58Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfg3k8evh4lan2r6g2psuzghyt5de7ncywanrffwn383284ytjwtczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyl6ftxn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsve3h8t5kr7thajrrlh9kknk2xmnmts7xq43v5lm0aas9hlzg7xcqdtvqlm'>nevent1q…vqlm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I loved &#39;Dead to Me&#39; too.<br/><br/>I also liked &#39;Lilyhammer&#39;, &#39;Ginny &amp; Georgia&#39;, &#39;Russian Doll&#39; and &#39;Happy&#39;. Have you watched any of these?<br/><br/>There&#39;s other stuff I wouldn&#39;t own up to... 😂 <br/><br/>Hope all&#39;s well in your world. 2024-12-24T00:05:38Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs88jchs7su3j08gkkt6wr8zsh2la86ttdl6n3ckjdn9yj0spc83wqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy3w8zqn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr5xvnyk7frvpsynwywklmpasyp83f7wqjrqdkx3q9dkdj88pwktgnwj4zq'>nevent1q…j4zq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>One desperate day recently, I foolishly started to watch this... (I wanted a light, frothy distraction...)<br/><br/>It is unbelievably inane, saccharine... Just yeuch... and I found the face of the male lead disturbing in some way I can&#39;t quite put my finger on. <br/><br/>I think I lost brain cells I&#39;ll not regain.<br/><br/>Just horrible. 2024-12-07T22:47:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq7ncurzemfrq78twepkqcfqkvf9dp88y82afyld3e4xt2amvuh9gzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy5jrfuj Was FURIOUS this morning to hear Justin Webb ask for &#34;the stick&#34; in relation to the reforms to &#39;employment support&#39;. (Think he was interviewing Alison McGovern.)<br/><br/>Yes, go ahead BBC, join in with the scapegoating...<br/><br/>No, don&#39;t concern yourself with the rich who avoid paying tax. It&#39;s the plebs that are costing the country not the obscenely wealthy. <br/><br/>Pffft... I hate this country these days.<br/><br/><a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0025cmd">https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0025cmd</a><br/><br/><a href="https://www.oxfam.org.uk/media/press-releases/worlds-top-1-own-more-wealth-than-95-per-cent-of-humanity/">https://www.oxfam.org.uk/media/press-releases/worlds-top-1-own-more-wealth-than-95-per-cent-of-humanity/</a> 2024-11-26T17:09:01Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqp23gzyk4etdy7xu79t22flqe3s7f7djme8nrpdaejdqmzk9welqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy9qp3xv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy4a5egvl593h9dl0492mhe9uz7r3f80tyn2fny6mjy5v9sfevl3g0tp2l8'>nevent1q…p2l8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I very much doubt men have the first idea of what women endure. I wouldn&#39;t be surprised if even perpetrators somehow persuade themselves they&#39;re not doing anything wrong.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t think the prevalence has changed so much as &#39;lad culture&#39; which has made some instances more blatant.<br/><br/>There was a horrible practice of up-skirting and worse in my daughter&#39;s school. The schl took a &#39;boys will be boys&#39; attitude (2010s). Daughter was mortified/long-lasting impact. 2024-11-26T13:23:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy4a5egvl593h9dl0492mhe9uz7r3f80tyn2fny6mjy5v9sfevl3gzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy6r8twt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdpgnfea9p0w3e890fn8lrmqasutyhuxv9qsuknes08vq9hfl84pq7eht5f'>nevent1q…ht5f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m in my 60s. It wasn&#39;t something people talked about when I was young. In my mid-20s I finally spoke to someone about an instance of what I&#39;d endured (step-father), they&#39;d experienced worse (father). <br/><br/>The next 4 friends I spoke to had all endured similar or worse. I began to realise it wasn&#39;t &#39;out of the ordinary&#39;. Far from it. It&#39;s endemic. It&#39;s just not something you advertise. 2024-11-26T13:16:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr3x74yul4mh0ywqu0hjw4y4vfwycsl9xtkdw0lwqkq3vs706yy0qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy555l4f In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrd4dadhgp3t0lyh5w6ppdtuwxph8dlrqfl5u5u8hx3rr55swm5jqt2ck46'>nevent1q…ck46</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m sorry Jamie, but I think you&#39;ve been living in a &#39;bubble&#39;. (And I&#39;m happy for you that this is/was your experience.)<br/><br/>I think my first experience of unwanted attention happened when I was 8. Men of varying ages participate in behaviour that makes women and girls &#39;uncomfortable&#39; and worse.<br/><br/>Even when I got to my 50s it still continued... There are no totally safe spaces. It can happen when you least expect it. 2024-11-25T23:34:25Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszy7g29hss697xtskwywpk5gnncnplcffg25227p533w7u220rqegzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyuzp0f8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2xaag06lh529hfagf83jfm5yve8eys9h8t0w6vdywp6jk209lg7qgsnp83'>nevent1q…np83</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you for your openness in your thought-provoking contributions.<br/><br/>Have a great day Kyle and Jules. 2024-11-14T10:54:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2kme0uk08yuqughu9wynaxdlq6eh2up973dd6s7j0phxn0kfdhdszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy32thnc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswmqajml00dfsn68d7etj5plcskscguls3uwrp06j2skxslac7mxc5mm2tk'>nevent1q…m2tk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh, I wasn&#39;t remotely suggesting you thought it&#39;s an easy choice. As I said, I&#39;m &#34;torn&#34; on the topic. Hard to reflect everything I feel in a limited number of characters. I was just participating in the conversation...<br/><br/>Your post has generated an interesting, moving and at times, sad, thread.<br/><br/>It shows diversity within both those that do and those that don&#39;t wear a poppy. 2024-11-09T22:46:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgmf23r7ex87xkc3pvkpz2el45q2l0w7uqssqszqn0p8q7e5sneeszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy3xslyu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdvepq3p4rawfa4j8u3e27wx26eren8uvsfcapddadrvpxfawduxcqhqhl4'>nevent1q…qhl4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m torn on this topic, as I suppose are many others.<br/><br/>I&#39;m from the north-east. I know many men from this area, who were not academically inclined, felt there was little option but the Forces in order to have an income.<br/><br/>I always remember my mother being bitter that her father, who lost the use of a limb and was discharged, in her view, received no help. (He was a miner and hadn&#39;t needed to enlist. He died of TB aged 57.)<br/><br/>I want to show respect for those who had no choice, but... 2024-11-09T22:34:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdpzp6n0scc9ypllclzssgkq5wft696jxttd224selxty0ny5ywlszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmys0t4k0 &#39;She continued: “Today’s Labour Party is unrecognisable. I cannot in all conscience remain in a political party that is pursuing an authoritarian political agenda whose primary objective is to retain the neoliberal status quo, serve corporate interests and protect the ruling class”.&#39;<br/><br/><a href="https://leftfootforward.org/2024/11/former-labour-mp-beth-winter-quits-party/?utm_source=LFF+Subscribers&amp;utm_campaign=207f37e26d-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2024_11_04_03_38&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_term=0_-207f37e26d-%5BLIST_EMAIL_ID%5D&amp;mc_cid=207f37e26d&amp;mc_eid=288651ed3c">https://leftfootforward.org/2024/11/former-labour-mp-beth-winter-quits-party/?utm_source=LFF+Subscribers&amp;utm_campaign=207f37e26d-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2024_11_04_03_38&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_term=0_-207f37e26d-%5BLIST_EMAIL_ID%5D&amp;mc_cid=207f37e26d&amp;mc_eid=288651ed3c</a> 2024-11-04T19:09:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9vyjy3pec429lmk2696aswragfa9g275fjxkww8qggyxu0zsc5pszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmydghgxe &#39;Paul Kissack, chief executive of the Joseph Rowntree Foundation (JRF), said: “It’s deeply worrying that we haven’t seen changes to social security that will seriously bring down hardship. In particular private renters will feel let down by the choice to keep Local Housing Allowance frozen means that it will become further out of step with local rent levels, which have soared in recent years.” &#39;<br/><br/><a href="https://www.bigissue.com/news/housing/local-housing-allowance-benefits-autumn-budget/?fbclid=IwY2xjawGPezhleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHS2mK9-GuH1EvqKhMCq94jS5OB_abnc8urOeQqOgrtFVpQi3nNH7H3CljA_aem_-nj8q07qexTzZHAJyaBKLA">https://www.bigissue.com/news/housing/local-housing-allowance-benefits-autumn-budget/?fbclid=IwY2xjawGPezhleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHS2mK9-GuH1EvqKhMCq94jS5OB_abnc8urOeQqOgrtFVpQi3nNH7H3CljA_aem_-nj8q07qexTzZHAJyaBKLA</a> 2024-10-30T20:57:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqtjlypeqs0sv7n2zlj200c9lq2nsf8v8axs85txzuk79ejupef5czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy7qzks5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgrk9nr6a2krayp5xsskndn4e674juey3he40lvmul53c2xgrv4gg0xsqjx'>nevent1q…sqjx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The topic of assisted dying, and the potential ramifications, are much wider than the media discussion portrays.<br/><br/>I worry about biased amplification of certain &#39;voices&#39;. 2024-10-20T10:10:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsp0juump8nw00nr6lsu48r0w4ejr23jmcqk2gfzm80vs035n5skfqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy8fdr0p In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgwq7m6al7zqcdjrh3qnfh7qmgf9sqgxlvu9vs69vrnrza537ujtsdyvt7m'>nevent1q…vt7m</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ooh, thank you for sharing this...<br/><br/>I don&#39;t think it&#39;s something that would create an earworm for me, but I did enjoy it. 2024-10-20T10:05:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0ah4gtdzmhgg8j45wv37jmrgj9mhanp8lvtzyawpjq5v9w0x427czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy8ahluz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs27xc6hwe5tudk4qy6cglxvt84xj02r99uh2lnwfzmh30uk792frgnt6c4p'>nevent1q…6c4p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;ve no direct personal experience on this topic, I&#39;ve never cared for someone in this situation. I&#39;m sure if I had it would colour my view. <br/><br/>However, I care for a vulnerable person and I worry for their future, especially once I&#39;m dead. So my bias is against this proposal. I would struggle to make the choice. 2024-10-20T09:34:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs27xc6hwe5tudk4qy6cglxvt84xj02r99uh2lnwfzmh30uk792frgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmydk4fhv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs92fss5kmfs7tn9r6kytpfnqcf5r0n9p44hf29s2ecknjh5vcs34sdj6jqc'>nevent1q…6jqc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What I&#39;ve read about Canada&#39;s experience makes me very concerned about &#39;the slippery slope&#39;.<br/><br/>I can&#39;t help wondering if we&#39;re mostly hearing middle class voices on this topic, who are more likely to have able advocates. I worry that the poor and vulnerable will be &#39;terminated&#39;.<br/><br/>This wasn&#39;t a balanced interview, though Dr Cajetan Skowronski did his best whilst Rebecca Wilcox was faux polite and talked over him.<br/><br/><a href="https://www.channel4.com/news/assisted-dying-should-it-be-legal-in-the-uk">https://www.channel4.com/news/assisted-dying-should-it-be-legal-in-the-uk</a> 2024-10-20T09:34:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdrss87qmd5st82v3wh3s50t7cqyzfdzxsqtj5s3eq038ywmkjyyszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmywpn9kn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfnkvanl3u487py3ss3qhdvn4jgw6xgpfz39yv25xa88v8qq22t0ql2egnw'>nevent1q…egnw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m glad you rang for advice because it did all sound extreme.<br/><br/>I hope you have a comfortable day.<br/><br/>🤗 🤗 🤗 2024-10-20T08:51:57Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8h8jcjmlmxrrr2pjhlug0wpw5a5fz4cp7jpcg8glypp4929pkx4qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy444yk7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv8kvym4c9hzaqvhvdafed9hg47aqd7wjkweun5f9d06chxdm8s7qyfh294'>nevent1q…h294</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Good grief! 2024-10-19T22:43:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfkjj5l9prhqpjxa64q9dt9ar96eha9lqv2ln7u9qucz702lsat6czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy4nynzr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw5580a0z2yy0edkfh7cwdze4n6qgqwxd5jugmlhtvqxgt9p6fcwswjgv9p'>nevent1q…gv9p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Seriously, someone tells a touching story and you want to pick them up on the way they&#39;ve expressed it?<br/><br/>You need to have a word with yourself! 2024-10-19T21:38:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswdmzzjhg0q2uluc26juz4mwkyn9e3k2w26x28kc0rz0nphjvf09czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy5lmxz4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvkkycwgmu3657n5clecsc3ey6ekcytvkunfjtfq9eej5r4fmj0tqeuqqst'>nevent1q…qqst</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Don&#39;t forget Spike Milligan.<br/><br/>I didn&#39;t quite &#39;get&#39; him at first... too young. But I&#39;m wondering if &#39;Q...&#39; was repeated later because I eventually found him hilarious.<br/><br/>I loved &#39;The Goodies&#39; too, but Dave Allen will probably remain king for me. His irreverent sketches, and the Mexican about to be shot, all had me in fits of laughter. 2024-10-14T20:31:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspprvynu6azud33rj3lh03fl0kyedy7uwlvelweqfy8qlg4c457hgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmydjyvnc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8s8chgvf2mcmhm5r3a3c6ddja6hz6kh99ff75tu7qkyewr2mf69sy4ey9g'>nevent1q…ey9g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>We&#39;re all occasionally a &#34;fucking idiot&#34;. (Just some of us don&#39;t recognise/admit it.)<br/><br/>On the plus side, you are also a wonderful human being. I&#39;m happy to (virtually) know you. 2024-10-13T23:04:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqtk34kpey6jnpjkvmqkj2ylfcpf3ujyzecld54cw3yfqdh078xuszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmypjtgmx <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp3w7kv43yqo">https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp3w7kv43yqo</a> 2024-10-06T10:33:37Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr20tyjaqf4qw6v0w27emxuse27expp425ewrx8c6hz0lfw525kvszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy5ny99u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfhwh9mwlz3thhcsy8aa72rcm90wzfu94wzdx80c08jjrcf6qyl3ctpr5q6'>nevent1q…r5q6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Wow! Amazing that there were no injuries, thank goodness! 2024-10-02T22:27:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrqwznkreg8k38k0750hrhe5l4h37sw7n7hjaxrzfsv9yk4dga4eqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyxp9892 Such a sad, sad story...<br/><br/><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2024/oct/01/family-of-woman-who-lay-dead-for-three-years-had-raised-alarm-inquest-hears?CMP=share_btn_url">https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2024/oct/01/family-of-woman-who-lay-dead-for-three-years-had-raised-alarm-inquest-hears?CMP=share_btn_url</a> 2024-10-01T23:05:08Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf5wyf4vk8dzg96w036745vytyvr37ejrkatcaswmsek73v90pgqszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyzg3dh7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspqm73xjuahypgxm3pc75tkshtm4xqwnn59pd3kxt40k50rgrqp3s82299v'>nevent1q…299v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I agree, though I&#39;m still struggling with the machine.<br/><br/>But pharmaceuticals aren&#39;t consequence-free, especially when taking other medications, as you imply. <br/><br/>I guess it may help some people who can&#39;t tolerate the machine, though I imagine there&#39;ll be those who see tablets as the &#39;easy&#39; way out. 2024-09-27T20:18:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyyz9ekztrpf8nsya8j4ldfxuph6sjrhv6ct925rehqfcp9c004rqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyts7ry6 <a href="https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/oral-epilepsy-drug-eases-symptoms-osa-2024a1000h8l?ecd=wnl_sci_tech_240925_MSCPEDIT_etid6856439&amp;uac=325933MY&amp;impID=6856439">https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/oral-epilepsy-drug-eases-symptoms-osa-2024a1000h8l?ecd=wnl_sci_tech_240925_MSCPEDIT_etid6856439&amp;uac=325933MY&amp;impID=6856439</a> 2024-09-27T07:27:55Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgsq7k75fgce8nmzv7ekk27eeqzhtzmk0lg7tr5wmkadzsv2zk2tszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy3h5nfe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyns2qqjm8dnvdagfcccpw0x4esk5awdq07433p2thx992d43ra2g4jvjd7'>nevent1q…vjd7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Looks yummy!<br/><br/>I hope you both enjoyed your meal. 2024-09-18T22:17:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrjzrt6eaa26a706vn0mnrk0c6h5uv5txy0jf2qj9yahanpegtumqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmypnpec6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfp0cnjyycrk8h9sglsg7x6c3ftkqlnjd5e5wwkahaxx44nz44u7gu2wqma'>nevent1q…wqma</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Shocking.<br/><br/>Why do so many avert their eyes? Do they think it could never happen to them or theirs? Is it apathy or despair?<br/><br/>Read the key findings and weep, but then we must act. The way forward? I&#39;m hoping the independent group of MPs will find a way forward hopefully with the support of unions.<br/><br/>I&#39;m too exhausted from personal responsibilities to do much, but I&#39;ll do what I can.<br/><br/>Wake up (UK) people!<br/> <img src="https://media.mas.to/media_attachments/files/113/141/561/605/913/000/original/fb9acc15a42e9950.png"> <br/> 2024-09-15T13:21:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy6v4hqmuudpmh96fu6z3ze4w08p8lk2jja32lllh8mty0m0j009czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyt9az69 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz5rl696uz26u24lkajsaa97kd0a503c4xqpft6hz02nchsd5ftpcvd2cmw'>nevent1q…2cmw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It always provokes a snort of derision from me when people talk of Leeds (or Manchester) as &#34;the north&#34;.<br/><br/>It truly isn&#39;t.<br/><br/>(I have a visceral reaction to such claims; I guess that makes me a bigot of the kind I&#39;d normally detest.)<br/><br/>In my experience, there&#39;s a completely different culture above the line of the A59, tho&#39; I noticed a great deal of similarity between Sheffield and the north-east. I wonder if that is something to do with the type of industry that used to be prevalent. 2024-09-15T11:54:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz0qth7tza0npj58ahmz38406nzxt5p47x27r2e2mjdc380vy5vyszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyd5l69k Greed and apathy have brought us here.<br/><br/>I&#39;m old enough to recall the glee with which the stupid/short-sighted bought shares in the country&#39;s assets. That alongside the disparagement of the Unions was the beginning of the neo-liberal disaster.<br/><br/>I agree with <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1zg4p47vzcs7cjlp8mv9t3svq27273p2yttyf8t72zry36t885wuqhz56fh" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Epistatacadam</span> (<span class="italic">npub1zg4…56fh</span>)</a></span> comment; what passes for education churns out clones in support of the suppression of the masses. People in poverty, or the brink, are preoccupied with survival and more easily distracted.<br/><br/>There is no &#39;Saviour&#39; on the horizon. 2024-09-15T11:12:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdgvpulpt6y4jec9h8dqugrndcey6knpacwafk9azskxx7a6xdg7czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyyv2cmc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvxjulfwgv5rj785xju769hfmpuvvahd7cnhc2qph6s665xkgc42grcuthd'>nevent1q…uthd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I moved back to the north-east from West Yorkshire for several reasons, which mattered more to me than money.<br/><br/>I expected salaries would be lower here, which is sad when you think about it but it has always been a fact of my working life. <br/><br/>However, I was surprised at the extent of the salary difference between Leeds and Newcastle upon Tyne.<br/><br/>I doubt it will ever change. Levelling up? Don&#39;t make me laugh... 2024-09-15T10:47:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszenver40vw42vp88h4zv7ajceumnrzsylgl3n8xzknz7ar2vz98czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyl8dgra In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsppxchvmnwq4w69zgeyu5frrrxk29k5ttpt6kc8j8r0q22mwyqwhstyx2mr'>nevent1q…x2mr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I can&#39;t resist pointing out, you had your gender in your favour.<br/><br/>Females in academia have a constant struggle against misogyny. <br/><br/>Just as surprising (to me at least) were the shocking levels of racism (and associated &#39;hierarchies&#39;) I encountered working for a local authority.<br/><br/>Hmmm... I&#39;m trying to recall something positive, as this all sounds very negative... Public sector employers were more flexible when it came to caring responsibilities, but that&#39;s all I&#39;ve got right now. 2024-09-14T22:46:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs945la6jdjt34xxsx90gzcelv4kk56jsvfvjah70k0ahs5ru6wzsqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmymz5jsj &#39;Last Night of the Proms&#39;, Angel Blue...<br/><br/>Wow, doesn&#39;t cover it! But it&#39;s all I&#39;ve got...<br/><br/>WOW!<br/><br/>AMAZING! 2024-09-14T20:34:37Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs89xaeftnc50l89z4gczmhnl5gdkynrcuhc0exfet49cseumuydwszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyz80533 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswq4ta0hxlseadtzpet5s5m7l7d2fjwhcfde835ptl7pl3e9v9z4gaegmtz'>nevent1q…gmtz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Post-motherhood, I moved from the private to public sector.<br/><br/>Culture shock or what! (Tho&#39; not as difficult as the reverse. A friend went through that and it nearly broke them.)<br/><br/>Sweeping generalisation, but I think there is a greater tolerance of incompetence in the public sector. The &#39;time served&#39; approach to promotion was still dominant. It also seemed that if you joined in a lower level role, that&#39;s how you&#39;d always be perceived, no matter your previous experience. 2024-09-14T18:58:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8fte06r4ppml6990awpsg7khz6r8lhan3ngvty82jz62kffrspkqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy5ymdf9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstz0jaqnlc3hyhlt2wwme5zq542w5jnuuyqmkxjlz5aq0zq82elscrd0axm'>nevent1q…0axm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Sounds as though it was wanted, so that&#39;s good.<br/><br/>Yes, it&#39;s been a lovely day. The weather has turned a bit &#39;nippy&#39; compared to what it&#39;s been, but being a northerner I can cope with the cool better than heat. 2024-09-10T21:05:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9zunrj0fye508g8k8yys5jq33xh3fvgzv5r86qgpxpkjnuaywclszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyx23vwz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqn6llvtqsaukvykkywmklqmcplxe4cddjg5qa253gkje56rwlspsqnqn65'>nevent1q…qn65</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Is that good or bad...? Or was it your mood?<br/><br/>Here&#39;s #WhitleyBay<br/> <img src="https://media.mas.to/media_attachments/files/113/114/196/931/351/600/original/d62f3abc088432dc.jpg"> <br/> 2024-09-10T16:28:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd3zrg77x73n9w9tfhl7yzu7je2n28nh5yd69wwsgralcrxpfz49szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyyqyfde In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw0rx0j39ef6gq06hp7a5zp0rqe44tcm6yx5xrjkt2dge7rz4hl8g5puul4'>nevent1q…uul4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>[@anathema_device](<a href="https://bne.social/@anathema_device">https://bne.social/@anathema_device</a> ) a bit tame by your standards, but you do like this sort of thing, don&#39;t you? 2024-09-09T21:59:17Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgtsaknlpdqef3zzm924v60kg0g5y64r0t05rw4hddthttfl5y03gzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyd3khtv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxk6r86vhhumzf3p4fen47x40a9w70twcjeufuzlfp09kmml7n7aglnu6th'>nevent1q…u6th</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Didn&#39;t anyone tell you they&#39;re entitled...? 2024-09-09T21:54:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsynglsfg7gnywyn8f8qc93pxhr7pxnjd98graxn85rlrk5a0rnpqszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy2m4fht In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst4hk0w66qq5jkq9qhxejaq0hflndn9t9zt63klh0uhcw967a89nstzzr0x'>nevent1q…zr0x</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😂 😂 😂 <br/><br/>Ideally I&#39;d like a water cannon...<br/><br/>(Joking... or am I? 🤔 😂 ) 2024-09-09T21:53:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxpyd7gujcsjvu2rhxt4a3uz4kh27n89nzy4a4dqavt5mq82mfjpqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy2akmph In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsydydmx0frctz6ugfhe9jdz04gxnwjx9n34hksu74rggvj4vefxsg5jt3hs'>nevent1q…t3hs</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I don&#39;t have one.<br/><br/>And no, I&#39;m not buying a new door to avoid the rare caller. <br/><br/>I thought the purpose of social media was to pointlessly rant/vent (amongst others), so that&#39;s what I&#39;m doing... 2024-09-09T21:34:02Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy7j4yqpkn9xqmvxvgcgvujkhp5tyz04s59u23pajcn862qhngxfgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy95wpqd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8zcswxkw6mx2nsfygrnulgum4td3ve503uxl7lptfl6frjjcn4rsssnxqr'>nevent1q…nxqr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh, they know about 5 seconds after I&#39;ve answered the door... 😂 😂 😂 <br/><br/>There should be a &#39;list&#39; of homes that don&#39;t want cold-callers. It would be a means of keeping vulnerable people safer too. Ohhh... Derrr... it would be a list for scoundrels to target, wouldn&#39;t it? GAH!<br/><br/>Anyway, I&#39;m on the &#39;no direct mail&#39; list and I still get that recycling through my door...<br/><br/>GRRR... 2024-09-09T21:28:45Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0hr3z0yw950zj7x27juq2wfaclq9jpan0kh4xzfprukt2hdtajfgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyffuexk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqqnp9l722yqy5x3n7yh7taa04989azatpfengxmay4prg35t0usqlq7x3t'>nevent1q…7x3t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have a &#39;bee in my bonnet&#39; about this...<br/><br/>Can you tell?<br/><br/>😂 😂 😂 <br/><br/>My daughter would never answer the door to an unexpected caller. Full stop.<br/><br/>She doesn&#39;t understand why I do. &#39;Old habits&#39; I guess...<br/><br/>It&#39;s not as though I exactly have a social circle these days... Hah! 2024-09-09T21:24:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqqnp9l722yqy5x3n7yh7taa04989azatpfengxmay4prg35t0usqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmysrlprn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv8jeazs3tsw4j8fv3sd6qrld7z7r32w3va90mmn27f6r4859357qvvzy4n'>nevent1q…zy4n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I daresay, but I don&#39;t see why I should have to deface my property.<br/><br/>That said, I acknowledge your sign is utterly FABULOUS.<br/><br/>I once had a charity tell me I should put a sign on the door, when I complained about one of their representatives calling DURING THE FIRST YEAR OF COVID-19!<br/><br/>NO! You should make an appointment, not call unannounced, and certainly not during a pandemic!<br/><br/>Entitled, arrogant idiots!<br/><br/>My house, my rules. 2024-09-09T21:21:57Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst87p5ma4gyk4gz98nl8p6f35a0m6wwadth2mphgxfs9ttk88dtjgzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyqajzup I&#39;d hate to have a job where I am obliged to knock on strangers doors, trying to sell them something.<br/><br/>Just had someone tell me &#34;That&#39;s terrible&#34; because I said &#34;No thank you, whatever it is, I&#39;m not interested.&#34; &#34;How do you know?&#34; he said...<br/><br/>Did I invite you? No. So what makes you think you&#39;re entitled to knock on my door and have me listen to you?<br/><br/>I can&#39;t understand anyone who purchases goods or services from a random stranger who has knocked on their door without prior arrangement. 2024-09-09T11:43:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsw7pd3eqce3uvsx2ee3du9vmka5439dt0gn42wacdfc8yqyjv9a7qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy4793z3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsranahknjhggpxu64mktkqvls6qnylelzyusnpgx2vyd45t76nq3c9439me'>nevent1q…39me</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I don&#39;t want to frighten you, but a friend of mine had a similar cyst, so when I got a lump I assumed it was the same thing.<br/><br/>It was assumed to be benign following initial biopsy, but turned out to be malignant. Please do get it checked out. 2024-09-08T23:16:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8sanjdwl4u6awkn9evg95m9rga79525u8u39q7n4fdy5s563zn5gzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyfw43h3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgpd47mldj3xqfq6zjlk2a9sa7430sywptaygn98rtj9sqru3u7ustcqgy8'>nevent1q…qgy8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>In the universities I&#39;ve worked, pre-pandemic academics did whatever they liked regardless.<br/><br/>Admin&#39; staff were a different matter; mostly &#39;policed&#39; within an inch of their lives. Until the pandemic demonstrated that people were conscientious and fulfilled their roles without being heavily scrutinised.<br/><br/>That created problems when VCs wanted everyone back on campus, in part because students felt they weren&#39;t getting value for money.<br/><br/>Don&#39;t get me started on HE hierarchies/estates. 2024-09-08T19:20:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstkd3j5yddmkhyt24rtd4nzw5s4tpxzlwu3fk30zs8hvka50zsajqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy4hll30 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspwx5d637357h7734k9f9t9agdppnn5cj5cfmajrfk2ztrdmapa3ghur5lj'>nevent1q…r5lj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Also, the culprits have the time and means to prevaricate, whilst the vulnerable suffer and lose what cannot be regained. 2024-09-08T12:16:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspyxxrphhsmuq6wch57jy3p7vppgt94p067clv2xwk7qgam4cl7nczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy8yv6q7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsps502dnlfszjmhuc4npflky956vqwu5gyxztp0jhenf2w5897xpc242y7f'>nevent1q…2y7f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Lack of enforcement is what angers and frustrates me about disability legislation.<br/><br/>This vulnerable cohort are often the least able to advocate for themselves and often have to rely on exhausted carers to &#39;fight&#39; for them.<br/><br/>Without money or connections the hurdles to a &#39;decent&#39; life are far too high. 2024-09-08T11:15:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfvm24ly5f4e5h77zxxfuh4wg8c2u2ysm6ttv7xu4u3dkr7f3sruszyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmypz8j72 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0puw7q98zp6chqx0lmygrhuvyhgn38nwd54sl68r6zr8r76q948gzqpqdk'>nevent1q…pqdk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Weather update.<br/><br/>The day started dreich... this is 11.40 in #WhitleyBay which is 3.38 miles from #SouthShields as the crow flies (8 miles from the #Toon / #NewcastleuponTyne).<br/> <img src="https://media.mas.to/media_attachments/files/113/101/519/555/192/060/original/37366cb711f96cc7.jpg"> <br/> 2024-09-08T10:44:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2eyhdzx4cx6scd7tl9ek09hw8eeg90evp460vtk6f8rr34lcf37czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy9gpykd Did anyone else enjoy this? I certainly did.<br/><br/>&#39;The Zelensky Story&#39;<br/><br/>I want to know more about his wife too. From the story so far, she really must be someone special. I guess she&#39;d have to be...<br/><br/><a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episodes/m001zps2/the-zelensky-story">https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episodes/m001zps2/the-zelensky-story</a> 2024-09-04T22:25:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2ttv9l3etswk980m6pg70rjqllq8rz8rusjgz0cemfnhm6j2uargzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyzzpx92 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy9d8mm5vz0906247daa66spw3sxacjust89sx3nl30zf0279q9nglcrp36'>nevent1q…rp36</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>&#34;Researchers assessed the cost-benefit ratio of policies across a range of departments in a drive to convince Rachel Reeves she should downgrade costly road projects such as the Lower Thames Crossing in favour of putting more cash into health, education and skills to boost to the economy.&#34; 2024-09-04T18:06:12Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy9d8mm5vz0906247daa66spw3sxacjust89sx3nl30zf0279q9ngzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmycc7h0s &#34;Spending extra cash on mental health services would boost economic growth and improve the nation’s wellbeing more than building new roads, according to an academic analysis.&#34;<br/><br/>&#34;The report from the London School of Economics (LSE) argues that a rethink is needed inside Whitehall about how to approach spending decisions, with more focus on how the money actually improves people’s lives, particularly in terms of wellbeing.&#34;<br/><br/><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/business/article/2024/sep/03/mental-health-new-roads-study-lse-rachel-reeves-services?CMP=share_btn_url">https://www.theguardian.com/business/article/2024/sep/03/mental-health-new-roads-study-lse-rachel-reeves-services?CMP=share_btn_url</a> 2024-09-04T18:05:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswt72wdp2rqsv6em0k9wa7lc2mkf486mrjpc9a336437nq2cjus9czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy0g78vh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsru0426tcc4c6ygu7hp06cfap3q80gfyt8asdc9uwf32w89e54shgcqv86s'>nevent1q…v86s</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you for caring enough to comment. I&#39;m grateful.<br/><br/>If it was my &#39;story&#39; I w&#39;d&#39;ve done this in a heartbeat a long time ago. (I&#39;ve connections at the Yorkshire Post who would no doubt have supported me in finding a suitable contact if I asked.)<br/><br/>My family member won&#39;t allow me to do this. They&#39;re afraid it would have negative consequences for them later on.<br/><br/>I hate feeling so helpless. I&#39;ve never felt so &#39;beaten&#39; and powerless. I usually find a way.🤷🏻‍♀️ 2024-09-03T20:43:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2st5fzydrrmc6wqur8pcchkrrdthwpxsdf6kx5lqrfae57r2px2szyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmy0z8jt7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0ruktmx2r3j5patvqrpclm6txrrup2tunqp3996gtfc5jj4ka9zgpdeh0t'>nevent1q…eh0t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I wish I knew how many people are living like me... more or less like a hermit.<br/><br/>Everyone I knew before the pandemic began has gone back to &#39;normal&#39;.<br/><br/>It&#39;s really difficult and at times I question myself, but I really cannot voluntarily submit to risking an illness especially when the potential outcome is so debilitating.<br/><br/>I&#39;ve always thought folk were pretty bonkers, but this... 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2024-09-03T08:37:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs83kv85yjwvy82cnm42w354fzpam26tusqdnkddxugsrzwua862tqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmywnhy7h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv4wqyffv8ahawyw4ph9rn44mdgwya6sghpt0m5hzmhty5gh4huvgjgfauk'>nevent1q…fauk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I care for a vulnerable family member. It&#39;s approaching 4 years since I contacted their local authority regarding the need for remedial work to resolve a damp problem. There are also pests in the property now.<br/><br/>I am banging my head against a brick wall. I&#39;ve involved councillors and our local MP. All we receive are meaningless platitudes with no action.<br/><br/>A vulnerable, disabled person just doesn&#39;t matter, do they?<br/><br/>Caring is exhausting enough without these &#39;fights&#39;. 2024-09-02T21:38:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsg40p4sfw9n4lz9pr26n3ukpecg65ntz6rxl525wj9gchjfc7t54czyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmys6j0s8 I&#39;ve just driven past the aftermath of an accident. An old lady was lying in the road; a Policeman was sitting next to her.<br/><br/>I drove on as an ambulance came towards me...<br/><br/>I had a visceral reaction; felt very shaken up.<br/><br/>Then I thought of Gaza. Not just one person lying wounded and bleeding. One after another, after another...<br/><br/>Why are we tolerating our politicians facilitating the intolerable? Why allow the continued supply of arms? What can &#39;ordinary&#39; folk do to stop this madness? 2024-08-30T13:09:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs830qq3mut7ju074xc9xtx33vwpeeyhsrj46648nyuely0xzptxvczyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmycszs2s When you constantly feel manipulated by the person for whom you care... how do you try to decide what is reasonable?<br/><br/>Sorry to throw this out into the fediverse. There&#39;s just the two of us and it&#39;s getting harder and harder to be objective about our situation.<br/><br/>Sometimes I think they can&#39;t help themselves, then other times I think I&#39;m enabling this helplessness. They do struggle, but I don&#39;t know where that &#39;line&#39; is...<br/><br/>Meantime, I&#39;m more and more... depressed I suppose... 2024-08-21T19:58:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0vptwtkmplf3phsv8mam2lcyzeurfyqyqj3lqeed65nd7vcndd5qzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyxruc4h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqu0srl3cy0g2kcwr0jrx2dh4x7e5dvf8ymjs7y2xu6f7nuya5leqyp4yak'>nevent1q…4yak</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Not at all surprised to learn this about you.<br/><br/>A heart-warming story, and I also love that your daughter was with you to learn of the difference her mother made (makes) in this world. Though I&#39;m sure she knows this anyway... but good to hear it from someone else. 💖 2024-08-20T23:53:32Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyszscs6py97drwy7kd2f494h7hn4mayefneaky5nra8zwjrfmmlqzyz4f66mq3stysvpq8ac9vha3ra89cqqcldzc6arrcp7dj7ae62dmyltkdj4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9eqt9g644a7kvlgmsnhhh9pze0dcz9eeuf89h5g784u34zqqlj5sn5j5wm'>nevent1q…j5wm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Feeling less bad... Just remembered this element of the convo&#39;...<br/><br/>Him: &#34;You don&#39;t need that on near me...&#34;<br/><br/>Me: &#34;Why, when did you last take a test...?&#34;<br/><br/>Him: &#34;You don&#39;t need to test now...&#34;<br/><br/>Me: ROARRRRR!<br/><br/>🤦🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️ <br/><br/>🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤷🏻‍♀️<br/><br/>#CovidIsNotOver<br/>#COVID19 <br/><br/>(He told me there was no need to be so aggressive. Don&#39;t know whether to laugh or cry.) 2024-08-19T21:14:48Z