2024-03-25T09:14:42Z https://nostr.ae Heather_860 https://nostr.ae/npub147ekwzq0llxhnwj8kg8rd29d7gpskqv8d38ty08m9g9g0xkkmyjq86wu4v https://m.primal.net/HUZM.jpg https://m.primal.net/HUZM.jpg https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst49tphzze5mgttgl2wz7jtcn9r2r44pe0w2vqwh62f3vhw9kp4qszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjghs5jsz Did anyone see the news from Vienna, where six teenagers committed long term sexual abuse of a 29 year old woman? <br/><br/>Teens are not children. They are not innocent. They are not only victims. They are also perpetrators. Americans putting themselves into a mindset where teenagers are mentally only little kids is so wrong on so many levels and creates a myriad of problems. Our laws need to take reality into account. Otherwise we&#39;re gonna keep seeing all sorts of bizarre injustices. 2025-03-20T05:44:32Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8mg606z43exwa3qqqh4f9nt3yfw76jtf8nlu5u72v4d9vgcleafczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg3wz5am &#34;They&#39;re diluting how atypical their sexual interest patterns are.&#34;<br/><br/>James Cantor, in an interview with Max Karson, explaining why pedos want to be called MAPs.<br/><br/>#StopTheHysteria 2025-02-15T09:30:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs20lcmy07ys0v4sqxv6p68q0048xf48zjfcnkx6ulykegq5pnzt6gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg4jmmaz How the infantilization of young adults (aka teens) became so prevalent in the United States. <br/><br/>A confluence of events provided the factors for the paradigm shift. <br/><br/>In the 80s the media went wild for 2 EXTREMELY RARE cases of child abduction by a stranger. Adam Walsh and Etan Patz (a while later Jacob Wetterling). Kids were on milk cartons. TV news got much better ratings when they covered scary stories, involving blood and death. Heart-wrenching stories with adorable blond 6 year old victims sold like hotcakes. So Stranger Danger Panic emerged.<br/><br/>TV personalities got rich and famous by terrifying the population even more. Their shtick required that the victim be innocent and vulnerable. So they constantly used words like &#34;defenseless victim&#34;, &#34;impressionable minor&#34;, &#34;naive child&#34;, and &#34;inexperienced teen&#34;<br/><br/>Big sexual abuse lawsuits against the Boy Scouts and the Catholic Church popularized the idea that child sex abuse is extremely harmful and extremely common. Neither of those things is true. Well-meaning people conflated the concepts of minor and child so they could inflate statistics. Teens can, of course, consent to sex, they&#39;ve been doing it for all of human history, but admitting that would mean that you couldn&#39;t prosecute or sue for millions of $$$. So well-meaning but teen-phobic sex-phobic Puritans invented the mantra &#34;minors can&#39;t consent&#34;. They have to repeat it constantly, because it is obviously not true. <br/><br/>The Stranger Danger Panic became Sex Predator Hysteria. All throughout history people in their late teens dated and sometimes married people in their early twenties. Romantic relationships between 16 year olds and 24 year olds was always common. Also completely harmless. But nobody was thinking rationally. Everybody was terrified. They had convinced themselves that such a romance would create terrible trauma. They openly called it child rape. <br/><br/>but something even worse was happening that they had to deal with. Many of the younger partners in these completely normal couples said openly &#34;I consented. Everything was fine.&#34; If the fear-mongers accepted this as true their whole worldview collapses, so they expanded the concept of &#34;grooming&#34;. Their new interpretation was that it&#39;s a kind of brainwashing. The abuser is nice to the victim, and the victim thinks he or she likes it, but total strangers know better and can see that it isn&#39;t two young adults making love but in fact child rape. This requires the &#34;impressionable minor&#34; or the &#34;inexperienced teen&#34; to be too stupid to see that he/she is being abused. To consider normal young adults aged 16 or 17 &#34;defenseless victims&#34; or &#34;naive children&#34; you need to believe that their brains are deficient. So the public was hungry for any way to argue that young adults are incapable of adult thinking. That was the fertile ground the junk fMRI studies landed in. <br/><br/>Then we got #MeToo. Just like Stranger Danger a few extreme cases got talked about so much that everyone thought it was everywhere. Harvey Weinstein is a totally vile piece of shit rapist. He used his power to coerce. But since Sex Predator Hysteria was well established everyone was super eager to declare that anyone who has more power than their lover is in fact raping that poor victim. It was completely ridiculous, but nobody cared. Nobody wanted to think. They wanted fear and anger. That&#39;s the nature of hysteria. and it fit beautifully into the infantilization paradigm. If you&#39;re 19, a vulnerable teen, obviously your 26 year old girlfriend has more power than you, so you cannot consent, so you are being sexually abused. and self-righteous &#34;saviors&#34; who have never met you or your girlfriend can feel superior and morally pure. <br/><br/>When I was 17 in the 1980s my boyfriend was 23. It was not a big deal. Nobody even mentioned the age gap between us. There was nothing out of the ordinary about it. By the time #MeToo came around I hadn&#39;t thought about him for decades. but when I shared the facts of our relationship on Twitter in 2020, tons of people were eager to tell me how I was an idiot who got groomed and abused. I was not a child. I was not raped. I know. I was there. but social media loves spreading the infantilization narrative. That way they can create salacious stories of sexual abuse when the true story is a rather boring &#34;two young adults did a romance&#34; <br/> 2025-01-05T19:35:01Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9khtkq4gf7exkhcecedg4dlcheqmhp6ayr4ag8knx3zucnsrn5aqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgelutlx <br/>The Democrats Are Now The Moral Majority - in the worst possible way <br/><br/>One of the most fascinating things in the last few decades of U.S. politics is the total reversal of the sex-positive vs sex-negative positions of the two main parties. <br/><br/>In the 80s and 90s the Republicans were the party of Jerry Falwell and the Moral Majority. The sex-phobic Puritan idiots were all in the GOP. <br/><br/>The sex-positive enjoy life and don&#39;t suppress healthy natural desires party was the Democrats. <br/><br/>In the 90s the Rs tried desperately to beat Bill Clinton over the head with his sex scandals, and while some voters were disgusted by his dalliance with Lewinsky, overall he kinda made it so sex scandals don&#39;t matter. <br/><br/>Now as we enter 2025 the opposite is true. Seems like every R in tarnation has half a dozen sex scandals and the Dems just won&#39;t shut up about them, and those Rs just keep winning elections. Maybe establishing a new slut-shaming left-wing Moral Majority wasn&#39;t a good idea. <br/><br/>In the 90s the Rs talked about prudish moral rectitude non-stop, but they all had their own mistresses, and foibles even more scandalous.<br/><br/>Now the Ds won&#39;t stop yammering righteous indignation about how Rs are morally bankrupt because they&#39;re much too horny and pay sex-workers, and so on.<br/><br/>The script has flipped. <br/><br/>The 2024 election was very close. Several relatively small things, done differently, would have made it a Democratic victory. <br/><br/>Dems lost, in part, because they have become the party of hectoring prudes. <br/><br/>&#34;Heather, what? are you implying that Dems have been shaming voters for being too lustful and sinful?&#34; you ask. <br/><br/>Yes. and it has a lot to do with the infantilization of young adults. <br/><br/>The vast majority of people have romantic/sexual relationships with people close to their own age. The median partner preference for women is her own age plus ~5 years, and for men his own age minus ~5 years. <br/><br/>If you&#39;re a 20 year old man, looking for a partner, it&#39;s really quite likely that large numbers of women your age are going out with someone who&#39;s 25.<br/><br/>Naturally you&#39;d be dating someone who is 5 years younger, that is 15, but that&#39;s now taboo.<br/><br/>It is so taboo in fact that none of these brand new 20 year old eligible voters will say that the stigma around and the literal criminalization of their natural desires makes them vote for the Republicans. <br/><br/>They&#39;ll describe it in some other way. They&#39;ll obfuscate. They&#39;ll use dumb slang that means nothing. or they&#39;ll invent some nonsense about the border or the price of eggs. <br/><br/>Was the 2024 election result backlash against #MeToo? In part, for sure. but it&#39;s bigger than that. #MeToo expanded and morphed into #TheHystera, a worldview that makes pretty much all sex some kind of sexual assault if not rape. <br/><br/>How many times has our friend, the 20 year old male newly eligible voter, heard that Matt Gaetz is a child rapist? What did Gaetz do to earn that title? He had sex with a prostitute who hadn&#39;t yet turned 18. <br/><br/>How many 20 year old men don&#39;t want to have sex with a 17 year old? Should they be ashamed of those desires? Should they seek professional help because they are pedos and a danger to society? <br/><br/>The vast majority of those men know that their desires are natural and harmless. So activist Democrats calling them rapists and perverts for finding women 3 years younger than them arousing, must be really fucking annoying. <br/><br/>Republicans, by boldly overlooking large quantities of sexual misconduct committed by many of their most prominent members, show horny 20 year old male voters that it&#39;s ok. The GOP understands and tolerates them.<br/><br/>The Dems on the other hand call them predators and try to incarcerate them. <br/><br/>Remember that there is zero evidence that teens having sex is harmful. <br/><br/>There is zero evidence that age-gap sex is harmful. <br/><br/>Shaming people for harmless desires is an awful thing to do. <br/><br/>Because of the taboo all of this remains unspoken. but most of us know it&#39;s true. and even more people would see that it&#39;s true if they calmed down and looked at it objectively for a moment. <br/><br/>#TheHysteria that makes people see sex predators everywhere causes Democrats&#39; to lose elections, which results in dangerously stupid clowns controlling every branch of our government. <br/><br/>It&#39;s time to admit that John Walsh and Chris Hansen were wrong and did tremendous damage to our society.<br/><br/>It&#39;s time to embrace young adults as capable strong individuals. It&#39;s time to stop infantilizing, demeaning, and disempowering them.<br/><br/>Some Democrats ask &#34;Why do young men listen to vile bat-shit crazy morons like Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate? What can we do to offer those boys a different vision of masculinity?&#34;<br/><br/>First, stop calling them boys. It&#39;s demeaning. <br/><br/>Second, you can&#39;t get the right answer because you&#39;re asking the wrong question. <br/><br/>The right question is &#34;How have we screwed up so badly that fucking idiots like Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate look good by comparison?&#34;<br/><br/>Dear Democrats, you shamed them for having normal natural healthy sexual desires. You called them predators, pedos, rapists, wannabe rapists, and toxic. <br/><br/>There is a way out. <br/><br/>Treat young people with respect. Stop telling them their brains don&#39;t work because they&#39;re under 25.<br/><br/>Stop calling them children when they obviously aren&#39;t. <br/><br/>Stop pushing the rules of consent to absurd lengths. <br/><br/>Repeal the idiotic notions that sex is rape if one person has more power, one person had a few drinks, both people had a few drinks, one person is older, etc. <br/><br/>I&#39;ve been a dedicated progressive Democrat all my life. I&#39;ve seen us win. I&#39;ve seen us lose. but lately we&#39;ve been losing to the lowest form of pond scum imaginable, and it makes me wonder how we managed to fuck up so badly. <br/><br/>It&#39;s not just the one thing. Our leaders have done just about everything wrong. but the alienation of young men because #TheHysteria interprets their healthy erotic desires as evil toxic and predatory has not helped the Democratic Party with that demographic. <br/><br/>In short, stop being sex-phobic Puritan idiots. <br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/> 2024-12-26T14:09:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspedydpqm3gjk79huaterscx00etqrq950xya8sz8ce5yscug07agzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgdzrfda In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx62gcrvq0np29uuuxm7kuwt5506jjph97akfm4yef8js6guza2dq85h2ce'>nevent1q…h2ce</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Why would I read anything you write? 2024-12-25T20:06:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgcwq2jcp5pdnuadd3pv0ljslp7r5v2u3mplpwtazwrra0d99h7cgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgz8hp42 Nostr is a giant pile of shit.<br/><br/>Everyone here is a fucking scoundrel.<br/><br/>Want to interact with decent people? GTF off Nostr. <br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1ft25xvh787kek0cjae27h77jgza9vqx2arkar6tv44njggt8xlvs0wg7sx" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1ft2…g7sx</a></span> </div> Anyone under 25 should be sent off to work in the mines. 25 is when they can start their education. Anything earlier than that is a waste of time. </blockquote> 2024-12-25T09:01:02Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvddkxz32wrtad62ud95uxdxfzd4wh65dd8rxhuz0m2k5c9kn6h6gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgg2lpv3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy442rxtlrltvm8ufwu40tl0fypwjkqr9w3mw3a9k26eeyy9nn0kg5z38q2'>nevent1q…38q2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Nostr is a giant pile of shit. <br/><br/>Everyone here is a fucking scoundrel. <br/><br/>Want to interact with decent people? GTF off Nostr. 2024-12-25T09:00:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqr6fmesjxh5f52lpyuljl0tflypj090jak4kr20glyy0dk0m3m4szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjghs0p40 Here are a few serious questions you can ask peeps who love to say &#34;undeveloped pre-frontal cortex&#34; or &#34;not fully developed until your late 20s&#34; <br/><br/>#RespectYoungAdults<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/NExE.jpg"> 2024-12-24T06:43:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgdm5xnvwz8hpnudqjc029hynq0nguvwajhvjsskfh0qxdd86lsjczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgxsu3t9 _&#34;Between 1979 and 1989 use of the word &#39;predator&#39; goes up 900%&#34;<br/><br/>Mass hysteria gripped the USA, and never let go.<br/><br/><a href="https://buzzsprout.com/1112270/3884039-stranger-danger">https://buzzsprout.com/1112270/3884039-stranger-danger</a> 2024-10-12T08:30:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8n8005903wcqmquxlywqyy0s24xuqknm97ytc0y354flplmlflwqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgg3q729 the term &#34;groomer&#34; is ridiculous fear-mongering bullshit, just like &#34;predator&#34;<br/><br/>it&#39;s totally detached from reality and serves only to gin up hysteria. 2024-10-12T03:19:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8pajg4zlkjses6rslh7fq6cn6q9atkjtkuzpeu6jz57f6wg2f7uqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgz0zlje There are over 450 million EU citizens living in countries where the age of consent is 14, 15, or 16.<br/><br/>If there were any truth to the currently popular American hysteria about helpless teens getting abused by rampant predators, they&#39;d have a huge problem.<br/><br/>but they don&#39;t. 2024-10-07T07:21:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvarel53srh7238c6geve3q5f5pfmfxz844xmeuxgpsy3y0fpggqszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgt3yqe8 Maturity depends a lot on how much you have learned, which depends on how much you have been challenged. Before the age of helicopter parents we learned faster and matured faster because we weren&#39;t locked up in an overprotective bubble. 2024-10-06T09:01:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspa42zcgue4wn8pfg33sw7j8wz9s76wwqxxt8psgja3lkcj4w328qzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg46yzlz There are some things people just always believe. True or not.<br/><br/>If crime is rising or falling or staying the same, everyone always believes it&#39;s rising.<br/><br/>and they always believe the youngest generation is the worst and the most lazy, wild, undisciplined, etc. 2024-10-06T06:12:30Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0hduakzmlwn7jex67mmev09hys7l9ws2kgq05wgn6w7nfa528eqszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg2ayd24 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvlu3vqg3fes24n5hwk9rpdlcwp6sam7kn64p78uq3rwylra9tdvgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgmacagy'>nevent1q…cagy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;ve been on Nostr for a year. I have posted 2,630 notes. In all that time I got maybe 30 likes. <br/><br/>I&#39;m not saying Nostr is dead. but it doesn&#39;t seem like anyone here has any interest in my content. So there is no significant incentive for me to post another 2,630 notes. <br/><br/>If we&#39;re honest, it was probably a waste of time for me to join Nostr in the first place. 2024-09-04T14:26:51Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv57y90lj3lkdhvfcjfu6fl80aurhkvgksvnykpkxxs3ynfacrzpqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgg0uw48 They redefine the word &#34;trafficking&#34; any way they want any time they want to make sure that they gin up outrage and hysteria, keep the discourse on a purely emotional, not rational level, and thereby prevent the public from using critical thinking skills. They do the same with the words &#34;rape&#34; and &#34;assault&#34; 2024-08-25T06:32:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs90gqdaaedaqnh9n92juuzzlwjjgdrhrt6e4h2d9xshysayd3rtmqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjghd6n4z I&#39;d reply to this tweet directly, but Elon deleted my account. <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/JVEw.jpg"> 2024-07-18T12:06:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd6a6jvjvxh24rkjyzphferwv9a0l4e37gskh0wewpruzy2eupthszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgtezy4c It&#39;s absolutely bizarre to me that my own culture, just in the last 20 years, has established a strict prohibition on *friendships* outside your own age cohort. <br/><br/>It makes no sense on any level,<br/><br/>but it&#39;s part of the emerging anti-age-mingling taboos.<br/><br/>#RespectYoungAdults<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HjTA.jpg"> 2024-07-10T07:10:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0prpsxt7x0gzazwxewf5886f0q4hgeanspjerg76nn7a66rpz5egzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgkf29j8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrmnvgje9877k8el2tn7kv72f28vqu609mmzcq69g55npf97naezcppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dshmcpn2'>nevent1q…cpn2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s literally the opposite of freedom. It&#39;s totalitarian dictatorship that controls everything, even your sex life. You promoting that makes you the most vile piece of shit communist dirtbag alive 😀 2024-07-09T17:30:55Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs22flfhxzv3ur9gpvld2pe7p0x4vgkucxgypnuu4yczk3qg5hmjagzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgn8ap36 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstlwxppgzdpfypa94yjw0cu336vnpm95erl9zmjmdf0tl78lj2q5qppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0ds05x6km'>nevent1q…x6km</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I was one. I know what guys me and my friends chose 😀 <br/><br/>It was fine. Your fucking arranged marriages crap got discarded long ago and with good reason. It fucking sucks 😀 2024-07-09T17:27:29Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst8vg8d7uczqsz82k49j80l35lxhhfswygcut86zwxmc5zw4yakuqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgff6cp5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs035cfmxx2y9hvfxavwq4xk3xwzqh6l2f0ud3w3e6l6x3750jeghgpp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqz0ea26'>nevent1q…ea26</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Nothing you&#39;ve posted is true. <br/><br/>So either you&#39;re lying or you have been thoroughly misinformed. 2024-07-09T17:25:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgwsustyhvdfcllzwmy2escqeh4h92nwepghvr0djeu57yp8su46szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgpenhvm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv5kz5zyfv8grdlpazp6synmq8wcxvuvvgg9tmpv0nw005xgdrxxgppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dsdnywee'>nevent1q…ywee</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Nope. There&#39;s not a shred of evidence that premarital sex is bad for society 😀 😀 😀 2024-07-09T17:24:32Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd4crtgd9vaa4whp8pegw3hsr9h33jav2wl9kz8mc5jcep2t6t0pqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg70q3c9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2j2j973uuy3fgfkpx0y3my24m879etaczrkhpk7x38etzpacnl7qppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dsddpycq'>nevent1q…pycq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>LOL 😀 <br/><br/>The age of first marriage is steadily rising all around the world. In the US it&#39;s now in our late 20s. <br/><br/>That trend is not going to change. Nobody is suddenly going to start getting married at 13 or 16 or 19 😀 😀 😀 <br/><br/>Lots of people are going to have lots of premarital sex over the next few decades 2024-07-09T06:02:38Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdvfkdck8w6vgq0armywjpeys7vf0ww2tnreq4x464vg7p0kdgesczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg37uyjw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxgvgxn2lam99hzxdap4tqcqka9dxr97sfjggyjpc7jr2atpxn97qppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0ds8zfxxf'>nevent1q…fxxf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I don&#39;t think there&#39;s anything in that video about the legal marriage age<br/><br/>which is a completely separate issue from the age of consent. 2024-07-09T05:58:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx9xasda0389wsu9fnvxzfyq5h3x7l7x254hltf3auwmd05sunguszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg43zqgy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvlsjxzlpu8nmz0qvxwvprmpc4a5z85tc2qyvss3lch62g6ecyenqppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dsnhe8yg'>nevent1q…e8yg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>No. Again you are wildly misinformed. 2024-07-09T05:57:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs27dtpeq0nx6686wyrd79vtvws0gzcl3vde8au4qyeaqewdyc8aaczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgdq6s78 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxgvgxn2lam99hzxdap4tqcqka9dxr97sfjggyjpc7jr2atpxn97qppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0ds8zfxxf'>nevent1q…fxxf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>with all due respect &#34;father&#39;s permission&#34; is vile crap. <br/><br/>statistically BY FAR the most like to abuse a young woman is her father. those guys should have zero control over anything young women do. 2024-07-09T05:56:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrgkj7sugdlp7xhjyf68a45g8nv29ux5j3nwjk5cdqaz8th75w4dgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgjxae5r In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvckz6nj9rk24p7pfcm2v0x63cxh5k3rr5y6m3anyejd64q8eta2spp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqnh8etk'>nevent1q…8etk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Women should marry when they want and you have exactly zero right to any opinion on what anyone else does with their life. 2024-07-09T05:54:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswja3kptnn4h0hknlc0mr4uxuvzlrdv4guvcvlx2mt0elv0zaw6jgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgav35e4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2ls2rl5mnncj6xqxa2enlu836a4saemxynlz3z3gc5j7pp2mgnvsppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dsyv8ah0'>nevent1q…8ah0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Somebody lied to you. None of that is true 😀 😀 😀 2024-07-09T05:52:58Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswp30jesp37rckmg875feepvtwmmz5lsmdyjvkkj3ujec2q2h8xcgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgdelpcf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstc2tjzxg3yu2ppcnrd8csyreur8dgtjk936qs7cddwl9uwqhraeqppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dsgfw0vw'>nevent1q…w0vw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Define &#34;boys&#34; and define &#34;sodomy&#34; 😀 😀 <br/><br/>It seems that someone has been lying to you about California laws 😀 😀 <br/><br/>Or maybe you have a bizarre definition of &#34;it&#39;s ok for....&#34; 2024-07-08T19:24:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszlscudrw3v3896tjngqpkxk2ufe8vwcmzvmxs2x5hc0sf9y4pypgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgu75649 Germany has a very good age of consent law. <br/><br/>California does not. In fact, all sex everyone under 18 has, is in California illegal. Obviously the law is rarely enforced. <br/><br/>In New York State and Illinois (among others) two consenting 16 year olds can both go to prison for the &#34;rape&#34; of the other. US age of consent laws are really fucked up. <br/><br/><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RE3hL8okBss">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RE3hL8okBss</a> _ 2024-07-07T09:30:57Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsydcpqq0yj0zet0zggj5ftazsh08aczgxj4l0f6t76rqzlzsgjhnczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgh56jey Did that young man take advantage of a completely hammered, extremely sexy, very rich woman, simply because he could?<br/><br/>I don&#39;t know. I wasn&#39;t there.<br/><br/>but it&#39;s just as likely a scenario as the reverse.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HmGr.png"> 2024-07-05T09:37:57Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswyng2qgu9xaqcwgt78mayxpzp0qvqaljkjtfk5v9n7w0xtvsc5ygzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgqw3sfp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgva07y84nzmfwa3cv2gkg7mtxp8rj3gqp3m8vq9qsp4duhrl7q3cpp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mq7dv9zc'>nevent1q…v9zc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The entire concept of grooming is total bullshit. <br/><br/>I even made a video about it once. 2024-07-04T14:42:27Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszv7d7v9ctyec9qyxymemz2g3s3n496fxv30m69cvxfzw48gdv2pczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg5ql8s6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz5wnndy89wc8enkghswzsjzuxjrsh92cpc2hsg862pqhttyl5vscpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnzvuymmmja'>nevent1q…mmja</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You start by saying that thinking about having sex with someone is &#34;sexualizing them&#34; (this is a basic thought crime) (also for clarification, is it necessary to say something? like if I tell someone &#34;I&#39;d love to fuck Hasselhoff&#34; then I&#39;m &#39;sexualizing&#39; him, but if I only think it and keep those thoughts to myself I&#39;m not?)<br/><br/>but then your third paragraph says &#34;Bayside deliberately sexualized their characters&#34; which is clearly a different meaning. Can you get more precise about what you mean here?<br/><br/>Is either one of these meanings negative? Is it a bad thing to do? <br/><br/> 2024-07-04T14:32:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2sh92hu5w64nf5x2msd3phdmjxxymp35eum9gqsus02eancpje3gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg7dlms8 No wonder Gen Z is so neurotic and lonely. If they don&#39;t solve consent calculus problems correctly they&#39;ll be rapists. <br/><br/>(yes, fame, and money, and a dozen other things are also forms of power. but these idiots don&#39;t know that having power =/= abusing power)<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/JHYg.png"> <br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/JHYh.png"> 2024-07-04T05:10:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxnvvp72hrqjglnzyy5rdmz9xzevrdtmjc6vvyrjuy6fn2cvrv8qczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgt70eyz The entire concept of groominig is fear-mongering bullshit.<br/><br/>and it is damaging as hell is multiple ways.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HlNo.jpg"> 2024-07-04T04:36:07Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrm76ckmc2zypc57s8qaqkt6qps33w5jts7qe7hup3rpmz2sn9xpszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgw386x2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw3wfwhn5ynhe8nu0h785r4r7lpcpgpzhgmn5sfv8x4jc88rac3rqpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnzvus8rx7e'>nevent1q…rx7e</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>do you think that &#34;find someone sexually attractive&#34; = &#34;sexualize them&#34; ? 2024-07-04T04:34:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv7z9theppq9letfjq55guvu7gy9sh5k3fjeey6uqpa7ldk58xe6gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgc76why &#34;guys id like to remind yall I was raised to believe gay ppl were sinful, and I had a disgust reaction against gay people.<br/>Luckily, I questioned my disgust response. I needed a concrete, clear harm in order to justify it.<br/><br/>If you don&#39;t operate like that, you&#39;re the kind of person who would have held horrible beliefs throughout history&#34;<br/><br/>Aella 2024-07-03T14:09:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspfwt7vzya759qkek85ry2lqdfw7xt22yek45x3xcjsujr9nrjefszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgncsu47 This ridiculous argument is very common.<br/><br/>The age of consent is not 18.<br/><br/>and in the few places where it is, there is literally no reason for setting that age.<br/><br/>and we are not talking about the legal age of motherhood<br/><br/>calling it &#34;the horrors of motherhood&#34; is fear-mongering bullshit<br/><br/>suppressing young adult sexuality doesn&#39;t benefit anyone.<br/><br/>Abstinence Only failed miserably<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/JGhn.png"> 2024-07-03T12:16:54Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfeeqjsh99tl5j296he9xnxup7q5y6kx8xlcfxaxltltutm95gtrczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjghra4l8 Is 36 year old David Hasselhoff sexual?<br/><br/>or am I sexualizing him by noticing that he&#39;s very attractive?<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/JBpN.jpg"> 2024-06-29T06:34:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvcalmnyehxqwzmpf43sxrhepqjedjcyl9uh4wjqw2wtc2zl043rczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgauev0g THE PEER-REVIEWED STUDY WE&#39;VE BEEN WAITING FOR FOR 16 YEARS!<br/><br/>&#39;Independence Therapy&#39; Could Revolutionize Treatment for Child Anxiety<br/><br/>Pilot study encouraged parents to let their kids go Free-Range.<br/><br/>By Lenore <a href="https://reason.com/2024/06/21/independence-therapy-could-revolutionize-treatment-for-child-anxiety/">https://reason.com/2024/06/21/independence-therapy-could-revolutionize-treatment-for-child-anxiety/</a> 2024-06-21T18:31:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9zsdhqhwepestaltkcakfqjjwnyu74l9kh0tghatqqaylgd9vyggzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgwek2jy There will never be &#34;a serious conversation about power dynamics in dating&#34;<br/><br/>because &#34;power dynamics&#34; is total bullshit.<br/><br/>having power =/= abusing power<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IqDJ.png"> 2024-06-19T05:04:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs86f4e6v42p4ueq5zgffgxz2gxvfnlxh76mq40h470mdfuunfganszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgxq2v3w Creepy is a feeling.<br/><br/>I have no trouble at all respecting your feelings. But I also firmly believe that we as a society should hold this discussion on a *rational level* and use objective criteria.<br/><br/>You may be satisfied shouting your feelings on the internet. I am not.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HjLF.jpg"> 2024-06-19T03:46:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspjuu9p6klw7jqt0updf5cthj48np7tkpdhwc46mq9n49k2z63vygzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgalcpgd Sexual attraction is a function of biology not of bureaucracy.<br/><br/>The Department of Motor Vehicles doesn&#39;t give you a license to be sexy.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IpQZ.jpg"> 2024-06-18T14:20:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf7lwd5p6220z7ff87myczdg9nty38ym03er6ncj8pw7rmsx0s6ygzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgee0vh0 If anyone actually believed this we&#39;d never let anyone under 25 get a tattoo, join the army, or have children.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HpyX.png"> 2024-06-18T12:30:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2neue7qsg62qleu8n36d694ytpwa49hypmgf5jfw4yt0fw0k6sxgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg6we82y In the 1950s all the prudes claimed that Elvis Presley&#39;s gyrating hips on stage would cause the total moral collapse of civilization. (society did just fine)<br/><br/>But every generation has to have it&#39;s moralizing idiots screaming &#34;SEX!! SEX!!! STOP ALL THE SEX!!!!&#34; 😀😀😀<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IpJU.png"> 2024-06-18T11:48:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszwk7sprhmxpexxs0hsvnknax0fczwc86d7qv4cryqnyx44ya8sjczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjggg6x0z My latest vid just dropped <br/><br/><a href="https://youtu.be/DHGE-Gztfag">https://youtu.be/DHGE-Gztfag</a><br/> 2024-06-17T17:28:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9fn9nta9dnc5jvhx2fhuq82ned7h78flxzqwy576jxfd9g6y9g4gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgm2kmm0 The Hippies were right. <br/><br/>Countless lives could have been saved. Trillions of dollars not wasted on senseless brutal incarceration. If we had listened to them 50 years ago.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IFLu.jpg"> 2024-06-17T14:18:10Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8etrtzacrn4573d0206lv35cul8g78m9j3e3k05k2zsrz58aajgqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgx88pwc The Neo-Puritans are trying to impose their sex-phobic bullshit on our society.<br/><br/>Stop them.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HUAH.png"> 2024-06-17T09:13:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrv4gqqgu7nu8d5fq0a8tq9cpcsx3tt00dnsy05d2mudt4g35z9lczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg7emm37 In Illinois two consenting 16 year olds who have sex are each committing the rape of the other. That&#39;s the law.<br/><br/>It&#39;s fun to say &#34;rape is rape&#34; but there are lots of cases when it really isn&#39;t,<br/><br/>and we need to face that fact so we can fix really fucked up laws.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Inlw.jpg"> 2024-06-17T06:05:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxz0w29sdj62wxnm9qmynwevuchn2e4aht5rjy7ku727qzefs53rczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgtjrnq2 &#34;sexualization&#34; is 100% bullshit<br/><br/>The entire concept is crap. Like totally absurd. <br/><br/>Mandrills have colorful noses. We have beards and boobs. Exactly the same function. We are sexual. We have sexual bodies with sexual body parts.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Imjs.jpg"> <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Imjw.jpg"> <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IFLf.jpg"> <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Imjx.jpg"> 2024-06-16T09:28:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9yszuqvh70j0x97kp6stfzvu2dcu5ux44v3ertcetnem48n5weaqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg89munl Everyone here is operating under the assumption that<br/><br/>sexual = bad<br/><br/>Unquestioned.<br/><br/>This is the weird silent #PuritanRevival<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Imgs.png"> 2024-06-16T08:12:54Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs98evtl3djjuuqq9elyys5yznfxdqtj53l52c2pc37678juzwwe0gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg5c6ymp Female Teenagers Are Women<br/><br/>Stop Infantilizing Young Women Aged 14-20<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/ImeC.jpg"> 2024-06-16T06:58:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspck7yprxpmjsde6z7sg4jf97fffrpgkf4a5fycfrrvv63xx82c5szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg9z2rvu This is how we know &#34;prey on&#34; is bullshit<br/><br/>What happens when narratives collide?<br/><br/><a href="https://youtu.be/3Rp-KIMzPMI">https://youtu.be/3Rp-KIMzPMI</a><br/>. 2024-06-15T14:38:27Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs04j6c9qwsf5t8dydlwzr505yjyg006pqfkqnr63wh3ytv6tt7mgqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgyfphpm Part of the fear mongering bullshit about pedophilia is the common belief that pedos can&#39;t control their urges and simply must rape everyone they&#39;re attracted to. There is zero evidence to support that nonsense.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Ilfl.jpg"> 2024-06-15T11:44:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2q6pswdjjcfesaexuq6fl7p5lkn0gqrscfm3a7fcfj2cvatkzd7czyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgjcjzx5 that&#39;s not childhood<br/><br/>no one is a child at 14<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IlcZ.png"> 2024-06-15T10:55:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8mm8xs4q4jy3s2yswjmew0xj0uajpn5x8p63yc30d72pvzmeygzczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjguqhv2h Segregation has stiffened a lot.<br/><br/>Teens and 20 somethings used to mix in social situations all the time. They knew each other. They dated each other. (I know, I was there, in the 80s)<br/><br/>None of that is true anymore.<br/><br/>Young adults have been artificially separated into two groups alien to each other.<br/><br/>30 year olds talk about 20 year olds as if they are a different species, and they are literally disgusted by the idea of kissing someone that young.<br/><br/>Hostile tribes have been created.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IlUp.png"> 2024-06-15T08:02:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst93dtk5q9ue82u2zhpusme69llfptgfl24mh2tfe8rm40j5hsgpszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjggj0cyy If your society has trained 16 year olds to be vulnerable to abuse,<br/><br/>then your society has to radically change the way it raises its sons and daughters.<br/><br/>16 year olds are not vulnerable by nature. Bad upbringing causes that.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IlRI.jpg"> 2024-06-15T06:46:58Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9n4wyg8yztvqvsgjv3fl64dsk0rahpqj5x437nmpr5aneztf34nqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgtaxpyc The underlying belief here is that 17-year-olds are children, and simultaneously so stupid that they will be damaged by being allowed to socialize with people who are older than them. <br/><br/>#Disgusting #Bigotry #Unscientific #Infantilization #discrimination #ageist #Hysteria<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IlLj.jpg"> 2024-06-15T04:41:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2txjllh3a6krsulxncfzmkveaw8y9q4fhkerelkhrej0sd07nl4czyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgjpfknv The entire concept of grooming is fear-mongering bullshit.<br/><br/>No one has magic brainwashing powers just because their older than the person they&#39;re chatting with.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Ikpk.png"> 2024-06-14T19:44:50Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9lnrlcwa008904eqjk2cjw9hvxyzqr57u0cmqews4gj7nftsesqqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjggt3ct8 One of these women is 27, so it is totally ok for you to see her boobs.<br/><br/>But another is only 16, so you must pretend that she looks like she&#39;s 8. Never acknowledge that a 16 year old might have a nice figure. That would mean you&#39;re sexualizing her. 😀<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IknR.jpg"> 2024-06-14T18:55:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrvpjnc3hdx6440t7sz004pacand457hwy8f8ygh7lnzmkr4aquwgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg99wvgq Joseph Bronski&#39;s excellent 2021 book &#34;An Empirical Introduction to Youth&#34; points out that 50 years ago Tanner showed most young people finishing puberty at 14 or 15 years of age<br/><br/>Tanner was METICULOUS as hell<br/><br/>Tanner links:<br/><a href="https://sci-hub.se/10.1136/adc.44.235.291">https://sci-hub.se/10.1136/adc.44.235.291</a><br/>&amp;<br/><a href="https://sci-hub.se/10.1136/adc.45.239.13">https://sci-hub.se/10.1136/adc.45.239.13</a><br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HkHH.jpg"> 2024-06-14T17:32:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs85k93d4af2d8lnjxyrmsz08f7rxm24mg9jqqghajp7xz74hgkw9szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgr2w9jl This would seem to indicate that we&#39;ve seen a MASSIVE increase in slut-shaming over the last 20 years.<br/><br/>That coincides with the dramatic and unexplained decrease in the amount of sex young people are having.<br/><br/>#slutshaming #slutty #sex #teensex #sexpositive #asexual #NeoPuritanism<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HkNn.jpg"> 2024-06-14T16:04:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsthxvhjnunl65zayqnmvg5rmjyy9yn5vh9tf538ku54ksuu75g8hczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgamecc5 This is the new ideology.<br/><br/>All sex is rape and all romance is grooming.<br/><br/>Abuse is everywhere and everything.<br/><br/>Always be afraid, and remember power causes abuse, if you&#39;re younger you&#39;re less powerful and will get abused.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Ikao.png"> 2024-06-14T14:19:49Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrh855e9xq2r4l753gegmd549e4an9exmt9wgy3ld7vju2mryv6cczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgypr2uv The drinking age in the US is insane and obscene.<br/><br/>Insanity and obscenity should never be the standard by which other things are judged.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IkTC.png"> 2024-06-14T12:01:25Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs86fd5n05tsa46pm0t7zq47xfzyntlh487464geaux5cu4uh55kqqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg89a79y No one wants to fuck fish. Fish are not sexy. <br/><br/>But if fish were not sexual they could not reproduce and would go extinct. <br/><br/>RadFems conflate feeling sexy with being sexual, which means they produce all sorts of completely ridiculous rhetoric :-D <br/><br/>#Sexualize #Sexualization<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IkOq.jpg"> 2024-06-14T10:37:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqshjvtlkty4059rr3ct76nrmtpsd9em0jr04c45k9j88havt0jcszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgenh3fk My video about anime is available on PeerTube: <br/><br/><a href="https://peertube.su/w/n8CLtis6h9NeTc2mndNZjn">https://peertube.su/w/n8CLtis6h9NeTc2mndNZjn</a><br/><br/>_<br/> 2024-06-10T09:36:29Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq3ac7vewqmkseqy9q2swg3kdpnukceyrhu4xna736er9qztwqneqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg75jne9 Heather, why?<br/><br/>My issues are with a change in American culture. The problem has spilled over a bit into other countries but on the whole Europe is a great example of how to not fuck things up the way the US did.<br/><br/><br/>My core idea and the reason I do all this is contained in this 4-minute video =&gt;<br/><br/><a href="https://peertube.su/w/pZKq64udYboprfYSdL8vRr">https://peertube.su/w/pZKq64udYboprfYSdL8vRr</a><br/><br/>_<br/> 2024-06-10T09:31:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszmmynv6djcja675qreptmsrhyuw8pxaung759t5fa6ttm44pw6pgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgrlh733 WTF is wrong with people?!?!<br/><br/>&#34;OMG!!! A person under 30 who is actually human!!! Can you believe it?!?! She does, like, normal human stuff!!! At her age!!!&#34;<br/><br/>So disgusting, demeaning, insulting and fucking infuriating.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IcNB.png"> 2024-06-07T17:47:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs20k5927xj43tr8r88yyn2xxu3fw4xtffv5m98s9euvrc0ypnk4aszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjggsqqmt The importance of the prefrontal cortex is WILDLY exaggerated in pop culture.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HkiL.jpg"> 2024-06-07T08:45:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxak0clkwnag8r7gj2mstlmkafc4v8clf3g5dmd925r8s33jxx4lqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgezhfhj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqdfvlhx6xf99fv05mdul64m0v5z4ckmjpnzfxmtu05augf202vpspr9mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuam9d3kx7unyv4ezumn9wszgxl2j'>nevent1q…xl2j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If someone is trying to depopulate the world they&#39;re doing a fucking lousy job of it 😀 2024-06-07T07:36:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdcerd8w5k97zsj0v5dn552km8eexvm8nuz53pyl3t7wnm2zaq97gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjglmfank In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszqw2mp9jdjffqtsrytxfxma7gca54aun8ply4cgnpuyn4ys6a3jcpr4mhxue69uhkummnw3ez6ur4vgh8wetvd3hhyer9wghxuet5knk6gz'>nevent1q…k6gz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Exactly. That&#39;s why world population has fallen 50% over the last 40 years...<br/><br/>...oh, wait. 2024-06-07T04:19:11Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqsp62tuwgxjzexpeg6n0vj8w4mvqhgswf0muheqn5vgsckw27r8szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgtway63 Stop telling young people that they&#39;re going to be retarded until they&#39;re 25!!!<br/><br/>It&#39;s not true, <br/><br/>and you totally fuck up their self-esteem that way. <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/Iark.jpg"> 2024-06-06T14:44:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsywqzahvnkl4r5jxgujy3zg2kc9afm8vwsy9kz4fjn70nn97d7y4gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgd8h6d5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr5hdthdek9yfwhxru83d64pcug7vszs4zfpgvtw4xmt0zd984jcqpp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqz59n0y'>nevent1q…9n0y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You don&#39;t dispute any of the facts I laid out. <br/><br/>You just have an emotional reaction. <br/><br/>Hmmmm. 2024-06-06T06:43:50Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz2hwpfgwdxnw6d643h2vyshg04qqageepg84c6uvk673gglfnx4qzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgexplw9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs06wv59udx2lnwlgmm9a4nhwlcjfxzu056axsnh7thvm7u04guh5qpp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqum5ek8'>nevent1q…5ek8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The truth bothers you? 2024-06-06T06:07:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszxvnfv94myecj6h4fh7x2rxqxw7qgqc8459s0agx2zk49njrd32gzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg78pc92 This Man Is 16 Years Old<br/><br/>He can:<br/>drive a car<br/>quit school<br/>work full time<br/>get married<br/>have children<br/>join the British Army<br/>be tried as an adult<br/>be put in adult prison<br/>buy a gun<br/><br/>but:<br/>It&#39;s illegal for him to make love to smby over 18<br/><br/>Bc that&#39;s the really dangerous thing<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HjGB.jpg"> 2024-06-06T05:49:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszpx5m8f4hd3xm4ctnrjdgpr3hp2qvz3t72xwu7y4dq2evl86a7lczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjggzu33h The same shit science they used to &#34;prove&#34; that you&#39;re still at child until your 25th birthday can also be used to show that you reach adulthood at 30, or sometime in your 40s :-D<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IVKl.jpg"> <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IVKk.jpg"> 2024-06-05T18:59:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8lq4uc7qaazxm2zewdustt6chnutvsuyhmcxayf5lzjq8nf5ggeszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgnp3qwc The idea that age = power is ridiculous.<br/><br/>The idea that everyone with power always abuses that power is equally ridiculous.<br/><br/>No two people on the planet ever have the same amount of power.<br/><br/>This whole line of thinking is absurd.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IXOB.jpg"> 2024-06-03T14:02:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqhk2fzulws8yj6wz40pjqs4qdl6w0pl6m4564ayk42ug964htvgqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgkgqcss Here&#39;s a screenshot of her disgusting bigotry.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IWPX.png"> 2024-06-02T17:52:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsggn3myepkemm7633lev0kcfmthk3qcjw9jf57s38j7et0fk5ldvczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg45jwh2 I live in a country that had a MASSIVE HYSTERICAL MELTDOWN over a 1/2 second glimpse of one of Janet Jackson&#39;s boobs.<br/><br/>Americans wig out over the slightest sexual &#34;danger&#34;.<br/><br/>THAT is fucking weirdo behavior.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IWHL.jpg"> 2024-06-02T14:49:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyaff53u059h4g5y82zf6esu0cdqdu4atq8ecyyxjg5h046nzk86szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgcx6nqv People who write shit like this *never* specify what they mean by &#34;normalize&#34; or &#34;it&#34;<br/><br/>They haven&#39;t thought it thru and they have no idea what they are talking about<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/ITjg.png"> 2024-05-31T09:49:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsygt0909f29fs558p6c0dzuwxcglua9x5hn0vupzqzn8d447d8xqqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg5aupwz In the 90s watching Baywatch we all knew that the lifeguards were sexy.<br/><br/>Today they&#39;re not sexy but &#34;sexualized&#34; which is the same except with negative connotation. There&#39;s the extra idea that they *shouldn&#39;t be* portrayed that way.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IHsR.jpg"> 2024-05-31T05:13:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq3ksmx9njhz47335ldrjh96a030ad2spy5djc7j6x6wxthex45eszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgvmcrqy When Playboy published nude photos of Pamela Anderson was that sexualization?<br/><br/>Was somebody harmed by that?<br/><br/>Pamela says it was great for her.<br/><br/>If you think the existence of nude photos in Playboy is harmful, present your evidence.<br/><br/>I’m eager to see it.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/ISxJ.webp"> 2024-05-30T18:42:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvn4y5p2yyfmm59lguuhwqtw3glyj4ayccmkmemu0e856tq4tx3nszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjglm5xpl \&#34;Adolescents\&#34; are a group of full grown adults who are denied adult status and forced to live as children,<br/><br/>and who currently have their highest suicide rates in recorded history.<br/><br/>#vile #ageist #bigotry #depression #teen #suicide #mentalhealth #crisis #teens #youth<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IRig.jpg"> <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IRii.jpg"> <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IRij.jpg"> <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IRik.jpg"> 2024-05-29T17:53:55Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdahwzjhlusapan2skp20v3240t5lwjcr8z6f63ueedlwz9lqpe8szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgv6atpe Will we, in today&#39;s world, work with our natural selves or against our natural selves? <br/><br/>How do we combine our natural tendencies with the current technology that dominates our lives? <br/><br/>Is it inevitable that post-industrial societies prolong childhood making everybody fucking miserable as hell for years on end? <br/><br/>or is there a way to avoid that, or at least mitigate the damage it causes? 2024-05-29T10:01:02Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgutjt9p2nxkrentsr6e7ql97uc7er4hgvxrngw95r0en4ur3h56qzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgn39e89 Vimeo deleted my account because I called this bigot a bigot. Does that qualify as a &#34;malicious insult or attack&#34;? <br/><br/><a href="https://tube.xy-space.de/w/tXiprYkT24iRo3Sz8CuK8b">https://tube.xy-space.de/w/tXiprYkT24iRo3Sz8CuK8b</a> 2024-05-29T00:25:58Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrrdn6ss7xwd7egguay6f5xuwd3l77jgqhu8lvm4w9zvtz0kjduagzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgyt347g Right wing authoritarians think that fathers should control young women&#39;s sexuality.<br/><br/>Left wing do-gooders think politicians, sheriffs, and prosecutors should control young women&#39;s sexuality.<br/><br/>Any decent rational person who thinks it thru knows that young women should control their own sexuality. 2024-05-28T19:33:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdcqfsree4gnchzzfdtvuyx4xj9hjr0gyalfm8x6g8q5zqeqmglcqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg876xjz There is literally nothing harmful about 17 year olds having sex.<br/><br/>Why do we have to be so fucking cruel to people who fall in love?<br/><br/>Is our whole society a bunch of fucking sadists?<br/><br/><a href="https://youtu.be/jsLyWz1PoBk?feature=shared">https://youtu.be/jsLyWz1PoBk?feature=shared</a> 2024-05-28T14:40:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszefghjmauvx0dmgdd73u07us2czykhc8zp4l7g7sjapvuwqejkyszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg6ygxcl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0u6tl9n6kprstc7j7wtxvf7r34r580c2zktxhpq5mkemktw3m5rsprpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnzvuhkzmrv0cs2td'>nevent1q…s2td</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Nobody here contradicted any of that. <br/><br/>and nobody is upset with parents. <br/><br/>You seem totally deranged. 2024-05-28T13:50:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsymfv424c23nufjkjgg0j3u284vxqym9xelz7et3nugj5k6vy5yyczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjg9efmvv So I try to watch a video about a woman who broke an age of consent law. It&#39;s 6 minutes long. I hear lawyers, journalists, everybody&#39;s got an opinion. but the ONE AND ONLY opinion that matters is what the young man says about what happened.<br/><br/>I have zero patience with know-it-all pricks opining on it.<br/><br/>Unless the &#34;news&#34; is willing to present the clear complete verbatim unvarnished statement of the &#34;vicitm&#34; they should just STFU. 2024-05-28T10:46:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf3vav4xmwn34ryr0793tnxmsl4ygyzgrrl85vrlte2ce4fx6dlsgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgv8m00z Every Nazi on the planet is a vile racist fascist dirtbag by choice.<br/><br/>Not one pedo on earth chose to be a pedo. None of them want to suffer from that affliction.<br/><br/>Nazis recruit new fascist scum successfully every day.<br/><br/>Pedos can&#39;t make others be pedos like them. It&#39;s impossible. You&#39;re either born a pedo or not. There&#39;s no choice. No recruitment. 2024-05-28T09:47:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd866xp0cjta9609qetd3nphmw2fu63khjttsf6h3apu3ulzz2zpczyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgukf85j Do you believe that it was immoral of lawmakers in my state to let that 23 year old have sex with 17 year old me legally?<br/><br/>Do you believe the only moral thing to do was to put him in prison for 3 years?<br/><br/>Do you believe that the correct moral choice is to imprison 23 year olds who make love with 17 year olds? Is 3 years, like they get in Idaho the morally correct punishment? 2024-05-28T08:49:27Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsplt64smq3wcnz0yv3p5s6atwx9mr9aqt7eaup2aqw7uj7cgt77pqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgwa620k Teen pregnancy correlates with poverty. Having a significantly older boyfriend does too. It&#39;s actually logical and reasonable. We need to eliminate poverty.<br/><br/>This is from the excellent Hines &amp; Finkelhor meta study.<br/><br/>full text: <a href="https://www.unh.edu/ccrc/sites/default/files/media/2022-03/statutory-sex-crime-relationships-between-juveniles-and-adults-a-review-of-social-scientific-research.pdf">https://www.unh.edu/ccrc/sites/default/files/media/2022-03/statutory-sex-crime-relationships-between-juveniles-and-adults-a-review-of-social-scientific-research.pdf</a><br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IPye.jpg"> 2024-05-28T08:35:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst86xqadakwuhaz9wj5m6529x4476gak7e3cxeausspr0p8d9hzxqzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgvzt6g6 a very common, and a very stupid argument.<br/><br/>&#34;they only did that because they had to&#34; seems fine, except that Jacqui hasn&#39;t begun to examine whether they wanted to or not.<br/><br/>Why the assumption that the practice was undesirable?<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HlZw.png"> 2024-05-28T06:06:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf577n9vq7ywtuk4ha2yzt8nl9s8dzdwfawun9vyly588vr8h8c3qzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjghh6ks2 We need to destroy slut-shaming by embracing sexuality.<br/><br/>Denying the existence of sexuality is counter-productive bullshit.<br/><br/>#Sexualize #Sexualization <br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IPos.jpg"> 2024-05-28T04:26:55Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz4fwdpht6mcfh3dar8qa8x9neaud7c6rzttfftlfkplkwg9x4n0qzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgx725dn We used to say &#34;She became a prostitute&#34;. Now everybody says &#34;She was trafficked&#34;. By eliminating the active voice &#34;she&#34; is robbed of agency. If &#34;she&#34; was kidnapped and forced into prostitution, this is a better description, but that is obviously not always the case. Many women choose to do sex work for a variety of reasons. Women have agency. They make choices. To stop harm in the sexual services business it would be very helpful to find out why women make the choices they do. 2024-05-28T02:59:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0uqp0t2aswp75n67krq5ycqdqgkp922t8edx5cjsyfxetcrytccgzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgawwyvx Humans spontaneously form governments<br/><br/>Anarchy never lasts long<br/><br/>In just a few weeks petty warlords start running protection rackets<br/><br/>within a few months there are large syndicates controlling huge territories, taxing people and enforcing rules<br/><br/>History has hundreds maybe thousands of examples of this happening<br/><br/>History has zero examples of people living with no gov&#39;t for more than a few weeks 2024-05-27T23:05:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswu7203hxjxjdnl3tn7swds3q4cggyfq7v0dcu6uggp64elp03f0szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgfcpmlt My Lord! She looks awful young. Do you think the age-gap here means she&#39;s a victim of child rape? 2024-05-27T22:07:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxnenzuj7j0scmdttkm27wxjh3rt79htypjd8wsmt52q88mee8u2szyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgy4jmmj Pseudoscience about &#34;bad brains&#34; has been an integral part of bigotry for at least 200 years.<br/><br/>Women, African-Americans, teenagers, whoever the bigots want to oppress, suddenly there is very fishy &#34;science&#34; proving their brains are bad.<br/><br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/IODI.jpg"> 2024-05-27T19:27:38Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspksxglx666q60kq2000jqrntk42zqr2ts7nwyvvxd0zauuvzlqmszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgx2z5d3 There is literally nothing harmful about 17 year olds having sex.<br/><br/>Why do we have to be so fucking cruel to people who fall in love?<br/><br/>Is our whole society a bunch of fucking sadists?<br/><br/><a href="https://fstube.net/w/tAPcwUZkMxrfGJV2oqTChU">https://fstube.net/w/tAPcwUZkMxrfGJV2oqTChU</a> 2024-05-27T19:12:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv53uhammx0vkl2vq7cchkn4m9nx5wj67tdjwlk04wytnllg6ul5qzyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgr7zxy7 The fact that I understand the phenomenon doesn&#39;t make it any less horrible.<br/><br/>It&#39;s a taboo. Taboos are enforced by ostracizing anyone in the tribe who violates the taboo. Taboos don&#39;t have to be rational. The thing isn&#39;t just bad. It is unthinkable. Anyone who questions the taboo is thinking about the unthinkable. They are secretly wanting or planning to violate the taboo, and so must be ostracized too. 2024-05-27T13:22:38Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvt69fu8q8l6ayqc3cwwguv5q037zdwdur6nf0z3jxxw5r5xqrzlszyzhmxecgpllu67d6g7equd4g4heqxzcpsakyav3ulv4q4pu66mvjgxwle36 Counterfactual:<br/><br/>If population was actually declining... if projections said we&#39;ll have 50 percent fewer people 75 years from now... how is that a problem? <br/><br/>That&#39;s just going back to a world with 4 billion people. I lived in a world like that. There were problems, sure, but too few people wasn&#39;t one of them :-D 2024-05-27T12:24:18Z