Nostr notes by Murdoc Addams 🧛🏻:ri: 🇨🇦

I don't think that that is giving Vivaldi enough credit. ...

2026-06-24T06:04:42Z

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I don't think that that is giving Vivaldi enough credit. Sure, I'd prefer it if they were entirely open source and using a different engine too, but privacy isn't a binary, it's a scale. They have been transparent about the reasons for their choices, and a lot of it comes down to doing what they can with what they have. Aside from those choices, they have consistently gone to great lengths to protect their users' privacy, and those efforts deserve recognition.

I would say that it's a lot more complicated than that. ...

2026-06-21T14:34:04Z

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I would say that it's a lot more complicated than that. I'll skip an essay explaining this for now and give an executive summary.

In order for someone to do the right thing, they mostly need 3 things: 1) to know that the specific thing is right or wrong to begin with (the 'what'), 2) why it's right or wrong, beyond just simple answers, and 3) how to actually do it, when faced with tangible reasons to do the opposite. Those last two are the tricky ones, trickier than you think, which is why they get left out of most moral and education systems, beyond a simple authoritarian imperative ("I/He/It said so.")

And that's not even getting into the fact that these platforms put a terrible amount of resources into making sure that people stay there. They are being expertly manipulated on many levels. I think it would be an error to attribute these people's continued use of these platforms to something fundamental.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_attribution_error

And Ruby Rod!! 🎤 Now I have to go listen to the Aknot Wot song ...

2026-05-07T21:08:03Z

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And Ruby Rod!! 🎤
Now I have to go listen to the Aknot Wot song from the soundtrack...

Great job with the creepy pic of Alice there.

2026-05-05T21:57:32Z

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Great job with the creepy pic of Alice there.

If you want fancy, might I suggest the Homedecor mod? Just some ...

2026-05-02T17:33:43Z

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If you want fancy, might I suggest the Homedecor mod? Just some extra furniture and decorations and stuff to make.

How are you so sure that he is? @npub1w42…2046 @npub10pp…yss7

2026-04-19T01:35:13Z

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How are you so sure that he is?

Melissa :flag_transgender: (npub1w42…2046) Bin Chicken 🗑𓅠 (npub10pp…yss7)

I'm not even convinced that he's actually autistic. I ...

2026-04-18T04:58:02Z

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I'm not even convinced that he's actually autistic. I tried looking it up online and the only references I could find were a) his mentioning it on Saturday Night Live (so a pretty suspect claim given that) and b) new stories about that instance.

They make a good argument for staying on facebook and tiktok ...

2026-04-10T14:43:20Z

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They make a good argument for staying on facebook and tiktok though. It's making me reconsider my stance on avoiding those platforms if what you're doing is trying to help people. And I'm talking about a project I'm working on, not for personal use. I wouldn't want to do that anyway. But reaching people that need help though, that may be enough reason. :blob_cat_thinking:

It's like asking why planets like Jupiter have more moons ...

2026-03-23T17:00:00Z

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It's like asking why planets like Jupiter have more moons than they did 30 years ago. Where could they all be coming from?!? 😲
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I don't think that my interoception interferes with my sleep, ...

2026-03-07T03:37:02Z

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I don't think that my interoception interferes with my sleep, I have plenty of other things that do that. Excepting of course the aforementioned food issue.

I do tend to have a good idea of what kinds of things my body needs for me to eat, but this conflicts very much with the rather narrow list of things my brain will classify as "food", complicated by it regularly reclassifying things I can eat as "not food". Another challenge to meal planning.

Drugs have a tendency to affect me twice as hard the first time I take them, and then half as well as they should afterwards. So, heightened interoception with a great immune system I guess?

Always great and amazing to better learn the many dimensions of us. :blob_cat_innocent:

And like a lot of autistic traits, there's a scale, and on ...

2026-03-07T02:33:35Z

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And like a lot of autistic traits, there's a scale, and on this one I'm the opposite. I seem to have a heightened interoception. I remember my mother sometimes teasing me about it when I talked about it by saying "I don't know, I'm not as in tune with my body as you."

And like a lot of sensory sensitivities, it has its pros and cons. For instance, with food, I *can't* forget to eat, my body won't let me. If I go more than 4-6 hours without eating, I'll either get woozy or cramps. If I don't eat before I go to bed, I'll likely wake up in the middle of the night due to my body telling me that if I don't eat something in the next two minutes, I'll die (I know I won't, but it sure feels that way). So for me "meal planning" is as much about timing as it is what to eat. Of course that's a whole other set of issues.

Brachiosaur yeah, brontosaur, it depends on the depiction of it. ...

2026-03-01T11:19:12Z

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Brachiosaur yeah, brontosaur, it depends on the depiction of it. But with mamenchisaurus, it's neck just seems impossibly long (well some of them anyway).

I like how sleek, intelligent, and sociable they are. That why I ...

2026-03-01T10:03:24Z

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I like how sleek, intelligent, and sociable they are. That why I enjoyed Blue so much, especially when she was demonstrating empathy.

I also like mamenchisaurs. That neck is really something. I wonder if it's related somehow to me liking giraffes? :blob_cat_thinking:

Interesting piece. I have always considered enchantment evil ever ...

2025-12-16T04:45:11Z

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Interesting piece. I have always considered enchantment evil ever since I read the intro adventure in the D&D Basic Set. So easy agree there.

Until you mentioned the World of Darkness. Granted that a good portion of the game deals in grey morality. But it leaves me thinking about how some of my characters have used the Dominate power. Say for instance that someone is attacking you. So you Dominate them to stop and leave. Yes, it clearly violates their will, but what are the alternatives? Fight them and cause physical harm? I'm pretty sure that that violates more than just their free will. Perhaps if you could physically restrain them or knock them out, that is generally considered pretty humane, but how is that any different? Basically it'd be the same as your Hideous Laughter exception.

One could certainly argue that even that level of violence is still wrong on some level, but I don't think less so than Dominating them to stop fighting. So if we're going to consider this level of harm to be immoral, then we're going to have to examine a whole lot of other things in a similar light.

And to be honest I do do that level of examination in real life, but I would find it tedious in role playing. But that's just my taste. In the end I think that powers like Dominate can be used in a sufficiently moral way (the best of available options) if not in a "pure" way. Perhaps if my character had a Humanity score of 9 or 10, but that's not what I'm playing Vampire for.

But looking at your examples at the end of the article, they cover a lot of ground there, and would need to be looked at pretty separately. Controlling somebody's body while they remain cognizant of that is bad sure, but so is restraining them, or "legally" arresting them, and that is often seen as "good enough", depending on circumstances and what you are making them do.

Changing someone's decisions either directly or through say memory alteration I see as no less immoral than when someone does so verbally (say with a con artist), or through some other trick. It's just faster. And if you accept that premise, then you just have to examine the morality of dishonesty, and it becomes less about enchantment specifically. One can then think of things like cops going undercover in order to bring down criminals. Heck, if you really want, there's a whole TV series called Leverage about a group that uses elaborate con jobs to bring down powerful bad guys.

So in the end, unless you want to take the pure angle of never doing any sort of harm whatsoever ever, that really enchantment is just another form of power that can be used morally or not. I'll grant that because of how much easier it makes controlling people, that the temptation to abuse it is even greater than with non-magical means, but I don't see that as any argument against its use any more than how technology makes doing immoral things easier, or any other form of magic for that matter.

Interesting; reading your article and then replying to it caused me to re-examine my whole position on the matter, and I went from completely agreeing with your thesis to not. That makes it a very useful piece in my opinion. Good job. (Not trying to shut down the discussion by that BTW.)

Cool, I've played a lot of that. Got it on my phone and ...

2025-12-08T20:57:09Z

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Cool, I've played a lot of that. Got it on my phone and computer.

I may not know what you're talking about, but that's ok ...

2025-12-08T18:25:02Z

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I may not know what you're talking about, but that's ok because you made me laugh. :BlobCatSmiley:

Taught myself to read before school too, possibly with the help ...

2025-11-18T19:48:49Z

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Taught myself to read before school too, possibly with the help of those books that came with a record, but I only had two. :blob_cat_thinking:

In my early teens, I would take a random volume of the encyclopedia with me to bed, open to a random page, and use that for my reading before sleep.

And yeah, AuDHD as well.

Yup, Xerox PARC. It's an enjoyable movie as well as ...

2025-11-11T17:04:56Z

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Yup, Xerox PARC. It's an enjoyable movie as well as informative.

Ever see the movie "The Pirates of Silicon Valley"? They ...

2025-11-11T16:56:29Z

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Ever see the movie "The Pirates of Silicon Valley"? They basically stole the whole Mac/GUI thing which everyone thinks they invented (and which MS then stole from them to make Windows). That's basically what Apple is, a marketing company. They sell a dream and people line up for it. Look up the "Steve Jobs Reality Distortion Field". That's Apple in a nutshell.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reality_distortion_field

Ah, I see where you're coming from now. I guess I hadn't ...

2025-11-11T04:27:08Z

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Ah, I see where you're coming from now. I guess I hadn't thought about the title much, just assumed that it must have meant "part of how we...".

Personally I'm happy with any exposure of Apple or MS's nefarious doings.They both deserve more. I guess I have a bigger beef personally with MS since I've spent a good part of my career cleaning up their messes. At least the technical ones. The enshittification they've been doing for decades I can do little about.

I didn't get that impression. It's not giving a pass just ...

2025-11-11T03:33:42Z

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I didn't get that impression. It's not giving a pass just because the article doesn't mention them. There's nothing wrong with focusing on a single bad actor, that doesn't mean that there aren't others. I thought that the article was well done myself.

One giant leap for a neurodivergent, One small step for ...

2025-11-07T01:53:20Z

One giant leap for a neurodivergent,
One small step for neurodivergents.

I think that makes sense. :blob_cat_thinking:

So I had a big victory today. I have been applying for income assistance with my provincial government. I was hesitant because I had tried it once before many years ago and it was such a dehumanizing experience that I couldn't continue past the first orientation meeting. They were more concerned with catching people trying to defraud the government than they were helping anyone. But a friend of mine that has been helping me get my life together pushed me into it.

Yesterday I had an assessment over the phone that lasted an hour. Yes, I hate the phone too, so this was nerve-wracking. But due to my situation they said that since I didn't have a diagnosis for anything (I told them I was autistic, ADHD, and suffering from burnout), that unless I could get a doctor's note right away saying I can't work, that I'll be denied. I don't have a family doctor so the woman told me to just walk into a clinic and do it.

Now I thought that it was over because I didn't think I could convince a doctor that I couldn't work for these reasons in one visit any more than I could convince this woman. But I went in today, waited in the waiting room anxiously, and then told the doctor my situation. I barely had to explain anything, just that I was applying for income assistance, needed a note saying I couldn't work, and when he asked the reason, I told him that I was pursuing a diagnosis for ADHD, autism, and burnout. He said ok, I can give you three months.

😳

🤯

And that was it. I got the letter. Didn't even charge me for it. 🎉

Now this doesn't automatically mean that I'll get the income assistance, but my odds sure look a lot better. I've met all the terms this woman laid out for me. I guess we'll see... 🤞 In any case, while I'm still exhausted from this whole mess, my mood is sure a lot brighter now. 😊

#ActuallyAutistic Actually Autistics (npub1pce…geep) #neurodivergent #ActuallyADHD

Thanks for asking! What you describe is an almost amusing (if it ...

2025-11-02T10:01:12Z

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Thanks for asking! What you describe is an almost amusing (if it weren't so terrible) perversion of real characteristics of Technocracy. The idea is a threat to the powers that be and thus has come under attack in many ways, slander and libel being popular ones. Although to be fair, I suppose that what you read/heard was just a wildly bad interpretation from someone who hadn't looked at the idea too closely. 🤷

To clarify, the US, Canada, and Mexico are all supposed to join together voluntarily. It's not a dictatorship, quite the opposite in fact. The new country needs to be completely self-sufficient in terms of resources, but not isolationist. Not only would self-sufficiency allow us to no longer need to interfere in the affairs of other nations, we would be in a position to offer genuine help where it was needed, no strings attached.

Other countries from Central and South America were to be invited mostly for maximum protection, but that was more of a suggestion during wartimes.

Lastly, there would be no expelling of "foreigners" because Technocracy does not discriminate against anyone, by race, sex, religion, orientation, etc. simply because there is no scientific basis to do so. The only scientific way to define a "foreigner" would be to expel *all* humans from the continent, regardless of race or origin.

I hope that clears up things for you. If not, feel free to ask.

#Technocracy #technate

...or Technocracy, if your area has the resources and technology ...

2025-11-02T03:03:24Z

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...or Technocracy, if your area has the resources and technology to support it.
https://www.technate.org/tiki-index.php?page=Begin

Maybe it's just Godwin's Law, but with extra crazy sauce ...

2025-10-23T05:12:34Z

In reply to nevent1q…pnls
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Maybe it's just Godwin's Law, but with extra crazy sauce because of the current political climate?

And while not specifically called a nazi, I do what it's like to be called the exact opposite of what I am. And by people that should definitely know better. It hurts my head.

Those people that will feed them are called conquered subjects. ...

2025-10-14T23:12:10Z

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Those people that will feed them are called conquered subjects. We have a long history of that strategy.

And even if our numbers do deplete enough, warriors initially arose from hunters. I don't think it will be a difficult transition for them to go back to that.

And why can't those be controlled by warlords? Violent groups ...

2025-10-14T21:14:25Z

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And why can't those be controlled by warlords? Violent groups can scale down to street gang level. Or even a pair of people.

Of course there will be. They will just be warlords, ruling ...

2025-10-14T05:08:51Z

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Of course there will be. They will just be warlords, ruling ruthlessly over numerous petty kingdoms.

For most people, you're right. But we're talking about ...

2025-10-12T20:29:11Z

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For most people, you're right. But we're talking about autistic people here, at least us. If you're trying to make friends with an NT, I don't know. Well, I probably do, but it would really go against the grain. But all my friends were made due to common interests.

This is pretty much what I do. Plus, I mostly find friends by ...

2025-10-12T19:38:42Z

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This is pretty much what I do. Plus, I mostly find friends by common interests.

To give some more specific examples of things to say:
"I also am a fan of (bandname). What's your favorite song/album?"
"I've never heard of (topic/concept) before, but it sounds interesting. Can you tell me more?"
"I've long been interested in (hobby/skill), but haven't really learned much yet. How did you learn/get into it?"
"I agree with that viewpoint, and would add that..."
"That's an interesting point. What do/would you think about (related thing)?"

Of course. That's why I am advocating Technocracy. In that ...

2025-10-12T18:15:58Z

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Of course. That's why I am advocating Technocracy. In that system, there are no politicians or financiers. Nothing to get in the way of doing what we need to to create a sustainable society for the benefit of all.

Sorry that i wasn't clear. What I meant was that the collapse ...

2025-10-11T22:41:24Z

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Sorry that i wasn't clear. What I meant was that the collapse is inevitable if we don't get Technocracy operational. Like I said, this was precisely what it was designed to deal with.

Of course, but Technocracy is the only real chance of avoiding ...

2025-10-11T21:53:58Z

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Of course, but Technocracy is the only real chance of avoiding that fate. Otherwise yes, I agree, the collapse is inevitable. Heck, Technocracy was the first to predict it, and explain exactly why. It was designed specifically because of this problem.

If we can adopt Technocracy, then we'll be in a much better ...

2025-10-11T20:28:02Z

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If we can adopt Technocracy, then we'll be in a much better position to do this. It would be a logical part of Technocracy's goal. And the sooner we do it, the easier it will be.

In the end, no, no one wins. But the rich and powerful today will ...

2025-10-10T21:50:50Z

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In the end, no, no one wins. But the rich and powerful today will win a lot longer than if we were to put an end to their stupid system.

And yeah, you've given up trying to save the plane by telling people to assume the crash position. I mean, I get it, when you don't see any other alternative, that seems pretty reasonable. But just because you don't see an answer doesn't mean that there isn't one. So you've given up on looking for one, or even looking at ones proposed to you.

And like I said, even if we try and it doesn't work, things would be less bad than if we don't, which is what you say you want.

What you talk about there, making things that last, is very much ...

2025-10-10T21:04:46Z

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What you talk about there, making things that last, is very much one of the many things that Technocracy already proposes to reduce waste and inefficiency. I think that you agree with more of it than you think.

But if you just want to give up and not even try, then I guess that's you're choice. For me, given a choice between a small chance and none, I'll take the small chance. Especially when there is a good plan just waiting to be used. I don't want the selfish people to win if I can help it.

It's not the size that's the big problem, it's the ...

2025-10-10T20:09:22Z

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It's not the size that's the big problem, it's the inefficiency. Our current system is so inefficient that it would be hard to make it more so if we tried. So many industries are operating at 25%, 10%, and even less efficiency, meaning that we can reduce our effect on the environment by 4, 10, or even 20 times without lowering the overall production levels. This would be just like "reducing the size" of the technosphere in terms of impact on the environment, but without the corresponding reduction in overall standard of living.

And the current system has been trying to make things more inefficient, it requires it in order to keep going, to keep the money flowing. Because it is essentially on life support, having already collapsed nearly a century ago. It is essentially an environment destroying machine--you already know this---but it's the inefficiency that's the problem.

So there is a lot of room for making things much more efficient. If you take the time to read through Technocracy's research, you'll find just how wasteful we are, how much we can do away with and make better, and still operate a high-technology society where every citizen can enjoy a high standard of living and all without doing damage to the environment. The worst case scenario in trying would be that it simply cannot be done, but we will have still so greatly reduced the damage we are going that we will have a lot more time to come up with something else before the whole thing collapses, which will in turn save countless lives.

But if it does work, and I think there is good reason to think that it will, the gains to society will be immense. You already know what at least some of those will be.

That's simply not true. Science is a tool, and like any tool ...

2025-10-10T05:30:31Z

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That's simply not true. Science is a tool, and like any tool can be used for good or ill. It has been other ideologies that have misused it for their own, destructive ends. Those same ideologies have a vested interest in turning the public against science because it threatens their control over people. These anti-science stances are playing right into their hands.

And that's just the most conservative interpretation. Personally, I believe that with what science has taught us, we can not only live in harmony with nature, but it also teaches us how to be good to each other as well. Only science can save us.

Lord Caramac the Clueless, KSC (npub1r8k…ddv2) Reg (npub1cj7…f65k) chikl (npub16vg…fd6g)

I'm sorry, but I'm not seeing it. This just seems overly ...

2025-10-10T05:22:14Z

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I'm sorry, but I'm not seeing it. This just seems overly simplistic. Perhaps if you could detail a plausible scenario that would guarantee the result you envision, perhaps then.

Lord Caramac the Clueless, KSC (npub1r8k…ddv2) Reg (npub1cj7…f65k) chikl (npub16vg…fd6g) Gerry McGovern (npub14sz…ur2r)

That is what largely what Technocracy is all about. It's a ...

2025-10-10T01:55:58Z

In reply to nevent1q…qszp
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That is what largely what Technocracy is all about. It's a system entirely designed by science, which is our best understanding of nature and how it works. It's a system that emphasizes scientific progress, because good science acknowledges its limitations so we should learn all we can with it so we can be even more in accordance with nature's laws. And one of its primary design parameters is to be sustainable, so that human society can live in harmony with our natural environment, instead of simply exploiting it for gain like our current society does.

So really your points are a big part of the reason why we should adopt Technocracy. 🙂

Oh, I totally want to say Gary Numan from now on. Great autistic ...

2025-10-10T00:39:19Z

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Oh, I totally want to say Gary Numan from now on. Great autistic icon.

It's entirely possible that the window for making this ...

2025-10-09T20:57:34Z

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It's entirely possible that the window for making this possible has already closed, but there will need to be a thorough study done to prove if this is true or not, one comparable to the one performed by the people who invented Technocracy in the first place (the study was called the Energy Survey of North America). Until then, I think that we have to assume that it is still possible. The efficiencies that Technocracy's design can achieve can solve a lot of the waste of our current society. But we can't afford to wait too long, because our chances are diminishing all the time. We have to work as hard as we can right now.

I agree. My preference would be Technocracy: ...

2025-10-09T16:27:22Z

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I agree. My preference would be Technocracy: https://www.technate.org/tiki-index.php?page=Begin

Well there goes any chance of my being productive this evening. ...

2025-10-01T20:43:15Z

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Well there goes any chance of my being productive this evening. 🙄

This kind of reminds me of a "sit-a-thon" I attended once, where we all watched the first five movies in a theatre. We were able to stretch our legs in between though. I wonder if I still have shirt for that. :blob_cat_thinking:

Basically what the study of memetics has been doing for a while ...

2025-10-01T20:01:29Z

In reply to nevent1q…jkpp
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Basically what the study of memetics has been doing for a while now. Ideas can "infect" people just like viruses, and the most successful ones spread like successful viruses. Everyone has an intellectual immune system that helps limit this spread, but it can vary a lot. The best inoculation against harmful ideas is critical thinking, but there are ideas that can suppress the spread of this just like an autoimmune disease (anti-science, anti-critical thinking, etc.). These can be the most dangerous as they can allow the spreading of ideas that help spread things like real disease (like anti-vax ideas).

That's why critical thinking is one of the core subjects in my OSES project, which is designed to teach people how and why they should do this. We can even use the study of memetics to help "spread" this idea to the greatest number of people. One can think of it like learning 'intellectual self-defence'.

https://autistics.life/@murdoc/114175617261126366

#OSES

I'm all for UBI, but it's not so much of a cure for our ...

2025-09-24T00:20:21Z

In reply to nevent1q…y4dd
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I'm all for UBI, but it's not so much of a cure for our problems as it is a way to relieve some of the symptoms for a while.

Omg, trump is talking right now about his ideas to cure autism. ...

2025-09-22T21:01:41Z

Omg, trump is talking right now about his ideas to cure autism. Why did I let myself watch any of it?!?
#ActuallyAutistic Actually Autistics (npub1pce…geep)
#AltText4Me

I get that. I imagine that it comes from the alienation that ND ...

2025-08-31T00:38:57Z

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I get that. I imagine that it comes from the alienation that ND people tend to suffer from, and why many of us identify with animals, aliens, or supernatural/mythical creatures.

I'm not much of an animal person myself, but I liked this ...

2025-08-31T00:00:49Z

In reply to nevent1q…ajey
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I'm not much of an animal person myself, but I liked this story.

Ah yes, freedom for "safety", a song as old as the hills. ...

2025-08-28T19:57:05Z

In reply to nevent1q…f0hr
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Ah yes, freedom for "safety", a song as old as the hills.

So either I get a non-google phone by 2027, or this one becomes just a phone to me.

I just had to look up "vibe coding". OMG. All LLMs do is ...

2025-08-22T19:05:41Z

In reply to nevent1q…gyv2
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I just had to look up "vibe coding". OMG.

All LLMs do is tell 'beautiful lies". This gets some people into trouble because they think that they are having a real relationship. But this shows me that it's gone beyond that. These managers are falling for the beautiful lies, and now they are getting into our infrastructure. They're like a mind-virus that has hopped from human brain to machine, and it's spreading like an epidemic. We need to find a way to inoculate people and build up the herd immunity fast.

I haven't played it, no. @npub14wp…wzug @npub16ys…sjae

2025-08-21T05:22:05Z

In reply to nevent1q…ac47
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I haven't played it, no.

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2025-08-21T02:03:23Z

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There's a webcomic called Order of the Stick about D&D characters that regularly talk about XP, going up levels, etc. The best of course was when the party needed a big diamond for something, so the thief character crawled out of the page, went to her own bio webpage on the same site, and 'stole' a diamond from her bio pic. After that her bio pic didn't have a diamond anymore.

As for video games, Metal Gear Solid did stuff like this, such as when one character you are fighting can easily block all your moves because he can 'read your thoughts'. The trick is to plug your controller in the other slot, then he finds that he can no longer read your mind. 😆

May I just say that you rock. @npub156z…hx3t @npub10v4…s27h

2025-08-19T00:32:53Z

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May I just say that you rock.

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I've heard of these types. Makes it worse for the rest of us. ...

2025-08-14T18:34:52Z

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I've heard of these types. Makes it worse for the rest of us.

Do you think that this is what they are doing, putting themselves in a position of power over the person they are replying to? Or are they just doing it to make themselves feel better? (I wish there was a term for that, making other people feel bad to feel better about yourself.)

As an autistic person, I found this quote perplexing and somewhat ...

2025-08-12T23:16:19Z

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As an autistic person, I found this quote perplexing and somewhat appalling, but then I remembered how non-autistic people communicate, so it makes sense now. The model I've seen goes like this:
In any communication, non-autistic people prioritize in this order: social context, then emotional context, then information. Whereas autistic people typically prioritize: information, emotional context, social context.

So when a non-autistic person posts about a problem, and then is given unsolicited advice, they look at the social aspect of the advice first, and say something like the above quote. They must establish the social context of the relationship before proceeding to any actual problem solving, assuming they are even open to it.

However when an autistic person posts about a problem, and another autistic person sees that, that person will likely go into "problem solving mode", and if they come up with an answer, they share it, because they want to help. If the poster finds that it will help, they are grateful. If not, they will simply say why it won't work. Then the process continues back and forth until either a solution is found, or the responder no longer can come up with an answer. Thanks for trying though. There is no power or hierarchy established, implied, or assumed. It's just information. And if the original poster simply wants to rant and not receive advice, often they will say that from the onset, and other autists typically respect it. If they fail to mention it right away, they can respond to advice back by saying thanks, but I just needed to rant.

This just seems natural to us. Doing it the other way just sounds exhausting.

But then you get situations where a non-autistic person posts a problem, and an autistic person replies to it. The poster gets mad at them, calls them "a reply guy", accuses them of things like trying to establish a power hierarchy over them. When really all that person wanted to do was help, so that can be pretty hurtful and confusing. It's called the Double Empathy Problem. The two neurotypes have different ways of communicating that don't come naturally to the other. But awareness of this fact can help reduce conflict and hurt feelings. I hope that I have helped by mentioning it. But I will now instinctively brace myself for angry replies thanks to past experiences, like most autistic people. 😶‍🌫️

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Thanks. :BlobCatSmiley: I'm not likely to visit the US ...

2025-08-09T21:16:42Z

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Thanks. :BlobCatSmiley: I'm not likely to visit the US anytime soon anyway. I just liked that someone else doesn't like those three things. 😛

Yikes, not my kind of place either then.

2025-08-09T20:33:03Z

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Yikes, not my kind of place either then.

You've watched the whole thing? It only came out today, ...

2025-08-07T03:06:17Z

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You've watched the whole thing? It only came out today, right? I've only watched one episode. Still good though. 😸

So there's this idea that some of us subscribe to that some ...

2025-07-10T17:50:12Z

So there's this idea that some of us subscribe to that some types of neurodivergent people served some sort of evolutionary purpose. My theory goes like this: Neurotypical people are very flexible when growing up. By that I mean that they can be taught anything, raised to believe anything. This is one of the evolutionary advantages of human beings. By being open to any new information like this, humans can more easily assimilate and pass down new information learned, and in this way civilization develops. Other animals don't really do this, or if they do, not nearly as much. So it's not just our intelligence that sets us apart from other animals, it's that our brains rely less on pre-programmed instinct and more on general learning. (Yes, there is still some instinct in there, just less than other animals.) And as the human matures, that adaptability to learn new information withers, for from an evolutionary standpoint, if what they learned was counterproductive enough, it would surely shorten their lifespan and their ability to pass along that information.

But this particular trait has a failing, and that is that since we can learn anything, that means that what we learn might be erroneous. This is where we get a lot of the early religions, legends, and mythologies that people believe just as much as they believe anything else. Much of it is harmless, or at least not very harmful to one's own tribe. But if it is, it can threaten the survivability of the tribe.

This is where I hypothesize that neurodiversity, and in particular autism, comes in. Autistic people are not quite as flexible growing up. We have more focused interests that can hamper our abilities in other areas yes, but there is also our apparent predilection for logic and reason. There is also our inherent resistance to simply accepting things we are taught, as well as one against conforming for social reasons. Given this, I think that our evolutionary role was as a defence against problematic beliefs, ones so dangerous that they threatened the survival of the whole tribe. Unfortunately I don't know enough about anthropology to support this with historical examples, but it does fit with what I know about psychology.

One of the reasons I bring this up isn't just to tell people about this theory. It's because I happened upon a very interesting thing that I thought resonated with it surprisingly well, along with an amusing coincidence. It's just fiction, so it's only purpose is amusement, but I wanted to share it anyway. It just needed the previous explanation for context.

I've included a portion of a page from a tabletop role playing game called Cybergeneration. You don't need to know anything about the game to understand this except that it is science fiction, and that it was written in the 1990s. It is never explained exactly who it is that is speaking these lines, but there are many implications elsewhere in the game that it is artificial intelligences (real, general AI, not the sad LLMs we have in real life). That being said, I could picture this dialogue happening between two autistic people. The fact that autistic people sometimes are described as acting or talking like computers only strengthens that connection. And the fact that I rediscovered this passage this year is what makes it the really amusing part.

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I guess it didn't work this time. Because of the content, I ...

2025-06-30T21:04:05Z

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I guess it didn't work this time. Because of the content, I wonder?

What's up, Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt) ?

Another test of the automatic alt-text, this time for a game ...

2025-06-29T15:30:44Z

Another test of the automatic alt-text, this time for a game screenshot.
#NoMansSky #Screenshot

Just trying out this automatic altbot thing. Apparently when you ...

2025-06-28T19:23:30Z

Just trying out this automatic altbot thing. Apparently when you follow altbot, it follows you back and automatically generates alt-text for any image you post that doesn't have it. Some days I just don't have the mental energy (what many people call 'spoons') to write one up, so instead I just end up not posting the picture. Which is unfortunate because there are a lot that I planned on sharing. Hopefully this will help.

Anyway, let's see how it does.

I get that. I think that I can handle crowds in some ...

2025-06-22T16:43:04Z

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I get that. I think that I can handle crowds in some circumstances because I was one of those kids that used to hang around in shopping malls with friends (ok, usually just one, but it was enough). That and being #ActuallyADHD as well probably helps.

Arcades are one of my few enjoyed forms of overstimulation. ...

2025-06-22T16:22:20Z

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Arcades are one of my few enjoyed forms of overstimulation. :comfy_blob_cat:

Technocracy has nothing to do with what Musk and American ...

2025-04-17T22:25:08Z

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Technocracy has nothing to do with what Musk and American politicians are doing today. In a Technate, there would be no businesses, no money even, and no politicians. There would be no Musks or Trumps. Ans they didn't want to "annex" Canada snd Mexico, they'd be invited to join so that the Technate would be more self-sufficient with reasources.

Technocracy is not an oligarchy, it would be the most free society in human history, and our best defence against oligarchy, fascism, and any kind of dictatorship.

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2025-03-22T06:38:33Z

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Would flabbergasted be closer? The magnet thing reminded me of ...

2025-03-22T03:57:50Z

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Would flabbergasted be closer?

The magnet thing reminded me of the "gravity is a push, not a pull" theory. Like we fall to the ground because the sun is bigger than the Earth and pushes us down against the Earth's push. 🙄

Why do you think that you are bad? Most people don't know the ...

2025-03-16T22:04:09Z

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Why do you think that you are bad? Most people don't know the truth behind people like him. Maybe I shouldn't have used the word 'bad', more like 'incorrect'.

It was a motel room, but close enough. Still a bad comparison ...

2025-03-16T20:43:28Z

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It was a motel room, but close enough.

Still a bad comparison though. Gates made his money with exploitative business deals, not by creating anything of worth, as this fine person has.

I liked the geek references in BBT, but there was too much ...

2025-02-26T09:57:00Z

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I liked the geek references in BBT, but there was too much insulting style humor in it to keep my attention. Didn't watch YS. Haven't heard of High Potential (can't use initials for that one!). My favorite along these lines was Scorpion. Had its own issues, but excellent plots and characters.

Reposting some pics, jokes, quotes, and other stuff I've ...

2025-02-21T19:52:27Z

Reposting some pics, jokes, quotes, and other stuff I've collected over the past year or so for the people who haven't seen them yet. Well and it might be fun for those that have anyway. :BlobCatSmiley:

I think that this one would work for adhd people too.
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Yeah, it does take a fair bit to figure them out. And even with ...

2024-11-29T04:58:37Z

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Yeah, it does take a fair bit to figure them out. And even with all I know it doesn't help me all the time. So heuristics like "trust but verify" are indeed useful.

Yes and no. I'm actually pretty good at figuring people out, ...

2024-11-29T04:53:05Z

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Yes and no. I'm actually pretty good at figuring people out, on account of being super sensitive and psychology being a special interest, but is not my default mode; I have to have that program active at the time. Otherwise yes, I just rely on what is said.

I hear that. 🖖

2024-11-29T04:45:34Z

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I hear that. 🖖

Whoa, just had a thought: There are many reasons why Harry Potter ...

2024-11-27T08:58:56Z

Whoa, just had a thought: There are many reasons why Harry Potter is popular, but I just thought of one that may resonate with neurodivergent people in particular.

Child grows up in a world that doesn't understand him and generally treats him very poorly. Then he is told by other people that the reason for this is because he is different, he is special. Now I get that pretty much everyone wants to feel special, but for us NDs, maybe it's something different.

We watch this child go to a place where everyone, despite their many differences, are just like him in a very important way. They understand him, and share and indulge his interests. But most importantly, he receives support from a huge community of people based on this difference from the "normals". He feels at home, and he thrives.

Idk, I just woke up so maybe I'm missing something and this is just the universal appeal after all, nothing special for NDs. I guess we'll see. Let me know what you think.

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This is why I had long assumed that Yoda had once been human ...

2024-11-10T17:58:53Z

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This is why I had long assumed that Yoda had once been human sized, just shrank over the course of 800 years. 😛

This is pretty much me as well. I even say that I've ...

2024-11-07T23:40:03Z

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This is pretty much me as well. I even say that I've developed an allergy to advertising since I don't listen to the radio, haven't watched broadcast tv in decades, and use ad blockers. The smiling faces, the catchy jingles, the silly skits, the all-too-familiar tropes, all just give me an almost physical reaction of revulsion when I do encounter them. The more that I learn about psychology and critical thinking, the more transparent their manipulation becomes and the more sickening it is. I feel bad for other people who don't know how to protect themselves.

My dream is for all advertising being banned, and people can get their product and service information from a single, unbiased knowledge base. Perhaps you can subscribe to alerts about types of products, new developments and whatnot. That'd be fine too, just all opt-in.

How does it compare to Droid-ify then?

2024-10-20T19:18:27Z

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How does it compare to Droid-ify then?

#actuallyautistic #ActuallyADHD #AuDHD #neurodivergent ...

2024-10-19T20:45:44Z

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#crossover #humor #Robocop #harrypotter ...

2024-10-08T23:56:55Z

#crossover #humor #Robocop #harrypotter

Trying out this #introduction thing (finally). Unemployed ...

2024-09-22T23:39:05Z

Trying out this #introduction thing (finally).

Unemployed computer tech and aspiring novelist. Came to Mastodon because of the #foss and #fediverse thing, as I'm quite fond of open standards and non-corporate media (and well, anything really). I wasn't quite sure how to use it since I had never touched xitter, and didn't get the whole micro-blogging thing. I was always more of a forums/Reddit kind of person (I'm on Lemmy now instead BTW). But I found this place to be a great source of information, support, and community regarding autism and #NeuroDiversity since I am a late-self-realized #actuallyautistic and #ActuallyADHD (a.k.a. #AuDHD ) Turns out that "neurodiversity" has been a "special interest" of mine for a long time, before I even knew the word for it. So I spend a lot of time here, probably more than I should. 😛

I'm also working on several projects that I guess can only be collectively referred to as "social benefit" projects. I'll talk about those occasionally and even asking for help, because they are big projects that will need many people and I don't work so well by myself.

And I'm also one of those progressive, lefty, pinko, equal rights, social justice, digital freedom, privacy advocating, LGBT+ ally type people. I grew up on Star Trek ok? They debated whether a cloud of gas or a big rock was actually a person or not. Makes the crap we have to deal with right now IRL seem pretty stupid.

So if you like talking about that kind of stuff, or any of my copious other SpIns (many of which are in my profile), I'm game.

That sounds likely. I'm a super taster too, but I only notice ...

2024-09-05T01:08:01Z

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That sounds likely. I'm a super taster too, but I only notice changes when I am physically ill.

Penguin pebbling, that's new. (looks it up). Wait, that's ...

2024-09-04T00:43:09Z

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Penguin pebbling, that's new. (looks it up). Wait, that's an autistic thing? I thought it was just "considerate" gift giving, and most people I knew where just inconsiderate. 😆 DEP strikes again!

Huh. Hadn't heard of this, but I think that I kind of already ...

2024-09-03T21:02:19Z

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Huh. Hadn't heard of this, but I think that I kind of already do this. When I go to sleep, most often I try to imagine characters I play in role-playing games, either being in different places, or getting into different situations, all just to experience being in different places or situations (not to mention being someone else). So maybe it does work... 🤔