2024-04-02T03:19:56Z https://nostr.ae des https://nostr.ae/npub1mj2n5g2gsq4rhcqwmgegvux42dq5alfp3gv4zw8jnuw06zdwelysxxz5r2 https://m.primal.net/HqYz.jpg https://m.primal.net/HqYz.jpg https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs27gfqhecfrqwjy59yhn6uaprt0l77j4z9se33d32zsjv34f8y2yszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uja5yt3e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd8layak99r8pxj8z47qeug70nssytv6hdsrze2xf96ys6h52m6nsgqv7pm'>nevent1q…v7pm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This just screams the entire issue I’m talking about. Do some self-reflection please. 2024-04-02T12:51:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9ufdz0pq3ge6cvppv7k59zl6p7s80daddfq6x4vw9pa8glv09spczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujmc9hcy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9c0a8zrtpvqa43guqav8a59cpqnmnm5gm7u524sph0eaer2qevjg527a9s'>nevent1q…7a9s</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh no I’ve failed according to someone online 💔💔💔 2024-04-02T12:50:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspg0654em9un3446mh885a3hhynkftlftreq0dnpsy5tspgyh523czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj8rrdtn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst0uf0kfm4ghkzppfdjqju4a69j0dfnkl4n66cuvcr9xux8ndk5asxh6znm'>nevent1q…6znm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh I’m so sorry for using big words. 2024-04-02T12:50:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxwhrnncfjkgds83tz03y77dg76k5h047r8lhdnvlmn0g6s4umx4czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujhqkrrd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsguywfc7f32pcg06awuxlvmlteq8l3kscqcjfgmh7e4alxr4j7skqj2a7ln'>nevent1q…a7ln</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I don’t know how to tell if it’s them or not. 2024-04-02T02:34:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy24y7a06avrq2r8q8dyte9nvy4tc2wq0a0ncmcnm93q77d3ft2ggzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujk6sthf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8932th67vp8sp642pqfsv74c3pqukmtgp4sjljwg67zyuqwdj8zcqd602g'>nevent1q…602g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That’s how I feel too 🥲 2024-04-02T01:59:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsw9mv2zpfr3t90we7nv89kmh5q0qvu3f5xtw473pxxnj027tpn0dczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj5qruqm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2pdzca9f87edd9x089rfg66s45qyl3g4klt0zjgtpv0ytu8kdnvswzyftf'>nevent1q…yftf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yep! Exactly the issue I have lol 2024-04-02T01:54:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrnnw7hr7ssaetkfc0s4yclq9uy4h59qewnj7w5nr0k29t0qvh5fgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujnzkcnr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9uvjndlxw94asrc27x9hfqcw2s49v5sdxjcywwjk946730lnp7hc33arrr'>nevent1q…arrr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I don’t, that’s why I’m talking about it 😊 Ask me anything about human behavior and I got you, but when it comes to anything tech wise I’m completely lost. Lots of other people have had some great ideas! 2024-04-02T00:44:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs805c73a8vrxwqxxpwnye9uhvdmancxmfh2p0vc4ykzc59k05ytpszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj964470 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8zwqjv0xg64kkzdxjheukpc6qcd4fy06aa5xa22euep26yy9hucculxagf'>nevent1q…xagf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🤣🤣🤣 2024-04-02T00:43:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdm8rzq05tzy38avk8l9smfjy958pcnjwxvr2euph2463glcsfq0czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujc0ys6z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsglkkrweugd95vcc26f4f0hwn9re5jw2s8j2ndx63wrmk7p37qszqpc674v'>nevent1q…674v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I just wanna shake them! 😂 2024-04-02T00:21:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfvvdu5yyv0k4mmq6luxas6me0a98mltcdc4vl6m4sl3nzj3n85vszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujc0p3ce In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs05xz8wee5earr0t6vkxdsyrhxdcuqh5jasf9s2gtdalvge8nhm7q86cvu6'>nevent1q…cvu6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ 2024-04-02T00:18:54Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgnadyzx8cl5uh58cw5aejh9sec3gk4yc4q6rnvu4gfsmvj9rhghszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujjyxeq9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfgaphmme36agcqcgh3gsamglcf8wz0eqexyy6r8cny24n2j6jq8gc0wmxp'>nevent1q…wmxp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is beautifully worded and I appreciate you sharing it. You’re one of the reasons I believe in men! 2024-04-02T00:17:38Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0qkyg4zntlk4z2hd8yczqmrqrwsy9pmj50w87ywqn6nglf20yjtszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujy0293h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0vl7u8zk75sp6p4amn4fkkxvehgjlwh7max2aga400q5rgrx7fxqeaqzey'>nevent1q…qzey</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The issue is hate on posts, creepiness in the DMs. If details are needed, they can message me. Also I’m sure you can see the issue in my posts by some people’s responses. 2024-04-02T00:03:29Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswy725t8z4hrvslmvq5jun2q8p2saj82anmxpk6nx3hcffnl58h6gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujtea6gh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstehwmm0xrt9xskec2uzmqf4vprtzt3hey82qf4p7f4hv5pqxlkjg9ryhsr'>nevent1q…yhsr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I found it dismissive 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2024-04-01T23:33:32Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszr8lf55jy45u0j3hcpsv90r99r9hzfp6t42lkty7xcamnj9rcrtqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj3jsk54 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd37mu460a5p0w0jlwee485fudvwnxt9u4sc3ywc40zxnycgxut2ca2xfr2'>nevent1q…xfr2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I know you didn’t mean it this way, but I don’t think people need to prove their experiences. You’re welcome to message me if you’d like! 🤗 2024-04-01T23:32:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyj74adxzwqavetvymah86c0xzdl4u69fw6fclhmmmlshvfgy25rszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj9z6zvj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs270a5e2jyyk9fv500lv0pv3hxva0s2wk62hg0ruzzpze8twl4z3gr6p7am'>nevent1q…p7am</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Living your life must be hard. Whew. 2024-04-01T23:30:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx2z0a3296x9q3vujgal7kvp4rsd4yj8zcmr6cwc7wrtg40snuadczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujegyrkl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs270a5e2jyyk9fv500lv0pv3hxva0s2wk62hg0ruzzpze8twl4z3gr6p7am'>nevent1q…p7am</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You’re the toxic masculinity, don’t project that shit on me 😂😂😂 2024-04-01T23:30:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswcg5gjfn7a4dn3npfqvnjz8438jc8wyaue88kj22vprkc52wwjmgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujwe0zk0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8prxtx6t49nxn7kkmv3ernhuvkfwy4uve3r7yqg8aq826j7zgrgc9u7j2f'>nevent1q…7j2f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Looks soooo good 😍 2024-04-01T23:19:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgs58sut2000rf2gwdz0qqk43avqnsvpkt4k2supgs8chwedpr7sqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujhz7gcm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrsmyh5enju4hgrqd3eqhq56a944v6am356f5755x29wxz6wuke4c65j5zd'>nevent1q…j5zd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It does! 2024-04-01T23:05:51Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9wyunk83cwdy3pwqx2ks2qclx694asf6g47ymuhlfkksq6paj0ngzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujyp03hy If you’re part of a marginalized group and you say “well that’s never happened to me” or claim you’re not impacted by being marginalized, that’s not a flex…it’s denial. I’m not black or brown or Palestinian or trans, but I care about and fight for their rights and listen to their stories just as much as I do for mine. Hence why I’ve brought to light experiences here in hopes that you’d care. <br/><br/>Human issues are human issues. You are not exempt from any of it. Even if you’re a white man you’re still impacted by it, you just sit in a position of power. 2024-04-01T23:05:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs09t9dud2ktpw6hdkj4f4evcrhkn228l6uulhg2zcfjltuqsu77tqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujdlqfsk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd6ljs78e38pjad6vm8j7gyptnz70ytkj7cw39s4av9lve7epf9ycccks34'>nevent1q…ks34</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Cuz little is never goes away ☺️ we just forget to play when we’re older, or we think it has to be a certain way. 2024-04-01T22:59:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs267f7958pk2v7ua0cer7ml4zdkvf6x9f9a54vfwpfu9af0pqc7jszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujcy7ppt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxxgz8gd0gz7afs7edjx330lvhc9a35lmzh02c4dqv038ssccq05s7hv4t8'>nevent1q…v4t8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s seemingly impossible! 2024-04-01T21:25:01Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvhslle98y6aj0xxue06hz907gte2zmqc72vasgxu5vxkfrpl439qzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujpt0kvh If you’re a man (or woman) that perceives my notes as hating men, I dont know how to save you. I WANT to be here with you. You’re completely missing the point. The people who get it, get it. <br/><br/>Just unfollow me. 2024-04-01T21:23:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2kxm40w4qjwzglp7pv5rfzzc6d4v707q3vqx35yuylc4pv057yugzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujfuj026 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqaaw23vlqa0vgksay7th943d6s8cmvyeapd09g6zyjsh5fdl0w4g4fuh9q'>nevent1q…uh9q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Some of them for sure! 2024-04-01T21:20:07Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyjmdgy8a6jufjv6vvxthjam83y30wc8w03n4wc89fe2kgsan3vkszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj0n64pa In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgx2suzwzy5vw8py0l3alv4mnd0ascdys92zezy0rkddqlu9sj8dcmetyj0'>nevent1q…tyj0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I refuse to do the work for men. Seems pretty damn fair to me 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2024-04-01T21:08:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9faczlkrk5knzm7zk008eu2f7upwjgnqqavgd7yd77wqawjh0hzqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujrzn3x5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs895pyhxmrgrz4x67enqwkef362mmrajt8uayaaezxxx4wa8wmmfqwcsqj0'>nevent1q…sqj0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Someone gets it! 👏🏻🫂 2024-04-01T20:55:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs92wtjuk59sf0fudtltgrf3jgtylrkjgejd8rgthlnypwn5x720qgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujq28uxw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfgha4kzywpfagh6tt59eprgacwy35e23w4wcjcgv8m7r974qzvmcnvcks8'>nevent1q…cks8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I didn’t volunteer. I said “please educate yourself.” 2024-04-01T20:55:08Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgag7lj5wz0mn9j5k7eh7dwlkppu5n0vdw9zs88u2l4d87kxtj4pczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj6d2qfh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0rzmwcrxjlfcutfm9659q5t6r3wmyttfcqv38hf4hdr3my8qa0jg8mly2w'>nevent1q…ly2w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Same 2024-04-01T20:52:27Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsw2uwmxm24tg8ujf75jvjsgvtk5u6yywlc4wvl7gcwud7l8mwgnwqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujf9kksd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxcu0x0q2cjjzh4lm53kpr4ryew5lpdn2tzpy9ldl93ymhke0gpncpuvj0n'>nevent1q…vj0n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>“Again, from my perspective.” 2024-04-01T20:51:30Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvnhc73q3hqatkfgkah569guq0508th3myg56twxurq4q7dk2wq0czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujx8zztj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0dl4set9jnem64yqy8u63gvmp63pzslfzqu7xqv4j5rk5rl5jdqs3tpsxk'>nevent1q…psxk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You clearly don’t understand what feminism is about. If you did, you’d know that it’s ALSO about men and you’d support it. Please educate yourself. 2024-04-01T20:47:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy8vdt3sec2wmsz7nwq37a6t3s2y0f70nf7u3d8jk7zjcjwvrhvgszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujuvnata In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxl3vm8pc3daygdgvcjy6j7cglf520djkhgmv5d86v056v5pw9m3gn7ggmj'>nevent1q…ggmj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Hmm. It seems to be a really dismissive way of approaching what’s been talked about but okay. 2024-04-01T20:40:10Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxdug86euqnx5h3z7pttq2jqp7ee5cydwugqy5a379fccd0yh7xpczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj5jllfl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv3v04cc78yx0sqwc7rufwjld80ex0vdjtn9dtqvm3wcrp48rj8fq0vg6ru'>nevent1q…g6ru</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>So because I find things hurtful, I don’t have a life? I’m confused. 2024-04-01T20:35:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswedlzff0wyg4pctedrdeaekjq408n6vrkfjmtrtph8esktpwknegzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujz6eg8s For anyone who needs an example, this 👇🏻 is the kind of men women need. <br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1zlwky8frm830kzduuuaxszpnl08ws5aapu85thxwklhhuqtu0pssmck5sw" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1zlw…k5sw</a></span> </div> Because I don't have your lived experience I'm not familiar with the harrassment/hate. I'm sorry to hear about it. But I take it very seriously, and so I want to escalate implementing reporting and labelling features in the gossip client. These are defined in NIP-32 and NIP-56. We have a lot on our plate so it may be two versions out, but we didn't even have it slated previously.<br/><br/>I once said I called my client 'gossip' because I thought it would be more appealing to women. That comment was not received well by some women. I'm terribly sorry to have such an ignorant man-brain that thought women gossip more than men. I said what I thought was true, but I guess I was wrong, and I'm sorry. </blockquote> 2024-04-01T20:30:32Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsydxrqwcrz3n2hkvu56zzkn33ttypa3cpaxu6gnaaau897xyfdwyqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujyptdkv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp0htzr53anchmpx7wwwngpqelhnhg2w7s7r69mn8t0mm7q978scgtwdd84'>nevent1q…dd84</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>We all forgive you for man-brain, but because you said something and are willing to do something about it! Thank you for hearing feedback and understanding how it comes off to others. I appreciate you 🫂 2024-04-01T20:29:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqywgvhyz0ga8pcmy27hutzeffnd955dyewtkwwgh8sczapeeg6qszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujk9wlp5 These apps always know 😅 Thanks #thepattern I already did ☺️<br/> <img src="https://m.primal.net/HqVe.jpg"> 2024-04-01T20:26:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz7gpcsqk2nvdheuc4c9ztm2cn0cyqesdy5cekn2mdqlk6m0xwaagzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj26x7wz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsppevmx2628uuu7e3vxsgkn55p8fg3u2j240mmptkhszh5d0y4v9ss3gv8a'>nevent1q…gv8a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🥹🫂 2024-04-01T20:17:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxaq48gezhd3qeu6txsj0dez8t7vjjh6p27cardmd6feqtm0v7mvqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujhjac03 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspwzmurc09pyutqhvsw02vcpgtgkxl98yjmw7kcuqz6j5tun5hqhqv06uqa'>nevent1q…6uqa</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is giving “all lives matter.” You’re completely missing the point. 2024-04-01T20:16:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdg0a6rsdzknysz73yz78k8vz6t8w8cu8t6xprp5zdvt6fg7tm30gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujt9r4r0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8w5gtlg360n778wv88y45pjqczc9m9hlu4m8h5v4pkgjpzyld4gs4yxuhe'>nevent1q…xuhe</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I can be myself but then have to deal with the consequences of that. Like my example of posting a selfie and then getting told I deserve to be treated poorly for it. Or having a person asking when they can fly to see me. Or that I should kill myself. Or the guys that act totally genuine just to completely take advantage of me. I feel like I can be myself but I dont know that the consequences are worth it 😕 2024-04-01T20:15:37Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs096etp7pthvhhneezyvhap2hgay6gd8wfe5wtvzzm5da4uwn6qsgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj4audyg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs84nl6lhw8f5rxseeel67wp7c9kg8380tdk0ep5ce0p37mr8en3gcpkn93r'>nevent1q…n93r</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That’s what I thought when I saw it 😂 I’d love to be able to do that if I knew how. 2024-04-01T20:09:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8qrql6c0njhmx90259kkulnqfarvgjh4tpajfm2nyeuj46mgnuyszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujqkg2sk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfhsahsdyu502upx667rhr6er5ynccu7dwywnlu63cuxh44jzy2yqn6f9gv'>nevent1q…f9gv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh awesome! Thank you 😊 2024-04-01T20:08:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfz7u4gwkhn6q6j3fjkuthpmqrvm6lmhtuz9lwr7vy7g8wsffcyzgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujavzfxs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgec2ud9qpz3ra9lmealyzddkt37l3av8yl87da488vzgz0a2pckc3xzje6'>nevent1q…zje6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you ❤️ 2024-04-01T19:58:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvvycz40wlwwwlt3q8aawpuvaqpfzuxwgzsgmu7m9jn3hscdgqe2qzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujxefvs9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdc79ahgehxjargztx09a2typsw87sdqrt5ahzsc9t27jy7zeefesc2mrek'>nevent1q…mrek</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>WOW!!! Thanks for your help!! 😃👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 2024-04-01T19:54:27Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8647ylncnpa3mju83ctqk0t06ljzqfc0h3uk2f3c7crwujpl4swszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujqdh6ml In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq4mvetumk59u9rgd0zhlz62vc6xj452qmy84ky6dwtp02wlym25gupme4u'>nevent1q…me4u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The hashtag idea is actually brilliant! 2024-04-01T19:53:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst4l2aajxsjlugnvqsc8l0afe8kd8vjjtykuzwelhr0vyw37q6vwqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujmmajm6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsflkvd3z64mj7sar4479ss6m0vk7yxurlsm0rgw7kpyr0avn67wpqzv8wrk'>nevent1q…8wrk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😊🫂 2024-04-01T19:51:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2py0q8zuyg6x7dq7pnvdrtyzfqt5kd46ws4s39wav4vrefnzwfnczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj4m23lj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2w2fk0fhk6rzpyure99at77ugvus9sr2ddyrrg0nky53h58qq23curdukc'>nevent1q…dukc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’ve heard so many people say this! But I have iOS 😭 2024-04-01T19:39:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqqpd5pukp68whn0g6fs6ghkzt7qatxvcumd9rd9afukzv9ntj36czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujkjv346 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw86vauksc47ecp0trty5e3xmruvugg5vqfheuvnummvlp5qmjkls2cvs4t'>nevent1q…vs4t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🫂🫂🫂 2024-04-01T19:37:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgcwvr5c4a4ydugw48x8k3hda9e8qjx7rk98u34ulnt477pdyukuqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujn9pzl4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdllwvr2y6d65vl26h3mj8aklzz76kfxmhuhdapxvzjvjpppns07sj4f5mt'>nevent1q…f5mt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I hope 😂 2024-04-01T19:34:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy7sz3gmg26wwxjv4u3qanfk4th59c2mzvtrdneg3jscma9jxhzmqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj35w8w9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstxwau9xqnw0tgxdj64vhylcy3de9xlp2fmekw8rzvhrueulupf0s03qmd6'>nevent1q…qmd6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is what <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1klr0dy2ul2dx9llk58czvpx73rprcmrvd5dc7ck8esg8f8es06qs427gxc" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>florian</span> (<span class="italic">npub1klr…7gxc</span>)</a></span> was talking about. It would definitely be helpful! 2024-04-01T19:29:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9jkq0rk5qu64p7v0dg9rx7m720rhxq6jn9780gjfshfqwld7yx9qzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujtn3gfd Everyone proving my point today is 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1mq4v3g0r29upy8elh8d0z8q9dhdtmncr6l3nv3nt2tsy25qt9z3sg5e0sv" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1mq4…e0sv</a></span> </div> This my opinion on today's topic <br/><br/>😆😆😆 go fuck yourself note more or bounce pussy 😆😆😆😆 </blockquote> 2024-04-01T19:25:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqaaw23vlqa0vgksay7th943d6s8cmvyeapd09g6zyjsh5fdl0w4gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujqh2pr4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs25ggwrwggrdrmu29ttml66haf9agfeearpx2f9wzz7n8yd0k6xmqdh622x'>nevent1q…622x</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>RIGHT 😂😂😂 It’s like they don’t even think lol 2024-04-01T19:16:36Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspzsel30m62az5mttj5ydqcsrmz5ztefg0zzyqqg0hhe9mjcx8a3czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujykttez In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszq87dcj0ev7up2a936tu6p0c7sky6q3e870cfnhcraparwwyvqwglr0q34'>nevent1q…0q34</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yes!!! 🙌🏻 2024-04-01T18:59:17Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9v8dqm9c3mgnwdqd3rf0ufwcs4t44xmk9fm2s6pmry8cqk26tcxqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj9rvynw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8fxtdkn0uas9c28fch927ljzpru58jcm0gl64hwu8pmu65f99g7shmy0eg'>nevent1q…y0eg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you! And I can understand that and I also think a lot of women feel like they wouldn’t be respected in the field. But that’s a whole other issue 😂 It would be cool to see what else could be created on nostr! 2024-04-01T18:58:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswedsrwpfcp478ddsr0e7fqfp635j5v87ugyt2r8hqxd3ykd6q9zczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj8k0x4y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsttmsu96wa0q5l3dwfwwyp2k9dy9svgp4cvaj5z480yffy2vn39vqq4fx3w'>nevent1q…fx3w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ahhh okay. If I don’t like people’s stuff I just unfollow them. If they’re hateful or extreme, then I mute them. 2024-04-01T18:56:32Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszjtzt3eaplexur3hq2ra6l00gsrz4kcyrxr0e0a9h5txsqux9twszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujzth5kh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs86ryv3yzqzcgkkyxy9njr72x6q266cnwc882d58xfvazvmny9sssmp3ype'>nevent1q…3ype</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you 🥹❤️ 2024-04-01T18:54:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqkh95whwvg5tg3dpz2l4vekxxfm27utgwul364se2guxcvm6dvjgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujl2djcg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfmke7gvz0gj7pkv0z8305m5emjh6tpsuy6m9gk4v5gjewy3uyz7q8y482l'>nevent1q…482l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah I can totally see that! 2024-04-01T18:54:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0rt376c8ssq47srqmr5292wqrsn28f3ww83nmhsqea34t9psnecqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujyq09s4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs227gete0s3wvgq8k63jyhn2mlddn4v46j2jcg44e4py3022r86ysfks5uv'>nevent1q…s5uv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I feel like this would not fly 😂 I would of course be totally fine with it, but then you have to think about people abusing the blocking function. Then the numbers wouldn’t truly represent the user and their content (I’m sure I’d have a lot of blocks but if you know me I’ve only been kind on here). I think it’s just a matter of considering options and seeing it as an issue, like the poster mentioned versus completing ignoring. I’m glad a lot of different people are talking about it today 🥹 2024-04-01T18:52:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq930ut0l3l5qs8f3je99mc8suvevmufwezl3gmkmmjfztkmnahrszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujjpvzj0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy9nn3yud5sjykrmvg3rckpa8q8hk9dzwu9wyjxltg2xmxd07h0psv4pea6'>nevent1q…pea6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I know ☹️ 2024-04-01T18:46:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsg03zk6mc9sdf4fltxdmf7jz454nm4h82tcy6hs9fn5kk2d2qwdgqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj4szff0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqh66ev2xvc9mn9r4pcylvxfuarwn49c390gsu3vwlqefuw624k2ssx8944'>nevent1q…8944</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I love this idea! Is this something I can do now? 2024-04-01T18:40:57Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz3aqvpx47ajc3v2awg58m59x7zk2rjvkvmuzad7qk7u956daetcqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj0t0x0c THANK. YOU. 🫂❤️<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note14vv6dnnjx0uusrvhdl9yp33ft286dgamrz94rrtqsv5uddlz5a5suv2klc" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note14vv…2klc</a></span> </div> If we can’t make a social media ecosystem where people feel safe enough to share then they’ll go somewhere else. It’s like a dark ally in a city without anyone doing public safety. You can walk down these back alleys but it’s risky. If you’re strong and have guns you’re fine. Or if you’ve got a security guard. Or if you have a lot of social capital protecting you, most people won’t mess with you. <br/><br/>But on nostr we see folks who don’t have that power or protection be attacked with death threats for posting a selfie or doxxed for publishing an accurate content report. This kind of harassment silences speech. We need tools that let folks feel safe enough to share and build communities. Otherwise they’ll opt for the evil mall cop an corporate social media platforms because at least there is some safety in that authoritarianism. <br/><br/>Read the experiences if women on Nostr <br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1n2h9d5wxfdhrncyp66xvqnh3vagz4kcakh5wardx7j6xde8g3fgsgn640z" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1n2h…640z</a></span> <br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1e8gnytp9da5xdk06e5hxwufgahpc0jytnqat7lw03tatdunpth2q0aegzt" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1e8g…egzt</a></span> </blockquote> 2024-04-01T18:37:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvxmgqf40flfqptefej9ceakpgtspqmg8tjd6q5l2z8rhkykj7kgszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujzaze5v In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy34xlsqu0v696p6tk0kyu9udnsqe7xrx6949nyq5z24wj7lcrzrgguqw8u'>nevent1q…qw8u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You’re completely missing the point. Glad I could make you laugh! 😃👍🏻 2024-04-01T18:35:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdmlpq47cr28cgthdda632ecfyjq2y3vme0lmlxm6zej2vvkdz9pszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujfhfwwj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdgsh7n7qnps7k9cjuslwle6zcncps6fjh0rdqgc2jf76u2262wegpflg62'>nevent1q…lg62</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you ☺️🫂 2024-04-01T18:33:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstn28h7mq2pnf65z8rlzqmrsut03n96mwqyrnm9ca8khs05k6d89czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uju7ngfw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2l8syasp6mcm9tj03va6ys8anknuqm6prq3gvs9cr2zpqpynsdxgx0ud7g'>nevent1q…ud7g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Sick of toxic men 🥲 2024-04-01T18:33:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9cgm2sykhwruxhylvtkrln3n07jxeu7vfppgc3mfw4rma4urj68szyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj0wvcht In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgpl26mw4g4ahtv5p989wl03htah306kfqmjjyy22l0qx3lxww6ag66g3uv'>nevent1q…g3uv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Beautifully said 🫂❤️ 2024-04-01T18:09:45Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstr0p5r57qjq063670vnfh99h2zlvlyvp9gdkwcugtv8ayndfv0dszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj6z2g4l In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2fky5qt5sw4f3ch9zp2awn37k33t9u7999gh6aqfnl97lflvpzwqc39sga'>nevent1q…9sga</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😔🫂🫂🫂🫂 2024-04-01T18:07:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8mhtwv7y9ww9j3jm6jpkv350r94t3cjd9wzcns77gv4pd3x4v8zqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujcsnmn6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8er80ke5fxlvgecjhu9hhy6ccns3kp0nn0789jmatdjdsmh22rrsvy03zu'>nevent1q…03zu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😉🫂 2024-04-01T18:07:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxmh0n9xdy8pvme8uva399qxu58pzf2fdzdnkj3wfr20kxj94nq6szyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujzp7cm5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8w95r3av85hxk0szlrgxehzsvwp6f9vturnm53aeerymrs0h43jcq26zdh'>nevent1q…6zdh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I completely agree with everything you said. It’s fundamental to nostr, like you said, which is incredibly unique! There isn’t really a way through besides what you mentioned. 2024-04-01T17:48:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv9lqdnzmql8dqpjhl4xz59sz7k6zv48nk0ksckaq4dc00cffvchszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujrfpsly In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfn5ctn5lsgz8t0j0ntpwvqqqu2cegfkq9syvpw5zg4sns9cs5ugcu9yv6f'>nevent1q…yv6f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Exactly 🙌🏻🙌🏻 2024-04-01T17:32:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs95t9zkdmtp5crdzrcatqs29wltsxhyd58nwcmhzs6q7znlvpwzqgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj5uwt6j In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs864sywdpw5z09lx2mqzvqcc3g47ml5u3j9u3snh4t2y0320ec84q5083gg'>nevent1q…83gg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>And that it’s not me hating men. Defensiveness really clouds people’s minds. 2024-04-01T17:31:51Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyg0dmlyv3mme45z48zys47z37ern4me6sez6vnej2r3m2rqutg9czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujc94j6g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp0l9fyyyqe78u4s5ct986rhpx0mxf8wsff095p4agg5hrqdngrgckmhp2q'>nevent1q…hp2q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s definitely a trade off. I think it’s also the fact that I even have to encounter it to begin with. It is reality and the world we live in, but it’s not something I’m subjected to in a personal way like I am here (except when I was in the military). I don’t think it’s for everyone and everyone has to decide how they want to use it. I’m still figuring out if it’s worth it for me. I appreciate your perspective 🤗 2024-04-01T17:28:47Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstlzj4xh0wx3dhglsmtjadqncnhcu3x09mqrhtz2gy4rf30ry9n0gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj239qnu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfwwk58sxvhrqq5rn29qw3uh66dsuhnqdx4e9ydk8y0tw44wpjjgq5dce5l'>nevent1q…ce5l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I just don’t want people accessing me if they’re cruel. 2024-04-01T17:22:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd8gpyxd6eewjxdreuuwn2s3fugnl2m78j2xux7hqjhwe6uvat47szyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj450f5n In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfwwk58sxvhrqq5rn29qw3uh66dsuhnqdx4e9ydk8y0tw44wpjjgq5dce5l'>nevent1q…ce5l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yes exactly! 2024-04-01T17:22:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszgkrksw9re45zkmle6khj9x573rft8j95fa5fd7h27zqn7s7v3ugzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj2vgkzc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp8phdkkjf78lx0velm9zwdupy4lml60xgpc9d6kasz3q3fl2wrhgjh69hs'>nevent1q…69hs</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh and I’ve reported users but I dont know what that does. 2024-04-01T17:21:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxgdwkwa36ayh8suyx9ntv34n20pk6yt5c5dtkjaj70vuhl3ntz8gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujrcjlmk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp8phdkkjf78lx0velm9zwdupy4lml60xgpc9d6kasz3q3fl2wrhgjh69hs'>nevent1q…69hs</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I use primal and mute them. But that doesn’t block them. They can still follow you and interact with your content. 2024-04-01T17:20:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs04knstjkkxr3ggup4yhl2sjpqxpm54kl97pxluxjp3df2fgxh3qczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujef9mtx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszqxaw2pxrr6zknkq42m4p3x6f0h3zsradlkf2j6xs0tf7nxx5g0cxgax64'>nevent1q…ax64</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That’s just based on my experience here. When I’ve searched hashtags to find other women to connect with they are rarely active. Of course there’s exceptions, but I’ve had a difficult time finding women, therefore it seems as though nostr is primarily men. But I agree that it doesn’t have to be! I don’t want it to be. I don’t know what would need to change to draw more people in. The emotional safety issue is a huge one, whether you’re a woman, trans, person of color or another group. When I go on TikTok I know that I won’t be harassed and have no power to do something about it. Here, I can only unfollow and mute, yet the haters can still follow me. 2024-04-01T17:15:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvn5fj9sjk76rxm8av6tn8wy5wmsu8ez9esw4l0h8c474k7fs4m4qzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujn65985 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxu22y5qz9lc6lvnzt5h46kpuv26xvg2sd8pq70cvh34d4ptwjy2q53ndx7'>nevent1q…ndx7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Other platforms allow users to be blocked and reported and potentially banned from using the platform for hate/harassment/etc. This isn’t the case on nostr of course because that completely goes against the whole foundation of nostr. <br/><br/>There’s too many issues to list, but you can research it if it’s helpful. To me, it feels like a microcosm of being a woman in the world. For example, I posted a picture of myself but then received hate for it because I’ve brought up mistreatment by other nostr men (aka if I post a picture like that then I deserve mistreatment). We’re held to the same BS societal guidelines here as we are in the real world. And when women bring up the issues here (in a kind way), we’re still unheard, harassed, and not considered. We just want our experiences to be considered, not dismissed. I hope that helps. 2024-04-01T17:09:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsthz9y2lzt9yzxymrxamm5asa6vrgh4dng569z2f2j7v4l87d3tzszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj6heqp9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw3h3lqemuqlxj5kpyxnxetl85dnc9g2qpfp9fjdd8rvqsj8u62gcnsmr27'>nevent1q…mr27</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>True! I totally get where you’re coming from. But if the majority of the nostr population is men, theres only so much decorating our feed that we can do (and significantly more likelihood of dealing with assholes). I didn’t post this as a complaint, it was simply to bring awareness and maybe a productive dialogue about it. 2024-04-01T17:03:22Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgs74l4082amkawrfrtmwpju9kavcflkekw54mnt9x8flglrxstlgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujv52n9e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqng5gn342s3gpxw28c96fgf4r9gjnywa9sjt4e4lt6wsmvx67kaqzp7nng'>nevent1q…7nng</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🫂 2024-04-01T17:00:08Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsp83hc57w5nh0rdssv3cnlhmany9drecf7q0ps90h7zcfsydkd5mgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujzj66gu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8sr2ldm3cvvrsq8qh9hx6e8nqy5q4spc8hc6der5nqhuvr54flmq9dmfm6'>nevent1q…mfm6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>No I started on here almost a month ago using my picture and name thinking it was similar to other social media, which I learned it’s not. I just wanted to be me and be accepted for that, not feel like I have to hide behind a fake name/picture to protect myself. I dont know if that makes sense. 2024-04-01T16:51:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx698w5qc8pns2epkh25pru2e9wnzp2vn7hqyy72gh2uqxlhp6t5gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujnlsppe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsduwes798532g7llcxhuxhuh8c7ah66g54mp8h0gc4y7u72ayqyyg56tjcz'>nevent1q…tjcz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you 🥹🫂 2024-04-01T16:42:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9dxp3lr7j45n6az7qty25sd2g5uehlcawg9ypuwgnwrtdn2wr9dqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujlelcz4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspp06admcg095pjulgnyhmnt6psluadl3592d5lxz0dkvqndw8m3cnf4y22'>nevent1q…4y22</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>They wouldn’t have it in mind because men don’t need to consider other people’s experiences. The world is built for them. They’re conditioned to be that way, so I don’t think it’s malicious. 2024-04-01T16:41:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxumk7z74crg2jtmyd7urvprnnjrvftnhazwstelxcg42uyfpkppqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujw4n9z5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdary4ml795x2c7lultwjc2svuyadj3z38wca476enjj73s0hxkegxry902'>nevent1q…y902</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you for demonstrating what projection means! Bravo 👏🏻 2024-04-01T16:40:08Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2vkvfxjphmtc2s5nlr7gjem5v7zhmtzmfvkjhuxtul03mcl5v5dczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujxcly6m In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspfxy34arfjmzd2l2234fx8q8wmq0vcu547vh77q9lcu445835mxc9w6cyj'>nevent1q…6cyj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Also, quite a lot of assumptions made here. 2024-04-01T16:39:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvdppk7enc9veu7yjrdmdt3sy27kj9gnrxqysmskyslwtsg72umgszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj639aex In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspfxy34arfjmzd2l2234fx8q8wmq0vcu547vh77q9lcu445835mxc9w6cyj'>nevent1q…6cyj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think you missed the part that said “if you’re defensive you may want to self-reflect on why.” 2024-04-01T16:38:47Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9kl5zad57dq6d2v0x4m82c2a7r3xgfc3ey90ksuujkplss6ejtsgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujhy4lgj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz5h4x75jkv40npcz7el8elplj0ezeypr9ere98zfy4w5ff8sw4hsg29nku'>nevent1q…9nku</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Notice I didn’t say any of those words you mentioned besides “marginalized.” I don’t view myself as helpless, I view myself as unsupported by my environment. <br/><br/>And also, it’s quite the assumption to make that all the women on nostr never experienced any struggle or harassment on here. Tell me why would a woman post on nostr (predominantly men) about being harassed? They would get the same “eye roll” response you just gave me. Point proven. 2024-04-01T16:36:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf4tjk68rykm3euzqadrxqfmckw5p2mvwmt68w3kn0fdrxun5g55gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujysa95y I think it’s easy to say just mute the person. But if you don’t have the lived experience of being a woman, or being part of a marginalized group, you will never understand our experience, especially what it’s like to be on nostr.<br/><br/>I love nostr AND it’s challenging to be here because it feels like (again, from my perspective) another man’s world; built by men, for men, that only men will truly benefit from (if you feel defensive after reading that, you may want to self-reflect on why). <br/><br/>I understand the purpose and updates being made consistently. But without some type of protection from the /harassment/hate, I just can’t see nostr expanding the ways it’s envisioned. <br/><br/>I appreciate the men on here that have been kind to me and have my back. You’re the only reason I’ve stayed 🫂 <br/><br/>And please don’t come for me, I’m tired today 😂<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note18yj7n9w9sz2w6qurttjszzrr5qq4qdyg4xv7f9naz7tt2xa4qc2qqdyql0" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note18yj…yql0</a></span> </div> I'm tired of the crazies chasing women off of Nostr.<br/>This place doesn't need to be a sausage fest. That is your choice, anon. </blockquote> 2024-04-01T16:33:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst76sqf6595ncvhwyn30zcu4a78gut3ag7a047skg86x98eszu0nqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujnlnq0c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgd3zmq8f672d57p5tsmuqutyytw52tseewr9cakppy2vp0fdczxc0sans9'>nevent1q…ans9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😂😂😂 2024-04-01T11:44:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs85ajpgtfzmt5v6qhkhl0qrlchz4aafnm6en4zj8jqvv33wy6587czyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj9eq6ef In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2ewyd3x6sz39m03637dng6nk9ze3708swgrun9v6dguhxjd23d4skg9a5z'>nevent1q…9a5z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Interesting! 2024-04-01T11:44:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvdlww4x738et7ykc2s9yxv54t55a53jhmz24fkcdka0r7w9nlfwczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujsw32f5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv78rn0q2k8dhqhel22tm0aqf2dm694v7x9g3mk378d66wllh5a3swm4nax'>nevent1q…4nax</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I delete it ALL 😂 I know people that keep everything too. 2024-04-01T11:43:57Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdp06f4e06ap55d0j8q3fxeedf08d6grf35fat4kw2ry2ut4jea9szyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj27ktrt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs90nm8vy2jx4u680cgtmnqfsl6y2uu6hmpy7rm2q0upmdpwx3mdmc53ggum'>nevent1q…ggum</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Maybe 😂 2024-04-01T03:18:08Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsva5vmxaftx7y4hn7r7nf9wzndhufkmtpnfunfnhx20hesxdnjq4szyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj7hz3qs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2wh5e96fnpd8q603hpwq75j6szc6n7k4px842jgev78ygjs6z3ug4dgv0z'>nevent1q…gv0z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Right 😂 I don’t take it as a compliment lol 2024-04-01T02:51:17Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsygwqctd7ts9y5n4cknux2sk5tycw7j00j57dfrh5cgeydmct5gzqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujeljdtp “That’s part of the human condition, always wanting desire. But that is often not organic.” 2024-04-01T02:49:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0tfe5mtsqplqlkuj9aa6dtr5gaudugh7j0q9yr9lezwj57uq727szyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujnnh4rx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgvn76zsk9wv8vd9t54sck3sunxxjw7c5s5aw5xn0794s3fxm3zegchasnu'>nevent1q…asnu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>YES 🙌🏻 2024-04-01T02:38:55Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx4yflh07f4n5zz8p3nuvxsxurq68qte9nk3zrrmmnkuwp05g5zvgzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujkevrtc Is it a guy thing to save numbers of the people you’ve dated? I’ve had guys from MONTHS and YEARS ago message me, even ones I’ve never met!<br/><br/>If I’m done with you, you’re dead to me 😂 Number deleted, photos deleted, blocked on social media, and if you touched something of mine I clean it or get rid of it if I can. I DO NOT want your energy around me 🤣🤣🤣 2024-04-01T02:26:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqv9ajygwxpj4hqu68sqwslx4q3hmq6y03rzf5jhcz4w3pahhsdaqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujmpg5ly In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvvuujg0ey3p33v3ecc5839xfr7e2p2rwlf42tfg5f5szr5pvmvycfkyzjh'>nevent1q…yzjh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😂 My rabbit holes turn into hours and hours and forgetting I need food/water and have responsibilities🤣🤣 2024-04-01T02:19:45Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz70lfglnaa4ralczzc6gx23nj9h9crpncm9qav2f2ynhve9wapmszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujwgtu8m 10:10 2024-04-01T02:10:47Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9rvqedap3qy9907s0kdgkv0egewqufnwyndchu5qm73rsz3sdygqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujl0w26s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz6nuxzn6kkye3zp7u6c7cyu2l9jprc5x69m9lgh2xpm2g3p72g2svc382u'>nevent1q…382u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😂 ChatGPT saves me every week hahaha 2024-04-01T02:09:49Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdttm20s3048wffrav2x7vdrucps4lfzkeyl3seh6han66jhr3vwqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj7v6xdm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswdzp8xkcj7muk4l2qvqnjxv8hadrqxmjqlx049ww3l9wxxk8yudq9zl72l'>nevent1q…l72l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I read this the other day! 2024-04-01T02:07:12Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdgsu9cvfjkvsm8kcgthwd6vnfnyfz7mkpqkysvp0zcald8epdwzszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujv3fugp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswqp4fdgjqhp4lehntulm8qm4zrdrs2ce3hv073n2rk0jksxfhascgegfmz'>nevent1q…gfmz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Welcome to being a woman attracted to men 😂 2024-04-01T01:52:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2y4x6u7h6sh67y8kyzmndnkxcmuqfkv8qq8fkya46087efgapmfszyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujvv0tr9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvg6wk756u3stdklws8f309gz9pqd52jf8elkr4qdejz0d7detkcgma665f'>nevent1q…665f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😎😎😎 2024-04-01T01:35:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvlculp6myj2y2m64xls5w6gdyvm04l20utpk7qlu25hnnfcgyftqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujal200p In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd3pxlyahglk0dhu90cnq8jru6g95uk8fygdhqm6n7sg9rw4k33jq5lpkkc'>nevent1q…pkkc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🫂🫂 2024-04-01T01:35:31Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspl7qutrqnnncqgnqgyax77vt9nl8aghqtlg3eeh48xaxskntj8kczyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujhd56s7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2ffgxessg2du8vgmawfxavuhzkftjxzgcsdjg5shkfa7nq8texugq4nllk'>nevent1q…nllk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I may have to! 2024-04-01T01:21:08Z