2026-07-28T01:40:34Z https://nostr.ae rowan {forest witch} https://nostr.ae/npub1mkk0he4yre69xz4j5dprny2w5kh9vfx0jvsajawuarm5k8au3yfqdtm7gj https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/accounts/avatars/111/614/113/371/637/646/original/f23caf4e00f33546.jpeg https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/accounts/avatars/111/614/113/371/637/646/original/f23caf4e00f33546.jpeg https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfrh7l4s2fna3x4cr6tyf5qx92nq3pfwzfgg757y8qjqdc6ssvgpszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yw4ga04 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9f6ddqawq3z65emua2tr6mhnccxwhgvjfvkykech23l3mhp38p7c5rf75g'>nevent1q…f75g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>:reads this whole thread about being stealth, the costs of it, the allure of it...:<br/><br/>I&#39;m nonbinary. Visibly so. Ain&#39;t no stealth option for me.<br/><br/>I can stealth when I have a mask on (and do, partly for disease reduction and partly for ease of moving through the world). Without it, not a bit. But stealth was never my goal, as much as it can be a safety. 2025-09-22T02:58:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdecjzqgslvkva4gzxw0yd92yp0g62vjj8vu0y0u3gggfxumyqacgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yxhnsny In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9qfx4uaj0al6y42kksfz4cdrxwhx2jg2gd7qfkm7mnk50fd7rt4cfjljh9'>nevent1q…ljh9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>clearly, also, that it didn&#39;t fit in the dishwasher. 2025-08-11T17:48:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsweevrytefgt5vcreum3350p2s44la5xfqaaqr53nxnud7a799lmszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y87m3tg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy7tfrds83cxrrzlq3g5zxdzrx0zaj84kwu6h5mn8z38hx3rekn3cwnmd9j'>nevent1q…md9j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>looks lovely on my phone! 2025-08-03T15:34:01Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvtlm8mvhm9p2q89y60gjjxs2vkr5lj5qp4q07ap0djutvn080q5czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yhnftsm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsth4g5nuwlgcdc887n7vy9lynay354v655axmy67w62dgrvj6d2ysrt97j8'>nevent1q…97j8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I hear that. I&#39;d consider hip implants or midsection liposuction, but implants would fuck with my aerial activities bigtime, and I have no lipo to suction.<br/><br/>Oh no, I have to buy more corsets. Please Dark Garden, have mercy upon my pocketbook. 2025-07-21T21:55:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf62yzn9a0ck2cf5032agupekd9hwle0yjf5ge2uuc9mkum659ptczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yu39ddy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs206lf6e7yhacu2nkm89yngqg6rvhtkk9qchdkmak3e5uh00gtn8sqgjz6f'>nevent1q…jz6f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>facts. Or hips. I mean, I&#39;ve been getting a tiny amount of hips, but it ain&#39;t enough. 2025-07-21T21:52:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9c2emlu6u8kcl4hq6ruu3w6a0asdmgx77ev38k3vt3d8mah7l9rczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yx45zy2 Nonbinary awareness day, y’all. And it’s been nonbinary awareness week. Just remember, nonbinary folks don’t owe you androgyny, we’re not “women lite” or “soft guys.” We’re not a phase on a transition diagram. Gender is much more than a spectrum, it’s a multidimensional convoluted hyperspace. 2025-07-14T16:02:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0xdddl5vu7lgnxxfe8zfttz54lh7xs3rhkmqx6wruh64kqswf02qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yf9t2g0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdf3t5fqg7wudm06uq8nakw7ygdvz0898k9k489uzps24hgw9hg3s0wnfde'>nevent1q…nfde</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>that IS interesting. In my case, I had a vague sense of what looks good on men, and an even vaguer sense of what looked good on me in a modern masc sense. I had a good sense of what looked good on me in an &#34;escaped from the ren faire&#34; sense. And although I didn&#39;t know it, I had a VERY good sense of what looks good in general on women, and have only had to experiment a little bit to find what of that looks good on me (there were a couple of missteps, but I&#39;ve gotten so many good things). And it certainly is fun finding new things, isn&#39;t it? 2025-06-11T01:10:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0q07v4p8l95u5w9aa4d7vh0ygy0r5rf425jsrtqzz8sl3vqxamvczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ylae7et In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdjr6x7znflk3qrr9dx7gvwwsl8t4vk9mw7h3pyy99nmqpwyxg0pstgnf67'>nevent1q…nf67</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>like me, your fashion sense went instantly from &#34;bland guy clothes&#34; to absolutely impeccable. (I mean, I tend towards a slightly different look, but still.) 2025-06-10T17:27:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqpadqujzzsaeex427wteajs0nxvtsfh3ug9xtudtr03q4eg6zh9czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y64dzuy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfmcznm47mmnruu5emsdpguq4hwf5j799gxsdrqd5cjhxucy9xpfgl6vunr'>nevent1q…vunr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have no idea what I&#39;m looking at it, but I would eat the heck out of it. NOM 2025-06-09T01:57:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvz0rkr54gcwmraklf9qswd3wxzksjuzfc22nc2kt0lpvd7fr5mtczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ysejrgt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq6csk2g339wgx5y6vr9hq6zx6aag2f8rjxynahsvlph7p0t3n0lchh74wj'>nevent1q…74wj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>#HorrorMovieScripts 2025-05-27T17:57:02Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdcnn8vtjnezlq2an3dalhr9f25ru6jpea9n5uh34drzeu0swjfzgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yqca432 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg66gxptgc68ysmcjsxezrcg50ne0lrnuwn5f38rycw24aer94xdgkqvw62'>nevent1q…vw62</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>that&#39;s, em ... that&#39;s something. Hugs and hot tea offered. 2025-05-14T18:38:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd84vjl5xr2z0d82r9drf5tu7mg3xucptzm6ch4fjwyw6ypsp7ggqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yy0dyzg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0hfena6jvenkk70sndxlkvq0kxvkcasatgmdphxl6uvds65mu65c8elfew'>nevent1q…lfew</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🤭 2025-04-28T15:46:07Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqrvxhmsmk702sq3csuhlngp0edva76uj5aq4y6wmat4nxuxvfaxgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y9m43v0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz4z3dapzahuwrdrdsf0etwtgrle0nfqefxfasz4pft6vtm2a07tsv46fzk'>nevent1q…6fzk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>absolutely! We should plan another dinner, or just hang out! 2025-04-09T22:44:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxeze5vg8p0apv4lh5fsmslxcfl9jn0na4r4fr8ehrl9m7kyfjsnczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ygdveqk #RowansMorningTea was, I guess, an anesthesia cocktail, mainlined. Spent a couple hours under, and now I&#39;ve bigger boobs, and wonder of wonders the rocky lump on my neck is barely there!<br/><br/>I&#39;m home now, dozing in and out, having a little food, checking in here and elsewhere. So, so, so happy...🫠 2025-04-09T21:50:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstxjqykpqleatxn979qdckxtnnwe6pqpkmx5u6cf2m78lz4ctl2kszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y89yugx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvuddr6vqwwkhcw70p0sx04908w0avfmz2dm9skvewzup75mc4w7sdwrwf4'>nevent1q…rwf4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>(these are, in fact, things that I have either said to my kid or have heard them and their friends say.) 2025-04-07T21:06:25Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9q3nz44026epayu0fdadgspt65nuvrh2pqauxdqdkrhzwpj67t5qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yt80vy0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd6fmh6y4zmlezf2edfp27j7ndlutjv53d4hxmm756t3lwfts6vzs94acl2'>nevent1q…acl2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The kids behind me were like, &#34;Is that a boy or a girl?&#34;<br/><br/>You&#39;re giving off gender today. 2025-04-07T20:34:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs043znplgngkk6j92f56q6nr3kflxhah5ehkr4gl38wzxzv037kaczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y4959m2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdwa682xnqnzya8udwel7uxa92a2as9c2fnjsmgawxyl6a26a2n4sh4t2mf'>nevent1q…t2mf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>my toxic trait is is that I never follow the recipe. Sometimes I&#39;ll follow a *baking* recipe the first time, because baked things are finicky that way, but anything else, I mash two or three together, omit steps, and improvise. And once I know a baking recipe, I&#39;ll inevitably start tweaking that, too, because all the baking recipes are subtly wrong (well, in reality, humidity and oven temperatures are all subtly different).<br/><br/>I haven&#39;t precisely measured pancake ingredients in *years*. 2025-04-07T04:17:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfhz0crmrvp692t0p50z02m073se9mt3y0h00wu6326qe2tuuzaqczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ycysjfc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrvx80e83ffv75uyqmkuelxfvw5m9s2n4l592ct4kmpsvhtv7a9zcmxe7tq'>nevent1q…e7tq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>this, really, completely. 2025-03-28T20:24:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs00v2ze8gc3ps0c335qsh3v2e7ymshmve7ec25a8w5ggcprvxn6eszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y3jtx0v In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsve8w69r8exta9e85y0yum4d3wkd6emt9gajuaup35d95583jxh0q5wcxrf'>nevent1q…cxrf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>it did. My kid was in circus rehearsals all afternoon, so I had no tether. 2025-02-16T06:07:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspkapf97wy85xyaf4xujsc06apahsmzu49z6pawzxt9a5qualha4czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ysjkrln In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyyqzt7l8nzp78yeajp9zjnvldhd3auqmuql2nn5yctham838wnhswhnc3p'>nevent1q…nc3p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>call me next time, and we&#39;ll go hiking. If that&#39;s your thing. That&#39;s what I did this afternoon to cope. 2025-02-16T05:09:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2tv66y3gcmjvnm886e5eju8f5s04k8fepej6m3tz2jw6r3un48wczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yxa63wf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswrmmsm7rh28rcvg9xyellcf6qugnq6sr4t05a35rcnpc94yfeckc026vra'>nevent1q…6vra</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>EEEEEEEEE! I literally got off the phone and whooped with joy. And scared the cats. 2025-01-17T04:14:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv7qk0vp35jm9jxdgu49hxthpksn5lcm7244fkt730c5gtpper6xgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ythycxq Today as I finished lunch I got a call. Gender Confirmation Center wanted to discuss surgery dates. Friends, I have surgery scheduled for April 9. We still have to wrangle insurance, but this is otherwise perfect timing, letting me get through an aerial rope performance in February and a month of slinging my pro camera and lens around for the circus troupe&#39;s yearly show in March. I should be recovered enough for more light photo work in May and some backpacking in July. I&#39;ll be back in the air sometime in the fall, with my circus physical therapist&#39;s approval.<br/><br/>I cannot express how much of a weight has lifted off my shoulders this afternoon. Even when I haven&#39;t been consciously thinking and worrying about this, it&#39;s been lurking in the background - a need that wasn&#39;t being met, that I had to prod and shepherd along to make sure everything kept up. That part of me can now think about other things and happily anticipate this. 2025-01-17T04:10:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs05ec3e4fhnunhu822tf0k9l9ddaf2xrfspk2029f6zek8zkxhyxqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yup6ag3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0vg0zutt0lu6t7xnar80jl5mwy4xqet0kqd22lkn53f4kf5jxwvsk67c78'>nevent1q…7c78</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>waaaaait, did you say roller derby? 🤩 2025-01-15T05:39:55Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9u7wqksswd40eazy9l6u5yusugrwfcf0jmft0wy0x8d0dfm9309gzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y4ncwmn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswywjhqjz4uejgyqqgu2ghdvfd50gag0lfm543n4zrynjqtp5u00g75nxvd'>nevent1q…nxvd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>...<br/>...<br/>...<br/><br/>NO DILL????<br/><br/>Look, &#34;everything&#34; seasoning is more than just salt and pepper, I don&#39;t care how freshly ground the pepper is. 2025-01-06T22:39:12Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8p8zjtrpngeh5k4h6w9shfvuhwtkut8e9f4xzsqek9q673ssrs7qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y469unv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2hshp2d8w68cpn9fha0s6w7q9kjk4lqr0vyly0qt3epncrg5gwsc8zhd3d'>nevent1q…hd3d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>there are heathens out there that don&#39;t? That&#39;s just wrong. 2025-01-06T22:31:17Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd35snu6kg7rehu6860phn2udmkqcle8gm0t7v3tg2ylspl85kr7szyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y9w5v3p In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2mxpwx07xl70l86makxnj5hralfcatuyptk2vvaah6dlqhujl8rguwkwdj'>nevent1q…kwdj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>protip: don&#39;t use your mouth as a syringe substitute to suck out from the vial or inject. You&#39;re not a mosquito. 2025-01-03T04:05:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszccnktsftkherw8rkj984cs3302zsa9uyt22m89sm00r7xaxhx8czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ymqnxw5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqycznm7zl7qpm49e5gwlq4fyg29skla67qxmzzml7gkcswx0zahslxhfp6'>nevent1q…hfp6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>likewise! (And, honestly, by &#34;meet&#34; I mainly mean here online, because tragically the number of people I&#39;ve met in person is not huge. Growing, but, sheesh.) 2024-12-19T19:04:49Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvfv8j5s9q2kpzuufsxas4xdn0t4ekjeu70pdss70cpx7pyh5facczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y2mgmxc Holy tits, it&#39;s been exactly a year since I quietly slid over here to chaosfem.tw. Sorry, <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1y5d70ttn8g9j35q7qj0nrscg4lrllmadautkprmg0etp8hj3k2ds42ng26" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Caroline Kinlund</span> (<span class="italic">npub1y5d…ng26</span>)</a></span>, I&#39;ve polluted the waters, I&#39;m sure - it was your mild ribbing that got me to move.<br/><br/>What a year it&#39;s been. I&#39;d elaborate, but I don&#39;t have the space, because gosh, all of you all, what glorious people. I&#39;m glad I&#39;m here, and I&#39;m unbelievably glad to have met all of you. 2024-12-19T19:01:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxxffq9h7hnmq7es4f7ryf5c3r84e7dhcf9g9sermm8z362h09x6czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yl7snsl If you want to know how meaningful trans medical care is, let me tell you this: have you ever seen a trans surgeon almost cry when one of her patients expresses their deep, heartfelt thanks for a previous surgery? As they are in the pre-op room for the next surgery? This isn’t just light “oh I have a fancy I’d like this.” Trans care saves lives, trans care builds lives. 2024-12-17T21:34:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq3446ej6xrctu643n5q99ujp6pkf66vp46whg6yu33unen5nfmuczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y95vtwc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx98g23458mneltw0u63hdkalgn4jk7smnxf93stph9lm977e7zgss3x83a'>nevent1q…x83a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>was to blame for that. I think it was actually a banjolele. 2024-11-25T04:11:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfj0ce7rc80hetl8rtxwl7ukzrkkqu7dvdrdh2nnfeu68zcqva0kszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yf97rs3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsplk9kt5ucetm9gmr77d7werc9ccy5puwq25vv3c8j24zk075p5zspj0e5g'>nevent1q…0e5g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I mean, things got a little intense that weekend we rented out a 6 bedroom AirBnB on the river. They had a canoe. Apparently you can fit 7 grown girls in a canoe. Don’t really ask me how. 2024-11-25T03:20:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9dppck7j0qsycfkm3lp7692v3rwnxef3xpfk5zusrx6tvx966p4szyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ys7xuwe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyjlcg3ufeckfewnk0qk5ctcd3sfvzdgzd0wxj3mam0hvgcjlejcgyvfhdl'>nevent1q…fhdl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>{{hugs}} Is beautiful. 2024-11-17T18:27:43Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdpxlrvl6wyepnv67pwr8jkyl0qr8lnw26f9ju509sk8pkas3vd6qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y9xe83p In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxpcfeycva87stvetcpqzn7ss99syyptfz8qv9j2h323mfdqlvy6gqyx45z'>nevent1q…x45z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>maybe I should take the day off and bake cookies. That&#39;d definitely be better than whatever it is I&#39;m doing. 2024-11-05T17:47:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz3w83sxftelwky9clzj77ewtwy347g4emqe84wx8w7w2cmfuy8ggzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ymuqj2r In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs924peulthdqq5nprdrge2yw8l7k8q2chgq803ltqsrq2f6e9muhsc3jjga'>nevent1q…jjga</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>funny, my kid, a circus nerd, ALWAYS does that. 2024-10-31T05:25:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq3jd6qnchsx638cklns7dy2tw5rgec9vuuf8fwrqhqp46ehv3s4gzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ymqwkzv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs97kfy2jl77467f847j4hmjv87mh9stu9vlphdyzxcjggjcd90kdgkasptl'>nevent1q…sptl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>um, so. Like. My partner’s day job is looking at some of this exact stuff. I do believe that someone she was working with was looking specifically at building a train over one of the bridges. Not sure what the status of that project , though. 2024-10-31T05:19:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2vz5jaw65z6qahmd6u0je43etjaxmlhsaqpheepytlhxl7e6mrhqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yemxpe4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxdsgkwyll4nl3daf4n3ms9xuh005s64cthzduedxeawfr66fr3ycugl2rg'>nevent1q…l2rg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>omg, it’s a good thing I didn’t see this when you posted, otherwise I would have gotten no work done today! Tomorrow is shot, though. 🤣 2024-10-31T05:15:36Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8gajcw8x9kn3pf2km5ac27lkm96dcml5gh07wghk689x2vdchq8qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yplxla2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr27e3pchaf3hv66k32wjwv4puajyzcg6wcerguaqlty8nxdmkvcgddrmqw'>nevent1q…rmqw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>estrogen, tea, an aerial rope and a bag of flow toys, a camera, and several pounds of glass rods. 2024-10-29T21:05:12Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0c7x3wrvcx7r5k94txrxjfpv4u5ecl8frxyfxspyt69ak3flm4aqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ydd3h4w In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdyu9r984nyclz5lmtle8hx9gxfk6q6sfe88pcz0hx4yhdewzqvsg4sn8jg'>nevent1q…n8jg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think you read the plans in my secret notebook. Well, except that I want to be hot, too. 2024-10-26T01:50:58Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswg3xyxt3ts9z68n74nhyhl7njva3rcc84kkld3c493h8ame0n82qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yy0zvyg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9qhr58flka9sydtjxae62erp36hy6v0ueuw73zqrn3sursvjtnfghfjmzg'>nevent1q…jmzg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>awwesoommme socks! I&#39;m so glad! 2024-10-25T23:16:11Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2dd7n63nupu8lukenddwp7uepg27tte8pmaaezpgrhzld5r7hetczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yhgel5h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8k4yegcgaa6x27lzqm2hd5g38qk95xkqj8kvrjpctxqf3475wfwcm8m9qd'>nevent1q…m9qd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>nerding out time, indeed!<br/><br/>And then we can go dancing. 2024-10-22T17:43:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvf6ndrmhqhjt25wq6k0ej9e80xsfxnsvjll4ywz9ma05aj3wyqeczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ysqt84c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2lev5kwz5jghkq58lz8gvct9n87h0w0mds767uaajwrhkyjrjrqqk5j6ek'>nevent1q…j6ek</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I spent a good class with it. I so wanted to go on to groundwater flow modeling, but I ended up with a more general environmental degree. I also tried to rewrite it in C++. I was mildly nuts. Was. 2024-10-22T17:36:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvpxvg9jgxevz4zyxgnyeczx85rhq9wxct3laztd7u782jfzrj40qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y7k4lj5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxphy8jcqfmr7hyhv2p44a70q0gukk5gyzfzfp9455nexp826ck2qzycs74'>nevent1q…cs74</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>say hello to MODFLOW for me. It&#39;s been a hot minute since we got it on. 2024-10-22T17:34:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsflgazrzmfcn2epta866pj36j2n6csev05m640n0uz0wwy9pa95yszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y8agw0h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspt2cs0cwtq7h6nax8q4mascefxfmgn6tmp0ahy5fjrdsr9hgylrg3z258x'>nevent1q…258x</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>always good. But also - don&#39;t offload the emotional labor of figuring out what would be best onto someone who&#39;s already out of cope. 2024-10-22T15:15:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsw86dgwcgjhtc8glkjtzk0w6za3xmyc9nxf2takptkrmmh9su8agqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y3ukd35 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqa2tvkqg8huex0f4nr2fxmp724mnnga5nscust0marfyvk583wqcaafwlj'>nevent1q…fwlj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>this, right here, is why FFS, or any gender affirming procedure, is such a personal thing. The rest of us look at you and see stunning woman, and no matter how loudly we yell it from the stands, the brain won&#39;t see it. I hope you get your date, and I hope it&#39;s soon, and you will be even more stunning, somehow. 2024-10-22T03:21:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrrjy6ngr4dz05kmaaly4zelsuu66egnhhsgtk5gclkz8z2s872mczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y53sa7e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxtuv0cd3ecpu0fqjl8mn8mntckpj309w5jlvkh55ug6qrszkeuqcdcq8lt'>nevent1q…q8lt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ooof, that’s not cool. I haveta admit, I mostly run with the circus and adjacent crowd, and the parts I know would not put up with that for a second. 2024-10-21T03:19:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr8avrunrr8tyahc2d3js6xq0gqvh3m8vz2866xje3llje98tlgjczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ylgaxpz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst8k9epjqdlfxwqz35rmwcgfl3ytsfz8h29rdx4sretu6dfea7p9gvd6ltd'>nevent1q…6ltd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ugggghhh. I love a lot of the drag I’ve encountered, but I also admit it’s largely been in the Bay Area queertrans community, and here it’s really welcoming, and the layers upon layers of non-cis queerness are great. But that ain’t everywhere. 2024-10-21T02:28:58Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs27d35ug2m54xhpum7mkg4kt4wtugpvey4wvtxhnaacjezcqhyc8czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yj93qgr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq9a9n35ndpapdhqusfmwndfwdzqu0r3p6w4qx47ah44zc9zkeq3sycd2zk'>nevent1q…d2zk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’ve always been a morning person. I try not to be annoying about it. 2024-10-20T19:11:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsya7krf4ydpdztwtwqqyml4ay02jd3xn6q9qm9slr8t57e7qpsgwszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yknw4u4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsypjds6s7t06c6pukqzrarxc7r0q7g3vla5685g8dg2yrgk5q6mmc8lr07t'>nevent1q…r07t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>nobody: …<br/>me: gender overflow! 2024-10-14T00:21:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqq09f56jpk3wmurnj7q4nnrkmdm0ue33pkhwve25rj7h39w0eruczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ygtjh6h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf6e486wlkj9tjvpmrhz9ju9cj8frxt5vuh5mpjdp3axfqg5u462ss6l9xj'>nevent1q…l9xj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Muppeyaanisqatsi 2024-10-13T06:21:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst0jt2k63332yu9f5dstkewueplcv0xxwtnyahk2psjuqkhrvarpczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yhvkrjr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9gdq05hcqrfq5y6y6d8rjm37dhy0vkwfxa6m3mtqnw5nx6afuc7gc2k7gz'>nevent1q…k7gz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the water&#39;s warm! (Well, sometimes it&#39;s smokin hot...)<br/><br/>We keep luring people in, don&#39;t we? The sirens of chaosfem... 2024-10-08T03:38:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspd0q2zl9jr22y3p4fz88wn8256r8lw9nqng8ae8ls3ujyv0lzrmqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ypqk2r9 Browsing Instagram and it pops up a thing saying I could chat with AI characters. They suggest: Therapist, Relationship Coach, Attractive Nice Girl, and Deadpool.<br/><br/>I hate this timeline. 2024-10-05T17:57:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqz7mldv2p9pwndnuy5lhjwyvsxen0haphcnqay87cdqrqsevz02qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ylq962w In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspsv7k9t7ucjquml75pppa74euhr5flefjcaejrvg786gsre7sefgwwzw98'>nevent1q…zw98</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I do future me a favor by extracting the brown sugar lumps whenever I use it and just eating them so that what&#39;s left is easy to spoon or pour.<br/><br/>[@elilla](<a href="https://transmom.love/@elilla">https://transmom.love/@elilla</a> ) 2024-10-02T20:24:03Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspcqufg4250emjkhf4c0lu6nxfax3qfftfl5rvcka853yxfdwus2czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yexhpq2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr57rh98tpun4ln0fhduajfjupmq9cc7t2ra7xntmcw8hu0pwnm9qjm8tny'>nevent1q…8tny</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>that’d be a really great anatomy lesson! 2024-09-29T01:23:01Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsffp0qrw8glkxtvydhyz7clyl8z5d6sun9t3nlpznm7p7f2k49h6szyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ydn0nl3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdw95sv30gx2vgzc74k85en78k6ur3w4u2u6g309plrsuz4udk29swvdxd4'>nevent1q…dxd4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>that’s just really cool in my book. 2024-09-29T01:06:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswfrl56w2mvp9mfce9680ft6xurl2rrndt42keajfpglkc83z5d9qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yf9j937 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd5zp6cppjd04pn9vz0x330d5gtg9pg7qp704sa9wf4z7xsyqkyushz72py'>nevent1q…72py</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>my middling fiddle playing would *definitely* suffer if I were to meet up with the both of you. 2024-09-20T23:13:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswzajepj83hzan96pzh48tzc2vlhznt2fd8a8nautk7wemjcpypfgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y3gxzn2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg5ppj5eg2zcjzc03g7v3xr40ak872yqu3g4zrrw4l6xq4x35d4zgf5j4mw'>nevent1q…j4mw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ok, now I&#39;m curious about when new style can tabs got widespread. I collected the old style for a while - I found them all over in the dirt and bent them into a shape that could sort of clip to the brim of my hat. That stopped being a thing I could easily do somewhere in the early to mid 90s, although I can still every once in a while find a juice can style old tab (the soda/beer can style is long gone, somehow). 2024-09-16T04:08:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqste7utfcwwagtym673vt6e0fukl090f7e0xed8ptw7ckl2a5f0axgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ylknsml In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxfh5ehlct6fvz5dqfq345mzen2gll0ss0gqcsav698w2xn02le9cm03wg2'>nevent1q…3wg2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>me: *glances at Tilly, nods* Shall we? End her, that is? 2024-09-14T22:28:38Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrn8u25wqdxxu3lwuynzj5073p3ngykpdwd69l644e3nzpfkxktkszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yl4ymt5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy6h3nrtxj7qcaydxefw3yuvk3dtx8zkhsmtuelkt8hvwzt5a7jaqgvxmjj'>nevent1q…xmjj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the “kinda” and the “sometimes” are doing a lot of heavy lifting here. 2024-09-11T13:40:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstt0x2ve2rvtyptxshrpjp5j7q7ckxtl0ygp5qtf09kxt6rls4scqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y603srj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs885s2edamtq4dd89g05l5ayj34hufw0cykpd2c5y8x735yns5a7q7pefzh'>nevent1q…efzh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>there&#39;s this one pot I don&#39;t put in the dishwasher because it hides a pint of water in its handle. Its handle is small, so I don&#39;t even know how it gets a pint in there, but it&#39;s ended up all over the kitchen floor. And my socks. 2024-09-10T22:27:17Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfmlg8hzvrrqq0kd3ud4wgq86h72hx6e6p6l7dpcf6c9pgwfxz2lczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y4sedjk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxkhtt56yqz83q7rdwy4xwvcw5fef3ynqppv84nqnwzgkrjpamcwch8g6ak'>nevent1q…g6ak</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>that’s legit. Male ponytails are at the bottom back, female ones are higher up. Apparently. 2024-09-05T22:01:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstyck033m2vuq6fz8h6tt5v2hhfjsxpn72z0nsmet3yspw750vhtszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yufv9qy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvr4mcckrtx46autd7cpljdwf5n57yqnrjjunk5v94aqu6yly8vfsezkr3q'>nevent1q…kr3q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>so many different colors. When I first started making seashells I tried to stick to natural colors, but quickly went off those rails. They&#39;re so much nicer when I give them completely fantastical colors. 🥰 2024-09-01T03:46:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszk6mxtuhr9yg0sr7x7awvueqde7tlcpadz48smh8wgqthp34lwjqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ykwpmw0 So here are three of the things I made yesterday flameworking. Seashells are one of my favorite things to make, they have just enough variation to let me be imperfectly creative, and they show off the colors nicely. These are each about three inches long, and they&#39;re using the new glass colors I got earlier in the summer.<br/><br/>I also made a bunch of little acorns and some leaf ornaments.<br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/060/090/052/503/989/original/eec68f81ba1d32e5.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/060/090/158/041/169/original/ba0305d46bbf1d15.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/060/090/240/137/073/original/e334abd652633ee9.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-09-01T03:15:07Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxre0l7xe4uunwpa43m3caj0qpjf3uengnvcd6620r2vu623xpcdgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ywk8n7q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs07flzlqspgwkwz356ym3c4w64wxns5ztg3n4cdd2lz0mhjyg9aagqt0ev5'>nevent1q…0ev5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>And this is what I look like after a day of sitting behind the hot torch as the sun comes out and warms everything up.<br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/053/432/757/341/720/original/7a130c1da16d62d7.jpg"> <br/> 2024-08-30T22:57:37Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs07flzlqspgwkwz356ym3c4w64wxns5ztg3n4cdd2lz0mhjyg9aagzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y2k6ycx Haaays guess what I’m back on my bullshit in the glass studio! I’m finally making time again. The last time I was making anything, I made a special pendant for a special someone in March. Now I’ve got a craft fair in December to prepare for, and I’m gonna see what these new glass colors I got do for seashells…<br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/052/186/939/906/525/original/a33c83e1d2d53669.jpg"> <br/> 2024-08-30T17:41:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswdm9wjcsd4mw75eszz9e9krngtv3pcyanx2n25jnxfazkcawcxeszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ydt372g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswl3rjlm37yap6e23uym6sdxfa4760mt55w3c9tuwpds2pzyuxsrstvyd6q'>nevent1q…yd6q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I remember that. 🤭 Just about made my day. I think I said something similar right back. 🤩 2024-08-26T16:51:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyu9apy80exx0jdgq90s8frrasrwt8aew2llcg26tpcp6pzgsrv8szyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y94r5mt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrmuavwz4eggg6urr6ewxngva99ardn968ynm9mkpfrzu629utffge40250'>nevent1q…0250</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>you’ll be even happier when you see it in person and realize it’s a very light red… 2024-08-26T16:42:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsthhrlwpzhm76g0c9w4gj7sf3k4aea22hadnpm9guzplnca8qr20qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y85v8q3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdks64tckfnnkkw40ac650hmtu735crxeg4hywawgg6smyw0surqspvvu79'>nevent1q…vu79</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>sorry, did you say hair? I got lost there for a moment… long, short, curly, wavy, straight, green, dark, silver, I’m here for it… 2024-08-26T16:18:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstn0aktxnt6eum6q69aqtrax8e66qx0sw7hvkdwayr5r20napde9czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yxe3zzf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs269z4k6fxzyy9ck4hu3vkqrxf24qq455tdcy9gj9kjj8ha0mr02gg4t2wd'>nevent1q…t2wd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>aahhhh, is *that* why there are so many crashes around you? 2024-08-24T01:13:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy5hwwpxe8jdxdu5xhzwwnd3fpm9f3sc7jc9dthfe62mqzjzuav5qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yq2eg0f In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvkmmr67jknje0vhqpf28kwy09e50eve0glp0uzg97lv7kc8ax5mg7p6yld'>nevent1q…6yld</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>goth Jessica can can step out of that mirror and do a ritual if she so wants. 2024-08-24T01:00:22Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz4fwqpcex4v58kamzcmnfdy72fcrhts7d3k7yd3lyptafjkvmw3czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y8vr8t0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9xg53q3kugdhrw723dsm50dajvk5uuuuh35l3htdrd2mwkkl8fzq9h55wp'>nevent1q…55wp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>you be good to that guy, k? She&#39;s got some life ahead of her, and she&#39;s gonna need a hand holding now and then, but she&#39;ll make it through splendidly in the end. 2024-08-23T21:19:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszpddysfeemwml3809jc85t976y0cvd7sgke5ledtpzy39r3l74dczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y2uzhrp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstf522tjplar8q7kt3nnr2r66fpxax0cl3atq94vgv62mwatfvqdqhhq6x2'>nevent1q…q6x2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>like, you can&#39;t even get that by adjusting the temperature and tint. wtf. 2024-08-23T03:03:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgzdjmt7cqjvg5dn96mmqhq95638rpls4a9vhc34df4f3cmkkcmgqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ywel0l0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8yf7xfjgje9hf33nexkcld67t2macs04ygkaxp0au4jz7k6gt9mgwx7af9'>nevent1q…7af9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>it works, but yeah, I think a dangly would work better with the low neckline. It&#39;d work wonders with the grey shirt up there. As Caroline said, feeling vaguely faint at the thought... 2024-08-23T02:50:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspx0k3raxxvvnffgh8tvd3j5v27ycguywlqnndp0dljm2prs2fnlgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ycq4rcm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0nmtwzestff99u923uc96t8cjsc9zp4942luw6nk2tj5r63cxnkqqcyd55'>nevent1q…yd55</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>joyously radiant! 2024-08-17T05:13:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0mqyc9ytmq9hek4u832wmfwprsm7v0gq2y5w7xum9t52versl72gzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yn4fzz8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqpvmmn0ee8cy2hauqyxzaz3ml6zp5y9y9qpp6va76s5zeh9tp3kgpm27zz'>nevent1q…27zz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>going to the beach and sauna on a whim with the kid to meet our circus friends for the afternoon. 2024-08-16T16:06:08Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqj9qz6t5jp67ps5yjmvd33ehz5c8e544d2px9dll2d4aw28jpdtczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yg3sxf7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswkxqegnf8u5l5yqf9wzg4zq03lxxlwu6rft3ezugwha6saq6mvvgtytadf'>nevent1q…tadf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I absolutely love dandelions and have refused to mow them down. 2024-08-16T15:57:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8ga6qel4kt92q6ad009cy9a98nuq2gyw2nnmshca2x2w9zwkvgfqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y5n4882 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrfz03hcdv04ldx77723n6pqv906kg4xp2laplhyp5kf9gfnkwmtglu7gdk'>nevent1q…7gdk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This one weird trick of changing your background will make all your selfies pop. 2024-08-12T22:34:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8m6utqjg7w98fwctjaau25wflxs9x7eq5tm5grrk8kvdvtff02gszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yx2s63y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyd7xz0gkh3xkgecmkgn224wlsrgaetkcm6q2phcwktyuupmwrhgq9ra5al'>nevent1q…a5al</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I am waiting to hear the ear splitting, boob rumbling drone of amazingly mixed musicality emanating from just a little southeast of me... 2024-08-12T06:00:57Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9w877zuz6havwn768vks9y5n37hclw64p3756f3rl63neq2cevsszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yt2eftw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspj7tmtz55k4kcjf2j6330sdu0qrfqa6sy6l5xkymmpd4zm8yuwkgfprs46'>nevent1q…rs46</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Caroline. Caroline.<br/><br/>CAN YOU BE ANY MORE TRANS IF YOU TRIED??? 2024-08-12T05:19:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqsrggf5xx8mg00t7zt569c9wmm09428g6ayhtems3xgl83gmj5hgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yc08xyh Oh, and speaking of running my act, hey local Bay Area peeps, the Summer Circus Celebration is barreling down on us, and I’ll be performing this act THIS FRIDAY (yikes) evening. I can’t do dinner before, call time is 4:15, but I’d love to see people there - the act is not so secretly dedicated first and foremost to all the trans people I know. Doors at 7, show at 7:30, and if you don’t come for me, come for the absolutely stellar lineup of circus artists who will also be performing (seriously, why did Kate put me right before Joey?!?! No pressure!!!)<br/><br/>Tickets here: <a href="https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/6346878">https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/6346878</a> 2024-08-07T14:14:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0cwdrq64v2uk83ra5xgtww5rtuszylpyexullprgl86detrckqfqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yyptvua In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxtp6ncftpcqnpwjxzdhgqlyagdkwy8unl56cq8zhu7emghrqhauqs2tdmp'>nevent1q…tdmp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Wilderness Lesbian<br/><br/>Seriously, no one else ever walks these mountains, but her she is, hot, sweaty, trail dust on her clothes that simultaneously look worn by miles and meticulously perfect as they hug her. You exchange pleasantries like any trail encounter, but you&#39;re going the same direction and she matches your pace, falling into a quiet, easy conversation. Hot afternoon winds towards evening, and you come to a little stream, both somehow deciding it&#39;s time to stop for the day, collect water.<br/><br/>It&#39;s only over dinner (wtf, did she actually make her own dehydrated pad thai?!) that you notice the cuff on her right ankle, and as you watch the sunset over the distant mountains you slip a finger through the D ring. Then, as the stars come out you lead her over to your tent - just big enough for two, if they&#39;re cozy. And you&#39;re cozy. Trail dust and sweat and more mingle.<br/><br/>Note, this is only mildly not autobiographical... 2024-08-06T00:28:37Z