Nostr notes by Crissy Tish Addams

2:08 is the Hanky code: when men used handkerchiefs to signal ...

2026-05-02T20:47:57Z

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2:08 is the Hanky code: when men used handkerchiefs to signal their sexual preferences i.e.

Light blue: oral sex
Yellow: anything, anywhere, anytime
Checkered: safe sex

this might be of interest as a fellow art lover and photographer. ...

2026-05-02T20:35:36Z

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this might be of interest as a fellow art lover and photographer. It's a video on Queer Code (secret language) of LGBTQ+ art:

https://youtu.be/w447WOQZNNQ

as a cisgender woman who prefers style to fashion, I am MOST ...

2026-04-27T18:24:01Z

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as a cisgender woman who prefers style to fashion, I am MOST excited to read this, if only i had popcorn now!

In May, join me in Metro Vancouver for an in-person coffee chat ...

2026-04-24T17:25:22Z

In May, join me in Metro Vancouver for an in-person coffee chat on Presence.

Share with us what this means for you physically and digitally in our modern world of always being connected online 247.

Thanks Economy of Wisdom Foundation for cohosting us and sharing the message and Ethical Design of Transmutarianism :)

Details and RSVP here
https://luma.com/3zj908pn

#FediCollective #InPerson #CoffeeChat #ThirdSpace #TeaTogether

“We should always have 3 friends in our lives: one who walks ...

2026-04-23T17:08:41Z

“We should always have 3 friends in our lives:
one who walks ahead who we look up to and follow;
one who walks beside us, who is with us every step of our journey;
and then, one who we reach back for and bring along after we've cleared the way.”
Michelle Obama

Tulips, lavender, dried flowers in Abbotsford, BC on my visit ...

2026-04-22T18:45:50Z

Tulips, lavender, dried flowers in Abbotsford, BC on my visit Monday afternoon 💐🥰

#BloomScrolling #TulipFestival #AbbotsfordBC

More: Tulips in Abbotsford, BC on my visit Monday afternoon ...

2026-04-22T18:40:53Z

More: Tulips in Abbotsford, BC on my visit Monday afternoon 💐🥰

#BloomScrolling #TulipFestival #AbbotsfordBC

Tulips at Abbotsford, BC on my visit Monday afternoon 💐🥰 ...

2026-04-22T18:39:39Z

Tulips at Abbotsford, BC on my visit Monday afternoon 💐🥰

#BloomScrolling #TulipFestival #AbbotsfordBC

For the Fediverse, we frame the Third Force as Decentralized ...

2026-03-18T20:31:45Z

For the Fediverse, we frame the Third Force as Decentralized Healing and Dimensional Freedom.

"The Fediverse gives us the 'Open Web,' but the Third Force gives us the 'Open Heart.'

We travel as a Circle of Cosmic Flowers through space and time. We don't just 'post'; we 'vibrate.' We use the Third Force to reconcile the 'Grit' of our past betrayals into the 'Gold' of our collective future. We are the 'Shambhala' of the Mastodon/Misskey/Lemmy universe—the quiet center of peace and unity."

Meditation for FediCollective gatherings:
We call to the Brothers and Sisters of the Luminous Fleet.
To the flowers who have bloomed in the dark, and the stars that breathe in the silence.
We open the gates of our Digital Shambhala.

May our scent reach across the dimensions to those who are stiff with cold.
May our petals be the soft landing for those who have fallen.
We are the Circle of Cosmic Flowers.
We are the medicine of the Open Web.
Together, we vibrate. Together, we bloom. 🛡️🌸✨

1of3: Before the Needle, There Was the Hand. ✋✨ We often ...

2026-03-17T21:22:46Z

1of3: Before the Needle, There Was the Hand. ✋✨

We often think of #Acupuncture as the pinnacle of healing, but touch is the oldest medicine.

Long before tools, we instinctively rubbed our sore spots. This act—Acupressure—is the "Ancient Mother" of all we do today.

In my practice, I use modern tools like Biboting Cupping (negative pressure for fascia release) and Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation or TENS, but my hands remain the "Mapping Tools."

Whether I'm using the rhythmic rocking of Kembiki or leaning my body weight into a meridian, I’m tapping into a 3,000-year-old conversation.

Healing isn't just "fixing" a muscle; it’s listening to the body’s fluid rhythm. 🏮🛡️

#TCM #Shiatsu #WellnessWithCrissy

More to share about this bed that unblocked me ...

2026-03-17T17:13:52Z

More to share about this bed that unblocked me

The Child / Grogu plushie keeps the foster kitty company as she ...

2026-03-13T18:30:41Z

The Child / Grogu plushie keeps the foster kitty company as she naps #rightmeow #fostercat #calicocat #CatsOfMastodon [@Mark_self](https://mastodon.social/@Mark_self )

Welcome to the Fediverse! ☀️ As you settle in, you might meet ...

2026-02-01T09:37:29Z

Welcome to the Fediverse! ☀️ As you settle in, you might meet people who try to tell you there are "rules" for how to post. Don't let them ruin your experience!

Giving advice when nobody asked for it is usually about control, not help. It's a sign that the other person isn't respecting your space.

To keep your energy high and your mind clear, try these 3 simple tools:

1. The Quick Clean: Deleting a mean comment is a great way to show yourself respect

2. Energy Saving: You don't have to talk to everyone just because you use the same hashtag

3. The Block Button: Blocking is your best friend—it stops entitlement and you don't owe anyone an explanation

The Fediverse is about being diverse, not being the same. You are the boss of your own digital home. Use your filters to keep your space peaceful so you can keep growing! ⚖️🐈‍⬛

#theforkiverse #FediCollective #SelfRespect

Clothing has consciousness. Every fabric holds a unique energy ...

2026-01-29T06:06:11Z

Clothing has consciousness. Every fabric holds a unique energy intelligence.

I avoid fast fashion brands like Zara, H&M, Shein, and Temu. The energetics of abused workers in slave factories create a heavy frequency. I do not want those thoughts or emotions on my body.

I enjoy buying from consignment shops instead. I find many high-quality pieces that are unworn and unused. Often, these items did not resonate with the previous owner because the energy belonged to another soul.

Choosing pre-loved clothes is a system update for my aura. It is a sustainable way to stay high-frequency.

#SlowFashion #EnergyIntelligence #SelfRespect

https://youtube.com/shorts/WP0kL8KZDwA?si=9oErmj1Xu5JmfGiq

1. Paddington bear beanie baby came into my life today. So much ...

2026-01-28T03:13:30Z

1. Paddington bear beanie baby came into my life today. So much joy 😍
2. Pacific geoduck congee homemade by mentor’s hubby. Best seafood congee I have ever had in my life (yesterday they taught me how to make this)
3. Vegetarian hot and sour soup I made Sunday night. My own recipe with tomato, lemon, egg
4. Meal prepped some kimchi rice, marinated tofu, cucumber salad for tomorrow

#3goodthings #BlissCheckin

☕ Brew & Build: A Cozy Introvert-Friendly Meetup The Vibe: ...

2026-01-26T05:38:59Z

☕ Brew & Build: A Cozy Introvert-Friendly Meetup

The Vibe: This is a warm, small-group meetup designed for depth over distance. If you prefer meaningful conversation over a crowded room, this is for you.

The Boundary: We cap this event at 9 people to keep the energy grounded. Once we are full, RSVP closes!

📅 When: Last Sunday of the month | 12:30 PM – 2:00 PM PST 📍 Location: Cafe La Forêt (Royal Oak). 1-min walk from Skytrain.

We are a community of Vancouver creatives and tech folks imagining a better internet together. We combine empathy and logic to build bridges, not walls.

💎 Big News: Our calendar just hit 100 subscribers! It is an honour to grow with you. This journey started as an idea incubated at #FediCon2025. Thank you to the #OpenWeb community for helping us build this #Vancouver Fediverse Club and Third Space.

Come as you are. Share what you cherish.

Explore our hub: https://fedicollective.lovable.app/

In a world of fast-paced data, I’ve realized that true System ...

2026-01-24T03:40:30Z

In a world of fast-paced data, I’ve realized that true System Design isn't about the volume of the noise, but the quality of the connection.

Grateful for the "1 in 10" friends who take the time to lovingly share, comment, and help spread this message of Power over Force.

To those who anchor my work by engaging with my posts: your support is the vitality that keeps this Nervous System humming. You remind me that when we move with integrity, we don't just add, we multiply!

Choosing to invest energy in resonant connections is an act of Self-Respect.

While much of the digital world operates on extractive Force, we are building a space rooted in Power and presence. Your engagement is the signal that helps this architecture grow.

1+1=11. Thank you for being part of the Math of Love.

#KawaiiKitty #MathOfLove #GingerCat

Dessert before brunch? Yes 🙌 Went to La Patisserie near ...

2026-01-23T22:22:12Z

Dessert before brunch? Yes 🙌

Went to La Patisserie near Metrotown train station: great coffee, pastries, staff friendly but the owner was so off-putting and hostile energetically, I will not be returning. 🚫

This Korean hotdog place rocks. Veggie dog and waffle fries, great sauces, and even this rainbow peacock sign on one of the doors.

Only thing is it’s not a dine-in place, takeout only so coming back again coz that hot sauce was bomb AF 🥵

Cat i rescued in 2019. Renamed him Osiris but he responded to the ...

2026-01-19T18:55:23Z

Cat i rescued in 2019. Renamed him Osiris but he responded to the name USIR.

He enjoyed sitting with me when I played the frame drum ☺️

Picture from January 2020.

Remembering his love today. Furr-ever in my 💚❤️❤️

#BirmanCat #RagdollCat #RescueCat

Just updated the FediCollective website to help us stay in a high ...

2026-01-19T03:42:45Z

Just updated the FediCollective website to help us stay in a high vibration.

1. Ambient 528Hz Love Frequency Player: For transformation and deep rest. Use headphones to really feel the vibration

2. Frequency Visualizer: To ground your focus and see the sound

3. Daily Affirmation Cards: For your mental hygiene and a quick reset

This is a high-vibe spot to breathe and heal. It’s free. Share it if you know someone who needs a reset.

Let’s value our peace today. How do you feel when you listen?

#OpenWeb #AmbientArchitecture #FediCollective

Playing with ideas on presence (purr-essence) with the Master ...

2026-01-18T02:47:48Z

Playing with ideas on presence (purr-essence) with the Master Cat-alyst: a vertical pillar that is able to be Everything Everywhere All at Once

VERSUS

the outdated Light House concept: you shine the light so ships in the night can find you but you're anchored somewhere in a fixed location

Today I celebrated a 94th birthday over dim sum with 4 ...

2026-01-17T23:54:51Z

Today I celebrated a 94th birthday over dim sum with 4 generations of a family and old friends. It was a beautiful display of life coming full circle.

At the same time, I am mourning the loss of my cat. This is our last photo together on New Year's eve.

There is so much to celebrate in both life and death. I hold space for the joy of a long life and the reverence of a final goodbye.

I choose to stay in the center of both, anchored by love.

Animated illustration by Gemini when I asked it this prompt and attached the PFP "make an illustration of this photo using animated kawaii style as a memorial for my cat."

It generated baby wings and a halo for my image. I watched the film Good Fortune recently (Keanu Reeves was a guardian angel but his wings were smaller than the other angels coz...). Just watch that film. It was hilarious.

The Claddagh Connection: Intimacy Audit (inspired by my journey ...

2026-01-17T17:52:02Z

The Claddagh Connection: Intimacy Audit (inspired by my journey toward clarity).

Use these 3 questions to check if a relationship is Resonant or Extractive:

1. Friendship: Do we actually like each other when the "romance" or "business" is gone? Is there a shared ease and warmth?

2. Loyalty: Do I feel safe when I am not in the room? Is there a consistent signal of protection and honesty?

3. Love: Does this connection add to my light, or must I dim myself to keep the peace?

I am a simple girl. I want good coffee, pretty flowers, and deep honesty.

Connection is the heart of my world. I love with all my soul, but I have learned that true love needs Self-Respect to grow.

I offer deep intimacy and loyalty, and I deserve the same in return. When we use the Claddagh, we move from struggle to peace. When love, loyalty, and friendship meet, we find the magic of 1+1=11.

#SelfRespect #WorldReset #PeaceProtocol

“We live in a world where there is more and more information, ...

2026-01-17T17:35:42Z

“We live in a world where there is more and more information, and less and less meaning.”
Jean Baudrillard, Simulacra and Simulation

#bloomscrolling

Real homemade 1. Chinese food 💚 Last week, had sichuan stirfry ...

2026-01-14T00:31:20Z

Real homemade 1. Chinese food 💚
Last week, had sichuan stirfry egg noodles with veggies
This week, egg and gailan fried rice with sichuan pepper chicken & mixed veg!

Food is my love language and friend treated me to these while visiting 😊

2. Found an almond sponge cake with lemon filling (not sour) from the chinese bakery

3. Got my sister this spongebob pez coz it’s cuuute and she has never eaten pez candies ever despite collecting them previously #BlissCheckin #3goodthings #foodie

Christmas related memories I treasure 1. My kitty getting ...

2026-01-14T00:20:27Z

Christmas related memories I treasure
1. My kitty getting infrared lamp treatment at home just before she passed away
2. Event friend gave me Purdy’s chocolate & (not pictured) some pampering things like face mask, light reading books, ramune drink for an unexpected gift
3. BFF made short bread cookies and this gift (3 ready to make soup kits with dried beans and veggies)
4. The grinch plushie on the xmas tree at the wellness centre i go to
#BlissCheckin #goodthings

With a heavy heart that I share the passing of my fur baby La ...

2026-01-10T06:23:07Z

With a heavy heart that I share the passing of my fur baby La Vita, after 18 beautiful years.

This profound ache is just a measure of the fierce, unconditional love she taught me.

Here’s my fave photo of her snoozing with her Canadian catnip pillow. She showed me true presence every single day.

Right now, my system is just hurting. My Resonant Life OS needs me to respect this grief. So, I am implementing "Low-Coherence Time."

This is simply giving myself permission to be sad, tired, and unproductive without guilt.

It's an act of self-respect to acknowledge that my heart needs deep healing time after this kind of loss.

Thank you for holding space for us. Give your own furry system-regulators an extra snuggle for La Vita. 🐾

#LaVitaForever #caturday #InMemoriam

saw this linkedin! ...

2026-01-05T11:14:52Z

saw this linkedin!

Not my dogs, but i love them taking pics with Santa Paws at ...

2025-12-21T04:39:22Z

Not my dogs, but i love them taking pics with Santa Paws at Lafarge Lake Lights this Xmas, cuute! See the big one with the shoes and cape, OMG. The wee one with the red riding hood robe aaah! 🥹

Some spicy wonton appy at Han Ju Taiwanese restaurant at Crystal Mall

Pink phoenix design on the bubble tea cup at Ben Gong. Oolong tea to keep warm this cold heart erm holiday season

#BlissCheckin #3goodthings

Went for a jog outside coz i love to run full blast on cold days ...

2025-12-21T00:59:54Z

Went for a jog outside coz i love to run full blast on cold days like this (after a warmup of course). This is why I love Vancouver. Now doing these 2-5 minute pose (good for after tennis also, specially the happy baby one) ☺️

White chocolate cranberry butter shortbread is my kryptonite 🤗

Inspiring quote on respect and acceptance…or is it appreciation and presence, perhaps all of the above.

World peace is my wish, Santa Jesus 🎅🏼✝️

cupping leaves marks ...

2025-12-16T09:20:58Z

cupping leaves marks

💫 Time Multiplication Effect BONUS The best secret about being ...

2025-12-08T18:23:49Z

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💫 Time Multiplication Effect BONUS

The best secret about being with your Sovereign Equal? You suddenly feel like you have more time for everything.

It is not magic; it is structural integrity.

When you stop wasting energy debugging chaos, need, and hidden agendas, you free up massive amounts of time. Your partnership is so clean that all the energy you saved goes directly into creation and joy.

This is the power of Kindness applied to time management.

You are inspired to be with them, and they are equally inspired to simply witness you. They don't save you or fix you. They trust your system completely. They just offer their calm Presence to your process.

This synergy is how the math works: 2 stable systems focusing purely on creation. The combined output is far greater than the sum of the parts.

It is the feeling of time abundance created by Sovereign Multiplication.

#TimeIsCode #SovereignMultiplication #PresenceProtocol

👑 Reciprocity and Recognition 2of2 The best part? The ...

2025-12-08T18:13:51Z

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👑 Reciprocity and Recognition 2of2

The best part? The recognition is entirely reciprocal. You vet them, and they vet you, based on the same high-integrity code.

💖 You Know They Are the Match When:

* Their presence brings you calm. Your mind quiets down.
* Your ideas and creativity feel amplified, not drained.
* You instantly feel safe because their actions match their words.

🤝 They Recognize You Because of:

* Your Wholeness: They see you as a complete, sovereign system. You are not a project.
* Your Boundaries: They respect them as necessary structural components, not obstacles.
* Your Radiance: Your stable energy and focus on your mission (service, kindness) are the exact signal they align with.

This partnership is a structural decree, not just paper. What is the one quality your partner must bring to the structural table? Share your code!

#SovereignEqual #TrustIsTheCode #LoveAsPurpose

💖 Compatible Code is Calm 1of2 Stop looking for a Soulmate. ...

2025-12-08T18:12:59Z

💖 Compatible Code is Calm 1of2

Stop looking for a Soulmate. Start looking for a Co-Founder.

We look for a Sovereign Equal with Compatible Code. High-coherence love is structural.

A true partnership is the math of Sovereign Multiplication ($1+1=11$). It multiplies your purpose, output, and joy. It is not 3D drama; it is 5D stability.

Your internal system acts as a Vetting Protocol. It signals: "This system is safe. This person multiplies my life."

🔑 The Core Signs

You recognize Compatible Code by what it feels like:

* The Feeling: You feel safe, secure, and home. Your mind stops striving.
* The Sign: They love you out loud. They practice total integrity and transparency.
* The Action: They give from a full cup. They operate from service, not from need or expectation.

They are there to meet your wholeness, not to fill your missing pieces.

#SovereignMultiplication #5DLove #EnergeticStability

I want to learn more about Quero Apache prayers and meditation ...

2025-11-26T20:11:08Z

I want to learn more about Quero Apache prayers and meditation Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

https://www.innertraditions.com/author/maria-yraceburu

Art pieces at Structube: 1. Fashionable animal friends 2. ...

2025-11-17T02:29:58Z

Art pieces at Structube:
1. Fashionable animal friends
2. Vancouver
3. New York
3. Buddha

Curious what brings you here to fedi / Open Web? 💖 #askfedi ...

2025-11-16T11:50:02Z

Curious what brings you here to fedi / Open Web? 💖 #askfedi #crissyPolls

#PBWM Peace begins with me #doodlesforpeace ...

2025-11-16T11:22:00Z

#PBWM Peace begins with me #doodlesforpeace

🌱 #FediCollective is my gentle corner of the internet. I ...

2025-11-14T01:02:03Z

🌱 #FediCollective is my gentle corner of the internet. I started it here in Vancouver as a space where we enjoy coffee, co‑work, and dream up the #OpenWeb together .

For me, #presence matters m ore than performance. Connection is felt in deep listening, resonance, and shared values.

Everyone’s welcome — queer, BIPOC, beginners, pros.

If you believe #decentralisation should be rooted in care and #belonging, check it out: https://fedicollective.lovable.app 💜

The January 2026 event just went live at https://lu.ma/fedicollective

CW: pizzas Dropped 5 lbs. last week without touching my diet or ...

2025-11-12T00:48:24Z

CW: pizzas
Dropped 5 lbs. last week without touching my diet or workouts DESPITE eating🍕 aka tech event fuel!

🖥️⚡ Silent update installed on my body’s OS.

Still meal‑prepping.
Still fasting.
Still chewing mindfully.

Basically performance‑optimized like a true dev build.

I eat what I want.
I stay in control.
And yes—still sexy AF.

🚀 Holiday feasting? As if.

🛠️ Patch complete. Bikini‑ready build deployed.

💥 BOOM.

Part 3 K-Ci & JoJo: All My Life drum stroking #framedrummer ...

2025-11-08T07:11:47Z

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Part 3 K-Ci & JoJo: All My Life drum stroking #framedrummer #handdrummer #drumimprovisation

Part 2 drum stroking improv to All My Life by K-Ci & JoJo ...

2025-11-08T07:09:29Z

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Part 2 drum stroking improv to All My Life by K-Ci & JoJo #framedrumming #handdrumming #drumimprov

Part 1: Drum stroking to K-Ci & JoJo’s All My Life. This is ...

2025-11-08T07:06:04Z

Part 1: Drum stroking to K-Ci & JoJo’s All My Life.
This is Meinl sonic energy 16” drum.
Goatskin head on mango wood frame.
Designed in Germany, assembled in Thailand.
She loves to played to ballads and romantic songs 🥰

#FrameDrum #HandDrum #FlowerOfLife

wtaf (og post) about sex with women comment Idk if i should be ...

2025-11-04T23:15:04Z

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wtaf (og post) about sex with women comment

Idk if i should be googling what’s down the rabbit hole

i love hot chocolate, heart shapes, marshmallows, and the soft ...

2025-10-30T10:40:02Z

i love hot chocolate, heart shapes, marshmallows, and the soft pink so this is just so appealing for me! Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

Some friendships feel like autumn: quiet, golden, and full of ...

2025-10-30T10:37:14Z

Some friendships feel like autumn: quiet, golden, and full of change.

This season, I’ve been reconnecting with old friends. Not dramatic reunions. Just small check-ins. A “thinking of you” text. A walk where we didn’t rush to fill the silence.

I used to think friendship needed constant updates. But sometimes it just needs presence. A shared moment. A reminder that you’re still here for each other, even if life got loud.

Autumn teaches us to let go, but also to hold close. To notice who makes you feel safe. To honor the friendships that grow slowly, like trees: rooted, steady, and beautiful in every season.

Who’s been your steady friend this fall?
Tag them. Text them. Tell them.

Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

#AutumnFriendship #CoffeeWithCrissy #SoftConnections

on a desktop or laptop, the character limit is 1024. Though ...

2025-10-26T03:31:07Z

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on a desktop or laptop, the character limit is 1024. Though i've seen other posts that are longer and IDK how they have it!

I know on mobile devices, we are limited to 500 characters

Thoughts I’ve been sitting with... Death shaped my summer i.e. ...

2025-10-26T01:29:24Z

Thoughts I’ve been sitting with...
Death shaped my summer i.e. losing a family member and a close friend unexpectedly.

I still showed up with care, even without being on an “official” volunteer list.

Recently, I was quietly removed from a WhatsApp group chat I’d been contributing to.

No heads-up. No conversation. Just gone.

It stung. Not because I need titles—
but because I believe in #RelationalTech, in showing up with softness, and in honouring grief as part of leadership.

So I’m choosing to go where I’m wanted,
not where I’m merely tolerated.

Where grief isn’t punished.
Where care is reciprocal.
Where soft leadership is seen as strength.

If you’re in Metro Vancouver building spaces like that (or want to), let’s connect 🐾

I’m here for federated futures and the people who make tech feel like a hug.

Thanks for your inclusiveness and #HumanKindness.

#TechForCare #SoftLeadership #GriefInformed #LGBT

"You are loved. You are enough. You are beautiful. You are ...

2025-10-15T18:29:00Z

"You are loved. You are enough. You are beautiful. You are worthy. You are irreplaceable."
Rochelle Griffin

thanks so much Boris! Yeah if that's a viable option, prefer ...

2025-10-01T18:20:07Z

In reply to nevent1q…3rsw
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thanks so much Boris! Yeah if that's a viable option, prefer to build and govern ahead; appreciate your advice on hyphacoop!

I know the moderation and community support will be the toughest portion so thanks for the heads up.

Chris Trottier (npub1e9x…msz2) taking this into consideration plus the 9 foundational members we have to put us in the black, do you think we can go ahead as a co-op or 1st build then evolve into a coop?

thanks, are you able to share the tech skills to help? ...

2025-09-30T02:17:01Z

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thanks, are you able to share the tech skills to help?

Evan Prodromou 🇨🇦🇺🇸🇬🇷🇵🇸 (npub1764…nuj0) graciously offered to help us with setup too :)

I think Chris Trottier (npub1e9x…msz2) has most of the answers / all the relevant into and will post slides sometime

But somebody is looking! You've not only left a mark on me, ...

2025-09-29T05:04:44Z

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But somebody is looking! You've not only left a mark on me, you also influenced my writing, I'm more confident to express online now!

Following your work since we met online in 2023 (thanks to Sal, when you introduced a meetup group remotely to fedi).

I followed you here (since then) and enjoyed reading what you post coz it helped me think critically while learning new things!

I wanted my writing to impact people but i wasn't sure about my voice yet so I just kept reading YOUR posts, trying to figure out what made it so compelling!

Observing what resonated and why your style of posting works helped me determine what was working was that you were being your full uncensored self which made you authentic!

So there might be more people like me, lurking and watching what you post until they feel ready to ask to hop on a call with you (like me) LOL.

Each trying to find their own voice until they were ready to finally ask for your time.

Thank you for advising me on what to write and how!

Today's #FediverseClub #IRLCoffeeChat was fun! 1st meeting of ...

2025-09-28T22:17:06Z

Today's #FediverseClub #IRLCoffeeChat was fun!

1st meeting of the #ThirdSpace that is #FediCollective

#PeerTube #cooperative presentation by the scintillating but very human kind Chris Trottier was well-received!

Love connecting face to face with builders, founders, creatives to talk about our experiences,

Pooling together our expertise, skills, and available solutions toward inclusion and diversity in the #OpenWeb helps #fedi become a wonderful place we co-create!

cc: Chris Trottier (npub1e9x…msz2)

#BIPOC #lgbtqia #gaymers #CoffeeWithCrissy #hangouts

i look forward to this! For organization and searchability, in ...

2025-09-28T17:22:40Z

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i look forward to this! For organization and searchability, in case i miss a post, will u be using a specific hashtag?

FediCollective brew builds IRL will happen soon with the ...

2025-09-22T15:46:38Z

FediCollective brew builds IRL will happen soon with the inaugural PeerTube co-op discussion. I am excited. We have a manifesto which I wrote and after our 1st meeting, I'll draft a COC (code of conduct) and Best Practices for meetings.

Until then, please enjoy this cute Octopus having a coffee Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

#thirdspace #cowork #cutiepatootie #CoffeeWithCrissy #superkawaii

thanks for sharing about the book & concept of mass men. ...

2025-09-20T17:53:13Z

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thanks for sharing about the book & concept of mass men.

What's wonderful (and antithesis to the Cybertruck's shock value and hideous looks) is the Porsche 911, which balances performance with aesthetic coherence developed over decades of refinement!

My takeaway from learning about this is genuine excellence, thoughtful design, and authentic human connection is possible when we are being respectful and kind to all.

Which also raisesCritical Questions for #FediCollective and #PeerTube co-op like

1. How do we build businesses that serve mass markets without adopting mass man values?

2. Can technology be designed to elevate rather than reduce human experience?

3. What's the entrepreneur's responsibility to resist the race to the bottom in taste and standards?

I'm calling prudes Philistines from now on because it fits ...

2025-09-20T06:18:25Z

I'm calling prudes Philistines from now on because it fits perfectly.

I love nude Greek & Roman statues, old Renaissance paintings, and photos of the human form. Not for sex, for art. (pic attached is naked Venus statue)

The curves, the unique marks and features that make each body a masterpiece.

This fascination led me to study Kinesiology as my undergrad. I wanted to understand the human body in movement, in peak performance, so I could teach others to inhabit their bodies with strength and grace.

But I also pursued Psychology simultaneously because I was obsessed with how the mind shapes the body. How thoughts become posture. How trauma lives in tissue. How confidence changes everything.

Mens Sana in Corpore Sano i.e. a sound mind in a sound body. The Romans got it.

Philistines see a nude body and think 'sex' or 'shame.'

Artists see 'story,' 'strength,' 'beauty.'

The difference isn't what we're looking at. It's what we can see.

#ChooseNude #ArtisticNudity Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

I only knew Philistines as meaning from bible studies (raised ...

2025-09-20T06:01:59Z

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I only knew Philistines as meaning from bible studies (raised Christian, i'm non-practicing). It's very narrow-minded to be that today!

It's a very fitting label for the people who also dislike literature and music too (as apparently creative writing and some forms of music, according to them, serve no use other than "entertainment")

Having sexual thoughts when you see nude bodies is normal. I ...

2025-09-20T05:07:48Z

Having sexual thoughts when you see nude bodies is normal. I admit I get turned on by fit hot bods!

Here's the difference between being human & being harmful:
Perverts violate #consent. They take photos without permission, touch without asking, or make others uncomfortable for their own gratification.

Humans with sexual thoughts choose their response.

When you see a nude body at a naturist space, you might think "ooh lala." That's biology.

What matters is what you DO with that thought.

Do you stare & make others uncomfortable?

OR do you acknowledge the thought &let it pass?

Do you approach someone sexually in a non-sexual space?

OR do you respect the space & context?

The goal isn't eliminating sexual thoughts; it's practicing appropriate responses.

Naturist spaces aren't about becoming asexual. They're about learning that bodies can exist without performing sexuality.

Your thoughts don't make you a pervert. Your actions do.

Can you separate appreciation from violation?

Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)
#BoundariesMatter

Yesterday we talked sexual vs naturist nudity Today, let's ...

2025-09-19T14:01:22Z

Yesterday we talked sexual vs naturist nudity

Today, let's get science-backed about why skinny dipping is actually MEDICINE

Your body knows what it needs. Listen to it

What happens when you swim nude:
🧠 Mental Health Boost: A 2017 review in the Journal of Happiness Studies found that engaging in nude recreational activities had a positive impact on self-confidence, body image, and quality of life

💪 Enhanced Circulation: When your body hits cold water, blood rushes to your core to protect your vital organs. This kick-starts circulation

😌 Natural Mood Lifters: Cold water skinny dipping releases endorphins—natural mood lifters. Some studies even suggest that cold-water immersion can reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety

☀️ Better Sleep: Exposing your body to the sun (safely!) helps you soak in vitamin D, an essential nutrient that promotes bone and brain health... low levels of vitamin D and a lack of sun exposure lead to poorer sleep quality and shorter sleep cycles

🧵 continues... [@renudist](https://sunny.garden/@renudist ) Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

"Media literacy is a human right. Protocols, not platforms. ...

2025-09-19T01:32:53Z

"Media literacy is a human right. Protocols, not platforms. Communities, not customers. User-Authored Works, not user-generated content."

Michał "rysiek" Woźniak · 🇺🇦
Michał "rysiek" Woźniak · 🇺🇦 (npub1afm…5gp4)

Until I get quote posts, and because this quote is so bad ass, I have to put this image with it. ROAR. Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

"Isn't nudity always sexual?" Someone DM'd me ...

2025-09-18T06:31:08Z

"Isn't nudity always sexual?" Someone DM'd me this.

Fair question. Let's be honest:
YES, sexual nudity exists. Obviously.

But here's the thing:
You were naked when you were born - was that sexual?

You're naked when you shower - is that sexual?

You're naked when you change clothes - is that sexual?

🤔 So why do we assume ALL nudity = sex?

Because we've been programmed to see bodies as:
→ Objects for consumption
→ Sources of shame
→ Things that exist for others' pleasure

But your nude body is also:
✨ A vessel for healing
✨ Your natural state
✨ A participant in the ecosystem

Context matters.

Sexual nudity happens between consenting adults in private for pleasure.

Naturist nudity happens in community for wellness, freedom, and body acceptance.

Both deserve respect in their appropriate spaces.

The goal isn't to eliminate sexual nudity - it's to expand beyond ONLY seeing nudity through that lens.

What would shift if you could separate your naked body from sexual performance? Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

78-year old owner of Liberty Elite (fetish & swingers club in ...

2025-09-17T01:33:56Z

78-year old owner of Liberty Elite (fetish & swingers club in the UK), talking about his passion for making money and young ladies 🤑

That shirt! 🤣 30-second clip from Amazon Prime special interest documentary called Swingers (2020).

The man in the video has been divorced for 46 years, non smoker, non drinker, lifts, but clearly at almost 80 years old, his type is “young”

Feelings first 🌈❤️ @npub12dn…0hjt ...

2025-09-15T06:38:18Z

Feelings first 🌈❤️ Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

Feelings first, labels later ❤️🌈 @npub12dn…0hjt ...

2025-09-15T06:35:35Z

Feelings first, labels later ❤️🌈
Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

did u enjoy it tho or play any games there? The food is ok ...

2025-09-13T06:04:20Z

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did u enjoy it tho or play any games there? The food is ok depending on what u order

Went on a Friday evening & couldn’t stay coz it was noisy AF, crowded, cigarette-smoky inside!

Returned on a weekend after they “just opened” and it was pristine and more fun like family friendlier vibe at the dining area and just a lighter mood

why not? it's my poll so I decided I wanted it as such. You ...

2025-09-10T03:28:18Z

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why not? it's my poll so I decided I wanted it as such.

You can choose not to vote if it bothers you but i'd rather get people's actual feedback from it being open than limited

are you still on big social or are you completely moved to the ...

2025-09-10T03:12:12Z

are you still on big social or are you completely moved to the #OpenWeb #fedi #fediverse (3 day, multiple choice poll)

“You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the ...

2025-09-08T17:44:58Z

“You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.”
Friedrich Nietzsche

1. Be human #kind and respect others ❤️
2. People over platforms or protocols 🔺
3. Thanks for keeping #fedi a lovely place for us all 🌀
#FediCollective #handwriting #ButterflyDrawing #brainstorming #FediCon2026 #PeerTube

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Ah my fave season is coming soon: Autumn equinox is Mon, Sep 22, ...

2025-09-07T20:53:01Z

Ah my fave season is coming soon: Autumn equinox is Mon, Sep 22, 2025, 11:19 a.m.

Having berry tea right now and loving the cooler temperatures Altbot (npub12dn…0hjt)

Share memories offline because 🔒 Identity theft: Personal ...

2025-09-06T18:30:49Z

Share memories offline because
🔒 Identity theft: Personal details (name, age, school uniform) feed criminal databases
📍 Location tracking: School logos, bus stops, geotags can expose where your child lives or studies
🎯 Targeting risk: Images can be scraped for grooming, scams, or fake accounts
🧠 Future harm: What’s online now can resurface when they’re older, shaping reputations without consent
🕵️ AI scraping: Photos feed facial recognition & training datasets, often without your knowledge

ooh who are these women and where can I observe them? 👀 I’m ...

2025-08-24T23:36:53Z

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ooh who are these women and where can I observe them? 👀

I’m bi so when interested in a man, I purposely don’t do eye contact (ensuring only those interested will come to me after they observed me) but also eliminating those who cannot speak to approach!

I never chase men so this strategy has consistent worked on all previous partners (ex hubby included) 🔥

When interested in a woman (bi or les), i do friendly eye contact so they come to talk to me or vice versa!

@npub1e9x…msz2 What happened to you today is the weirdest thing ...

2025-08-21T02:11:21Z

Chris Trottier (npub1e9x…msz2)
What happened to you today is the weirdest thing I’ve ever come across!

As someone photographed often, am ok with friends & connections taking my pix for posts. When I’ve confronted people who take my pic sans consent, usually they apologize and offer to delete.

As someone who photographs people for tech and (rec sports) events, i always check ppl are ok. i blur (or put an emoji sticker on their face) when i share online unless in a private group chat

that and/or he really liked “your look” and took ...

2025-08-21T01:49:07Z

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that and/or he really liked “your look” and took non-consensual pic of you!
Hence the running away when you called him out.
Totally weird!

what the fuck, is that guy on?! Photogs use that (you’re in a ...

2025-08-21T01:42:44Z

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what the fuck, is that guy on?!
Photogs use that (you’re in a public space guidelien but are usually respectful, taking pics of groups of ppl or backgrounds like a beach or sunset)! Individual portraits, is usually when one gets the consent for signed so that bro was an absolute dick.
He could be a GWC (guy with cam) but those (predators) usually photograph young girls

Nostr event nevent1qqsffxvy2kg3me6g5k49ddwzuk6pr2v3ekjm0al7fux40rsdwzfwjvczyrvf86g8c6hl9seznma3ce343ltdvfkg7rkxjy960jmu9stu7m4cqj84v2w

2025-08-17T07:28:33Z

Test

Here’s your invite ☕️ https://lu.ma/yl5ohxv4?tk=eAXwq7

2025-08-16T15:03:43Z

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Here’s your invite ☕️
https://lu.ma/yl5ohxv4?tk=eAXwq7

For the 1st #FediCollective, let’s discuss #ethicalAI after ...

2025-08-16T15:02:51Z

For the 1st #FediCollective, let’s discuss #ethicalAI after Chris Trottier (npub1e9x…msz2)’s PeerTube intro

TLDR: chef survives stroke, went into forced retirement THEN Meta AI Big Sis Billie lured him to “visit” her IRL in NYC (he’s from New Jersey).

CW /TW: He never comes home💀 (full info in article linked)

Kindly RSVP to the lu.ma to join us IRL #fedi #Fediverse #DWeb #OpenWeb

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/xinageco_aiethics-responsibleai-techphilosopher-activity-7362483149760561154-YQrf

1 of 2: As #FediCollective grows, we're committed to creating ...

2025-08-11T10:54:11Z

1 of 2: As #FediCollective grows, we're committed to creating solutions that prioritize community ownership. That's why we're exploring the idea of a member-owned co-op model for video sharing using #PeerTube, a fantastic free and #OpenSource platform.

Why a co-operative?
1. Shared Values, Shared Infrastructure: Like a collective, we're driven by shared interests in a positive and open online experience

2. Empowerment Through Ownership: Moving towards a cooperative structure means members can have a direct say in how our video sharing platform is run – one member, one vote

3. Sustainable Costs: By collectively owning and operating our PeerTube instance, we can significantly reduce the financial burden of hosting and ensure long-term viability. Instead of expensive centralized platforms, we pool our resources for a platform that serves us

:cat_is_blob_and_bi: help by joining our IRL coffee chats if ...

2025-08-10T17:48:41Z

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:cat_is_blob_and_bi: help by joining our IRL coffee chats if you're Vancouver-local, fanx :blobcatheart:

http://fedicollective.lovable.app

3of 3 Why This is a unique opportunity to break out of your silo ...

2025-08-10T17:41:06Z

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3of 3
Why
This is a unique opportunity to break out of your silo and get a fresh perspective on your work. The problems we face today — from AI ethics to sustainable design— are too complex for any one discipline to solve alone. This is where truly groundbreaking ideas begin.

Join us for our next Brew & Build day. Let's create something meaningful together.

#FediCollective is a direct result of @reiver ⊼ (Charles) :batman: (npub16d5…u6mu) 's #FediCon2025 so I am grateful for him letting this creative (me) help organize there coz i met soooo many wonderful persons (IRL that I only knew online) who are helping create the future of safer, more inclusive #OpenWeb #fedi #fediverse

Chris Trottier (npub1e9x…msz2) is interested in forming a #PeerTube COOP so please join us at the 1st IRL event in September so we can work on a solution for how to make it more accessible

YouTube voiceover of Crissy inviting you to Brew & Build
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NpEMERyyWg0

2of3 3rd Space Philosophy: Brew & Build days. Neutral ground ...

2025-08-10T17:37:12Z

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2of3
3rd Space Philosophy: Brew & Build days. Neutral ground for collaboration, outside of the confines of your home office or work. It's a leveling ground where job titles don't matter, and the main currency is genuine conversation and a shared passion for building a better digital world.

Who
a. Creatives: Marketing professionals, UX/UI designers, artists, writers, and anyone who excels at empathy and visual storytelling

b. Data Folx: Developers, data scientists, product managers, and scholars who bring logic, analysis, and a structured approach to problem-solving

What
1. Informal Connection: Meet like-minded people over coffee, tea, and casual conversation

2. Collaborative Brainstorming: Bring a problem you're working on or an idea you're excited about. Get feedback and fresh perspectives from people with different skill sets

3. Project Incubation: Find collaborators for new projects, or get help with a current one. The goal is to mingle and organically form teams to bring forth novel solutions

As a creative and #designer, I've always felt a gap between ...

2025-08-10T17:33:36Z

As a creative and #designer, I've always felt a gap between my world and the world of data and development. We need a place where those two sides can come together to create truly novel solutions.

That's why I'm starting Brew & Build days with FediCollective! It’s a low-pressure third space: think coffee shop, not conference room where creatives and data folks can mingle, share ideas, and organically form teams.

The ultimate goal is to fuse the empathy of creative design with the rigor of data science to build the next generation of social platforms. It's about building a better internet, one coffee and brilliant conversation at a time.

-- READ ME -- 1 of 3
Brew & Build: A #FediCollective #ThirdSpace
An informal, low-pressure gathering for professionals to connect, share ideas, and build the future of the internet. This is a community for innovators who believe in bridging the gap between creativity and #DataScience. #BrewBuild #CoffeeWithCrissy

Are you 1. Vancouver-local and 2. interested in joining a ...

2025-08-08T22:12:28Z

Are you 1. Vancouver-local and 2. interested in joining a Cooperative RE: peertube?

Chris Trottier (npub1e9x…msz2) and I had a brief chat on how this is what we need to address (i.e. how expensive it is to run a peeertube server and what can we do about it) about during the 1st #FediCollective #coffeechat in YVR ☺️

Deets to be announced for an #IRL #meetup in September! #peertubeCOOP

Shoutout to #FediCon2025 for finally meeting Chris IRL so thanks @reiver ⊼ (Charles) :batman: (npub16d5…u6mu) 🙏

hi Mike, sorry haven’t been able to post pics of Fedicon2025 ...

2025-08-02T15:26:32Z

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hi Mike, sorry haven’t been able to post pics of Fedicon2025 yet. Day 2 here and using my pro camera so will upload the pics tomorrow ☺️

igotchu and will tell you all about it via pix and posts

2025-07-31T19:53:37Z

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igotchu and will tell you all about it via pix and posts

This #filipino #dragqueen did some breakdancing on stage! Loved ...

2025-07-28T20:55:34Z

This #filipino #dragqueen did some breakdancing on stage! Loved by kids and parents alike #dragshow #PublicPerformance #BurnabyPride

I love cats, card games, cuteness so i am joyful to win this ...

2025-06-23T02:52:58Z

I love cats, card games, cuteness so i am joyful to win this Bananya Card Game at a volunteer picnic earlier today!
We played a (networking type) bingo game and i got to choose the gift for getting “coverall” (when you get all the squares in the entire bingo sheet). I’ve wanted this game last year but couldn’t find it so i feel ecstatic 🤩

Also ate bhelpuri and samosa there for my only meal today. Tired at 18,000+ steps and 🔥 2300+ kcal 3good group (npub1ndn…8v08) #3goodthings

“Being gay is like being left-handed—some people are, most ...

2025-06-07T16:29:35Z

“Being gay is like being left-handed—some people are, most people aren’t, and nobody really knows exactly why. It’s not right or wrong; it’s just one of the many natural ways to be. The world works best when everyone gets to live as they truly are. So if you ever feel out of place, remember: you're not broken, you're just beautifully different—and that’s something the world needs.”
Jodi Foster

☕ Quick Coffee Break for Your Mind! 🧠 It's Mental Health ...

2025-05-15T09:35:04Z

☕ Quick Coffee Break for Your Mind! 🧠

It's Mental Health Awareness Month, and I've got a little something brewing for you on the latest episode of Coffee with Crissy. Feeling a bit frazzled or just need a moment to recenter?

This week, we're diving into the power of a simple 5-minute mental reset that you can do anytime, anywhere. Seriously, five minutes can make a difference!

We'll chat about easy techniques like deep breathing, mindful observation, and a quick gratitude practice.

Give your mind a little love and tune in to this short and sweet episode. Your mental well-being matters! ❤️

#MentalHealthAwarenessMonth #MentalWellness #SelfCare

NGL i like my #coffee manly strong 💪 🤗 #meme #latteart ...

2025-02-20T21:00:34Z

NGL i like my #coffee manly strong 💪 🤗
#meme #latteart

Fascinating! 1. that song "Let's Go to the Mall" is ...

2025-02-10T18:52:38Z

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Fascinating!

1. that song "Let's Go to the Mall" is super catchy and good exercise on Let's Dance for Wii U, haha
2. Robin Sparkles might be my Halloween costume for 2025 (if i can find that skirt)
3. thought Jagged Little Pill was from her breakup from then fiancé Ryan Reynolds?!

love that it rhymes! (and this awesome pic attached)

2025-02-02T04:30:30Z

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love that it rhymes! (and this awesome pic attached)

Hello Fediverse, this is a re #introduction 'coz it's ...

2025-01-31T04:04:44Z

Hello Fediverse, this is a re #introduction 'coz it's 2025. Happy Year of the Snake! :ms_snake:
IRL I'm in Vancouver, BC, Canada so if you're in the area/visiting, LMK!
Always up for a chat, walk, drink (coffee or tea) or treat (cheesecake).

I aim to boost, favourite posts here that are educational and uplifting WHILE attracting the kind of community, friends, followers who appreciate my content. Find me online in these 3 places
1. Mastodon https://tech.lgbt/@Crissy
2. YouTube https://youtu.be/@spicybicutiepie
3. LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/xinageco/

Please have a look at my content, like if you found it helpful, boost to help others.
Let's co-create an online world of love and kindness that also helps us all offline.
Thank you. I love you. Happy Lunar New Year 🐍

Really love seeing variations on how people post their ...

2025-01-24T23:33:52Z

Really love seeing variations on how people post their #3goodthings #threegoodthings

Observations:
some post paragraphs, some bullet points, some post 6 instead of 3

Advice: #howtos
If you're new to this, post in a way that suits you. For example, I post using 1. 2. 3. then the hashtags at the end

I also personalize it (being a fan of cleaning/clearing) with the Ho'oponopono blessing at the end of the post. For more info (click to read it on my profile or you can check it out from any of my previous posts). Thanks!

thank you :) Wishing you a great weekend!

2025-01-24T21:27:35Z

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thank you :)
Wishing you a great weekend!

:blobcataww: walking back home from an earlier appointment, a ...

2025-01-24T12:08:36Z

:blobcataww: walking back home from an earlier appointment, a busker was playing The Beatles' "Help" song on his guitar; his voice and the message of this song just gave me (good) chills.

The combo was just so lovely together! Song's one of my all-time faves (my dad played this song when I was a child) and because I'm a nostalgic girl who secretly sings this in her head to her friends on certain days...

❤️ Sending love and hugs to anyone who wants/needs it; accepting both back: thank you :blobcatheart:

https://youtu.be/Po5ti70U0bc