2026-01-29T02:23:44+01:00 https://nostr.ae garden_variety_jess https://nostr.ae/npub1r8wdfruydenz84fxfespcswuhcvyatx6umtd5xguexup49u500xskf50hn https://blossom.primal.net/3ad80e88d4f1b7e3ea8b02e6de2431c1f70ddb2b94c39fa008df3634648f0f9b.jpg https://blossom.primal.net/3ad80e88d4f1b7e3ea8b02e6de2431c1f70ddb2b94c39fa008df3634648f0f9b.jpg https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9uk2ukuk4lr3q6waqysv45fc8rnn6e356gj0zsautdjc9p5tuc8gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6uugln6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrmanlzvqvh9ew7d2ax3j5lwc6da92dyckj085xwlkv0m5hyfz8eqw5rcf2'>nevent1q…rcf2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you! 😊 2026-02-21T23:41:25+01:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8qyc6ml4guhy52zencxxn8del3slnnk9t56x5ruu27l4wqhxlu0czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6jmrnd3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswv2ultulkhp4ep9jff0a5nk0vfjszfcxm4ddkfkgme0qqv7fgxrqpr9mhxue69uhk2umsv4kxsmewva5hy6twduhx7un89uy3c7n8'>nevent1q…c7n8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Crocus?? 😍 2026-02-21T23:41:09+01:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvwyqhxrc6sfgkvj6ccpc5758jj33dfe42ng54jjclc6vmwqhn8cqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6xkdr80 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsptp6rp85n9qtnxpxkpt6xrmshennvtnjg6twp2k7s4yxagcqe3lcpzamhxw309aex2mrp0yh8xmn0wf6zuum0vd5kzmqfwg29l'>nevent1q…g29l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😍 2026-02-21T23:40:46+01:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv9lstulxfs87k2fsa9fctuuh499gxv2x9fxea4qrjl2zt9yc9mdgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6th0k9u I know I’ve been in hibernation, but the maples are blooming now. 😇 #spring #growstr #flowers<br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/7a51211eb0ad0185d9a18f01dcacd3486a6fa98fe877ee60741ea1b09c5f605e.jpg"> 2026-02-21T22:04:44+01:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvlghdxhdqv865rmz3ytcyplgvla9ftmg37kc87n4uurq3jr5n7sszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au62uq5hx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvssv7fafpcugsp2ryyyjgk8hxtp8357egdua832zzpauutczsq3cpp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqxk0ffp'>nevent1q…0ffp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Not pictured “every time you laugh for no reason, the spirit of Robin Williams told you a joke” guyssss 😭 2026-01-07T17:24:17+01:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvssv7fafpcugsp2ryyyjgk8hxtp8357egdua832zzpauutczsq3czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6add4cv Me: I’m not going to cry today…<br/>Internet: “Just know you’re never really dining alone because the spirit of Anthony Bourdain sits in every empty chair…” 😭😭😭<br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/d19a5bb3e42e59760dcbc23f7db7e2add0d25f72bcca8efd8cd033c4a376b1b9.png"> 2026-01-07T17:22:04+01:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdl0ch2ml3ueyx3vlzuz5y6hfapzrkmgq28y9gnl33gydfazx3xlczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6v89a6l Swear-word censorship is probably my least favorite…<br/><br/>Folks say authenticity is SO important, but then slap me with a community guidelines violation for telling someone authentically to fuck right off. <br/><br/>¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 2025-11-04T12:37:55+01:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy6zezwtpzud4c4rm3fzwr8vtnkt8uwhwsk7y7daf3asc7dyqjqggzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6w8h0zx In times of great censorship, subtlety is king. 2025-10-13T18:12:50+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2vrky7503e4jjcc7sdmyp6j9u2a4y7sxz62c8dseu47skt9ehqsczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au678u7hm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2ev757g9zmc07prhdn7p93esjvsha5aaylcgwdam6mu2qlgkfrdgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgw2veja'>nevent1q…veja</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Amazing and refreshing lol 2025-10-04T16:00:45+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf5c9radnj3szpwnwpymm8v6gp9q3hqt5vpeknllmdntdmk5pe3sqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au692u6a8 I didn’t take a screenshot of this, but earlier in the week I had some stranger in the comments asking me to take off my glasses so he can see my whole face… not today, Palantirbot. 🤣 2025-10-04T15:31:57+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8vchu032kvez5yx7kyzp5w0puv2uuz8r5tlzhxxhxgmrs8695qaczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6m0rjc2 Tucker Carlson is absolutely on fire tonight. 👏 2025-10-02T02:53:44+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgezuk4z8p0jn3m488d8up3cvnurks8k4y3gk96g8rh2v899h9q6gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6xkttz5 Another report from the #TikTok Mod Wars: this guy has 3.5M followers, and yet his videos this week are being removed and suppressed to the point where fewer than 700 people are seeing them. And all because he dares to criticize Benny Yahoo and the ‘Real Gang. Cool and normal! Nothing to see here! 🙄 #censorship <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/7412d3a3fe32d7df32f03d5b0a352aeaf312484284ae9bef3c75ef2b0cf3fd17.jpg"> 2025-10-01T13:28:39+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstgycq0hlznjcw5vqvhwvdhpmel5de8nc9z6xef8zehlwq7r68zkqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6gzvdyq 🥹 a good story from the TikTok trenches for a change. <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/2a2df5ba798bc9a482cca0b78c0a2ddea7f3ecb50661047fc1698c3c000769e2.jpg"> 2025-09-30T02:29:44+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs037hlkaya8pl79tuftxzuvnnfr0s8kgpxdnc77p7ex6kvcyzm66gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6tnf4le In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvrcd9sug7esc8qzleuwy65uessw9quh74htanalwhdcqlfhlhtzsc79q8q'>nevent1q…9q8q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The number of Palestinians killed 2025-09-28T21:57:12+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst70f0uqqvfp2dkc98u774hlcaq9p6s635evvjp34xys7hhv0w6ugzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au62h8rgq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9vjzxwkjc8h9wwslpd87cy8hyh0k5me2femvp4ak8653qrw7xkfsmhy574'>nevent1q…y574</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Welcome! 2025-09-28T21:56:33+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstydla5umlqm4rwdcryv52sqg47fs8yacxg8xvazfk2vzzw7ycx3czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6zkghp4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrl7t7lyg7zgzzq4nnc9s37mttdcts95hnwmghh0fttvtfezw339cp2emhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnzv9hxgtmwwp6kyvfswe6n26n3dpmng6m4wfmh5e3nxauxwu3kw9axk6350gmhxum8dekxgdr3df3nv7rkxdkhy6rrxd48z7nhw9hx6dr3wv6qgs3s2z'>nevent1q…3s2z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Did you see that both Nick and Alex Jones just got deplatformed from YouTube? 2025-09-28T19:30:32+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxqepfqnhmxth02kqdwzs4rj3pdh2dwkktkdjxl9v9aheurm83gjczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6rn85v6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9q8vucwenkq6f2x0t4klxvvstzsjjutgzk34d4tdwqzkszlc7ezqppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dsrls5r3'>nevent1q…s5r3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That’s part of the reason I pronounce it differently and don’t use captions 2025-09-28T19:27:49+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxg0l4fk7cgayu9xna36lkqjeudaj033gqhhdnf3zgdhz4wxgcp5qzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6ueesct In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9rutqcgktuv7kyx59g68p23yxh2zt4upq7zj3445qyufklyex2gqc9jqt8'>nevent1q…jqt8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Although honestly the way the algo is right now, prob only 300 people will see it 😆 absolutely out of control. 2025-09-28T16:44:05+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9rutqcgktuv7kyx59g68p23yxh2zt4upq7zj3445qyufklyex2gqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6dfr4q0 If we get another influx of users from TikTok, my bad. Lol. The censorship has me riled up. Correct my pronunciation at your own risk lol #grownostr <br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://blossom.primal.net/7ab841141cd951d2b7d777268f9c51eff491b711873709569b5a89857d059cfc.mov"></video> 2025-09-28T16:30:48+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq8vdcwldr5fq4nt5hnqvl600wl6klkhf37ahyelzmdg7yev80ckszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6yg6t8z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx5aj4hd2kp45lws7mmj9f32sesk95r62l859l7yza0dp6g6enr5gpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhg6jy5v9'>nevent1q…y5v9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>TikTok today. 2025-09-28T16:09:47+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgn9jszrju0wfgm34nlmmfg43h5wzeq2gc78t25aw27y4vll27vfczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6e7hp58 Hahahaha they just will NOT allow any NOTICING… buckle up yall. This is the canary in the coal mine. Mark my words. <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/2072adf1232d81f004f94392316a05cde326074f072fd7c69496a6f430eef51b.png"> 2025-09-28T16:05:30+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstwusawjahrg03nll5vead0y3ne6l9lz0vdcfmrup3u33rffjdpmczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6jqvcvm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswg8ur584eetnza7xm8y3vh583grz7at8hy5qq2netfcg3pfluevspyemhxue69uhkvars9e5xzmrfveshstnjwa6xsttpv93ksetw9ejx2tmwdaehguspc8xyf'>nevent1q…8xyf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😄 im not even that leet - it’s just that tiktok has high viral potential because of its search features and algorithm. I grew my audience on there in 2 years from 0 to 100k and I’ve never been able to do that on any other platform. It’s been a wild ride. 2025-09-28T15:10:06+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs25r9ptwnm7newmyyk66qcr4kjjl95w23mtdey74awcr8x6tljypqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au642c07c Here’s an example of why I wish everyone’s replies were visible on their profiles on TikTok so that we could see the bots easier… <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/a1675bf0e379c7d718f726b259e0d1054c2453001d30b9a0f917282ecbfb9f94.png"> 2025-09-28T15:04:11+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxq8h0xc4kxyjfalm7wl2knv849qxt6al4xxjwlksuzdlyp8zudtgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6kpcafg To the question of why I’m still on TikTok despite the Mod Wars… every storyteller needs an audience. <blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/nevent1qqstr9fhk0teakvcq2jq35gkcx0r9e7hskerczghc9jhfzuz6nz3zvsprfmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68yurvv438xtnrdaksgdvfmx" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">nevent1q…vfmx</a></span> </div> Because when I do get to exercise my free speech over there, I reach millions of people and there’s really no match to it in terms of organic unpaid reach. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ </blockquote> 2025-09-27T17:38:25+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstr9fhk0teakvcq2jq35gkcx0r9e7hskerczghc9jhfzuz6nz3zvszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au64qv95a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqu44fdqd2yrv5qkdvr3vxmvn53eckuc3wy5qctyf08legfnnwwugpzpmhxue69uhnzdps9enrw73wd9hsgwfnsy'>nevent1q…fnsy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Because when I do get to exercise my free speech over there, I reach millions of people and there’s really no match to it in terms of organic unpaid reach. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 2025-09-27T17:36:21+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxtemj70pufwkew3pdl7ausktur5vwn4ytq8x5tr3nwl2ggtvhsgczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6tff8qh And we’re back for another round of “what the fuck did I say to get censored?!” 🤣 I’m telling yall it’s out of control over there! <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/50dc613adfcf4d359cc66e5a398884bb511695c116bb61732c6e45de71050fe2.png"> 2025-09-27T14:58:34+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2zmq792ew6758hpg7n3sas8yzge3ha6ly66mcc6we2x650ggcy5czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6qhtlvh Can somebody tell Michael Shellenberger that he just described Nostr on Tucker Carlson’s show? 😄 #censorship #grownostr 2025-09-25T02:52:43+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsw3dunjnzs699jz506fdr8lhs46qwakes7m45jsneqazgd69nw77czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6y97kr0 Sometimes all we can do is cultivate our gardens… or so says Voltaire anyway…<br/><br/>#gardening #homestead #growstr <br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://blossom.primal.net/2defece947b0e694273dac2d78b8861b0af4e3f406e4b14c310461e2c3a900fa.mov"></video> 2025-09-21T20:25:17+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqwuwralkglts928rr6jk4klehpfgq989cvm33lef6nx687f35e6gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6z88u5q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqjtjvd8jutrawlwmps4suzwsl9tprsd99k45nae8cx5qaanzuz7g7pkds5'>nevent1q…kds5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Meant to say I only planted 4 of them and have been harvesting them since about June I think. 2025-09-21T19:19:43+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqjtjvd8jutrawlwmps4suzwsl9tprsd99k45nae8cx5qaanzuz7gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au62a3dsx Bumper crop of aubergines... Same variety, different light conditions (good light = purple; shaded = golden). This was my first time growing eggplants. Just so you know if you want to try to grow them: They are tall with woody stems and benefit from staking. They are prolific (obv haha) and are still flowering and producing fruits as the rest of the summer fruits are slowing down. The easiest way to preserve them is cube and freeze. <br/><br/>Second photo is Thai basil in full bloom. Third is some fun guys I found growing under the tomato forest. 😆 #growstr #harvest #gardening<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/6198af0a93d7324f86fd88cd17966d5c36e43892cfff6f474e947a1b0e3fbc53.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/7242449aa65cef627576a695dfb3d61a7f7eee25cec8d1fc4bf29f55d1cad7fa.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/848e590b379bee8941b8e45d94180f0dc387f90ce09cc443bd8a45492e844908.jpg"> 2025-09-21T19:17:36+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgff7cpt8tnw4easkah8yw6pcvdk26y8awhgsyk2pc252n83mc0vqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6j8qs83 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr0hzrf9fj7qx9sqdvq67chn3x7khpq26gau563fekpgdgfnqc7qq6ztkkj'>nevent1q…tkkj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>TikTok mods are going absolute HAM right now smh 2025-09-15T21:03:50+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs89q0j0za0jysadg6re303e8nvst724839xf29xcvwn65f5qlf0jgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6dtjtgd Lol look they’re taking videos down so fast on tiktok that I didn’t even get to see the one someone tagged me in 8 minutes ago. Now this is what I call a RODEO! 🤣 #censorship<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/2209bead57764a8afd2244682126de924037a66477c332db143e4e250fbddd64.jpg"> 2025-09-15T19:36:14+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv0d3vsxhkr28dhg5ewev46le30yypq5s5npgapqsaeetzanl94hqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au60sqw2l In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs88x525s4wl3gtjc2su56drre7wfaf9h5md0nnqa7ttckfcxyh84ck270nf'>nevent1q…70nf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Is there already a client that looks like old MySpace? Because millennials are feeling pretty nostalgic for simpler times on the Internet (aka without the overlords). 2025-09-15T19:33:49+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstfkwkh7h80f2hh0wpd86lnxn0clhe2n52gkkvgv0yn2cajj0a9vqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6pt9jqp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfplrsy3d3de95c9kkvk4xwnuwrr44wsm64fazn8xdvf8f4sf824q0mz6vk'>nevent1q…z6vk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You the real MVP… <br/><br/>Are we writing poetry? 😆 2025-09-15T17:52:58+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfpz6jjcpzhfh55svrsdv7ylfcxytqxwv4ffe5prj2les84w7g90szyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au69z8dn2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrjcrap520vde7qm870mun368xkv9cjgt7se56gm4cr92zzwx0p6cv7zxam'>nevent1q…zxam</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>There’s a book that warned us about this a while ago - I think it’s called “Filter Bubbles” - but it’s wild to watch it play out. 2025-09-15T17:28:43+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrjcrap520vde7qm870mun368xkv9cjgt7se56gm4cr92zzwx0p6czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6fk0024 Exactly this. The moment for me was in December 2023 when I asked my husband to show me his home feeds across platforms to compare them with mine. He was seeing zero news from Gaza, and that’s when I realized they are building and reinforcing multiple divided social realities here, not simply doing censorship.<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1ek78tlry66lal4e8qpy30pnktxugu3y5f32tz96m9hmaesdh4e0sf3wnzu" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1ek7…wnzu</a></span> </div> Started running an experiment with my friend to share into a message group the things the algo feeds us to incite anger. We are of opposite political beliefs. The algo absolutely feeds anger based on what it believes to be your political stance. <br/><br/>The problem is far too many people view the world through the lens of their social media algos. It warps the view of reality. </blockquote> 2025-09-15T17:25:37+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrkhw2d5tjdd6d8806gyjn58gzuv7umzxy9dnv4prstjx9serwejszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6uvc6pu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd0ghyy3elwrpz2pztv8c5k426sr9rew7z27tgnayymezd8zxhqdq0ptk2y'>nevent1q…tk2y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That’s been my experience too, although there has also been a hard line drawn for anti-war lefties like Hasan and myself. Anyone who isn’t a “lib”. The best old-Twitter metaphor I could make for it is that the mainstream social media are all the KHive now lol 2025-09-15T17:20:43+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfpn4ymtrrzzgkvuh8jfsyuagtg5kd620cvwkf850axf7rc5qaznszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au60zfpnh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0fzj5njl5n9x3humkatr9p68stp6ss0a2ntscmuk2m2y5dcp7u3ckczu2e'>nevent1q…zu2e</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah they’ve become craftier. It’s the illusion of free speech now. 2025-09-15T16:03:44+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyg4ylhfj656jwl0p8ehf5qtap2l2qjzxvfpj2tmgu03zn2d4fz7qzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6vxt38z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrl7t7lyg7zgzzq4nnc9s37mttdcts95hnwmghh0fttvtfezw339cqmy6dp'>nevent1q…y6dp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah I agree with what you’re saying here - but Hasan is a great example because I have followed him for years and stopped seeing his content across all platforms about 18 months ago.<br/><br/>Twitch for streaming seems to be a lot less sensitive in terms of controlling the speech and reach, probably because people are gaming on there so it’s harder to know if something is “violent” speech or just part of a game. <br/><br/>But even today I do not see any posts about COVID or long covid or vaccines or any of the things that were getting people banned in 2020, so I guess what I’m saying it 2020 created a new baseline for censorship that we’ve all just adapted to now, but it hasn’t gotten better. 2025-09-15T16:03:11+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsp4y0rma6hafc9wdplhkf58wuatyxdwaxpf6g4t2lyj0jc94xw3kgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au62rtu0v In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9zutp0xnhakr0hkqz25nzzpjhxgprklxu0q7gxttfsvgtll0ukmcc2l5ln'>nevent1q…l5ln</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m not sure what a WASP is in this context, but for the record my JFK reference was about the fucking CIA! 👻 2025-09-15T15:45:32+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqayn355he9upq7d9m93rqrhphrv29phcd03ws93qd4rlrgspc3wczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6qnm6wk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy8z4ufgdcwj6z5gadd9hdvfrs7lv9d95e32jly0dpc453l7fg4hgx2cp7e'>nevent1q…cp7e</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This time the word on the street is it will not be given another grace period from the administration. But idk. 2025-09-15T15:39:33+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0rzme2llap2ajp96fggctm00q8f70eqdvh229fzy0cyk0m4c8m0szyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6s7grq4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9zuul8jgyqxw5ws2ncvm0q4yzfwcwvl9ptml5katacv8eq80mnngruuvwz'>nevent1q…uvwz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ah I see - yeah it’s really frustrating that every 90 days or so it comes up again. But this time Trump might just let it die. 2025-09-15T15:38:47+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf8xnwqlek2t2n0tx583uaa8689vex0attng7tzj9hgmlftjye2eszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6r2m0xl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp3atc5rj83hd8e22dh65z445vmswu7t9f5gg2fkssjrpt406jurcm0r3nt'>nevent1q…r3nt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Tell me about them so I can share! 2025-09-15T15:31:43+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsykpzl6y2rfcculmy0zrknwksjwuwfnr3pg6fa6x2ufhq3nhg75gszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6mhyvy3 During Covid is when I deleted every post I had ever made in 15 years on Facebook because I could see the direction it was going. I would not call it worse then than now, though. They are still banning and shadow banning like crazy. We still can’t even say the word “vaccine” pretty much anywhere. Maybe X now, but still there is no organic reach on X anymore.<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1l2utm9rek96dre44z2cev0az9nhxl36gxnuppmzp95th6ldfsg4qdv3zd2" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1l2u…3zd2</a></span> </div> Genuinely asking—were you not on the internet during covid? Or did you happen to agree with the censorship going on then? Because it was a lot worse then than it is now. </blockquote> 2025-09-15T15:30:20+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrfcldeh8hky88d99taav5xhpx9r56tfzjsuha4jgkjlsuugljwcqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6rd8fa9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswd6x536qxzey0mtgjnpm7yct933q8zn8tsdtj37xsq2ds0yc4u7gz7qv6s'>nevent1q…qv6s</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Here’s the screenshot:<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/1ce64b382586b0e7c71d83eb00df6a5809ddc540aaec5df32d2a9f851d6dd105.jpg"> 2025-09-15T14:25:47+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswd6x536qxzey0mtgjnpm7yct933q8zn8tsdtj37xsq2ds0yc4u7gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au64x80t0 Just as an update from “normie internet” for those who are Nostr-only:<br/><br/>Perhaps the most dangerous thing that is happening is the psychological manipulation of public opinion through siloing users with interest-or-outrage algorithms plus providing near zero protection against AI-driven bot armies in the comments, that give the illusion of consensus for extremism on both “sides”. I read the JFK files, so I have my suspicions about who this benefits and it isn’t the American public.<br/><br/>The second most dangerous thing happening is the censorship. The content moderation (or “community guidelines”) on other social media apps has gotten absolutely insane. I have to speak in code to keep my videos up because even saying the word Trump or Palestinian, for example, will get me throttled or flagged. Saying Russia or Israel gets me bot-swarmed and then flagged. Smh. Political topics have become completely blacklisted (now that the election is over 🙄) and now conspiracy topics are also being shut down.<br/><br/>I’m attaching an image of my “saved videos” tab from TikTok so yall can just get a feeling for how many videos are being taken down.<br/><br/>I have garnered 100k+ followers, but an average video of mine gets about 2k views, so what’s even the point of having that large of an audience? I’m not monetized for views on tiktok because when I tried their monetization program, my views went down to 200. I suppose that’s “legal censorship” of employees, so I quit taking their hush money. <br/><br/>But yeah if you’re looking around wondering what is happening to our culture… that’s what’s happening. We need a true public square, and that’s what I think NOSTR is helping to create. <br/><br/>Keep ya head on a swivel. Love yall. #grownostr 2025-09-15T14:25:18+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv39mkemvq3mtr84tzupau6fete2thn2xwdk2p3hs6dj33z8xcjdqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au65qrf5x In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsptcn6gv7pyxwvy3442pyuzrzwfjsr2c7mtem0w7qdtnp6vgeqzzgsnvmga'>nevent1q…vmga</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Lol sorry you don’t want more friends? 😅 2025-09-15T13:56:45+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszk9n44ps63kstn6z2q5me4gjr68fr3rntjkjz4eg95ws7ws63wtqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6ywhc7e I’m about to make another NOSTR recruitment video over on the ol’ Tickety Tok before it’s decommissioned (for Americans) on the 17th. <br/><br/>I’m not even sad about TikTok getting banned this time because the censorship is truly out of control over there. (It’s out of control on meta too, but they’ve really cracked down on TikTok in the past 23 months). It’s not fun anymore honestly. But I will miss my mutuals. Maybe I’ll convince some of them to come here and hang out. 2025-09-15T13:51:16+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf7mznqaw6es7a3t2t26jzcunr25ejcfuj3jrdz6t5uyfpns0fv2gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6dpa5xn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz6d9enqeq6yy4zk7rs5yk6d6jqt23ramyd62hnvckq0kawlpe34czcfxy9'>nevent1q…fxy9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thanks. It’s been an unsettling week. 2025-09-14T02:32:43+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrmjze4xqwm9xpkq65yp9mlau3rs80yeueqsz5nqragvrxar9epjgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au60pegd4 The mainstream social platforms have gotten so tiresome. The algorithms have everyone in their own filter bubble so that it’s like no one is experiencing the same reality, and everyone is convinced and self-righteous about their version of reality. <br/><br/>The “moderation” has become so intense and sensitive that I got a strike on my account for saying “ku klux klan jokes really aren’t funny right now for white or black people” yet hundreds of actual bullying comments calling conservatives klansmen were given a pass? What? <br/><br/>I’m not even conservative, but I think the whole “all conservatives are extremists” bullshit is unhelpful and not in my own self interest as someone who doesn’t want us to have another civil war… but apparently that’s controversial and I just need to shut up? <br/><br/>Nostr is the only place that makes sense anymore. Smh. 2025-09-14T02:28:47+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs268ha3998p5dd5ej9gyeh4pmsqrq5tf7yc04jdsg9wefdzrp2tdczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6plyu58 Did I mention the audio version of my book is available now? 🥰 Read by the author (you’ve been warned). You can find it here: <a href="https://nontoxicmen.org/">https://nontoxicmen.org/</a><br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/d4022693d00d6913707f5fb6e777671d62eaaf7724044322dbcae9bf5b3e03c6.jpg"> 2025-09-07T16:28:36+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst03uxp4gdakj0f7atmxw3sfsu5tgmtxpkld5jlcfw63a3xuezq2gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6x75axr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsptrtgc2rz6qft4ucm0c25frr3gyt349uak4hhwfqqfwefyx7tw6sk8wk33'>nevent1q…wk33</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Til the bitter end. Lol. What’s up? 2025-08-28T00:26:52+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq93yawhge4uk2pu2ttdap8kxa50s5ssek2fez7juntl4d9hrg6eszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6vamkgx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrv4qwcvymm6dst3z2knxd0w9sjdz9elhtny88jmlmlyv4qjn8zrsf3r2dp'>nevent1q…r2dp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>For scale they are almost the size of my head lol 2025-08-10T01:56:46+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrv4qwcvymm6dst3z2knxd0w9sjdz9elhtny88jmlmlyv4qjn8zrszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6dvjuv7 Are aubergines this size still good to eat? I left my garden alone for 3 weeks to finish my book and now we have this situation 😅 #asknostr<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/9f091472fedb3f47811a49af4400584bcc307300f134287341f573a0b0129b5c.jpg"> 2025-08-10T01:56:02+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv7tefwwgcnkls8d5tfkf2fjhwq6nry028hx2hdgaadvz257dqdngzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au62wkn2q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs25gk93vpx4kaydu5hv30kn9hy8kl3aqrx6nmypkra6tda4yj8h8qh66y62'>nevent1q…6y62</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yes it is! You’ve been warned lol 2025-08-09T14:43:09+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswc4uhdhvxlryv7zu4g9jt4a4pl9aa0rr255pppqnnlpkqkdr6rvgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6qy4zu2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfhc7rdvh8rffj83a9z5l62r3mmgxrk47r2k0rhjm7lanhadyq0eqnhagk0'>nevent1q…agk0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The “toxic” man is the “shadow” version of the self. The shadow appears differently in different men. This is what the book is about. <br/><br/>And to your first point, yes, I am a little bit of The Rebel myself so I value liberty. 😊 2025-08-09T14:42:36+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq8jsqsuaay85wevrcdly7tcmkw3vf97w4mkly9jkr7r3sr2ac6aqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au67ez7qa In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy55qn80cpu3vgkkh93ccx43gwj8lqgwwzpvudshugafyqyqj7kxsrcrtn2'>nevent1q…rtn2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Haha nah I’m a woman telling stories about great men so we can all remember and appreciate and learn from them. 🥰 common misconception though. 😅 2025-08-09T14:39:32+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf2htk59rnxd8ued46u74a9fjns6n2cs082fuq4mw3uj02nkwls9czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6fj70zg This puppy is a menace 😅 why is he like this?<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/7c1b35620fdf7e76efcbc8a087cb990afd638876482cf07519baa0b7794bd796.jpg"> 2025-08-08T01:41:40+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs232mwua4806qyw6nmjkd6e2xus37tru0nx0gnyruf57ptvleqhyqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6alj5vg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz9cuwn6q62qr2ur4e70d2cqy56xya04fzq5wanuy68l2dz3rv9jqfrzawn'>nevent1q…zawn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You might also be glad to know it’s pro-Jesus 🥰 2025-08-07T14:20:48+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstcthgq6w2wtlvuk7mgk6z57zjqnpdc9g88qvfqpk688zcdkfmwxczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6lklhpm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgng7cz0n006aerd898hfx5mf0klt2k223gm48qqjcf5c5cjmez7c6vvg39'>nevent1q…vg39</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🥰 2025-08-07T13:12:41+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxn8qhzlnay404hk88hvh6cmlhtc9jksqelw65ak9wwhgp3vhf3egzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au66nu2yu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszclka4p4t9hdxnclgtnv4yy6z2jumxkmch75r2xkraydmkrvssvc8pm2n0'>nevent1q…m2n0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The genre is Jungian psychology and storytelling. I go through the 12 masculine archetypes and give personal examples and stories from pop culture, history, and myth to demonstrate how men share similar strengths, struggles, and redemption paths. In a world that condemns men, I wrote a book to celebrate them. Cheers to the good men! May we know them, may we love them, may we raise them. 🥰 2025-08-07T13:11:51+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsflkkupmhjsffgwky6m8kyj8hpfl4m3c3j4dvsymx6fk4mnvcezdszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6lev6s6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspwpzf2yc6lruu3je4av3vykqq9pq34qkusy5f6ps8w2p7vk8zf7g9rwk3w'>nevent1q…wk3w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you so much! I designed and made it myself! 🥰 I love how it turned out after printing 2025-08-07T13:05:03+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrun79h23k98skmaxwc3fptvzklhwjvlyg8vdze89s4l5jas0p8xszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au60g0u4s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8mllqms95zcdl8v3gtkcusn2ep7rqamw4qetjhtj6f6ljddxz9gcf4n5zu'>nevent1q…n5zu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You can check out the project site at nontoxicmen.org 🫶 2025-08-07T12:55:51+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8mllqms95zcdl8v3gtkcusn2ep7rqamw4qetjhtj6f6ljddxz9gczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au68t8ynq My book in the wild! 🤩<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/35353b47be9c53a334ca84062f66e9fb7c49eeb8b8432398ec6c70c015b088ac.jpg"> 2025-08-07T12:51:57+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgnywa6wq3ejspzrsac6rhk50jcq6t9xtrkdjr0459670jn0z2xzszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6kgsjsf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvrj5kzndg4u66qmepjjsr2g3l0yhf640a9fchsxvf3ssfflqy9wcww7gfg'>nevent1q…7gfg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I like Carl Rogers too - the humanist. I always thought it was funny that my two fav psychologists are both named Carl. 😆 2025-08-04T14:00:29+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx7836u0x4wt9z3hsuf30et4xdfcr6282lzva4g23lccyrz4dc6zqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6e6algx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvew5xcsms46qrsyrkwjc3uvmdvlq8r4xp893zvwxwnraef3h882g6y3suv'>nevent1q…3suv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Danke! Das Buch ist voll von persönlichen Geschichten. Ich habe es unter anderem deshalb geschrieben, weil ich das Privileg hatte, so viele gute Männer kennenzulernen. 🥰 2025-08-04T13:58:53+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvplsqykrlq7p2jp7f8rgjht2qvyy5zrcavjnmhqqgz5fqa6tzrtqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6f2p7j5 It’s official. I’m a self-published author. 😎 <br/><br/>Toxic masculinity is a real problem, not just for women and children, but also for men. <br/><br/>The solution to this problem is not to deny that it exists nor to make men be more like women. <br/><br/>Remember what MLK Jr said: that darkness cannot drive out darkness? <br/><br/>Well, that’s why I wrote this book - to illuminate the strengths and struggles of good men and the virtues that redeem them from their toxic shadows. <br/><br/>Drawing from Jungian psychology, I describe 12 archetypes of masculinity through stories from pop culture, history, and myth, and we explore how each type grows into the men they were born to be. <br/><br/>Don’t just be a REAL man. <br/>Be a real GOOD man. <br/><br/>Learn more at nontoxicmen.org <br/><br/>#writer #author #menshealth #motivation #storyteller #growstr<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/f784ef09d6b95f777c935676c08c650cdf964f66bec1d677a13d8b55cbd85642.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/7c345b30d1749f4c034ddbb43de7fc65b701b1cc2d73014ddbccd86d49f4300f.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/f53dce24d8e6e83b170586be654a3cb87bf545498b4961f680ebc97de067b8a8.jpg"> 2025-08-03T19:15:59+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgsfh80kjxv59ccpc3qwd2d8as7m498g3geggn2uha8ez5q92whyczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6jkk6zw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx482hqtulwvst7yf9r4snvkav9cltq54d9pdt66mfjlqemnzj2hsg43p2y'>nevent1q…3p2y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The entire book is pretty Jesus-y honestly. I’m a preachers kid. Gotta write what I know. But I do make a hilarious joke in the caregiver chapter during the Jesus bit. 😆 2025-07-20T00:38:55+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfk38zv27l0erlcpsqlnw6wq9edhs9dxzzss5f3s6ffamz04kxuhczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6wmcx9n In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv8sr0m866c6tqmpxspjkvay96n3zpk4cc0unkjlv6qe88qqga2rsgcm6yr'>nevent1q…m6yr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🥰 that’s probably the Hero 2025-07-18T16:28:01+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsp85mnqyzaae6cxt63st8rtk4dssmvs77kavupamm7h5sucss525szyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au64k0atu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2gnsxplwsznmu865x7z7htr727zyeeru39q45tjm302gyn2remygrhywyn'>nevent1q…ywyn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>So far on TikTok it’s a race between the Hero, the Joker, and the Creator… 2025-07-18T14:56:15+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2gnsxplwsznmu865x7z7htr727zyeeru39q45tjm302gyn2remygzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6f6n2kw POLL — when my new book Nontoxic Masculinity: A Celebration of Good Men launches on Aug 1, I get to add a teaser chapter to the listing. The book is a collection of stories about men (real &amp; myth) who represent the 12 archetypes of masculinity and what we can learn from them. My question to you is: which chapter should I post as a teaser?<br/><br/>1. The Warrior<br/>2. The Magician<br/>3. The King<br/>4. The Lover<br/>5. The Joker<br/>6. The Hero<br/>7. The Caregiver<br/>8. The Sage<br/>9. The Explorer<br/>10. The Innocent<br/>11. The Rebel<br/>12. The Creator<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/9d6f807be402d35005609de689daa8680e35aa81990e63cc181afe173bec077a.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/7916b2e574912ab68225141e684594de38371bbcfef88ee98d367eee33604f24.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/b73e34320d014f79dd67f2b788dd22532d3b4cd56da46c65354cbde202efe1cf.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/e761903f3b9f4e27b33296922216d3e1c80efe4253254f3d59a8cf46ec368632.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/9e152a933f030dfc329e02e101c158137aca7e37b557f06a850f3ba757fd03b8.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/06d8aee28dc7faae7ce55d5d88f2518b228c79f9ed0cb717d7a8c4ea7c986716.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/ea90cf6051b73f3fe9a1f914bdf102b291646f6321e1ec76eba93f4080975018.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/2e03b5b8c53cbabd8cace5603b3df75cf9daa644afb6caefc9209e49cf105ad7.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/72314ff66a250dc15c73d558067195ba98ebe6455c5cff484bfe9356657135f1.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/420d15013dccfe243d5c49895a7be56cc6f7f1c082ab751c5c41e1afdc55b0f4.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/99abb3ccd6d197c3ef97356250cf72ac8702251dfe5e9c37db95b555c081aa14.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/3d24d77b6978126ec5c9d3be9349024ccc5e2267f52011f7c920a90bb1ed6f6e.jpg"> 2025-07-18T14:54:33+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswdayxrj0tsppj2kampka76nlkjarzehfxg2jxaza74dsg4as43cgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6xg9ff4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg7t5zcsdcy54dywhvjm94xj2mwvusw4qa34786gmjzq6ps29u5vs5fjzu4'>nevent1q…jzu4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>They really are. It has been a joy to write about. 2025-07-18T14:29:08+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdquy2glczvz5857jqkc5ylx4rldwmgcczjxm5d2p24dcdfrzrrsgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au62lnpj7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsplrmwegfk03hv430dug949hshf2greg60f5rnp3yk0xxscj2lr4czlmhpr'>nevent1q…mhpr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ooh I might! I was going to try to research that kind of thing this weekend 2025-07-18T13:01:16+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsp0sdend2zfgwv57cd2a0mk0v5l7y8z9vq35jmy08tga7cwr40pxszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6yxczgr FYI -<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note192ud4j5qwvzal3vjfcn5uzqyfgj5nh8j2t2qlyup4adnsh6e0sysshl40j" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note192u…l40j</a></span> </div> Yes there will be a preview chapter when it launches 🚀 I still have to decide which one I want to use but each chapter talks about a different archetype, building on Carl Jung’s work. </blockquote> 2025-07-18T12:59:54+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsg4lqmkr2a66lartx669xeee5s7xtw4a7fqa3hh9wlptlzjls5z6qzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au67fs29p In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsggjlz5qdg6v4mhzalcwr5jh3aqj0jdcegrku6te3g0gglmfwm6dqf4ru3z'>nevent1q…ru3z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😇 2025-07-18T12:59:15+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0j0akeyuhggeq7f9jpkrku9t34ld4c4zshm5duqfd02ydw23qnfqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6cnwad3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstk5na8khcumn9zedslnzpnnpvx46sgpsje6635mg8wl770n0ljgsngd7vf'>nevent1q…d7vf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah the title is definitely controversial but that’s also kinda why I picked it. 😜 The teaser chapter will be posted when it launches, but I need to pick which one. Maybe I’ll poll and let yall decide. Thank you! 2025-07-18T12:58:45+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsz4wx6e2q8xpwlckfyuf6wpqzy5f2fmne994q0jwq67kectavhczgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6pm9qjr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr73npjqkrzesutgh58drl26q6ty0d0eqf2qykph48f8v7m68k9dc6yuk29'>nevent1q…uk29</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yes there will be a preview chapter when it launches 🚀 I still have to decide which one I want to use but each chapter talks about a different archetype, building on Carl Jung’s work. 2025-07-18T12:54:20+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9d8xdu5urkdegj22d7ps0rv03ehn7mvwc6ds9sc0jq9j2cawqv4szyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6rsqvjy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2m9269nvgxtadecvffszwju8x8sqdx8wf5mamkw06rrtwkkmcrxsupj0xr'>nevent1q…j0xr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>☕️ cheers to Friday! 2025-07-18T12:50:30+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs29fgfn08cl0s54svgvdue93eg6yj3w5cp838lwdyf25lyzzwzm8czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6khvrqx LOL so far I’ve had two kinds of trolls on my book:<br/><br/>1) Toxic females who think no man deserves to be called “good”.<br/>2) Toxic males who think I’m trying to feminize them.<br/><br/>Both could not be more wrong. At least they have each other for company in the vast sea of their bad assumptions. 😄 2025-07-18T12:47:57+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy2htdetluqurkr3225tqfx35yhdyzswxjuv69c29yrh0uuyuda7gzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au688r8ek In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrzr4lxfpwf0syt2ev0uhsdc84hzgj03yfnds6jv0n0t3na2py7egtdt9kz'>nevent1q…t9kz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Lmfao what a judgment. Read the book and tell me if you are wrong about me! Spoiler: you are!! 2025-07-18T12:41:06+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2vh4233g4nlqef8u88cxpx9gg5xer3xpaym4l2v33squygklr0lqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6m3d7ra In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs94ae28vejkd7zpjcqvyf5zerhr9dytf9vmftk4xuqsc2amt4acwgnnrdgp'>nevent1q…rdgp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Haha well deserved obviously. 2025-07-18T12:40:26+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswygegzwzsz2v59vj0r7rvgjlr795jsn452xkypjnqvc58psymtrszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6uh6axq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfyn4a36tsgvl5d8t02msdr90n4a34cnn08fc0l5jp688zqk6kxgg2rflsc'>nevent1q…flsc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🫶 thanks brother! I’ve been blessed to know and love some really amazing men, and they say to write what you know. 😇 2025-07-18T12:40:10+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst97jnduqluz9j4xxcqkquxz9mk5pgk5xmuenmtw4dxh93sx73ajszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6pnuprv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst4xm0legv63wrq662hufrfyd24cfhmmja8ucm2pc84wtw395zyvgzpnj0p'>nevent1q…nj0p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Too fucking late 😆 2025-07-18T12:37:04+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsga8jr58tkp8dm6sz4u252m3cej6nxdtrrgjhx8m3c4jh2mewkfsgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6y4jefw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr2njgnrdsjkxycn0gjq45g8fpu5fq96dkdnwvgk7y828fxanxqwcfrsh4v'>nevent1q…sh4v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thanks troll 😆 2025-07-18T12:36:13+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxv0mwxz5vaw4h90cpcj5ayse20f6k36ysjqny3c8j97wfmfyadugzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6le3md3 I guess this person doesn’t understand the meaning of “don’t judge a book by its cover” lmao<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1q7sjcyrlc9nz7zs6n6yqr9zreezrzxd2g93cxl5rcvv4zpw9fj6qvvhstd" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1q7s…hstd</a></span> </div> Oh a book about feminizing men. </blockquote> 2025-07-18T12:35:00+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxrdncj02m7s3ypfd69nh9n76hxek4asrvgxzjzhs2g8mex05k04czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au65y8c0c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq0gfvzpluze30pgdfazqpj3puu3p3rx4yzcur06puxx23qhz5edq29sat3'>nevent1q…sat3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Lol fuck right off 2025-07-18T12:33:49+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstdg4ltrv456kyrnplgkdvw8hks5ya3qa0ntpdzwxhuc2e74cnczgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au67z5kl8 GM! 🌞 I wrote a book 📖 I hope it blesses some hearts 💞 <br/><br/>You can check out the preorder at nontoxicmen.org - text versions launch Aug 1 and audio version will be out Sep 1!<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/740445e59f86686dbd4141291e72d43481b3be002301952338ab753c5c787ade.jpg"> 2025-07-18T12:27:36+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszhw5t4h6nu8cpys79r3crq2yg38e0e8rcp593vlfjjh7yd0rzkmczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6usy3mp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrp9peq084sxjgfmg0k3u5td7rw4lgzmpv8ps52v032yqpjhwf42gjh5903'>nevent1q…5903</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Mmm I love pepper relish! I might have to try that 2025-07-18T12:21:13+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs25gl6z999c8t0a8qswwum33u7p7d708fsk90rv0jcrv3475ctfuqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6526x7k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspqj2xupc8pygzn7tv5pdvfztn3e52lvvs2s529h7wwvkv3hxpzrsyujf5a'>nevent1q…jf5a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you!! 2025-07-17T12:11:27+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy7amp4c4yvlxzvt70u48m7y8hcyadjds53slg9h4j72a4ph3e5cgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au63wkm4q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs80zp59zxacq03jndsgzznskluuhg4r6ppgz6fk2w62wuk97y52nsnnn5z7'>nevent1q…n5z7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Weird I thought I set it to never expire 2025-07-17T12:11:16+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst9h0vsh4h4ujjpnxzsynakhvlp00ya2t66uglkuf0td83je2rwnszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au67vfuxy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw8aq4dr6mdvp5ud88nh74age39pnn6yyx6d0qh7g6y7acyurlk6q6kxqdf'>nevent1q…xqdf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’ll figure that out by the time I launch. This point of sale I’m using doesn’t have the option yet. 2025-07-17T04:03:15+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9jfw5cjg8wnmljsuawfytzawxpjtk76xs9zzg28ep8cz9l83r0hszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au66yay6z My BOOK is available for preorder now!! 🤩🥳<br/><br/>Check it out and preorder the ebook and audio book at:<br/>nontoxicmen.org 2025-07-17T03:45:28+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0pmnce7x5gpgvk6q3e5fgju8egxtl3wr633rgl5tt5fty6lc74vszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6rv4s97 A video of the peppers this year because a photo doesn’t do it justice… #growstr #growyourownfood #gardening #homestead<br/><br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://video.nostr.build/df3de730b8133619515d479a881c85961a81a54219a532aa2e3f3ba0e758f188.mp4"></video> 2025-07-13T16:54:16+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsym358fg7th3js2ev7rzlk64n949uv89t3swufmu0avh8ar2284sqzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6aavak6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswwsexcwsm5w94jfnrzkmxlq9sda0qlsz4y0y9k5lpreewr54djucdy3agu'>nevent1q…3agu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Also I have no idea what variety those fatter ones are - I put out a bunch of old seeds thinking they weren’t going to do anything and now I have a food forest 😅 2025-07-13T15:50:48+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswwsexcwsm5w94jfnrzkmxlq9sda0qlsz4y0y9k5lpreewr54djuczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au68fq0rd That peck of pickled peppers ain’t gonna pick itself - seriously though I have too many peppers. These are just the few I’m going to cook today. Do yall pickle your peppers? I’ve never done it but I might have to this year to save them from going to waste. #gardening #homestead #growstr #growyourownfood<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/264f357f6d995d1a7ef9b83974cb6503adf5647753796f05de60349e1fe0e6ba.jpg"> 2025-07-13T15:49:30+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdwenpjpkx76deymlt4cq8jw0tzdtxchg2r78676llq0au8j6x6qszyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6fcty2m It’s officially the best time of year… #gardenstr #growstr #homestead #growyourownfood<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/409fe80baefa7e8a509baf54cc7939c7fe3065c038e6f69187fade4c50c42b35.jpg"> 2025-07-11T19:26:08+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvjqr96hs8rfv65ur4rkwj5krjxh6p6jdqvu0zueway043qpmql8czyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6m89ywa Pardon me while I scream into the void… 2025-07-07T17:15:47+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspga4j7x2pf8epuskts4md74v3n99mfw3aeft533dpfu92rtu3wtgzyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6fw0ekp Ten chapters down. Two to go. We’re in the end game now. 2025-07-04T18:19:52+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9xg0skphvrc6jll7pasxgxfkewgjst5u7qy9tn9sl6nlga8eyrpczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6wrq5j4 Anybody here using #SintraAI? It’s suuuuper nifty. 2025-07-02T00:52:34+02:00 https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstf8cjax7vke7vpcpeze675cm9t4hpp0vaxy3lunwmrapyy04gtxczyqvae4y0s3hxvg74ye8xq8zpmjlpsn4vmtnddksernymsx5hj3au6ma6937 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstgw266gvw5xzdfpnjqkxgneujxs49cqq780h28vyw9hqdnvvrthspnjhul'>nevent1q…jhul</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Haha that’s basically a mound now I guess. That Bermuda grass is wild! 2025-07-02T00:38:06+02:00