2025-08-21T21:28:23Z https://nostr.ae dadhodl https://nostr.ae/npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf https://blossom.primal.net/1b2661ede5455e9f420f0ecc11f338a56855ae6eaec1d86cbeb3640257f86190.png https://blossom.primal.net/1b2661ede5455e9f420f0ecc11f338a56855ae6eaec1d86cbeb3640257f86190.png https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvsv9sqqzgd0wwe3eqsdursrlqtsjam3k9p0fexsp53pmg2fd85dgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2pllq2x In response to me explaining what Maundy means, “Mandate”.<br/><br/>“Well Jesus was kind of on a man date on Maundy Thursday, bunch of guys sitting around together drinking wine” - well played eldest kid, well played 2026-04-02T16:50:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqwhsmec92kr5kg7pf3nj6jnljpg8p6dppk7fztj675uwcw8aqwrqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2tjvwjd I’m ready for Upril before Downgust 2026-04-01T17:39:45Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst32x92j8f52pmf8nuu39gesk9djkqc3j62429t7fzpanjym80e2qzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2zylugk I had my Claude bot create a web app for tracking Easter eggs. Take picture and track gps coordinates.<br/><br/>It was basically one-shot and I tracked 40 eggs across 5 acres for the kids.<br/><br/>Looks like I’ll be doing more of this. That worked out too well! 2026-03-30T02:32:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsryw2uappncpxzlesqkg3kxemdklva3ah9yuy3cus5dygs94p944szyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2tn4g5q When the church asks you to preach one Lenten Wednesday on one of the petitions in the Lords Prayer, you should say yes and help your pastor out. <br/><br/>It’s a wildly busy season for him and an honor to be counted among those who can teach. 2026-03-29T12:52:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszt42cfcnnmsf2lda6904ywxum97yeleuud42lq3smzfmlyacf8rqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk23zxnry In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsptmrv0hjahz680zhnw5f73z8n0rt5t5dxytr9pyvyyqag4snjc0gejw0f9'>nevent1q…w0f9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is the 2020s equivalent joke of the 2000s “give me cancer now god!” 2026-03-23T16:29:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsduwtkky9cjpc3a5l9e7328tphqqsqg0hfqgrue9qtuvgv8728hqgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk28rcv9u 5th kid is almost a year old. <br/><br/>It has become increasingly clear that I have been severely limited in my career and money situation by the number of kids I have. I have had a baby in diapers for 10 years. <br/><br/>I could have stayed in the Bay Area and played the game.<br/><br/>But I moved to the middle of nowhere with no neighbors to control my territory and raise a clan.<br/><br/>Before long on this quest that started in earnest10 years ago, Christ found me. <br/><br/>And now I see that if I should I have a sixth I would be more wealthy, and in fact already am. Not just in terms of right now which I am due to my daily time with my children, but also in the future 15-25 years from now.<br/><br/>If God’s grace continues and allows me to see this mission through.<br/><br/>The love of this family compounds unlike anything I have seen of wealth otherwise. 2026-03-23T16:09:55Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrgqqlhkxzvgcv5f3xz9djfluz3500au3dwp8qdevza0zauwjaaqszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2pag9ne Having “the conversation” with our oldest two daughters tonight. <br/><br/>Oldest is mostly pissed off that our last baby wasn’t just a random gift from God. Yes dear there is a human initiative. <br/><br/>I’m grateful we didn’t wait another month. 2026-03-23T01:16:18Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr3m25mzkgqx0skr20h9nyz5weq7qfz0phjm5qs2tgu34z64j5kwczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk26jaamt Go to the creek with your family <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/e99bc455bc03d9fd1ef3d1959c624edf2bc5a0b7bfa8d62aba955ac0962d5b5b.jpg"> 2026-03-07T14:46:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsg9daw8qzulr8mtfgzms08vs35pdsqdxc2lddamjgr7ma4aazfxdgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk29e9wrm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0jtc84dprqnwtdgdu82ldecxkjtrh0lej7ev5velneeh92axsp4c5hdw95'>nevent1q…dw95</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qqsgha3fk023ng8c4quszdayghqwkt6l9d9ga4c3280gnqz3aqqx7ycpr9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezucm9wf3kzarjdamxztndv5q3kamnwvaz7tmwdaehgu3wvf5hgcm0d9h8qmr9vfejuer9z3l523" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>routstr</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…l523</span>)</a></span> I should have tagged, and yes exactly 2026-01-25T00:15:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs90dcc20xffdcc87vl8ha8ya6hd8dnj668j8mk9f3hkuwwupr69sszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2vtcwy0 My wife was still on free ChatGPT until today, just asking about an old friend in Minnesota and it tried to hedge random unrelated crap about the events in Minneapolis today. <br/><br/>They clearly have to pre-prompt wacky stuff to manage the onslaught of internet sleuthing during things like this.<br/><br/>Anyway I got her set up on Routstr and topped it off instantly with my LN node via Zeus.<br/><br/>Now she can ask anything uncensored and free. <br/><br/>It makes perfect sense that the first thing I will regularly pay for in sats is uncensored intelligence. 2026-01-24T23:11:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdl84ps8qsdsfehlzu7jcy6dyz3vnm2g9mk6x4ynktqqxreytxjgszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2h97hru In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspvsllvcaspr6llt57n9j6x2v6z0tahq4py5n5fj86rmdj5rt7z7qdrwn38'>nevent1q…wn38</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Midlife means there is a second half far better than the first.<br/><br/>Shoveling through bad habits of sin is immensely rewarding.<br/><br/>He shovels with us, actually already won the victory, and we are just humbled enough to see and understand now. And do better in the Heavenly economy than ever before. 2026-01-20T04:49:51Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszmpld4wty3nxqae3d6c5lxhpwvdvr3mdcd9ujwlan30vd07lq3cczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2tzdw0l Pray your longest prayer of the day when putting the littles to sleep. Take as long as you need.<br/><br/>They’ll go to sleep in the best of way.<br/><br/>Your list will grow and grow. You do maintain a list right?<br/><br/>And you will come to cherish this time more than any. Someday it will be gone but the greatest habit will be indelibly seared onto your soul. 2026-01-20T04:41:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2vy30cmte0262gnwmn8eugeq364e4d06g44g6n2fdtslu8nd77hczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk27mc3l6 <br/><br/><br/><br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/bb95337d74183e11205e3661189dae06f72603dcef8efd08f7200665c687ab7e.jpg"> 2026-01-14T04:03:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdewafxmxyfrkn6hk3vkh3t5c84za5dkr76a2243c9n3x4wkyr43szyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk23sgagt I took a break to sleep train my 7 month old three times in the last 3 months.<br/><br/><br/>He might be our last. I can’t deny my wife that bittersweet joy. 2025-12-18T23:27:07Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrx6md6h9rerzw22q5rqhz9e2krrf206ye4tme0vzu9kxhjgccgdgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2eqfccr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspkn6nz8tafvsq5r39uvppf9ar5w7xndln8gdr79zv5etm62szgngpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfdu8994m7'>nevent1q…94m7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah bc those already high leverage jobs are getting even more leverage. Unbelievable productivity 2025-12-18T23:25:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswzp6j6wy03s3l2jej9r60mf7f6302gkxudf5xl5fsrc39487r2dczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2vnlcc7 Pacifier’s are an anti pattern. Give them to less than one year olds for something to do. Never use them as long term comfort.<br/><br/>Pull that shit out of your 2+ year old it is destroying their jaw, teeth, and speech. 2025-12-18T23:21:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswqvvey7z3xsdtrmz3994tgtycvc3j6qa9us7v88xj25x4ususvugzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2utp8rj The Avalon Q was worth every sat.<br/><br/>Home is heated entirely by firewood and miners now. Even turned a 3 season sunroom into 4, now my office. 2025-11-30T00:21:30Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsp3cwx0u5yhgst2fw0gspux7hw75v82jaksfldeqz4upzh49vp5pgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2zy766e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsglw6j0xzhppzym20pk89tccxe5qzn4zh3ng08kmume82df8pg37syfjgur'>nevent1q…jgur</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Totally depraved 2025-11-29T18:24:45Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszmwp0x2tld0ejjc0heu4tm3v4du2fcwcj0zms0vhc646rsr5v4hczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2sj3tsv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsplyd3xz3mn552mg8j28faqywcxlwchr8rrws9yyj4eyhfm5wvr0qpz3mhxue69uhkummnw3ezummcw3ezuer9wczyd0es'>nevent1q…d0es</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is a modern heresy unfortunately. Yet also the oldest trick in the book. “Did God _really_ say that?” 2025-11-29T18:19:28Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswkvxfv8jj63ljwt8ue5hu55s6lek4fsg7xuvz52wd090qugn6keszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2ksucnl 5 months old, waking 3-4 times a night. Wife exclusively breastfeeds. I dropped the hammer on that little baby last night.<br/><br/>He moved into his room, the 3 yo boy moved out of the girls room in with him. <br/><br/>And so did I, for a few days anyway.<br/><br/>This is my 5th child to sleep train. I can literally do it in my sleep.<br/><br/>Wife is showing renewed energy, signs of life. We waited long enough. <br/><br/>Yeah he cried for 30 minutes while I progressively backed off my verbal re-assurances, sleeping in the unused top bunk that will be his someday.<br/><br/>Yeah the 3 year old slept right through all of it. He startled once to a new room confused, I laid with him back to sleep.<br/><br/>They won&#39;t even really remember their old sleeping habits in 3 days. <br/><br/>The first night is always the roughest but when you hold the line it&#39;s over before you know it and you have good sleepers. (as long as they are together) 2025-10-01T15:41:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs04decvaeu463e5lsjzgjpugtpdj4anu80m93307639laakwgd50gzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2aq8e49 As a Christian, I am called to share my wealth with neighbors in need. <br/><br/>She’s running the local 4-H meeting today while I’m at home with the youngest two.<br/><br/>Truly the jewel of my crown. (Proverbs 12:4)<br/><br/>#dadstr How has your wife brought Christ and you glory today?<br/><br/> 2025-09-20T21:54:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqrlz7hux5aj5vdk848ykkt40w2ne6ah5ezew0yqm6xs50qdlt5qszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2mczczj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8v42ptww2nyjnxy8zzfau9hmycdny6tg3weht2r28q4mu4ghtxwcpr9mhxue69uhhq7tjv9kkjepwve5kzar2v9nzucm0d54mnlk5'>nevent1q…nlk5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If aiming to ease, there is wisdom in the advice to start with chickens, rabbits for some seasons, then maybe sheep once you’re ready to try a bigger thing. <br/><br/>Habits of housing maintenance, food/water, etc are crucial and a little different for each animal (but also don’t need to be fancy). Not hard or complex, but jobs to be done. Animals do tie you down until you figure out systems and friends that can help free you for a trip. 2025-09-19T22:10:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrg3tcf498f3ss7myqq2hc7jm48qjdsf59nwcjwa67gjscv0k3rzgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2jpessg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0d2qhrun8zsaf7y2cq7627gtmzh7wde82khu0rde0fszp26u4gfspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgjj54wj'>nevent1q…54wj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>6 acres. Cut my teeth with a family dairy cow and three sheep and eventually cried uncle. We went too hard on the homestead life at first, pared back a ton last year and even more this year ( a summer with an infant ).<br/><br/>I think we know exactly how we can responsibly re-expand next season 😅<br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/333809ebd6345e66448801986cf3d8c82a9c09c2007afbba95e8486a914afe81.gif"> 2025-09-19T22:00:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxhmykzfm742jmppryajgnycyjnhfmjzvjmkxtcxlvshzfnlpafjszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2yt526d In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxx86d64824k2ec29m50sn4ncdl8fy48kt5u4nvetpqppvjq8pqrgx0hs74'>nevent1q…hs74</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I totally get that. It was like that for a couple of days for me but I pushed through, now the novelty is over and all that’s left is camaraderie. <br/><br/>It’s probably catalyzed by how we have massively structured our lives around their open time-space though, so they aren’t anxious or rushed in much. (Rural homeschool)<br/><br/>They certainly aren’t starved for my attention , so I appear to have broken out past the wake of interruptions.<br/><br/>The olders really enjoy and respect the “this is a quiet working space” boundary. The youngers come and go and give me hugs, but I do have noise cancelling headphones for sure. <br/><br/>I also lowered my coffee intake to just one cup with food because I was so anxious and 2-3 black.<br/><br/>The biggest revelation for me here was that I had no choice but to make this work, given all other constraints I refuse to let go of for this season of life (lots of kids, homeschool, steady job, etc) 2025-09-19T17:19:10Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8h54sem0mu5magqszqv0cnhtztxstutn8gjnygjxw63g9358zevqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2654x4k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvgqfssl26n9q0gqycvenru6ykxh6ykrm00v5jkwmq7shxdzah2zcan2269'>nevent1q…2269</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Exactly! All the necessary monkey work was automated, is just even more fun now. 2025-09-19T16:30:25Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs82s96dkjc7qwlvlr8e722rf52qz77ddrt6vm9r54lz98g67hlkcgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2wudtwv Update on moving back home to work near kids:<br/><br/>The second grader can do math sitting next to the 5 month old.<br/><br/>Next to me. <br/><br/>Holy shit this is the exact answer to all of the dread we had about how to scale our homeschool. It was under my nose the whole time!<br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/ee5d6ecf1e34cba949c1e511a752201b16745548ae9df4164c01a8268ff94870.png"> 2025-09-19T15:09:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy7pfpn0f79ckznrw7r2lygy4gp4q0xpy0yt6hj477m2uugc72krqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2hujaf4 Many of the promises in the Bible are not just about the life to come, but are about this life now. Do the work.<br/><br/>I tell my children some form of this 👇 on a regularly basis.<br/><br/>Some of them are clearly slower to truly get it, as they repeatedly scoff at work too frequently. With patience and long-suffering I will not give up giving them lesson, gently or harshly at various times.<br/><br/>#dadstr #dadhacks <br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/nevent1qvzqqqqqqypzqyde4z2qfklnqd88uxyxh2wuf3knwmernggcyuda9mzk02yfs5xwqqstdna79fxzkmxsf954stgd3m38ctzcvjz2e2udjyrusp2j4gxlcssxsje6n" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">nevent1q…je6n</a></span> </div> <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/46f94fc350ddd7648d45546d5fbf0ff1977967dcb56885fe60ee4970e29d30c9.jpg"> </blockquote> 2025-09-17T16:58:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgcgg0ldx3t4ntyweu7a708ql7r72wkkv3tgle5jsylra04mvd26czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk248nf28 I got a tiny rural office building to get away from my homeschoolers several years ago. Coding means holding a ton of fragile context in my head and the little interruptions here and there were truly destructive.<br/><br/>However, I&#39;ve recently started working from home again and I realized the job is completely different now. LLMs hold the fragile context, I just hold pointers to the architecture in my head. It&#39;s 100x easier to drop in and out of flow state.<br/><br/>So I&#39;m thinking about moving the office back home.<br/>The school-age kids get to do their work by daddy while he works.<br/><br/>It certainly eases the weight of my wife, the teacher, who is also exclusively nursing a baby (no bottles for us, that&#39;s a different thread). Her job will only get harder in the years to come.<br/><br/>I kind of can&#39;t believe I&#39;d move back home.... my precious little space with the bookshelves and desk and vibe. My little work sanctum, my &#34;territory&#34;.<br/><br/>Screw it. Give me the messy papers, the school books, the little faces, the break moments to teach basic math and science. I&#39;m running back as fast as I can now that I realize it&#39;s possible now.<br/><br/>This homeschool is going to scale so well. <br/><br/>Is this dying to self and living #ToChristAlone in my journey?<br/><br/>#dadstr #dadstrong 2025-09-16T15:41:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsd37r8tez98nujf37mnkzamr2v8efeph34hr2yyp85r9ytnwhxz5czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2ep3ka4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8p69wpcwmsuv2cnj0rqqppne7tshwncz7recm28mymggftm8djpgprfmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv9ukqdzf9f2'>nevent1q…f9f2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Daaaad! 😫 2025-09-15T02:33:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx2vklh3cl086e72m4s30pag0d0khk73ryj467gwru8mhf4673v8czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2l3005t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp3m5rn0h8t35x24mx7vgt0fxn0sf0p78le8kc8y026gurmr798ng9mjkjj'>nevent1q…jkjj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Hard mode, engaged! Nicely done 🤘 2025-09-15T02:09:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2n559rjfwm3yeelm98x5ylpcp8deyea88w0mwxqlf060ymf335hgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk23n42z4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstfz68fvtd9uwhp0atddmasq0v9shl4d6dnthuaml6psk4uaadwnspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhg74uhg5'>nevent1q…uhg5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Found my new favorite hashtag! 2025-09-15T02:05:54Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxzpm55lqk9d86wcf2sy2wkhy5lgac5ls4k84ccm33wkna4pg0qeszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2cvq98c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxyzpm4mptl8quwk3unr73d4cvsyjkrmx8e23vtfzzh7ru9f4ch6gpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgdsrv3v'>nevent1q…rv3v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Good luck! It sounds like you have a good process you’re going to follow. <br/><br/>My first was terrible as well. My first principle hypothesis is that it sucks to be alone (assuming you are giving them a room). Everything got 100x easier once I put all my kids in one room together, a nursery with boys and girls until they age out. Mega leverage there. 2025-09-14T16:33:16Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspj8fergekmcsmlvdrt2q0833guwn839lrctx868ewvgfvk3a9raszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2ea6x7v In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsph2cjkdmvpjwhsuepn0xez26j4jvtpcnajaccjht3qcs2e6vpvespzemhxue69uhky6t5vdhkjmn9wgh8xmmrd9skc77c6vz'>nevent1q…c6vz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>“My precious” the deagle 2025-09-14T13:07:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx7wu67nkvhgud3qdv0eue3lpmykundrynjv2m7qjjs45um3dyweczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk27lnepm I&#39;ve sleep trained all prior kids at 4-5 months old. This 5th baby smiles so much and I&#39;m a completely different man with a lot more freedom... I don&#39;t have it in me yet. Might just bring him into bed for a few weeks. (Could totally change my mind in a week)<br/><br/>I&#39;ll do a note on sleep training if someone asks for it. <br/><br/> 2025-09-13T00:14:25Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqst0cxu3sd7n3x6xj3p82xwf4wvpmckkk5h5zq8rr49h9723zdr45gzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2wppgf8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp8rtt9h5dqzdqv4pwwz5ae0q5jynxqp5qt6k0xhl9wddtn7pcq7gppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0ds0u6y4a'>nevent1q…6y4a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>There&#39;s a lot of terrible advice in this thread. Follow me instead <br/><br/> 2025-09-13T00:08:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsylgt372sl2ltuwslpm6t3qtg68adzg9nu0lf6q4924lpf6xqzq8czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2mh3yg4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsffdzy0hht0s3zyhmna5enrpukcvqzv0t54ktsw5dqee8r6ffj4qspr9mhxue69uhhq7tjv9kkjepwve5kzar2v9nzucm0d5ncp90x'>nevent1q…p90x</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It doesn’t. But the Lord provides. And it scales far better than you can imagine. <br/><br/>That man’s quiver is full of sharp arrows. Psalm 127 2025-09-12T13:30:50Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsx0lq9uujz8qp7r9qfwkwsmjnne4ct3723a4xqmn434atvwupcj8szyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2de6w5h He lived in Christ, and his death is gain. <br/><br/>Philippians 1:21 2025-09-12T13:03:45Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsprs996k7r42qwkzz5urzlzwyj8whl2fkstp5zje2cu6zff9sv5eqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2cgea3t je suis Charlie <br/><br/>Except I’m not, I’m a fuckin coward laying low compared to him. 2025-09-11T01:20:05Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdgzwak9j09w2r2hypsx2d243vjq9qyp0fsg7k607mj59klt9wh9czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2skp3jh Checking my nostr feeds after my first code review session on my new <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qqswhhhf99z77pfg80s2c00z27rusxn2tzss7450n34krkwa2yadhtgpzfmhxue69uhkummkdasjumnpvahhjcgpzfmhxue69uhhqatjwpkx2urpvuhx2uce2cewr" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>daylightco</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…cewr</span>)</a></span> outside in the sun and…<br/><br/>I’m gonna go back outside now.<br/><br/>I might just be outside the rest of this reset. 2025-09-10T20:01:44Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0vq7ak8rrfyrrl5nlhg5u8e4ww7y2c2snhtsazcsczzjet67kf2qzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2kuumef In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0cxpv828c7pxv88zgz6zkmgmlvy3e4ypusmhu3xxapm4zrspaftspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgeqamwr'>nevent1q…amwr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I work in a 100M ARR majestic monolith daily and do not get this feeling. It’s all just subfolders and context management. In fact wonder if microservices _prevent_ LLM from getting big picture in many cases. 2025-09-08T12:59:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9gz4ypf0fyr987lf78kethakc889madyc7p4xwulr9n5guy323aczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2602lku In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg33p47l66vlzygp33lcc9nycjrsqf5p2r5yy4w5g268h0tyznlpgpr4mhxue69uhkummnw3ez6ur4vgh8wetvd3hhyer9wghxuet5gm88eh'>nevent1q…88eh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>When I use <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qqsth7fr42fyvpjl3rzqclvm7cwves8l8l8lqedgevhlfnamvgyg78spp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfdu9c2xcj" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Keychat</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…2xcj</span>)</a></span> it really feels like that 2025-09-08T04:00:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgfhgg9g5mfxm43vhhzynxl5lnvqp94ygc56xh9wn7v7jhddxlnhqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2ac3jmr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst425cr6dee8zqgmct9ss4prc4m8uv6raugky7rgd0v200ql0v84gp9dmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv9aex2mrp0yh8xmn0wf6zuum0vd5kzmqf4sgz3'>nevent1q…sgz3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The free market speaks 2025-09-06T21:21:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs27ex9x9yk56tvj3h77hxjuycqa2jac0s2l6h5xfym4q37zvfwtnszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk25yfyrn Look with 5 kids 9 and under homeschooled by mom, that means I am the school custodian. This is one of the greatest #wifehacks<br/><br/>There’s no other way but to love them and their messes. It’s a relatively short season of life. I’m certainly not going to give them away to other teachers or caregivers… or live in filth. So here’s how I scaled it:<br/><br/>1. Heavy duty grabber arm thing from home improvement store so I don’t have to bend over a thousand times <br/>2. Speed run picking everything up with grabber and chucking it onto couch or table, one pile per room<br/>3. Tell kids to process “sort pile”, this is psychologically far easier for them than picking up and sorting. Even the 3 year old can pull his toys out and put them in basket.<br/>4. Headphones in + podcast/book on. <br/>5. Bissel Zing vacuum the hardwood floors, far quicker than sweeping and better at corners. (Kids still working sort piles)<br/>6. Once a week the Tineco vacuum/mop combo to clean the floors of grime, after a quick dribble of water on any odd spots to let them break up as I mop <br/><br/>The routine takes 20 minutes, is done every other day on average.<br/><br/>My oldest kids are eager to do the vacuuming now. I haven’t allowed that yet because I know they’ll miss crumbs that I don’t, but soon enough I’ll ease them into it. <br/><br/>#dadhacks 2025-09-06T13:23:23Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrdpetedjrh5e0fjgzz8uuv5me7ejzzuxcx7vkqreyv540kwrkhvgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2p395le In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvazrt2cy40mulc43nxjzrnpvfvnujy97tkws4ztgxm3sflr7l4msprdmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv8g6nw07ul24'>nevent1q…ul24</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Lol yeah maybe it was just incompetence at the FDA or something like that. Idk but I was infected by the stigma too, until I saw others (see bodybuilders) and proved it to myself otherwise 2025-09-05T17:21:38Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxfr7rnyx6s7jar4x3h8lxap4rq8v07rvfjrp89sf3yhw73uullzqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2hvl55u With the elimination of all of my debt (except mortgage), I&#39;m officially switching to Strike + Bill Pay on a 1.5% flat cash back card with local credit union. One step further off the dollar. 2025-09-05T17:06:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdgwvk3fcl6daqlel4k69asrxejz2rs870urktyvwwy07g6g3jt9czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk293j8sd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrfayllvap2k3ql4puwqs5y5yrxvduy6uykgj6s6yejzp3r7pt0mcpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgue4023'>nevent1q…4023</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Shlonking with whole milk is a great way to spice it up. <br/><br/>Way to go quitting coffee! 2025-09-05T16:28:02Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgzsmqd5gp0mclzz8t2hx53ek970x3c5d44prt07smyqgpf7rpydczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2kqu7yw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvxzpum9hdqg5e04jjfrtl6dgdwwdf3mxp47578www9acrgtx4yegpr9mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43z7ffjxqnzzcs9'>nevent1q…zcs9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Raw eggs do not cause salmonella infections. This is a lie that you bought. <br/><br/>Raw eggs are in fact nutritious and easy on the digesting system 2025-09-05T16:26:06Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdx6qstagxj9zln8wr0tdj2unfghganwzvtpv2wlj8s2antrfxrjgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2e87f34 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp2f87jgk04jsfy4dmrwrr0pf8fuxqtydgkt59x4kxwak563hgumsppemhxue69uh5qmn0wvhxcmmv9mgdzp'>nevent1q…gdzp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is objectively wrong. I have been shlonking for years with only great affects. <br/><br/>You bought a lie by some entrenched interest 2025-09-05T16:24:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsplfhj25g7ezzff02y2zskvajfjcamglkrfdt0gxcfhkefy5tuf7czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk22e74cs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswtpk9j4awq2xf9rfpzmldn8u5clexlepacrpjhdxewa8xt4uwj4c37y4cj'>nevent1q…y4cj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s the easiest breakfast ever, crack into cup of whole milk, is crazy nutritious, and leaves you energized and satisfied fully until lunch 2025-09-05T16:23:14Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs8a5snq0lu9r65vjrsvlul2vp8557a0xgmf82kpufnes0zyl048gszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2u67h00 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2549trrjkhhhhwnavu2q4ewwhlq4k4tpu3933yxt6lqkzr6mnw4cpr4mhxue69uhkvet9v3ejumn0wd68ytnzv9hxgtmrv9hxzerpttlq97'>nevent1q…lq97</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Funny I get gas/issues if I cook em, but raw is actually easier to digest. Easiest breakfast ever 2025-09-05T16:22:34Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsde7xclqym952l9pt9cpznnp6lfqxcvgdsklgugx33cut7al6csjgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2gya5ac In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs09xagx36wn6u9374r0xt6h5k04ehu85k3sshcqjxn2uzhn7j9j3qprdmhxue69uhkvet9v3ejumn0wd68ytnzv9hxgtmsd93hxhy7qka'>nevent1q…7qka</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’ve been shlonking for years, your mental model needs updating 2025-09-05T16:21:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq4laly80hyj2y6pf2r3xjhj6zsgf8fd3d9t4hx5h9ddea08rwmuczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2zv032z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqhglhwavwhunr2slfc75qe9t4tjvmsd4y53se0alnfj53q4mu3lgpramhxue69uh5ummnw3ezuetfde6kuer6wasku7nfvuh8xurpvdjs44r4c2'>nevent1q…r4c2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Chug em with whole milk it’s simple and filling and super nutritious 2025-09-05T16:21:19Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszpwcz0t2w6ntgkv7t5za9usexf90fmukjukvdg6y49q9rqcqd66gzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk265kpmy Put the dish cabinet right next to the dishwasher on the ground level.<br/><br/>Now even the littles can help unload dishes.<br/><br/>The simplest of #dadhacks <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/a992a23f7b80434d5be2bc92b0fa4c9a0572e9332aed29077b5868a783fb2853.png"> 2025-09-05T14:25:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf6xyxkk29fqqdxzt5k2adsn6sh2kf3uvdnetslrs6565p7m6y8kqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2dx0wnh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxrccyazlaec2eem5h0xyv9um09cl0ryc4s9wtu0cgffqnn7ge3gqvy2pa8'>nevent1q…2pa8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Heavier weights, smaller sets, but an extra set. I still can’t believe how enjoyable it becomes then and not just a chore. 2025-09-05T13:05:02Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxn4e272r7jxxpc4xkhauqpe4dnttzrv5ycjsdhu52vlpcr73r43szyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2ent2ne In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst580ex9cws68u0vw084a8na2kkr95qemauy5tal2lvzpg0sxspngprfmhxue69uhhq7tjv9kkjepwve5kzar2v9nzucm0d5hs4tql8y'>nevent1q…ql8y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>“And did it cure your gay thoughts?” 2025-09-04T19:24:47Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszcehtu66xvhzp7whwt6jqdpraq3xz8uxs5yed7vyavr7ywhj9p2czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2tmeahw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8wq45vs79gqg0w2eg39vry5qlls5a5eqgkh888deqjnw3cmpq3zq6ycshu'>nevent1q…cshu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>As long as it’s not a buttsicle <br/><br/>I mean come on you should have put more time between these topics 2025-09-04T19:19:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsgpqwsue3kvnmwqlsjy07mawffxturlm9dzsxyjk88pmscvmn994czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2ahzlf6 This a post about being a dad and going all in. <blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/nevent1qqs979u9cskzn8eqtjcq2yr5gy2ql0e8uxe0xy6k40d0zf7c8ec93kgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgyhum2n" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">nevent1q…um2n</a></span> </div> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/8132d0df47ba232e0fc6e11cda874925bd21b2b6460473cfa83b7aa1a4466d91.jpg"> </blockquote> 2025-09-04T16:38:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2l7kcrc9dn8tuhqqzrvuulm0940w2qwprs2kdq6np7ynzw0c8k8szyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2dk5s9z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspzgsrxgdgt0em5p98a84ylvs7m3x3x6mhjnx5g0xz64gexc50qdqpzemhxue69uhhxetpwf3kstnwdaejuar0v3shjarakpa'>nevent1q…akpa</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oye get this fookin shite off me toimeloine 2025-09-03T21:34:26Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsypq5an39cn2hljs7x8a9nh7hxjkaczva7umksvpyj8c2n39202rczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk25krtr2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstxqeu0cz3yfxrdlywpsw97cc0w5w65053val0ecvvnftlz4v0xzqjj2zgr'>nevent1q…2zgr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is one of the biggest reasons to avoid regular marijuana use IMO 2025-09-03T15:06:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsflk2mefcdld7dw5p84w7z4cd8clu0c3ycqtgf3pkfhzvuvepn06gzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2vdwf66 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspjsquhw60nfg8f62aeqfpmnqk02essl2cmepdmxvv0fth673cykqpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgg0p5wx'>nevent1q…p5wx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Grow<br/><br/>In all facets of life, in due time. Sometimes in surprising counter-intuitive ways.<br/><br/>For example, growing both in tribal power and yet also humility and service. 2025-09-03T14:44:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsyr3wh82fxympwlvlsg6js6lyp8dc53tx92m68q764355zthx7hkqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2qujyj2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstx3y32xr3aqcarl0trz3cljuxqnmlhvm29gr3fjn6qrnwxtl2jfsp9dmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv9aex2mrp0yh8xmn0wf6zuum0vd5kzmq0n5769'>nevent1q…5769</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I saw dads and clicked, am simple man. <br/><br/>But it shows a cloudflare error 🙁 2025-09-03T13:29:13Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs0kkkw4hgh4zu36ld45m7qhf3nt9q29p3he78zfnnch5r88cz484qzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk265nnyr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrxun2z6ssgvj3yav297sd6n9vr6v83y5yk9u720zj2xlxfscclkqp2emhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnzv9hxgtmwwp6kyvt5xdmhxem2xek8vcmkxqmnyemrwdk8ymtjvc6ny7nhdf3njun4xg6ns7f4xc6nw735xenxsunrxfnxwdnkw948wwrpdq6qgs3hun'>nevent1q…3hun</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>4 is twice as much as 3. 🫡 2025-09-03T12:59:22Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrzvnksty4ct48add6sgd630sjpq2ra7gncmved876x3s9wv8gylqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2k3jy2j Dudes with just 2 young kids often have no idea how great it is to have more. They are still searching for “me time” like they used to have.<br/><br/>I’m having me time right now. With a cup of coffee in the sunroom holding my 5th baby watching the sunrise.<br/><br/>Unbelievably fulfilling <br/><br/> 2025-09-03T12:47:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr02qn7fg8pppapq7luj3fuhjce6h26wwd2szh2v56zwa4c3pcn5gzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2pwm0ca In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdxkwnafkgnfg68g6xkqau25548fewg440x5s8r4uud0sednkewuge59xmt'>nevent1q…9xmt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Capping at 3 kids for more “me time” is lame though 2025-09-03T12:45:53Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdvlkc73jewgxtwaegn445g2d232v4hynx34ak9pdjxct5sl5ps9czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2w2293m In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswn4p5a50u8h5vtjtp3lt5st9uzuf2wps08hl3x9fu6x4ccnslzkspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhg8pm7sn'>nevent1q…m7sn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Country boy can survive! 2025-09-03T12:43:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszpgcn9kjwyvn0ekd6p5sveukmkza0dqhqm9jdflnurvxdn8ggpxqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2m87tm8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz0gm9m449ld8rwwhx9lqjwrtly2lf2hwznjcl05hj3c5dde6akkspndmhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0y5erqamnwvaz7tmwdaehgu3wd3skuep0y5erqffjxpshvct5v9ez2v3swaehxw309ahx7um5wgh8w6twv5hj2v3sy5erqctkv96xzu39xgc8wumn8ghj7ur4wfcxcetjv4kxz7fwvdhk6te9xgc8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7ffjxpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv9ued8vrx'>nevent1q…8vrx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>~6 to failure instead of 8-12 2025-09-02T21:56:37Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvtc4cnkunrg2fhdn2gzgjwuwmcduh645uyt5y0uryqeq84y2rwlqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk277adpp Fewer reps and heavier weights was the advice I needed when I was younger. It makes all the difference in the world for a man. Makes it dopaminergic.<br/><br/>#dadhacks <br/><br/>I was a stick at 18 years old. Computer kid.<br/><br/>I still would be if I hadn’t been taught this one key thing.<br/><br/>Now I’m just normal/healthy. 2025-09-02T21:43:30Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsreyy77vlza4447ajcxz7glxl3z6dk7l0wrq0lu2vpr7npkqp37xszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2rz5uh0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2t8leqethkvr3ey0wtjky7lxn88mxx3246gq4wexak6au6m8nfxqpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgu5nu9p'>nevent1q…nu9p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Easy there! some of us are family NGU bros 2025-09-02T18:00:59Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdkzg0z77x4hkpz4tmypk0juf6jhagd3798es0pf2amml88u9hx2szyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2mtrh89 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2tsde3tnygw9mmvxmamw7jsd2ys3f44kpdzw4d6w5xhhrpcarluqpyfmhxue69uhkummnw3ez6an9wf5kv6t9vsh8wetvd3hhyer9wghxuet5yjnefa'>nevent1q…nefa</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>False dichotomies everywhere all the sudden! 2025-08-30T17:55:24Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszkxtvhv65c6lugxqe0h0mq5hpyfczeda66snnqmhtjk72rcjqwsqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk29f7w57 With so many young kids in the house, I must demand total obedience as a daily discipline of #dadhacks. There simply isn’t wiggle room.<br/><br/>With that I also give lots of patience, encouragement, and grace, pointing them #ToChristAlone along the way.<br/><br/>But the posture I have to take is very much the opposite of “gentle parenting” techniques that coddle children. You simply can’t scale a family that way.<br/><br/>And you bet when the children are orderly enough and you are loving enough, your wife will want more of them.<br/><br/>1 Timothy 3:4–5 (ESV)<br/>“He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church?”<br/><br/>It’s good to demand obedience. And good to give grace.<br/><br/>Hold the line, fathers.<br/>As the Father holds the line on us.<br/><br/>#dadhacks 2025-08-30T17:53:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr39gk264yvscpv0r2z3n527dk079l468az30szv4cvpls7xl4nsszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2am7ez9 Thinking about getting a <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qqswhhhf99z77pfg80s2c00z27rusxn2tzss7450n34krkwa2yadhtgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgqg5waehxw309ahx7um5wghxganywshxgetkmg3wa3" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>daylightco</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…3wa3</span>)</a></span> because I read a lot in Logos - it’s why I got an iPad mini originally but that eye fatigue is real 2025-08-30T14:20:15Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9w835ts3th4kncrpmvcvp2yltqhze7u2lpp6ut2f8qmcfw32pspgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2nwtspd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrkpx3utnn7w9w8qk8zelu3n48ahk9r3n6j3da4yt2yglvx6xf8wsl9rmj3'>nevent1q…rmj3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Cheers to that <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/284b0d23085cd974be92e6702d6aff358d78ed785a04a40f837f3a4e61f1ebdc.png"> 2025-08-30T02:13:00Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrkpx3utnn7w9w8qk8zelu3n48ahk9r3n6j3da4yt2yglvx6xf8wszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2hwmv3e For 14 years I’ve been paying off student loans on a CS degree I didn’t finish and my wife’s private school arts degree she never used. We both had $120k each.<br/><br/>Yes my income grew, but I refinanced to minimize payments and stacked sats instead. <br/><br/>This week we rotated out just enough to cover the 60k that was left and eliminate all debts (except 2.25% mortgage)<br/><br/>I am a now a free man.<br/><br/>Thank God for #Bitcoin 2025-08-29T15:07:46Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsrwq5zaw0jpxhw24vk42urgcw8q3mvrdakpcfcw32fawkkxjhat4czyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2p97s0u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2q20n6p53pxneddvd8uaecdd3x7vd7q7xdngea7pnuv0qlsfp0sspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgwwpp3k'>nevent1q…pp3k</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>““Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the miracles that were performed in you had been performed in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago in sackcloth and ashes.” -Jesus<br/><br/>Telling entire cities to feel shame 2025-08-28T20:41:21Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsg3xa028gl2w2alxjna6xy0w2mecu6t76zv9nfr54lq69faff92nszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2kzyxqw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspwfnzazetkg6y3mm2z7ythfhdv2csttlf4px6ylu2umfscmgzafgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgcqy2ev'>nevent1q…y2ev</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I love my HP color LaserJet Pro. I buy toner once a year and run my homeschool through it so lots of printing I’ve had it for four years flawless. 2025-08-26T22:50:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs2ny35cnhjpcrf2a62qhxa7a6j8y243a4ch04tn7nvmzjlgar9eaqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2s0cd8x In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf4ughhn62p9mez4uc99d5v58zev062ldhel7qhqfmewjmhv4f2cgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgjw6fp0'>nevent1q…6fp0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I might anyway tbh. Mom died of colon cancer 10 years ago, so I care about ze colo 2025-08-26T02:14:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsf4ughhn62p9mez4uc99d5v58zev062ldhel7qhqfmewjmhv4f2cgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2yknqtt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0pxhz5y3m4rggshdccqv2zqnr3grfuahjd3mgtcdyjlatsvtet9csmr5ca'>nevent1q…r5ca</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’ll do it if you do it first 🤣 2025-08-26T02:13:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswvsqgs9nalkqpat66pzqwnp6ahjxm6ekvtcxw4nn4g4vuwhyyhaszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2kt8mhc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqk99hd9t9m2drt2297lw48gpexkx92ehvwr9nklm94mx6mh4lghsprpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv0trsw7'>nevent1q…rsw7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>We weren’t going to go either. Had been saying that all year (we have 3 month old), then we saw the weather.<br/><br/>It’s just a vibe, to go and chill at the Great Minnesota Get Together. <br/><br/>I hope you guys have a great day at the fair! 2025-08-26T02:05:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr7lm4d4r0ukmx2pp9jj0pg9gad887jgkp6m3cr8fnahsfxu0qryczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2ylmjjp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd3md9r0l0n9vnj3k44k7kesn4shu4n8mpqhdlswezrsaffq0p74sp9dmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv9aex2mrp0yh8xmn0wf6zuum0vd5kzmq8thcle'>nevent1q…hcle</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The lines for new foods were prohibitively long. I don’t think it’s new but I hadn’t had the honey cream soda float from the ag building bees and honey wing yet. Phenomenal 2025-08-26T00:26:45Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstpfzwfcsuuapd5sy7jv0cfn6kte92jgwqgc73alwf58esfh6ja5qzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2krzlx8 Take a day off and go to the fair. The memories last a lifetime and it’s a serious time sovereignty flex to be able to go on a weekday when there are no lines.<br/><br/>People look at me like I’m nuts there with so many young kids. “You’re so brave” one grandma said to me. <br/><br/>It’s confusing because these are the fun years. It’s pure magic for the littles.<br/><br/>#dadhacks <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/719ae630a4a249ac8028d56c87f51dc185526b18551c6ccf81febf1db2c05548.png"> <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/826bdf701189ca53ae51b57c99739416e4174eba6ae2456f7ef454aea2d8bd34.png"> <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/fa6ff2ff781fca8afe1d5b0afd66692fe603bedb2eae5e8c14de8a1a8bd6e00c.png"> <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/2c8a57aa634a2eb53b2f1195cb17f9669e7307419ff35481466048cf43904624.png"> 2025-08-26T00:23:41Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsp7z7gqajannnm2ww2azy0ax3fdy4d3cxxyxa7e82maervswt43lszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk23xhytt Spotted at the #MinnesotaStateFair <br/><br/>One lone orange koi in the tank with the river fish by the DNR building. <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/15f9376ed53984bef8c18a0f406397507aba572ab5097c92891b069786fcd2c0.png"> 2025-08-25T14:20:27Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsq5lp4e9qj9rgztgrhlu3ttmsjrvj74nqdpavewlkfugh47mynsqgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk203z7c7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr030jumez72cjjn30n653j32957saalvnhge58g2kygykkxezlmspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgfwpcc7'>nevent1q…pcc7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Proof of work <br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/5150e14db0c28bacbd8d02410fe773657824a6a00574238f4cbe56415632b6bb.png"> 2025-08-25T00:33:56Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsr030jumez72cjjn30n653j32957saalvnhge58g2kygykkxezlmszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2g7zzze When they start throwing major fits, don’t stop moving until they sleep. #dadhacks Always prioritize sleep at the #minnesotastatefair<br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/d642acd88ff3cee5f39e7b11ebbf422f061d1030cf6ae18d797e387bacc767ff.png"> 2025-08-24T23:22:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsxc8qfaz6klrynjdg63l44wzgzp8y5fxd7yj9ljdd0jljyhv7aytczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2s2zsvg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstvtjq0rda3grfpywvu3ak6y30xcptlxmv4wrwy64tuuf28umap3cpz4mhxue69uhk2er9dchxummnw3ezumrpdejqzvv2gw'>nevent1q…v2gw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It was Apple Photos that had me give up and come back tbh. (Former graphite here) Risk gradient tradeoffs and I am currently comfortable. <br/><br/>I’ll gladly look a fool here to ask this: has a compelling photo self storage with no hassle solution come out yet? <br/><br/>I see immich is a thing but I’m still burned from the last self-hosted picture thing I tried in 2021, curious if others have thoughts or advocacy. I take a lot of pictures of my family 2025-08-23T20:11:17Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvzs69p2kupjcj4us2t3n60jrkt4pdgr0r4ydr2j5ufjlmkd043sczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk24rr4gx Take your kids to water #dadhacks<br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/530e089460b5af77787b2fdd961318a509f31c8fd2b9f384fd68fd10dcac63fb.png"> 2025-08-23T19:08:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqstptkmcnv6j83knfd6g2z48cf280q5r0mswtarzwwvvnl0gdlsmkgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2tvhpdh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszq0xncc7xszeps3tyann7d3kjvl55km0h6sfjgcr6mtve3rqnescr20wc0'>nevent1q…0wc0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Psalm 55:12–14 - “For it is not an enemy who taunts me—then I could bear it; it is not an adversary who deals insolently with me - then I could hide from him. But it is you, a man, my equal, my companion, my familiar friend. We used to take sweet counsel together; within God’s house we walked in the throng.” 2025-08-23T18:54:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsv67gq39krgm0ln8knrhaqg0m0wmfyzpf4wyjzktcqr7866plfrtczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2jzexd0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9ugckgsqgyf7kem0qggqhy2lxqvu0e598dnjzk86h6l3rh3sf0zqpyzkph'>nevent1q…zkph</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Lack of web search is the only thing keeping it from being my main ! 2025-08-21T23:50:20Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs00xhceukrc09qnrzd5cj07xpl09jccy020zyp7e943t76py6rftszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2hq97uj The main reason I came back to Christianity after eight years of atheism is because of two things: Bitcoin and my children.<br/><br/>For years I searched for a framework to raise my kids in. I tried stoicism, new ageism, agnosticism, and atheism. All of it left me dissatisfied. All of it felt like handing my children a bankrupt inheritance.<br/><br/>Bitcoin changed me. It lowered my time preference—suddenly I was thinking about the future, my legacy, and my children. That forced me to ask deeper questions. And when I searched for answers, I kept running into Christ.<br/><br/>My testimony feels simple: I looked everywhere else, but only Christianity gave me a model of reality that actually worked. Creation, sin, death, resurrection—Christianity explains not only success and failure, but the countless side effects and nuances of this broken world.<br/><br/>And then you look at the Bible itself—how it came to be over centuries, organically, with the same markers that life itself has. You’ve probably seen the chart of inter-testament references. My old atheist mind said, “That’s circular reasoning.” Yet it’s the same kind of “circular reasoning” that underpins Bitcoin’s very value.<br/><br/>Both are rooted in truth, in something beyond the self.<br/><br/>Bitcoin pointed me to the long game. Christ showed me the eternal one.<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://blossom.primal.net/d38d309680b3259497250512b13766a060664a47e0dc6224e8550d0608813642.mp4"></video> 2025-08-21T21:31:06Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqspavwu4fzsp0q2h8fdk7jctn3m3gn6gpea4rsmk5srl3gg5h33qxgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2puvzl2 Both my boss and my neighbor who is a financial advisor acted surprised when I told them I was a bitcoiner and not a shitcoiner. <br/><br/>Surprised because it had not crossed their mind to differentiate the two.<br/><br/>In 2025 2025-08-21T15:45:09Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsw52pc5qpuxfd57qusugsmjake937mda79dakfhsleef322datqngzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk27j80vy Billionaire cringe posting his tech that makes anime bikini babe pictures dance was not on my bingo card for 2025, and yet it totally tracks. 2025-08-21T15:20:52Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqswg0srmkx5g9y6u27cm20kxxknhgwgd5czhwpfc5vl4sxltcakl6szyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2qcerg3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdchnflkcg2j8sn2e8kpzy5ge0rq564rstvx3tax8lwfqdvvteeusgg6zxz'>nevent1q…6zxz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Nah, there’s always another generation you want to see. To live to see 4 is truly a gift from God. 2025-08-20T14:21:39Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdl6c9qcn3dr7mykk6dtgzusv6rhd4vhv6t0vrhzq22qecudk6pfgzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2j0snt5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2ztw7kavdk4ye5jkhlfd52wzrl273kh925vwjkmydjgth7jvxx7gpz3mhxue69uhkummnw3ezummcw3ezuer9wcrsvlcu'>nevent1q…vlcu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Peer validation is one hell of a drug! 2025-08-20T14:16:48Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsdjtts3arng53sjlaf3z3dmjgsd9qugcp2jd9zytfw50dehr0ewcszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2anexfg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdpqmuxvkxr5z5x5h6z9vmkserltsusmdk9ekg5vwwu7s058u5vacpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduacrsh3'>nevent1q…rsh3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Single/first kid demands so much, they have no siblings to play with. It gets a lot easier with more. 2025-08-20T14:14:33Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs957zf0nds6a7lgapjxrhyyjls6meh7ps0n9mchyawpfzv4rvaqeszyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk20scpm6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvqgl0msyhdhca7qxlfrw9qp8vv9rpacgn23ly2pu0xpngalnn03spzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgm2jh32'>nevent1q…jh32</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Apple Photos is why I left graphene and came back to iOS, more or less. The whole import work, and no convincing open source alternative… I just don’t have time and don’t see a serious risk to family photos. Self-hosting is time consuming, or was. Immich didn’t exist at the time though. <br/><br/>What’s your least favorite part of Immich so far? Are you running on a dedicated home server? 2025-08-19T17:35:42Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsy5r7vfq9gsclejlcj7hak64qdrajtwu6v3huqt5a68jscfw6a9mqzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2hx2tsc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfjdf5uvyayszsfq6p2xkfttgen4tmtdxzptmdw7qj5fa8jmjyaycpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnkv46qyfu0mt'>nevent1q…u0mt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>‪They are selling trinkets they’ve made with a friend for 25 cents. They’ve made two sales already 🤣‬<br/><br/>‪God bless small town life ‬<br/> <img src="https://blossom.primal.net/c0c86d1437d0f308ebcf58ebf9f070f181bea2ef78492ac6dcd4d51c5229eb8b.png"> 2025-08-19T16:46:07Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsfjdf5uvyayszsfq6p2xkfttgen4tmtdxzptmdw7qj5fa8jmjyayczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2m8e00v I bought a small town office building to get away from the homeschool noise.<br/><br/>Then I let the church quilting club into the larger half. <br/><br/>Now the wife and kids are here once a week 🙃<br/><br/>Wouldn’t have it any other way though 2025-08-19T14:46:40Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqs9t2s3at4t8xnt88qkj7q75f2g7540rh4vj3g266h4hmvdk3lx56gzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2rv7vkj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvs82v7vcq65u7tydylyjwdvq89fgn0dgfml42y42k9k0jufydajcpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgs4pqgq'>nevent1q…pqgq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Wife is quilting in dining room 2025-08-19T01:20:35Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsvs82v7vcq65u7tydylyjwdvq89fgn0dgfml42y42k9k0jufydajczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2gcsnga In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszqq2gg4est98ddqwgdvga4tz6sf2248cp24gpc05guap2r3mjkccpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgfv9zpf'>nevent1q…9zpf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ah there it is, now I’m getting a “haircut”. <br/><br/>Eldest is cleaning the school room. Next is doing the dishes from dinner.<br/>I’m holding the baby and getting a hair message.<br/><br/>All praise #ToChristAlone for real 2025-08-19T01:20:04Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqszqq2gg4est98ddqwgdvga4tz6sf2248cp24gpc05guap2r3mjkcczyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk297aet9 Yeah you bet my 5 year old daughter is “cutting” my 3 year old son’s hair right now, days later. <br/><br/>Unspeakably adorable <blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/nevent1qqs9gsjkjwc7vqvqs5qprkvh82med0urs7cscttfkxhhuff3pnk7k6qppamhxue69uhkztnwdaejumr0dstz4hq4" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">nevent1q…4hq4</a></span> </div> A wife should cut her husband’s hair.<br/><br/>What other mild nuisance (or worse if you are rural like me) can a wife so lovingly replace with a pure, positive, sensual encounter of simple grace and work of the hands…<br/><br/>On the very head which the man will present to the world for the weeks ahead, no less!<br/><br/>“I would never trust my wife with that” you say? Bro, you need a dose of Rossi and to let go of your borderline gay aesthetic obsession. The worst that you get is a prison cut and you look more hardass anyway.<br/><br/>The best that you get is a handsome cut to perfection and, over time and learning curve, an intensely bonding procedure that is a one way ticket to bonetown and a brilliant dopamine loop as she admires her handiwork in the days to come.<br/><br/>If she’s afraid she’ll mess it up (mine was), it’s the perfect time to show grace to her and yield patience and compassion. Give it time and trial and error. <br/><br/>Every wife can master this skill for their man.<br/><br/>After 2 years like this, and I get a handsome monthly cut not a buzz twice a year, I can hardly believe this tradition was not passed down more eagerly.<br/><br/>A wife should cut her husband’s hair. It’s win/win. </blockquote> 2025-08-19T01:07:12Z https://nostr.ae/nevent1qqsqyphghrwn9z6r0tjnfydxdvcd27jczyprm8ax933m5rmahsapc4qzyzquq2xz33cda0amrvt7s2x2jsfu2a2vh723yghl2zk8alw76dpk2zy5n8g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw942rruzjehlcseu2enhztaude7epk5hf00qsqspmj30dq6kz86gznh3fs'>nevent1q…h3fs</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What are using to edit? 2025-08-19T00:59:52Z