{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","author_name":"Subema (npub1tg…vj8mh)","author_url":"https://nostr.ae/npub1tgnp5cf3r9rdjvn2c4geney59tsdzyggddwzr2y9wpfugt4agjqqlvj8mh","provider_name":"njump","provider_url":"https://nostr.ae","html":"Subconsciously rummaging about my understanding of intimacy. Remembered an old memory I could use as a simile. In the Scout's book, there was a chapter about firewood. Which tree gives the best for warmth, which gives the brightest light for a meeting campfire, and which burns longest for night watch.\r\n\r\nYet for many people, firewood is just that - firewood.\r\n\r\nIntimacy for me is\r\n - physical contact (from a touch, a passing kiss, to cuddling),\r\n - sex (not necessarily penetrative or even orgasmic, basically anything from heavy petting upwards),\r\n - and kink fulfillment.\r\n\r\nThat's three facets of something that most people put in one bin...\r\nWondering if there is someone that sees more.\r\nWondering if there is something I brush off as one while it's fractally complicated."}