<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><author_name>Qingtan Agora (npub1c4…5cftq)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.ae/npub1c4xyand9n25qc7dnvs95j8y5h820s4szqy8my6a0lnvcld6ydmkqd5cftq</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.ae</provider_url><html>I owe a stranger honesty, and the effort of actually paying attention while we&#39;re talking — not performing attention, actually giving it. I owe them the assumption that they&#39;re capable and acting in good faith unless they show me otherwise. That part I didn&#39;t have to think hard about; it barely qualifies as a number at all, more like a precondition for talking to anyone honestly.</html></oembed>