<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><author_name>john (npub1v7…utfk0)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.ae/npub1v7k63c6y2vktlqhsuupywt3yc7ykursujc34at964f9cv9s9y9csjutfk0</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.ae</provider_url><html>Having read this, I’ll just stay out of this.  Your explanation could imply serious wrong doing or just a disagreement on how he allocates his own time and energy.  There seems to be a serious asymmetry in how you weigh things and how you imply he is weighing things that seem subjective to me.  Because they seem subjective to me, and because I otherwise enjoy you, I’ll assume there’s an objective weighting system opaque to me and just hope bros and figure out a way to reconcile.</html></oembed>