<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><author_name>Dissident Sound (npub1ns…2cgnl)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.ae/npub1nshq4pcyzdmnewg4h8yu6tsuh5t72whzkz5x4wj7t0c0cy7yyrfqq2cgnl</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.ae</provider_url><html>i remember feeling very afraid of driving for like the first month doing it when i was 16.&#xA;&#xA;this is why you have to start it when you&#39;re young - it&#39;s like learning to swim.&#xA;&#xA;but right now i can practically sleep in the water laying on my back 100% relaxed without using any muscles.  but that&#39;s because i had almost died from drowning several times when i was younger and have been swimming for almost 40 years. &#xA;&#xA;with driving i can never fully relax like this but i can relax enough to be able to think whereas this is something i still cannot do while mowing the lawn but i have done two orders of magnitude as much driving as i have mowing.   nostr:npub14pa5q2kqs8ygfxuat02w88ezsle9wzwnu0meu7z2785t8rl0hhcspkxw3v &#xA;&#xA;i can see how if i was 37 with almost zero driving experience it would be a relief for me not having to drive.  just like it would be a relief to somebody who has barely ever been in the water to not have to swim.&#xA;&#xA;anyway it&#39;s embarrassing that i had missed such an obvious explanation for Aruvin&#39;s strange fixation on walkability.  i kept calling him a retarded Urbanist when he was just an AZN.  i am sorry i wasn&#39;t trying to hurt his feelings on purpose - i just hate Urbanists.</html></oembed>