<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><author_name>Faith &amp; Practice 🍁 (npub1a0…glqst)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.ae/npub1a02sf243epa7zyjpzxlaq220sktkuwhcjzq5wvk70fszqc7zv63skglqst</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.ae</provider_url><html>Therapists that insert themselves into the social network of their clients as cheerleader-for-hire are cruel and sadistic manipulators. They may not realize it, but they parasitize upon the weak and hate rather than love their clients. This method of care doesn&#39;t result in patient independence, it creates an expensive addiction not much better than a chemical one.&#xA;&#xA;People stuck in struggle don&#39;t need more shallow affirmations to accept dysfunctional aspects of their lives: they need freedom from bondage. They came to these therapists looking for an expert to bring change to what needs fixing. &#xA;&#xA;Think: We need both the love of a mother and the love of a father. We need a mother&#39;s doting and tender counter-conditional love, but we also need the push of expectations and behaviour modelling - both positive and negative discipline to prosper as a person in the world. Any one of these alone is not enough.&#xA;&#xA;We all know too many sons and daughters that live their lives short of their own high potential because of too much of this pseudo-mothering &#34;therapy&#34;. Enough is enough. Delusion affirmation is not sufficient psychological treatment.</html></oembed>