rich1.0Subema (npub1tg…vj8mh)https://nostr.ae/npub1tgnp5cf3r9rdjvn2c4geney59tsdzyggddwzr2y9wpfugt4agjqqlvj8mhnjumphttps://nostr.aeSubconsciously rummaging about my understanding of intimacy. Remembered an old memory I could use as a simile. In the Scout's book, there was a chapter about firewood. Which tree gives the best for warmth, which gives the brightest light for a meeting campfire, and which burns longest for night watch. Yet for many people, firewood is just that - firewood. Intimacy for me is - physical contact (from a touch, a passing kiss, to cuddling), - sex (not necessarily penetrative or even orgasmic, basically anything from heavy petting upwards), - and kink fulfillment. That's three facets of something that most people put in one bin... Wondering if there is someone that sees more. Wondering if there is something I brush off as one while it's fractally complicated.