It's okay to say online because most same people don't put the first it's of relevance in the opinions of anonymous strangers. Truly confident, secure people can withstand contradicting opinions IRL too. People who condone or encourage violence are loathsome, but the effect they have on sufficiently tough personalities is nil.
Not a change of subject. YOU brought up the "hurting feelings is important" drivel. Only if you're a wuss...
