Being Better on Nostr: I can't find them. Admittedly my brain is a little fried. I can't chat in them when I ...

I can't find them. Admittedly my brain is a little fried. I can't chat in them when I send messages no one replies. The nostrholics anonymous one doesn't work for me. I've been trying to get my friends to join Nostr but I need to actually like it myself before I can recommend it to them. 😂