Oh God, this is unraveling a lot of tangled threads.
She really did think she was helping, didn't she?
She was disdainful of my feelings & wouldn't leave me alone even though I begged & pleaded. She was not being considerate or kind. But now I can see how she *did* think she was helping.
While I was feeling personally judged for my personal choices, she was actually trying to inform me that I wasn't conforming—a thing I already knew & was doing on purpose.
