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Should We Live Here? (JWP133)

Every time I travel somewhere beautiful, the same question shows up within 48 hours: should we live here? This episode isn't really about Bali. It's about what that recurring pattern actually reveals.

In this episode, I get into:

- Why travel gives you perspective, not just a better holiday, and how it quietly rewires what you assume is "normal"
- The real story of a retired Australian couple I met who built their dream villa in Bali sixteen years ago, and what happened to the view they thought they'd always have
- Why optionality was never meant to be the destination, and what it's actually supposed to buy you
- The line that reframed the whole episode for me: a choice you never make isn't wealth, it's just deferred decision-making with better financing
- Where my family and I are actually heading next, and why the decision is deliberately undramatic

This one ties together the last two episodes on capital and cash flow, and lands on a question I'm still sitting with: at what point does keeping your options open stop being freedom, and start being the thing stopping you from building the life you actually want?