nami on Nostr: I thought that a married couple have the same lifestyle. How can it be different? ...

I thought that a married couple have the same lifestyle. How can it be different?
Anyway we are not living in a world where only men have money and responsibilities and women have theirs.
The problem is, and it is seen in what you wright also, that "modern" couples tend to don't act like one entity, but try to kind of exploit each other to have a convenient life. Doesn't really work in most cases...