There’s a really important spiritual parable:
A Mom brings her son to the Guru, says “he won’t stop eating sugar! Tell him to stop eating sugar.”
The Guru thinks, says “very well, come back next week.”
They come back next week, Mom says “Tell him to stop eating sugar!”
The Guru considers, says “please, I need one more week”.
Mom comes back a week later, “tell my Boy to stop eating sugar.”
Guru says “I can’t. Because I can’t do it myself yet.”.
