Subema on Nostr: Always thought one should be considered lucky if their kinks are at least partially ...

Always thought one should be considered lucky if their kinks are at least partially realisable. That the poor souls with kinks like vorophilia had it much much worse, being sentenced to a lifetime of knowing it's out of their reach, just fantasising about it. Coming to terms that knowing the impossibility of it for sure is in some twisted sense better than having the always-maybe of the former.