I post #dadhacks and #wifehacks to scale a family that I’ve learned from the school of life.
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Last Notes npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl In response to me explaining what Maundy means, “Mandate”. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I’m ready for Upril before Downgust npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I had my Claude bot create a web app for tracking Easter eggs. Take picture and track gps coordinates. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl When the church asks you to preach one Lenten Wednesday on one of the petitions in the Lords Prayer, you should say yes and help your pastor out. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl This is the 2020s equivalent joke of the 2000s “give me cancer now god!” npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl 5th kid is almost a year old. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Having “the conversation” with our oldest two daughters tonight. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Go to the creek with your family npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl @nprofile…l523 I should have tagged, and yes exactly npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl My wife was still on free ChatGPT until today, just asking about an old friend in Minnesota and it tried to hedge random unrelated crap about the events in Minneapolis today. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Midlife means there is a second half far better than the first. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Pray your longest prayer of the day when putting the littles to sleep. Take as long as you need. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl https://blossom.primal.net/bb95337d74183e11205e3661189dae06f72603dcef8efd08f7200665c687ab7e.jpg npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I took a break to sleep train my 7 month old three times in the last 3 months. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Yeah bc those already high leverage jobs are getting even more leverage. Unbelievable productivity npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Pacifier’s are an anti pattern. Give them to less than one year olds for something to do. Never use them as long term comfort. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl The Avalon Q was worth every sat. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Totally depraved npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl This is a modern heresy unfortunately. Yet also the oldest trick in the book. “Did God _really_ say that?” npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl 5 months old, waking 3-4 times a night. Wife exclusively breastfeeds. I dropped the hammer on that little baby last night. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl As a Christian, I am called to share my wealth with neighbors in need. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl If aiming to ease, there is wisdom in the advice to start with chickens, rabbits for some seasons, then maybe sheep once you’re ready to try a bigger thing. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl 6 acres. Cut my teeth with a family dairy cow and three sheep and eventually cried uncle. We went too hard on the homestead life at first, pared back a ton last year and even more this year ( a summer with an infant ). npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I totally get that. It was like that for a couple of days for me but I pushed through, now the novelty is over and all that’s left is camaraderie. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Exactly! All the necessary monkey work was automated, is just even more fun now. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Update on moving back home to work near kids: npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Many of the promises in the Bible are not just about the life to come, but are about this life now. Do the work. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I got a tiny rural office building to get away from my homeschoolers several years ago. Coding means holding a ton of fragile context in my head and the little interruptions here and there were truly destructive. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Daaaad! 😫 npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Hard mode, engaged! Nicely done 🤘 npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Found my new favorite hashtag! npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Good luck! It sounds like you have a good process you’re going to follow. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl “My precious” the deagle npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I've sleep trained all prior kids at 4-5 months old. This 5th baby smiles so much and I'm a completely different man with a lot more freedom... I don't have it in me yet. Might just bring him into bed for a few weeks. (Could totally change my mind in a week) npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl There's a lot of terrible advice in this thread. Follow me instead npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl It doesn’t. But the Lord provides. And it scales far better than you can imagine. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl He lived in Christ, and his death is gain. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl je suis Charlie npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Checking my nostr feeds after my first code review session on my new @nprofile…cewr outside in the sun and… npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I work in a 100M ARR majestic monolith daily and do not get this feeling. It’s all just subfolders and context management. In fact wonder if microservices _prevent_ LLM from getting big picture in many cases. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl When I use @nprofile…2xcj it really feels like that npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl The free market speaks npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Look with 5 kids 9 and under homeschooled by mom, that means I am the school custodian. This is one of the greatest #wifehacks npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Lol yeah maybe it was just incompetence at the FDA or something like that. Idk but I was infected by the stigma too, until I saw others (see bodybuilders) and proved it to myself otherwise npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl With the elimination of all of my debt (except mortgage), I'm officially switching to Strike + Bill Pay on a 1.5% flat cash back card with local credit union. One step further off the dollar. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Shlonking with whole milk is a great way to spice it up. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Raw eggs do not cause salmonella infections. This is a lie that you bought. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl This is objectively wrong. I have been shlonking for years with only great affects. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl It’s the easiest breakfast ever, crack into cup of whole milk, is crazy nutritious, and leaves you energized and satisfied fully until lunch npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Funny I get gas/issues if I cook em, but raw is actually easier to digest. Easiest breakfast ever npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I’ve been shlonking for years, your mental model needs updating npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Chug em with whole milk it’s simple and filling and super nutritious npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Put the dish cabinet right next to the dishwasher on the ground level. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Heavier weights, smaller sets, but an extra set. I still can’t believe how enjoyable it becomes then and not just a chore. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl “And did it cure your gay thoughts?” npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl As long as it’s not a buttsicle npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl This a post about being a dad and going all in. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Oye get this fookin shite off me toimeloine npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl This is one of the biggest reasons to avoid regular marijuana use IMO npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Grow npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I saw dads and clicked, am simple man. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl 4 is twice as much as 3. 🫡 npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Dudes with just 2 young kids often have no idea how great it is to have more. They are still searching for “me time” like they used to have. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Capping at 3 kids for more “me time” is lame though npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Country boy can survive! npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl ~6 to failure instead of 8-12 npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Fewer reps and heavier weights was the advice I needed when I was younger. It makes all the difference in the world for a man. Makes it dopaminergic. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Easy there! some of us are family NGU bros npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl False dichotomies everywhere all the sudden! npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl With so many young kids in the house, I must demand total obedience as a daily discipline of #dadhacks. There simply isn’t wiggle room. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Thinking about getting a @nprofile…3wa3 because I read a lot in Logos - it’s why I got an iPad mini originally but that eye fatigue is real npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Cheers to that npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl For 14 years I’ve been paying off student loans on a CS degree I didn’t finish and my wife’s private school arts degree she never used. We both had $120k each. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl ““Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the miracles that were performed in you had been performed in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago in sackcloth and ashes.” -Jesus npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I love my HP color LaserJet Pro. I buy toner once a year and run my homeschool through it so lots of printing I’ve had it for four years flawless. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I might anyway tbh. Mom died of colon cancer 10 years ago, so I care about ze colo npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I’ll do it if you do it first 🤣 npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl We weren’t going to go either. Had been saying that all year (we have 3 month old), then we saw the weather. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl The lines for new foods were prohibitively long. I don’t think it’s new but I hadn’t had the honey cream soda float from the ag building bees and honey wing yet. Phenomenal npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Take a day off and go to the fair. The memories last a lifetime and it’s a serious time sovereignty flex to be able to go on a weekday when there are no lines. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Spotted at the #MinnesotaStateFair npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Proof of work npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl When they start throwing major fits, don’t stop moving until they sleep. #dadhacks Always prioritize sleep at the #minnesotastatefair npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl It was Apple Photos that had me give up and come back tbh. (Former graphite here) Risk gradient tradeoffs and I am currently comfortable. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Take your kids to water #dadhacks npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Psalm 55:12–14 - “For it is not an enemy who taunts me—then I could bear it; it is not an adversary who deals insolently with me - then I could hide from him. But it is you, a man, my equal, my companion, my familiar friend. We used to take sweet counsel together; within God’s house we walked in the throng.” npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Lack of web search is the only thing keeping it from being my main ! npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl The main reason I came back to Christianity after eight years of atheism is because of two things: Bitcoin and my children. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Both my boss and my neighbor who is a financial advisor acted surprised when I told them I was a bitcoiner and not a shitcoiner. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Billionaire cringe posting his tech that makes anime bikini babe pictures dance was not on my bingo card for 2025, and yet it totally tracks. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Nah, there’s always another generation you want to see. To live to see 4 is truly a gift from God. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Peer validation is one hell of a drug! npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Single/first kid demands so much, they have no siblings to play with. It gets a lot easier with more. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Apple Photos is why I left graphene and came back to iOS, more or less. The whole import work, and no convincing open source alternative… I just don’t have time and don’t see a serious risk to family photos. Self-hosting is time consuming, or was. Immich didn’t exist at the time though. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl They are selling trinkets they’ve made with a friend for 25 cents. They’ve made two sales already 🤣 npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl I bought a small town office building to get away from the homeschool noise. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Wife is quilting in dining room npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Ah there it is, now I’m getting a “haircut”. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl Yeah you bet my 5 year old daughter is “cutting” my 3 year old son’s hair right now, days later. npub1s8qz3s5vwr0tlwcmzl5z3j55z0zh2n9lj5fz9l6s43l0mhkngdjs204czf dadhodl What are using to edit?
