It's useless getting men to sympathize with women's pain, because women's pain is what they masturbate to. Elder zoomer (1999), ass burgers haver, evil man hating feminist, goth, wannabe music blogger, better a corporate slave than somebody's wife If you're from another instance I probably have you muted so don't even bother
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Last Notes npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda A lot of women who submit to men were lead to believe by that man that their submission affords her his protection. The men get the woman to believe that by some miracle they are protecting her by doing fuck all. That's basically the only reason women submit at all, even in sexual contexts. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda I'm not going to sugarcoat it anymore, anyone who still watches anime in 2026 is a loser and a pedophile. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda God what I wouldn't give to be able to go back in time and stop anime from ever existing. It's genuinely been nothing but a blight on the entire world. I say this as someone who used to like it. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Are you an engineer now? After all is said and done I still think engineering is pretty cool npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda It is, really and truly. And tradwife type women assert that women like me who have careers are jealous of them because they get to stay at home and l live a miserable life of crunching away at spreadsheets. I have had women say stuff like that to me before, even after I tell them that a. I work from home and b. my job is extremely rewarding and I earn enough money to do literally whatever I want. If anything they seem kind of jealous of me because even on rough work days I get paid, two days off a week, and time to do whatever I want after work. When you are a stay at home wife and mother you get absolutely none of those things. Like you know how engineering students are a bit conceited and think everyone pursuing a "lesser" degree is jealous of them for not being as smart, but they're really the jealous ones because they're the ones doing more work? Or was that just my experience? npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Grandkids are nice. I am not disparaging people who want grandkids. But that is still a self serving reason, as are all of those other reasons, even though they say not wanting kids is the selfish option. It's not like having kids automatically cancels out your selfishness. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda It's funny because all childfree people I know tell me all these personal reasons they are not having children and most of them are pretty valid. Meanwhile when people tell me I need to have kids and I ask them why, they say some vague bs like "that's just how it's supposed to be". https://media.spinster.xyz/43c19ab2372f1ce7ed1c6bd9329b641079fcf61e3263ed80555f6d9630ce4ef2.png npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Epstein said we are cattle and he wasn't wrong. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda You know what's interesting? 2-3 years ago when I was in a deep state of psychosis due to ongoing abuse and undiagnosed bipolar at the time, I was right leaning. Not necessarily a full Republican or a conservative but definitely an anti feminist pick me and a Trump supporter. I was still in psychosis when I became a feminist and joined Spinster so my mindset was different then as well. I believed all men were evil for what men had done to me. Now I can't help but notice how hard of a shift I have made towards the left now that I am no longer experiencing psychosis. I despise Trump with all of my heart and I am going to try to vote him out of office come November. I am a feminist, I don't believe all men are evil but average men have misogynistic, violent, and narcissistic behaviors socialized into them since they are born, and this must end. I still am not fully on board with the left for all the transgender psychosis they have been pushing for like a decade, but I do have empathy for a lot of the people who fall into it since bullshit gender roles are constraining and suffocating and cause dysphoria in the first place, they must be abolished. Is being a liberal really linked with mental illness as the right likes to claim? Well, maybe for some. There are genderspecial people who are mentally ill for sure. But for me, being a conservatard was mental illness. I am glad to be out of that and I am glad other people are waking up too. Trump's approval ratings are in the dumpster, let's make sure they get even lower. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda So now Kristi Noem and Pam Bondi have both learned the hard lesson that no matter how much you suck up to Trump, no matter how much you humiliate yourself trying to protect him, no matter how many evil acts you commit in his name, it is still not enough for him. Tulsi's next. I also can't help but ask why is it only the women? npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda It's just the first half of Titanic. It just cuts off. I went there when I was a kid. I don't remember much but I do remember putting my hand in the icy cold water. It was like being stabbed. To have your whole body in it in the Atlantic is a horrible way to go. https://media.spinster.xyz/925bf35c7403a7c7a3b796932af379f5a498ebc8c5ad179330f143b1c900e927.webp npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda It had illustrations of breasts and female genitalia but only where it was appropriate e.g. the part about how to put in a tampon. Nothing was pornographic about it. They don't even teach girls that in school. Meanwhile the boys never got in trouble for drawing the most immaculately designed phallic symbols on anything and everything (they totally weren't gay though) npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Men be like "women hit the wall at 25, here's the proof" and they show a woman who has had botched surgery and a makeup artist who went a little too crazy. At least she still has a full head of hair unlike most mid 20s moids https://media.spinster.xyz/698d5ef5fb013d5b92881076299ce37267441a2752eb98bc3ed9e4819724aa70.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda https://media.spinster.xyz/0128a5fbbd494d7d7732a5652d3f44f6f701b01ddcdf4dfc92b98553c9f8bd34.png npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Ringo Starr's daughter Lee had some awesome style tbqh https://media.spinster.xyz/01217c8f2f55eaa585f056108b82ceb4e2910e14cecf6f19631162ff441a8584.jpeg https://media.spinster.xyz/977da1e8755c9303d7a1fe684ba5f942906f0bd04222891af841dab943e657f6.jpg https://media.spinster.xyz/ac8ad3d33cf1d12060c0aadcd4523ce045b3a10e8967587c252773d4c7eddaa3.jpg https://media.spinster.xyz/cda49dee0b3d7d3df726c1472d37faae95764651d4b9f63367c5ccc9350178e8.jpeg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Remember before the election when MAGAs were posting memes like this? Well Kamala is not in office, and yet... https://media.spinster.xyz/f4d19b7ffe6b549e6aa5b933c6186dee51957d9cbbdad773bbd7e9835d56dd72.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Even "based" chud white nationalist 4chan and kiwifarms users only hated Epstein because they'd give anything to be in his position. Before his arrest I mean npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda https://media.spinster.xyz/b67ade0790675dd45203702377592dda07e6a9a89c5bf28803da8618ad453811.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda https://media.spinster.xyz/24f8d179cb565190b2acf84e3d7a45c22c8e8bdd63cc7abea77ab63eed094f13.mp4 npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Ugh. I fucking hate men like this. Which means I hate 95% of them because even the "good" ones still hold secret desires to do something akin to this. Women should really learn from the bonobos about fighting male aggression. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2025/04/250424120801.htm npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Whenever I hear about a woman murdering a man like this, I automatically assume he deserved it. Because very few times has it been proven that he didn't. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda If men are so easily manipulated and weak-willed that a woman's bare skin distracts him from work or "forces" him to commit an act of sexual assault against her, then maybe they shouldn't be running society at all. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda https://media.spinster.xyz/4dc5b3ec4a492ba835481af613b952c0b9d226e58f1ab498618cb31d3fef2b76.jpeg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda The CIA is not involved with the current situation in Iran npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda https://media.spinster.xyz/4a9b239ca73a1024401737dc778212b2dc0b3e85a2a530f201d354ddf8e38727.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Men claim that women are overly emotional, meanwhile their emotions literally drive them to commit mass murder https://media.spinster.xyz/4cb0ee1bfa54f8f4a738a27fa37def831fdf1a7d5daffafa5e29e0a74fcd15aa.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Was offered same day PTO today. Normally I try not to take it but I'm a little sick so I did today. So now instead of working I am back in bed with the cat on top of me npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda ❤️ https://media.spinster.xyz/e09ee41157baba54a67c32e92ef2bdb725d83b8862e38a166c988f2429b53dca.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda I ran into a guy I used to work with at my therapist's office today. But this wasn't a typical situation. I got fired from that job to make room for the director of infrastructure's brother. And that's not an exaggeration, I was able to prove it at the hearing for my unemployment benefits appeal, which I won. And this particular guy was instrumental in firing me as admitted by my former boss during the hearing. He tried to smile and say how are you, but I ignored him. I have no earthly idea why he ever thought I wouldn't have any hard feelings. I have many hard feelings. Not enough to punch him in the balls like he deserves, but if there weren't other people in the waiting room I would have given him the finger. I don't understand why people say it's a bad thing to hold grudges. Like yes you shouldn't let it consume your life but you are under no obligation to forgive anyone who fucked you over without even buying you dinner first. I make more money than him now so I'm all good! Though I understand why he would need therapy working at that horribly mismanaged dumpster fire and also being 5'3. Sucks to suck npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Are bears big this year? I like bears and I didn't even notice. Then again I don't pay too much attention to trends, only things that are so in your face that I can't help but notice. But what caused this bear resurgence? Was there a cocaine bear sequel I didn't hear about? npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda So this bear cup from Starbucks is the new Stanley Cup or Labubu. If you're a white millennial woman with a tiktok and a parasocial relationship with Taylor Swift you just have to have one, even if it means camping outside of Starbucks in the freezing cold for 3 days and nights All of this shit has to be a psyop to keep women broke, I s2g https://wcuquad.com/6024841/op-ed/the-madness-that-is-starbucks-new-bearista-cup/ npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda One moid talking point I have seen recently is that male gooners jerk off to porn, but female gooners are just as bad, like their porn books about sexy dinosaurs or whatever are sooooo weird! One person writing words about imaginary people is not equivalent to real women and girls being exploited to create porn that moids endlessly consume, and the women who write those books are merely professional ragebaiters. More people are reading female-oriented horse-man hybrid smut books for the absurdity of it than they are to actually get off, and that includes women. The reality is that statistically, men are far more sick and perverted than women could ever even try to be. What's the worst thing you could imagine a person inflicting on another person? Chances are a man has done that to a woman or even a child. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Care to find me an example of a woman hoarding cp of male children? Or creating deepfake porn of male children? Or marrying a male child? Care to find me a female equivalent of Josef Fritzl or a male equivalent of Junko Furuta? npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda "It's thousands" So name one. And i don't mean a female teacher grooming, which is the only example of anything you have given so far. The dozens of cases of women grooming boys doesn't change the fact that the majority of sex crimes against children are committed by men. Find me a group of women gang raping a man. Of a woman kidnapping a man, imprisoning him im her home and forcing him to be her sex slave. Of a male child being forced to marry an adult woman. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda She said men are sick. And she's right. Can you name a country where boys as young as 6 are forcibly married to adult women? Can you name one instance of a woman creating AI generated or deepfake pornography of a male child? Did women build entire industries off of the sexual abuse and exploitation of men and boys? https://media.spinster.xyz/a92c8946715a3c844f842bd9c2cb592bcbea8371d30b8fc55f7bd308d14f0dd2.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda I love how you moids harp on the dozens of adult women who groom male minors but ignore the hundreds of thousands of adult men who groom girls. Give me a break. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Why? Because men are pedophiles, simple as https://youtu.be/4zqm1lkD7OE npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda And nothing will be done to regulate alcohol and alcoholism because those are fine and normal, but taking a gummy is evil. I hate this clown so much. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda So hebephilia is much better than pedophilia according to republicans. Got it. Personally I don't even see why the difference matters. Just because a 15 year old is more mature than a 5 year old by a tiny margin doesn't mean they can consent. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Men don't want obedient women. They want to trap independent women. https://media.spinster.xyz/62e8fb2a070fb8b484e575b85f2fa1a650514d95cde007e2a13b796449194e98.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda I think they're kinda cute. I want to crochet one. Who made this model? It looks great! npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda The blue meanies did nothing wrong!!! npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda The way men act like they are so tough and strong but a mere brush against their balls is enough to make them whimper in a fetal position on the ground. Meanwhile women handle the most excruciating pain imaginable during pregnancy, childbirth and menstruation and they keep going. Men truly ain't shit. https://media.spinster.xyz/afba4364e30678d1fb8e37f81469cbaa0089832a5e724544519e4d4dab99215b.jpeg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda I love homemade costumes! Buying costumes would be better if it were more sustainable. Like the Michael Meyers mask I bought for my costume a few years ago shouldn't have cost me $50 since it melted not long after Halloween. Since I just got into crochet I want to make my own things for Halloween, probably won't do anything next year but I intend on showing off my crochet plague doctor fit at the renaissance fair later this year. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Do people take Halloween decorating more seriously than they used to? As much as i love 12 foot tall horror clown animatronics from spirit halloween i could never spend money on one. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Men support work at will policies but hate no fault divorces because they are afraid of losing their fuckmaid. https://media.spinster.xyz/dd3a8216ba7ff73327c0920eda91895b7b9ac712f279302d72195789d29ef616.jpg npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Apparently he was also dropping hints that he killed this poor child in his songs. I would say "how stupid can you get", but we've seen time and time again that moids love finding subtle ways to brag about crimes they've committed. One british youtuber even pre-recorded a livestream to give himself an alibi for murdering his girlfriend while it went live, and he made hints and jokes about killing her while recording his gameplay footage for the faux livestream. Predators also use coded language to brag to each other about their exploits e.g. "cheese pizza". It's astounding how men can't even avoid incriminating themselves because of their megalithic egos npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda As I said yesterday, they are no less violent than the twitter tards celebrating his death. They just want to be able to commit violence and feel that it's justified. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda I agree, celebrating his death is kinda fucked, but all these pearl clutchers would line up and shoot democrats if they could. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda Honestly if Hasan Piker got shot rightoids would be celebrating and acting the same way leftoids are right now. They're all hypocrites. npub1r7va8273f07futu4q99jp7my7lgjrrghpeqrar8t4n2q4qr0cm9satg58n brenda I hate Elon and I hate cybertrucks but I have no idea why people think that vandalizing them hurts him in any way. Maybe it hurts his ego since is a male after all but he isn't gonna actually lose anything