Mary Yar
Yar 🦋

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2026-08-08 02:38:08 CEST

Just landed in Vancouver 📍 I love beautiful BC. I can’t wait to go to my fave beach!

2026-06-28 04:37:18 CEST

An amazing shot by photographer Ibrahim Ture #photography #artstr #cayyico
https://blossom.primal.net/440fc1be2829df1fb8957c14e9b1755a007b6dc01df82e173c580f284106b2a0.jpg

2026-06-28 02:13:37 CEST

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Aaah go Congo!

2026-06-07 22:39:21 CEST

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💯 #downthexitter
#nevent1q…7a7h

2026-06-07 05:22:30 CEST

Be young, be foolish, but be happy
https://open.spotify.com/track/3UbCQtvvWzivfkCnNxrOoi?si=0rKKuzMvToapykM2lp66XA

2026-05-12 04:34:22 CEST

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Hmm , I’ll have to check ditto out 😁

2026-05-12 03:34:35 CEST

Does anyone have a divine.video invite code? #asknostr

2026-04-29 18:13:17 CEST

Now that I’m older I understand why adults were so obsessed with stretching/Yoga. Like I’m just randomly stiffffff!

2026-04-28 04:38:30 CEST

I wanna move but I can’t make up mind on either #Montreal or #Toronto. I visited both last year and I loved both. How do I make up my mind? #asknostr #moving

2026-04-21 17:16:56 CEST

Does anyone else naturally start to declutter when you get back from a vacation? It’s like wait I don’t need all this stuff lol #asknostr

2026-04-21 17:09:49 CEST

Good morning please enjoy this view from the top of table mountain in Cape Town, South Africa
https://blossom.primal.net/3aa8fc2c939f2d042e139e52b00e94335c3631721c049a517072b184d9c840c8.mov

2026-04-20 17:30:39 CEST

GM 🌞
https://blossom.primal.net/b099dd177d50e86870a78b6e9ef860f6b218082f1ab71210260416a99d3c5f41.jpg

2026-04-19 04:18:27 CEST

https://open.spotify.com/track/2wBCrtJS3E3TimRZ5MElTI?si=Ul6k-EdUS6mzOqP1Z-JYbQ

2026-04-16 17:09:01 CEST

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Oh that’s my little sister lol. I’m taking the photo across the table from her.

2026-04-13 18:04:26 CEST

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Gf?? I thought you were married to the mother of your son? The lady I met a Nostrica? She does marketing?

2026-04-13 13:25:04 CEST

Felt pretty. Will delete later. #locs #blackgirl #vacation #southafrica
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2026-04-13 11:31:23 CEST

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Aww I didn’t know you were orthodox. Happy Easter!

2026-04-13 09:05:03 CEST

Good morning 🌞 #coffeechain #coffeestr

2026-04-12 14:53:51 CEST

#teatime #sundaybrunch #grownostr
https://blossom.primal.net/e867f9cf52f93a098bb3372cbf32c869f71c6bb2be22b4953af6b8dce40a1ed4.jpg

2026-04-12 14:28:07 CEST

I love Cape Town but I’m starting to miss home. I miss my routine.

2026-04-12 14:12:29 CEST

@nprofile…rw04 did I just see you??? I was the girl with the locs and the green summer dress with the gold earrings. I don’t want to say the hotel name in case it docks u.

2026-04-12 11:56:00 CEST

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Gorgeous. I miss Costa Rica so much. The water was so warm not like in Cape Town.

2026-04-12 10:01:20 CEST

Every time I open Bitchat. I’m literally the only person using 🥲 Any nostrich in Stellenbosch??

2026-04-10 20:06:01 CEST

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Switched it up a little and got a French ombré
https://blossom.primal.net/c9c8da0a77a219d16f7c436a033eb088de59ee5d58835ee6152f789b0eecd225.jpg
#nevent1q…n9zl

2026-04-10 19:28:36 CEST

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“Just by living with you”
The living:
- cooking
-cleaning
-turning a house into a home by making it warm and cozy
- her feminine essence
- birthing and raising children
- her energy
- providing emotional support
- providing intimacy
-providing the wisdom that can only come from a woman’s intuition
-providing financial support too ( the reality for many couples)
PAY UP!!!!!

2026-04-10 19:21:11 CEST

I love how multicultural Cape Town is! My tailor? Senegalese. The best restaurant I’ve been to so far? Ethiopian. My hair braider? Nigerian. My nail tech? Zimbabwean.

2026-04-10 18:14:51 CEST

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Damn y’all chicken, you the little

2026-04-10 17:32:52 CEST

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A girl wanting to know your birth chart is a GOOD sign. It means she sees it going somewhere and wants to figure you out. No need to fear.

2026-04-10 11:43:57 CEST

I always get white or French. Sooo bored. Does anybody else have any recs? it’s nail day 💅

2026-04-08 17:10:32 CEST

Sorry bbs mama is like 8 glasses deep. Sorry if I’m a little too real 2nigjt

2026-04-08 17:03:56 CEST

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Nostriches finding a way to squeeze #bitcoin into every topic. I love Bitcoin. I get it. But do we not have other things in common?
#nevent1q…e496

2026-04-08 15:41:16 CEST

If you go to Asara Estate for wine tasting you have to try their vine dried Sauvignon blanc. So sweet! #winestr
https://blossom.primal.net/534e1de831b6cc9cf2285c298cece6773b6b4ef3a7e50424a8be518ffe7dfdf1.jpg

2026-04-07 17:00:31 CEST

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Ugh I really need to hit the gym too. Thanks for the motivation!

2026-04-07 16:24:29 CEST

Hi from Camp’s Bay #capetown #southafrica #travelstr
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2026-04-07 07:05:13 CEST

I love Capetown!

2026-04-05 21:21:18 CEST

Made it to the top of table mountain! ⛰️ That’s one wonder of the world done ✅ 6 to go! #tablemountain #southafrica #7wondersoftheworld
https://blossom.primal.net/a18d685e3c287b37cc51ff8c430e6dd822b0f0bd26abd8a5090fe3c214978535.jpg

2026-04-05 11:41:23 CEST

Your girl is in South Africa!

2026-04-05 11:40:34 CEST

Any nostriches in #Capetown South Africa?

2026-04-02 08:20:10 CEST

International flight in the morning and of course I’m packing at midnight 🥲

2026-02-19 00:52:17 CET

Happy Lunar New Year, Blessed Lent, Ramadan Kareem, Solar Eclipse in Aquarius, Hump day Wednesday, Year of the Fire horse, etc!

2026-02-19 00:46:20 CET

I feel like I’m forgetting how Nostr works lol :(

2026-01-22 04:03:37 CET

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lol I wouldn’t call Carney a Sith Lord but he’s definitely been making some great moves lately!

2026-01-22 03:42:33 CET

I’ve been fighting off the worst flu of my life. 🤧 This is the first time in a week where I actually feel myself getting better, I even got out of bed today.

2026-01-22 03:39:19 CET

Trump needs to leave us alone fr. Us Canadians are nothing to play with! #Davos2026
https://blossom.primal.net/c8fa98ba5bdf65df6b06965669997e6686a8a9899c2262c3c23102228e2e079e.jpg

2026-01-03 20:20:55 CET

Raven and the first men by Bill Reid #artstr
https://blossom.primal.net/e3e028c35b0fa85fe5975217a155822586095bb7abfe0206d22c9af3efa68218.jpg

2026-01-03 20:20:17 CET

Good morning Nostr. Yesterday I got to see one of my favourite artworks in person here in Vancouver. It’s the statue Raven and the first Men by Bill Reid. Is an indigenous story of the trickster Raven convincing the first humans out of the shell and into the world. #art #artstr #vancouver #native #indigenousart
https://blossom.primal.net/52d85a40c172d55f627904099355fa4c5da6102ed0239081e8284d4eaa14f1ff.jpg

2026-01-02 06:53:40 CET

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The circle in question. #Ouroboros
https://blossom.primal.net/738fe96063801340c1bf14e984ac8d9ef21055831861a05d6e57627be9058556.jpg

2026-01-01 23:29:44 CET

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BDFL = Baby Daddy 4 Life 👨‍🍼

2026-01-01 21:17:47 CET

Gastown Vancouver reminds me so much of Montreal

2026-01-01 18:01:34 CET

It’s 2026 baby! #happynewyear #nye
https://blossom.primal.net/c7c3476e71087020a213225708f51ac41e6f892f1b2f1fe0750acb5f7f84ecbc.mov

2025-12-31 03:07:28 CET

I have to catch a flight tomorrow and I still haven’t packed 😩

2025-12-29 21:13:36 CET

How am I both proud and embarrassed to be so chronically offline?

2025-11-20 05:55:28 CET

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Why admit the truth and put a 🎯 on his back? Better to lie and get what he wants. Plus if he pretends to truly believe it then it technically isn’t his fault when it all goes left. That way he’s just mistaken rather than nefarious…

2025-11-12 03:58:35 CET

When i was really young people used to be eager to post their relationship status on fb. Now its a total shock if a girl hard launches a guy on insta. Its soft launch or no launch at all. Hiding faces, etc. I've def noticed the shift and so this article was interesting to me.
Here are some things I agree with.
1. That the dating landscape is really bad.
2. Its now uncool to be the boyfriend girl.
3. Even partnered women lament men and hetrosexuality (why is everyone bi now?)
4. Girls romantize being single and no one is afraid of the old spinster with cats thing.
So is having a boyfriend embarassing? No, but here's what I think happened.
1. You used to get clout for being partnered - being claimed by a man meant you were "one of the good ones" it affirmed your womanhood and brought real tangible benefits like a home, a place in society, etc.
2. The hey girly messages. I've had this happen to me before. You date a guy for like a year so you think you are safe, you post him only to have a "hey girly" message appear in your dm. "Hey girly, I just thought I should let you know your bf has been sending me snaps for 3 months, he said he wasn't in a relationship". It doesn't even have to be that extreme, just the feeling of going to a popular influencer's page and seeing your bf amongst her likes. How many times have you heard your besties say they want a guy with no social media? ALL THE TIME. I even feel that way, i would love for my next boyfriend to have no social media presence and to never be caught dead in someones dms.
3. Here's my last one, and i think some people won't like hearing this but one of the reasons girls don't want to post their bfs anymore is because they aren't their bfs. They're in a situationship. She knows there are other girls so if she were to post him she would open herself up to ridicule so she has no choice but enjoy her humiliationship in private.
The fix? IDK. How do you make having a bf cool? I don't think you can.
https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now

2025-11-12 03:03:57 CET

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Notice how the lady also has no friends or community. Marriage and children are not the only road to these things nor does having a husband or kids make everyone happy. There is no magic recipe for a full and happy life.

2025-09-26 04:48:56 CEST

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2025-09-19 10:13:10 CEST

Between eclipses

2025-09-19 09:58:06 CEST

It’s 1:56 am where I am and I have given up on sleep. It’s gonna be a long night.

2025-09-13 02:27:29 CEST

https://music.apple.com/ca/album/euphoria/1744024729?i=1744024751

2025-08-17 23:00:08 CEST

Oof this is the worst breakup of my life omg 😓 #heartbroken

2025-08-16 01:40:04 CEST

REMA >>>
https://music.apple.com/ca/album/kelebu/1826869171?i=1826869172
#newmusic #music #friday #newmusicfriday #songstr #afro #afrobeats #rema

2025-08-16 00:20:19 CEST

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Muvseevum by McShane
Medium: idk some weird selfie 🤷🏾‍♀️
#art #artsr
#nevent1q…qe27

2025-08-15 16:58:24 CEST

GM 🌞 #Edmonton #YEG
https://blossom.primal.net/2d1dbb8ca1875e5cfafb9ae1ed227dee40f964adc00836b1712240bccf5294d3.jpg

2025-08-14 20:42:12 CEST

The mask by Rozzi Roomian
#art #artstr
https://blossom.primal.net/667679580cd54d6acf1fe835cb4c6f03a4fa35847def9b27a27c191b4479e69b.jpg

2025-08-12 23:25:12 CEST

Sometimes I miss my studio apartment. It was high up on the 9th floor so it had better views and it just felt so cozy. Plus it was easier to clean!

2025-08-11 21:04:27 CEST

For all you singletons (me included) tomorrow’s Venus and Jupiter conjunction is the luckiest day of the year to find love 🥰 don’t let it go to waste! #astrology #august12 #single #dating

2025-08-08 02:45:54 CEST

Hi
https://blossom.primal.net/38caae6a1c38b03752b51e067f46011ecae2466672f8ee426ec8189da10e36c3.jpg

2025-05-05 00:34:12 CEST

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Grow a beard

2025-04-03 20:46:18 CEST

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Didn’t Don jr just start a bitcoin mining company tho? What do you think about that?

2025-04-03 20:45:21 CEST

Not the uninhabited islands getting hit with tariffs 💀
#note1xwx…zght

2025-04-03 04:06:10 CEST

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The Dino tail looking building is kind of nice 🤷🏾‍♀️

2025-04-03 04:05:23 CEST

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Wow I think my city might have a better skyline and we’re freaking Edmonton.

2025-04-02 20:40:13 CEST

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That is such a beautiful way to say it Nela and in a way it is. Rebirth, life from what was previously dead is miraculous.

2025-04-01 16:11:32 CEST

Happy April Fool’s Day! Take a look at two of my favourite tarot fool cards. The fool is one of my favourite cards because it embodies naivety and innocence. The beginning of things. It is associated with Aries ♈️ the first of the zodiac and Spring time 🌷 the number of the fool card is zero 0️⃣ to represent all of the potential that has not yet been put into being but exists. This is a time to plant seeds and start your journey. This is the true New Year’s Day!
https://image.nostr.build/4abe5bdbd8a2a0a8a37a0cbba8aed78705caa8ffba9dd54a043984d5c611d61a.jpg

2025-03-28 19:20:34 CET

H&M is going to be using AI models in its campaign now. They claim that the real models own their AI “twin” and will be compensated but idk.

2025-03-27 20:03:03 CET

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Awww he looks like a little old man

2025-03-26 19:24:21 CET

For ever wishing it was a more competent reporter that was added.
#note14as…ml4g

2025-03-26 04:14:43 CET

TIL I learnt about https://geyser.fund/

2025-03-17 02:03:37 CET

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lol I’m stealing this “blue checker” lmao

2025-03-17 01:57:02 CET

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Elon was obsessed with the meme coin DOGE. It’s intentional and dumb.

2025-03-15 17:23:54 CET

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Dorothy’s slippers were originally silver. They chose red for the movie to show off colour TV.

2025-02-24 03:39:23 CET

Is there a Nostr client where you can create polls?

2025-02-05 11:35:26 CET

3 am YouTube rabbit hole. Will research more in the morning but would love to know Nostr’s thoughts since there is so many tech people here. #asknostr https://youtu.be/5RpPTRcz1no?si=rTEomh4Q4weuzTfx

2025-02-03 00:13:43 CET

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Now that Elon is part of the gov of course it’s state media. Not that it was really that neutral before.

2025-01-28 16:17:02 CET

Of course it’s when I’m already late that my Uber hits every red light known to mankind 🙄

2025-01-20 01:28:51 CET

12 hours = server migration #tiktokban

2025-01-19 07:41:42 CET

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Welcome! 🫂

2025-01-19 07:34:56 CET

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Right before the ban insta updated their feed, CEO Shou is gonna be at the inauguration says they are working with trump. I’m think TikTok has been bought by META 😬

2025-01-19 02:09:52 CET

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Why?

2025-01-19 02:09:08 CET

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I love crows! I wanted to befriend them so badly last summer. They remember faces and bring gifts and are just so intelligent.

2025-01-19 01:39:53 CET

The Raven asked the Parrot “why are you in cage?”. The Parrot replied “Because I speak”.
…
Remember that Ravens and Crows can speak just as well, but they choose not to.

2025-01-17 16:18:36 CET

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Welcome 🫂

2025-01-15 20:39:35 CET

Nostentina? Nostrina? #note1g06…v39q

2025-01-13 21:53:22 CET

#unpopularopinion you won’t win tiktokers on the promises of no algorithms and own your own data. They don’t care about that. They’re currently saying on TikTok that no one knows them like their Chinese spy. They specifically chose a Chinese app to piss the US gov off.
They do care about censorship though.

2025-01-13 21:26:08 CET

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Another chinese app, similar to TikTok. It’s currently #2 in the App Store. Kids are calling themselves TikTok refugees and flocking to use.

2025-01-13 21:22:35 CET

Zuckerberg really thought the kids would go running to meta. Instead they are deleting their instagram and Facebook accounts and downloading rednote.

2025-01-13 14:03:18 CET

GM 🌞

2025-01-13 03:51:25 CET

Dancing fairies by August Malmström #artstr #art #fairies https://image.nostr.build/e9bcc9a96aa1bd397c422dc4ab7b82741c6d54823c9ecd352f0599d8351c10c5.jpg

2025-01-12 20:49:06 CET

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Their little Pikachu hats! 😄

2025-01-10 17:15:11 CET

Praying for everyone in LA. #lawildfires my friend is a student at UCLA and I’m so worried.