ProofofHeart
Jared_Proof of Heart
You were right about Bitcoin. Time to make your next big bet. For men looking for another asymmetric move. A good to great process built for Bitcoiners. Eight weeks. No fluff. High signal.
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Last Notes npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Loving this episode. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart or else you'll fall with the anchor. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Been quiet for a few months. Building. The book is close. The process is working. More coming. If you’re a Bitcoiner who has done the financial work and is asking what comes next, you’re in the right place. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart How do you hide the letters? Here are my recent wins. I’m stoked https://blossom.primal.net/4ef7304afd60ab88a1f46a16383138cbdf2f72667db1667e4cf7bd7a2a9530cf.jpg https://blossom.primal.net/70bf39c1d3d63d9945aeffdcf94d8dba197dec4248afc7aade2dca0d3e23b6c2.jpg npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I dig it npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart lol but I’m crying on the inside npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Hire a cleaner bro npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Huge fan of Goldstein. Have gotten to meet and chat with him several times. Loved his last BitBlockBoom talk. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart What app is this from? Is it a daily Tao app? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Confirmed npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Can you share a real world example starting with 1 bitcoin? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Where is it from? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Fascinating. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Love this message. Bitcoin is the lever. And bitcoin won’t fix the world…but bitcoiners just might npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Good time to sound wise and drop the Wayne Gretzky quote about missing 100% of shots you don’t take 😂 😂 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Your woman brings heat. You feel tension. Then you try to shut her down. But that exact moment is the doorway to intimacy. Hold the charge in your body without escaping and watch what happens next. Men miss the moment because they can’t handle themselves. Learn to stay. That’s where the fire is. https://blossom.primal.net/eafe85e48f994014f3203731c03b14d5d00fb49d7f8288eecd4a3aa1e4735a5c.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Links npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart But how?!? lol easier said than done. Few accomplish *happily* married. Most are just content or getting by. And To be *happily* married you first need to be happy yourself. And what the hell does it even mean to be happy?! Happy is really a fleeting feeling. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart IMHO, moral clarity isn’t enough if we’re still carrying our own blind spots. Bitcoin sharpens the mission. Doing the inner work sharpens the man npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Bitcoin gives you power. But If you haven’t dealt with your own ego and fear, that power just turns you into the very thing you ran from npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I enjoy hearing you Bitcoin OG’s talking about life beyond and outside of Bitcoin! npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Of course get the Travis Matthew’s stretchy fancy pants npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Yeah I dig it! Us men of bitcoin need to be connecting often on a deep and strategic level. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart How amazing! And what a view from the backyard! You hosting any bitcoin happy hours? I’d love to see the sun go down from that spot! npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Ahh got it! Video wasn’t loading but got it now npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart What is the “this happened” thing?? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Tell me more about this idea npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I’ve been there! npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart What do bitcoiners hold most sacred? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I’ve built careers, hit major goals, and stacked hard as a mofo. But none of that helped me when pressure hit my marriage or when I felt a real lack of purpose and drive. My instinct used to be to push harder, think more, strategize my way out. But the pressure didn’t respond to my logic. Not in this phase of life. Instead, It exposed the parts of me that collapsed when things get real. What changed things for me wasn’t more discipline or more grinding. It was learning how to stay in the moment I wanted to escape. That one shift gave me more clarity than any new achievement ever did. Bitcoin taught me about financial sovereignty. But Brandon and Proof of Heart are showing me the power of personal sovereignty. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart How do the later seasons compare to the first two? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart And then you hafta go be gentle and loving with your wife and kids npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Read the article. It answers your question “what else are they spending it on?” in extreme detail. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart The goat meme movie npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Congrats on creating something everlasting. I’m sure it was an arduous process!!! npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Cheers homie. What’s your old programming? Fight or flight or numb? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I spent years thinking that once I stacked enough, I’d finally feel solid. But in reality, I could watch Bitcoin drop like a rock without flinching… But I’d get so fuggin soft the second tension showed up in my own house. It took me a long time to see that my reactions wouldn’t ever change with money. They were about the patterns I never dealt with, the pressure I avoided, and the moments where I’d shut down instead of staying present. Bitcoin gave me financial sovereignty. Learning how to stay grounded in real-life tension is where I’m earning internal sovereignty. It’s a different skill set. And it’s the part that actually impacts how free you feel in this life. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart What’s that from? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Hell yeah Bennu! Let’s keep in touch npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart https://blossom.primal.net/6e60942151cbc6853ae18827f8044083414234257f0b581c50e00e843e01b029.png npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart So what exactly is the 7-Layer Dip?! Most guys listen to their woman at Layer 1 — her words. Maybe, if they’re feeling bold, they go to Layer 2 — her tone. But the magic is diving through all 7 damn layers of her inner world. That’s the real turn-on lives. Here they are, layer by layer. Layer 1: Her words What she’s saying on the surface. Layer 2: Her tone What she really means even when she denies it. Layer 3: The frustration The stuff she’s been holding in all week. Layer 4: The fear The deeper insecurity she doesn’t want to admit. Layer 5: The longing What she actually wants from you but doesn’t know how to say. Layer 6: The surrender What happens when she feels you can handle all of her without flinching. Layer 7: The desire The primal, activated, turned-on, ready-to-be-taken energy that only shows up when a man holds her fire and stays right there with her. So what does the “7-layer dip” look like in the real world? It’s YOU saying: “Keep going. Tell me more. What else? I can take it. I’m right here.” You’re not dodging. You’re not defending. You’re not fixing. You’re not collapsing. You’re holding the tension, inviting her deeper, and letting her unload all seven emotional layers until she finally hits that last one… ...where she shifts from angry, anxious, or irritated… ...into open, soft, turned on… ready for monkey-sex. That’s the 7-Layer-Dip. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Stack all the sats you want. Bitcoin won’t fix the bedroom shyt you’ve been avoiding. What’s the point of $200K BTC if you ain't having wild sex every new ATH? Take your woman through the 7-layer-dip and hold the tension the whole way...do that and she'll give you that monkey sex we crave. https://blossom.primal.net/5f15b4f913f3ad381f249d14551c25090c613a0ad217b47113814be24e05cbe8.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Wtf? Sovereign men fight smart. Who fucking freed Ross?!?!? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart The clarity and simplicity feels gooood! Congrats on letting go of good things to build something great. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart And a community of men. Don’t be a hero and become successful just to feel isolated in the end npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart You’re not trapped by your job, your company, or your boss. You’re trapped by the emotions you’ve been outrunning for decades. This video hits the exact moment a man realizes the cage wasn’t his company… It was his own unprocessed story. The tension he was unwilling to sit with. Your freedom lives on the other side of the tension you avoid. True sovereignty starts within. https://blossom.primal.net/86ac917e23999e1a92a4f24212742b5563db0024de11deb5d7bb21beb11b7537.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart We can stack our way to financial valhalla and still be ruled. Because the thing we are the most a slave to is NOT the fiat system, but our old programming Financial sovereignty doesn’t matter if we fold under conflict and discomfort. Most of us Bitcoiners, if we're honest, still react automatically: irritation, shutdown, escape, overthinking, porn, work addiction, whatever your pattern is. That isn’t sovereignty. That’s conditioning running your life. Proof of Heart teaches men of Bitcoin to sit in the heat of that moment without getting hijacked by it. Because on the other side of that tension...deep clarity is always waiting. We've done this work with OGs who already hit their number and realized it didn’t fix the internal battle. If us Bitcoiners want to build a world that matches the protocol, we need inner sovereignty, not just cold storage. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Most men either suppress their emotions or get consumed by them. There’s a third way...use them. Turn stress and pressure into power, overwhelm into clarity. You do this by living in that space between stimulus and response. Some men dabble there. Few live there. At Proof of Heart, we call that space "The Sauce" "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." --Viktor Frankl https://blossom.primal.net/09d130112d852815007ffa25a3a7e83642faf7a9b6538fc95a76862b735c5d90.mp4 Direct from Brandon's Coaching Sessions: One of my clients snapped at his wife every time she brought up money. He thought he was upset she didn't trust him , but it wasn’t really about that. It was about his fear. He tied his worth to his net worth, and when Bitcoin didn’t perform quite like he had expected, he felt like he was failing his family as a provider and protector. We sat in that fear, the fear of failing to provide, instead of bypassing it. Because there's deep wisdom on those feelings, if you give them space to be heard. The fear quickly turned into clarity. He saw that his family needed his presence most of all, and was able to pinpoint exactly where in his day he could be 100% on with his kids and wife. Having that new focus helps him let go of expectations around price. And of course, the connection gained with his family is worth more than any market move. This is how real sovereignty is achieved. It's the discipline of living between stimulus and response, where emotion becomes wisdom and reaction turns into power. Sovereignty Starts Within. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart You can’t save everyone and save yourself. The strongest among us spend our lives trying to do both. Is that you? 👀 But they always hit the wall. Over-giving looks noble, but slowly breeds resentment and exhaustion. It feels like leadership, until you realize it’s how you’ve been avoiding yourself. Brandon has a client who's been the giver her whole life. Always protecting and rescuing others, never receiving. Now she’s learning the hardest truth: Real self-love feels soo selfish at first. But stay with it...because one day you’ll give again, and it’ll come from overflow, not emptiness. That kind of giving is more powerful than any amount of money you could ever give. Any over-givers out there starting to realize it’s your turn to fill up first? https://blossom.primal.net/032b3762f34463d501cf282dc9016028a044dc992fdb3e83174944711c1dd585.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Every man who stands for something real goes through the same three stages: JOKE. THREAT. TEACHER. It’s not just Bitcoin’s path. It’s the path of every man who refuses to live small. When you choose truth over comfort, they mock you. That’s the test of conviction. When you won’t back down, they feel threatened. That’s the test of courage. When you stay rooted and keep creating, you become the teacher. That’s mastery. So if you’re being doubted, dismissed, or misunderstood right now…good. You’re right where every real man begins. https://blossom.primal.net/d6116a6c41a57ab4454c74848cdf31c22b1b3c4cf9509f1388af8a238eaad22f.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart You know how Bitcoin gives you financial sovereignty....control over your money, your time, your future? That’s big. But that’s just one layer of it. Real sovereignty is internal. It’s what Viktor Frankl was pointing to when he said: “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space lies our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” That space...the ability to stay in control of yourself when everything in you wants to react...is true sovereignty. Because if you can’t master yourself, then your wealth, your Bitcoin… just ends up owning you... Which will prevent you from finding the thing you really wanted all along...peace, purpose, direction. That’s what Proof of Heart is about...helping men build that *internal* kind of freedom. ⸻ https://blossom.primal.net/001d200667d9016411249ec5509fdca87dd496e6022461d4139c1f32c1f4ed83.jpg npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart If you can’t stay in command of yourself, your wealth is just a bigger cage. Real sovereignty is the ability to stay in command of yourself when life, business, or emotion pulls you off balance. If you can’t master that, it doesn’t matter how much Bitcoin you hold, you’re still owned by your reactions. Real sovereignty is control of your state. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart You don’t fix a bad morning by outrunning it. You fix it by facing it. Brandon shares how he resets fast with his five A's, his process for quick state shifting. It's about moving from chaos and reaction back to calm and clear. Here’s how he usually breaks them down: 1. Awareness – Notice what’s actually happening inside. Name it without judgment. 2. Acceptance – Stop fighting it. Own what’s there. 3. Allowance – Give yourself permission to feel it fully instead of controlling or fixing it. 4. Alignment – Ask, “What’s true right now? What matters most?” to ground yourself. 5. Action – Move from that grounded state. Take the next, clear step that comes to mind. Something always emerges. https://blossom.primal.net/0b5223f63648293077f918c5c83e446266cb832a42c9bea69aa627531b8a3e7b.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Don't be afraid to feel, brother. You are worth feeling powerful and fulfilled. And yeah, men rarely don't stumble upon those things. You must see it before you can have it. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I fuggin loved this song growing up! npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I'm trying to reach men of Bitcoin wherever I can! npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Boys will be boys npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart By getting brutally honest. With yourself. About everything. That's when you face what’s real, and let the old version of you die. There’s no shortcut for that. It helps to find a small group of like-minded men. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart That’s the truth. Growth doesn’t happen in control...it happens in surrender. Most aren't willing to go there. "The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek" npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Living that bold, free life you've had your sights set on starts with manifestation, not price. Have the vision and feel the conviction first, just like you did stacking sats before the world caught on. See it with your mind’s eye. That’s how reality bends. No one brings the laws of manifestation down to earth quite like Brandon Hawk. https://blossom.primal.net/cfea31108f6a94de65ae222fc47e92e5f8f508c452636902f8c6479212c4828f.mov npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart A client spent his whole life being “responsible.” For his company. His family. Everyone. Turns out, responsibility was just how he hid. And his next level required him to let go and get a little irresponsible. Proof that "What got you here won't get you there" https://blossom.primal.net/7b6fd6963a1037b499a1784eccf2fecaaf22178754c2f9aa232f37836b676c7b.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Bless her heart npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart What you using as an AI assistant? How do I know this ain’t just Mike’s assistant? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Congrats Nico. Your dedication and consistency have been admirable npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart And for awhile, I convinced myself that Bitcoin was all the risk I needed in my life, that I needed to be “stable” for family. But the chance to live a bold, meaningful life kept knocking. How you playing the game, Uno? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I reached the point where not taking a risk was the biggest risk. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Yeah that shit is wack. Probably crypto hedgies npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Hell yeah brother. Let me know how we can support you npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart These are the rabbit holes that send your whole life in an entirely different direction. There’s no going back. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Radical ownership 🎯 . Blame is a trap. The second you outsource responsibility, you hand over your power. But admitting when you feel powerless is also strength, because it’s real. Honesty is what keeps us men from numbing out. From turning into a Goggins...hard as hell but 3x divorced. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart << The Monster Inside You >> I’ve spent most of my life trying to be the “nice guy.” Helpful. Agreeable. Always giving. Brandon showed me where that road leads to: a lifeless marriage, an uninspiring life, and bottled-up rage that leaks out as porn, overeating, or passive aggression. So I’m learning to understand and even appreciate the aggression inside of me. At first it feels destructive. But I’m realizing it only feels that way because I suppress it. The moment I accept it and own it, it shifts. That same energy becomes fuel...to create, to have hard conversations, to fail and keep going. As Brandon says: “Better to be a monster trained into peace than a man known to be nice but who's never felt his true power.” What surprised me most is how my wife responds. I thought this energy would scare her. But she actually feels safer when she senses my power...steady, present, not too high or too low. https://blossom.primal.net/0f91f87d81dd93bfdfd8b3918cadef54614a1963ca45bcbdc0482d8797221e11.png npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Anger Turned Inward is Depression Anger Tapped into is Raw Power Anger and rage get such a bad rap. But you can't experience real freedom, real sovereignty, without it. As men, we’re taught to manage it, control it, suppress it. But anger is a man’s life force. I’m learning from my mentor Brandon how to harness my rage. And use it to win in life. Not just in the hard stuff, but in the soft stuff too, like intimacy with my wife. Brandon says it best... https://blossom.primal.net/f76185a1980f05c8c656d5fbb149e2e4e5ab7c2921556644f99285b4f07dd0f7.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart congrats? or.... oh no? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Sometimes “focus” is just a mask for fear and uncertainty. We stay busy so we don’t have to face what we're avoiding. We grind harder, and call it discipline. After after years of that, we go numb, and call it stoicism. Real focus is clarity. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart The highest yield investment? Internal sovereignty. No counterparty risk, infinite upside. Leads to peace, fulfillment, purpose, no matter the Bitcoin price. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I don't quite understand the statement "Before Abraham was, I AM" Can you explain? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart "The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek" - Joseph Campbell For 15 years I did all the right things...Tony Robbins, Wim Hof, meditation, stoicism, journaling...all of it. And yet, I still hit rock bottom. But a year ago, I got challenged to go to that place most men spend their whole lives avoiding: the cave. It has changed everything, and above all, it has showed me that inner sovereignty is worth more than any stack. And that financial sovereignty can not bring you true freedom and deep purpose. You have to do that on your own. My mentor Brandon shoved me (lovingly) into that cave. I've since left my corporate career and partnered with Brandon to build something for Bitcoiners that set men free from the inside out. Proof of Heart. https://blossom.primal.net/85a18d187aebf09ed345147c0fbfba3510c35eae73bfafff211928a17335672c.mp4 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart But seriously npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Amazing stuff, man. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart “More love…more joy…more support…more sex from my partner…” npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Lying to others is just the tip of the iceberg… Most of us men have lied to ourselves for so long… “I’m fine,” “I don’t need more”… we don’t even realize it. And when we actually tell ourselves the truth, we feel guilty, like that stuff isn’t ever supposed to come out. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart GM maya 🫡 🌞 npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Manifesting peace and purpose flow into my life on the next ATH breakout 🤚 https://blossom.primal.net/0746e7b3abb781227a1a1e4759ea3b39a3e0d52d35c9893fb3a8e6e0377dbedb.png npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Some days I still catch myself reaching for noise... Twitter. NOSTR. Podcasts. Anything to avoid sitting with what I’m really feeling. Frustrated. Overwhelmed. Still somehow unfulfilled with BTC at $115K It’s not really a discipline problem. It’s just hard to sit with yourself when there’s nothing to distract you. Still working on that. https://blossom.primal.net/5642d9569fc3ad7e374b26cd9e626839398ff9630ad4cbe449f20de4c771b8bf.png npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart When you’re fully equipped for landmines but not for “We need to talk.” https://blossom.primal.net/618715574af17ba24937d05c0dbb48be81fc92ada583f53a77b0cad3ec925e7a.jpg npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart https://blossom.primal.net/dd6d946eb264258b95e8d01da4cafac325ec910f23da628f4816dca0b4fce7f9.png Credit to @CarlJungArchive on X for this banger. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart "Bitcoin is not a panacea" Yeah man, that’s kinda my point. Bitcoin isn’t a panacea. It fixes the money. Not the man. And if we don’t deal with our own shit, we’ll just rebuild the same broken stuff on a harder foundation. I appreciate your support. Glad we sorted that out. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart The documentary Senna. The one with the yellow helmet on the cover. It will be one of the best documentaries you've even seen. Listen to it loud (races) npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart And who said anything about society’s problems? This is about you as a man, brother. Don’t deflect. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart You are right. It is just about the money. Until you have enough. Revisit this when your stack is bigger and you realize Bitcoin was only ever just a tool for freedom. Not freedom itself. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart And it's also a beautiful day to be whatever is most real: angry, frustrated, sad, exhausted. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart https://blossom.primal.net/430e864eba06271afb3b2df2d964f2f2454c70c419fa2c63a92a272fa4a0ed3d.png Bitcoin was never just about money. It was a rebellion: we’re done trusting broken systems. We left fiat finance. But we brought fiat habits with us. We still outsource our worth. Still perform for approval. Still grind for peace, numb out at night, and wonder why nothing feels better. We stacked the money. But didn’t secure the foundation that underpins a good life that truly feels free. That’s the real risk. We’re building generational wealth on top of emotional chaos, fragile marriages, and stress we rarely talk about. We can’t be sovereign if we’re still stuck in patterns that own us. There’s a better way. Not therapy. Not self-help. Just men doing the work we’ve avoided for years. telling the truth, feeling what’s real, getting free on the inside. That’s Proof of Heart. No middlemen. No permission. No pretending. We don’t just secure the sats. We secure the men holding them. (Stay close.) npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart When someone asks you how you're doing but you're low-key falling apart inside, so your brain pivots to Bitcoin to suppress that shit, and suddenly you're launching into 20-minute rant about fiat collapse, central banking history, and why 1913 was the beginning of the end. All to avoid feeling the feelings. https://blossom.primal.net/92ab1a1716b34da4409dacc5430511822ba85e05dc03ea686c1c1781b72f8f71.png npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Congrats homie. Soon, you'll have your hands full, and heart even fuller. But before then, you'll be exhausted beyond belief for a few weeks haha. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Does most everyone have some level of tinnitus?!? npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart One lineage at a time! npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart At this point, HODLing is the easy part. What most men screw up is everything else. We’ll make it financially, but our marriage will fall apart. The house will be full, but the tension will be constant. And sometimes, it’s the wealth itself that triggers the implosion. The outer win means nothing if the inner world is a mess. Get that part right first. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Stacking sats feels good. But nothing humbles me like my kids. They don’t care about NGU. They just want me present. Wrestling. Dancing. Tossing them on the couch. Often, I am the most distracted on the biggest NGU days. How ironic. Guess I'm still learning how this freedom thing works. npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart I used to think I was stuck. Turns out, I was just avoiding the emotional risk. I could hold through price swings without flinching. But I couldn’t sit still when the feelings got big…doubt, anger, shame. I kept busy and called it “strategy” haha. But it was fear. Most of us Bitcoiners aren’t struggling with conviction. We’re struggling with what’s buried underneath. The next level isn’t outside. It’s inside. This is Proof of Heart. https://blossom.primal.net/85ebe3523db69ac2dcc8141245227bbb5d232ae2408ee03c2e2dbcb0d06d6838.png npub1de3ks5m7pxs9f6wedn3947un3vr7fkhar777y9jszma2x9gfl6ysha93ql ProofofHeart Got Proof of Heart? https://blossom.primal.net/1514eb20e24a7a642148090f70f211ee453768797d0439bff47acee046045110.png