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2026-05-15 00:47:42 UTC

A woman is like a child who will never fully grow up. You must balance leadership, guidance, tenderness, discipline, and giving her autonomy in the right places.
Give her too much autonomy - when you stop leading and taking responsibility for all things - and the relationship will start to malfunction.
Be a constant guiding hand and oversee the directional steering of life - so she can be carefree - and her affection for you will continue to grow.
#women #relatioships

2026-04-14 20:58:58 UTC

Maintaining attraction is vital to the longterm success of your marriage.
The catch is, attraction is not a choice - but it can be influenced.
She is no longer attracted to boys - she wants to feel safe, secure, and take care of.
#leadership #attraction

2026-04-14 00:56:00 UTC

Taking care of yourself sets the standard for - and makes you the leader of - your family.
• Sleep Well
• Wake Up Early
• Exercise Your Body
• Eat Healthy
• Regulate Emotions
• Set & Attain Goals
• Rise From Failure
• Extreme Responsibility
• Love Your Family
#leadership #responsibility

2026-04-09 18:10:40 UTC

If the trust jar is low, there is no grand gesture that is going to suddenly make things right.
Start with getting yourself organized, cleaning up your physical space, getting a plan in place, and taking consistent daily actions.
Showing up for her everyday is what rebuilds trust.
Trust will put her at ease.
#responsibility #relationships

2026-04-05 14:43:39 UTC

Do not complain to her about your life unless you have a solution. She does not want to see you acting weak or hear your whining.
While she might want to be there for you, her attraction towards you will plummet. It is out of her control.
Lead and take action.
#women #leadership

2026-04-03 20:11:56 UTC

She is bored, sitting on the couch, scrolling through her phone, zoned out, wishing for something.
Take the phone out of her hand, set
it on the table, and lead her to the bedroom.
Timing matters.
#attraction #leadership

2026-04-02 17:40:57 UTC

As a relationship progresses, a sane woman moves from wanting excitement to wanting stability, with a little excitement.
The man’s behavior will shift to match this over time. The more Responsibility the man assumes, the more mental space is freed for the woman, the more she can be available for her man.
#relationships #responsibility

2025-10-24 13:10:51 UTC

Your will even ask for a spanking from time to time when she knows she needs it
https://image.nostr.build/5a8f43d1caa9c5ae2e7db814305582c8afc4ddcc1a9ea46f4290aab739213afe.jpg

2025-10-16 14:41:57 UTC

Translation: He always put her first, let her make all the decisions, and was a soft pushover
#nevent1q…0l4r

2025-10-08 19:49:46 UTC

Just pick dinner and relieve her of the responsibility
#nevent1q…fwnl

2025-10-03 20:07:44 UTC

Be her #refrigerator
#nevent1q…tamc

2025-09-25 16:09:08 UTC

Pause before you text her a useless update on your life
- I will be home in 15 min
- I am feeling a little sick
- I want to go the store later
Is your message meaningful?
Give her time to miss you.
Think twice before hitting send.

2025-09-22 16:20:52 UTC

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Love her music 🎵

2025-09-13 17:45:36 UTC

She wants to know that you are Daddy Material.
#nevent1q…8jt8

2025-09-05 20:12:23 UTC

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Responsibility and Leadership - you aren’t going to change her by complaining about behavior. Make the expectations clear and hold her to them. She can comply or not but it is her choice. Lean away from her a bit.

2025-09-05 19:59:39 UTC

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It could a long road to reform her but could be worth the effort. I’d recommend introducing spanking for bad behavior and make it your responsibility to make sure the rules are followed.

2025-09-05 19:57:49 UTC

Husband: Who is a good girl?
Wife:
#nevent1q…d5vs

2025-07-09 15:54:37 UTC

If your relationships is struggling, first step is for the man to stop complaining and start doing. When you complain about your job, your neighbor, your tasks, the woman in your life sees you as a crybaby and the attraction dies.
#women #attraction

2025-07-07 14:39:39 UTC

Don't tell her your problems until you are ready to tell her about your solution.
#women #attraction

2025-07-03 20:31:34 UTC

Women want to be appreciated
#women #attraction
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2025-06-28 02:23:41 UTC

A woman who is overburdened with responsibility and stress is less open to sex.
#marriage #attraction

2025-06-27 15:05:47 UTC

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#attraction

2025-06-26 19:44:48 UTC

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it'll be ok

2025-06-26 14:12:27 UTC

Best thing to do in this situation is go out and meet other girls.
Get a few dates lined up and you'll stop obsessing about the one girl.
#attraction
#nevent1q…ldx0

2025-06-26 13:48:53 UTC

If you handle all the foundational work, women are very easy to please.
#women

2025-06-26 03:43:42 UTC

This is what failed men allow when they are too scared to walk away from a broken relationship.
Get your act together and she'll be so busy trying to keep you happy that she won't have time to think about anyone else.
#responsibility #attraction
#nevent1q…25gn

2025-06-24 21:25:55 UTC

It's better to be confusing than boring
#attraction #marriage

2025-06-24 21:15:00 UTC

She wants to see that you do what you want
#attraction
#nevent1q…ltku

2025-06-24 21:08:21 UTC

Your wife wants you to take #responsibility
Only then will she be free

2025-06-23 14:46:27 UTC

How Should I Respond When She Sends Me a Pic of Herself?”
> Some TERRIBLE advice in the attached article, such as:
- “You look so pretty today!”
- “How are you this damn cute?”
- “The only thing that’s missing is me next to you.”
- “Guys would kill to be with a girl like you.”
> Say something fun, something that will illicit a reaction, something that does not reward her for simply being beautiful - do not comment on how pretty she:
- “Damn you are sooo short 😆”
- “Did you do something different with your hair?”
- “Who's your friend?” (pic with her friend)
- "I like those/that sunglasses / dress / something in the pic"
- “Make sure that guy buys you a drink.” (pic with a guy)
- #TitsMcGee (use a funny/teasing petname you have for her)
> Dos & Don’ts \n- Don’t act jealous
- Don’t tell her she is sooo beautiful
- Do feel free to not respond, or delay response
- Do tease her
https://tosaylib.com/what-to-say-when-a-girl-sends-you-a-picture-of-her/

2024-11-10 14:15:37 UTC

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Nice

2024-11-07 03:27:46 UTC

Where there are women online, their simps will follow
#nevent1q…zhlx

2024-11-07 03:25:59 UTC

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George Washington would have been convicted of Treason

2024-11-07 03:24:10 UTC

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Pro democracy advocates who blocked RFK in the primary and then selected Harris with no public votes

2024-11-07 03:22:43 UTC

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Almost as if the 2020 numbers were inaccurate

2024-11-07 02:54:24 UTC

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A nazi rally with Jews and black guys

2024-11-06 18:57:27 UTC

When she says the quiet part out loud.
Your wife should be verbally requesting you to fuck her multiple times per week.
Yesterday she got home from the gym and said “I’m home. Can you come tuck me when you have a break from meetings?”
#leadership #responsibility
#nevent1q…88ze

2024-11-06 18:53:07 UTC

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This is what pussies do when they lose

2024-11-06 06:23:02 UTC

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Maybe get rid of the “department of education”

2024-11-05 21:51:00 UTC

Imagine being married to this woman.
You are not “lucky” whone you have sex with your wife. You should be having sex multiple times per week.
And posting it so all her friends will see it, shows she is vindictive and wants to make her husband look pathetic - nevermind making herself look evil
#women
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2024-11-05 03:35:03 UTC

omg it is so sad she does not live alone with 3 cats and work at an office 8-5pm for a giant corporation and drink a box of wine every night, who would possibly want this life??? her husband must be horrible
#nevent1q…mvw6

2024-11-04 21:59:15 UTC

She does not want to be a hoe, but you are so damn boring, she’s rather risk a baby with a monthly random felon/drug addict/jobless loser than be with you
#attraction
#nevent1q…zqtx

2024-11-04 21:14:34 UTC

My wife believes in equality of the sexes and would never suggest that a man should fill out her election ballot for her - but that is what just happened. When push comes to shove and critical thought, effort, or judgement needs to happen to reseach the items & people on the ballot, she askes me to give her a piece of paper that she can take into the voting booth.
There is no need for me to point out what is happening here. She does not want acknowledge it and there is nothing to gain by throwing reality in her face or turning it into a big discussion. I take burden off her plate. I free her mental space. (Worst case is I make a wrong choice on the ballot and years later she does not need to feel guilty about it because she was simply doing what I told her)
#women #leadership

2024-11-03 23:40:17 UTC

Nice text thread
#nevent1q…vw2v

2024-11-03 17:13:33 UTC

It is now 52 days until Christmas.
#relationships #responsibility
#nevent1q…40zq

2024-11-03 16:16:30 UTC

Wife has been out of town this weekend. She did a ton of prep for me and the kids and I am grateful for that. We had a good time overall but no matter what happens I will only tell her about the positive things and that we had a great time. She has a constant listening of me that I “always complain” about my time with the kids even if I have a nice time.
Sorry guys and girls but this is the reality for men. No matter a new or old relationship, she does not want to hear your complaints - you will see her turn sour when you complain. If you want tell her about a problem and your brilliant solution, great. But do not tell her about your hard day or whine to her about your issues.
In a long term relationship, it is a minor setback. In a new relationship, it can totally kill attraction. Whatever the relationship situation, she wants a man who handles his own problems and does not whine. If she has to spend mental cycles fixing your problems for you, she will be burdened by you and not be as receptive to your wants and needs.
#women #relationships

2024-11-03 15:19:49 UTC

Sunday
Time to get ready for the week
Take responsibility for your life and your family
No matter where you are on the #responsibility and #leadership continuums, do more this week than you did last week

2024-11-03 15:17:58 UTC

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Will you accept the outcome of the election no matter who wins?

2024-11-03 03:19:55 UTC

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No but it is a challenge

2024-11-02 15:13:57 UTC

She wants to be taken care of.
#relationships
#nevent1q…l55p

2024-11-02 13:10:08 UTC

She did not fall out of a tree looking like this. This is not the type of “beauty” that men respect or want to marry.
This is fake silicone “beauty” and is as bad for the woman as tattoos and nipple piercings. She looks like a sex doll so she gets treated like a sex doll by everyone.
(My wife gets treated like a sex doll too, but just by me.)
#women
#nevent1q…7vqv

2024-11-02 02:00:54 UTC

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The Democrats say all sorts of terrible things but that is ok because they are saving democracy

2024-11-02 01:32:01 UTC

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Did you actually hear/read what he said

2024-11-02 01:27:56 UTC

She wants to be free of burden, not burdened by you presence
#women
#nevent1q…uyuj

2024-11-02 01:26:47 UTC

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How about we ask those Olympic female boxers what they think

2024-11-02 00:31:29 UTC

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Continuing the previous thread, just seems like you’re unhappy about what men think is attractive and think we should be different

2024-11-02 00:29:50 UTC

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Was she on the primary ballot?

2024-11-01 21:05:07 UTC

Your wife sends you articles about social justice and feminism.
My wife sends me videos about proper spanking and choking techniques.
Choose your path.
#attraction

2024-11-01 20:57:50 UTC

Seems accurate
https://nostr-personality.vercel.app/npub1sx2ykznyhppphgrvhrm4xst4trrgjf94n92t2aqh5yy8rumu7k8qsh2lss
#nevent1q…42yj

2024-11-01 20:51:18 UTC

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I think I understand but disagree. No passion in a relationship without pursuit.

2024-11-01 20:24:36 UTC

You can spot them everywhere
Decent looking guys with obese purple haired yoga pant wearing women
The men don’t know how they got there and do not know how to escape
Step one is to take responsibility for everything. You actions, her actions, broken things, kids, etc.
Step two is to provide leadership without being asked. Take care of yourself. Stop eating garbage, take a shower, get fit and don’t let anyone dissuade you.
Stop jerking off.
Then start fucking her 3 times per week. She is the sexiest thing you e ever seen. If she resists, dont get mad, go for a run, try again later.
She’ll either follow your lead or try to knock you down. Don’t let her knock you down.

2024-11-01 19:54:23 UTC

Love it.
Do not split the check.
Free her of burden.
#responsibility
#nevent1q…juw3

2024-11-01 17:56:56 UTC

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So your answer is “I don’t like it”

2024-11-01 17:44:49 UTC

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I asked for you to let me know how No Nut November goes for your energy, and you said “sorry I already did that experiment in March” - so I guess you are doing no nut November but not able to comment on its impact on your energy level because you did something similar in March …..

2024-11-01 16:44:17 UTC

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“you will have more men chasing you just because of having a clean skin”
Do you disagree with this, or you just don’t like it?

2024-11-01 14:55:27 UTC

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Ok I don’t follow, but you do you

2024-11-01 14:31:08 UTC

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Will be interested to hear how your energy / focus is affected

2024-10-31 19:45:00 UTC

Successful men can choose between women and will not choose a pink haired tattooed woman over a natural beauty.
People can call it redpoll and deny the facts or whatever they want but it is human nature.
This girl finally saw it: https://youtu.be/JK-JvmaImzc
#nevent1q…jgf8

2024-10-31 17:45:13 UTC

Retain your semen, refocus and use that energy to pursue passions and build things, your passion and success will attract women, these women will give you whatever pleasure you seek.
#transmutation #retention
#nevent1q…np73

2024-10-31 15:44:17 UTC

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Not yet 🧐

2024-10-31 14:32:07 UTC

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It is probably Satoshi

2024-10-31 11:52:19 UTC

Take away your attention, take away her power.
#attention #power
#nevent1q…pcf7

2024-10-30 17:20:10 UTC

When she is complaining about an unimportant/drama problem, remember that she does not want a solution - drama is addictive and she like like it. Your solutions ruin her fun.
The formula is simple:
Listen to her
Repeat it back to her: "So your sister did ...."
Say: "That must make you feel ..."
She will think you are very insightful and connected to her.
#women #relationships
#nevent1q…89c0

2024-10-30 16:56:22 UTC

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Are we talking about noodles

2024-10-30 16:53:34 UTC

Her arguments will rarely make sense as she lacks the ability to choose logic and reason over emotion.
#women
#nevent1q…yc2j

2024-10-29 23:57:41 UTC

She will resent you (or never date you) if she is the one that has to take the lead in life.
#attraction
#nevent1q…dw8f

2024-10-29 19:06:22 UTC

Free her from burden so she can have the mental space to welcome your sexuality
#women
#nevent1q…40zp

2024-10-29 16:00:36 UTC

Things are not alwasy great. When you fail to fulfill an expectation, there can be upset. She will not be rational, but you must remain rational. Listen to her complaint and do not interrupt her. Take some time away if you need it. Rather than simply saying "I am sorry", it will go a long way if you can show her that you understand the impact of you failure.
You got home late and did not let her know? The imact is that she had to feed the kids and get them ready for soccer practice and now she is going to be late for her appointment.
When she becomes really upset about a breakdown like this, there may be other things going on under the surface - but you need to clean up the primary mess before you can move on to understanding the deeper issues.
Deeper issues may include: Her friends are really counting on her to be there on on time, her dad is always late for appointments and she hates that, etc ... or maybe YOU are always late and not communicating and this is a chronic issue.
#relationships #responsibility

2024-10-29 03:38:18 UTC

That’s why they call them Pickup Artists and not Pickup Scientists
🎨
#attraction
#nevent1q…a752

2024-10-28 16:47:04 UTC

Hope the big guy can pull it off but nerves are not a young man’s friend at a time like this.
#attraction
#nevent1q…3gfw

2024-10-26 16:10:32 UTC

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… and Trump’s JRE interview (without a music headliner) has 12M views after 14hrs, just on YouTube

2024-10-25 20:31:14 UTC

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Missed a chance to say “… since we care about democracy and he was the winner of the primary …”

2024-10-25 20:22:18 UTC

If you don’t handle the dirty jobs, she will do it herself (or she will find someone who will do it).
#women
#nevent1q…e5f0

2024-10-25 18:23:02 UTC

The more dependable and consistent you become, the less she will share her opinions about useless things.
When you act like a child, she has space to question every actions, to be worried about your forethought and process.
When you consistently exhibit leadership and responsibility, the more at ease she will be. When she is at ease, she can rest her mind and free herself to be with you.
#leadership #responsibility

2024-10-25 18:18:24 UTC

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thanks for repost you are the breast

2024-10-25 14:49:53 UTC

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thanks for repost you are the breast

2024-10-25 12:29:50 UTC

Marriage does not mean an end to sexual adventure.
Her needs change as she matures but backseat blowjobs do not need to be a thing of the past.
Provide leadership and take responsibility for all things. Free her of burden and she will happily be your sexual plaything.
#attraction #responsibility #leadership
#nevent1q…sjaf

2024-10-25 11:53:02 UTC

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#note1saf…04qh

2024-10-24 18:47:06 UTC

She can’t be your sexy plaything if you don’t treat her like your sexy plaything.
👙 🏏
#attraction

2024-10-23 23:32:59 UTC

If you are compelled to text her about your bad day or about a current bullshit “crisis” you are having, so not push SEND. Will telling her accomplish anything more than putting your problems into her world?
Your goal is to keep her free of burden, not to give her undo stress over your passing problems.
#relationships #responsibility

2024-10-23 23:05:00 UTC

She wants you to make smart decisions so she feels secure and taken care of.
#women
#nevent1q…3c9w

2024-10-23 16:33:58 UTC

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When thigh-highs with skirt?

2024-10-23 16:33:06 UTC

Women think that men want the same thing that women want and constantly try to “fix” men because women cannot imagine that men are happy with themselves - so women do things that they think men want them to do, women give men gifts that they think men should want, and women feel sad for men who don’t live the way women think men should want to live.
Embrace your manhood.
#women
#nevent1q…4et3

2024-10-23 16:25:28 UTC

Husbands who assume responsibility for all things in their family life will gain the respect and adoration of the women around them (and may encounter negativity from the men who live with those women.)
If you are tired of nagging, lack of sex, relationship angst - take full responsibility for your situation.
When you take responsibility for all things, you free your wife to spend her energy to please you, rather than spending her energy to manage you.
#responsibility
#nevent1q…24ea

2024-10-23 13:33:32 UTC

Women think men are complicated.
Women simply refuse to accept how easy it is to please a man.
#women #relationships
#nevent1q…7wrm

2024-10-22 21:30:17 UTC

Free your wife of mental burden so she has space to be sexy.
The more energy she spends managing your life, the less energy she has to be with you.
#relationships #milf

2024-10-22 17:30:50 UTC

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Maybe they realized that living in a city with kids sucks and is relatively unsafe compared to mid class suburbs

2024-10-22 17:28:23 UTC

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Everyone was worried Trump would start WW3 and yet here we are

2024-10-22 13:45:12 UTC

This is why I suggest not going for dinner for the first date(s). Yes guys can burn through a lot of money, and there are also way better activities.
Best is to have her to your house to help you cook dinner. You see if she know anything about the kitchen, she swoons for man who cooks, and you are in the comfort of your own home.
#dating
#nevent1q…3xzz

2024-10-21 17:01:46 UTC

Now is the time to start thinking about her Christmas gifts:
🎁
1. Gifts (small) for her stocking
2. Gifts (homemade) “from the kids”
3. Gift (thoughtful) from you
4. Gift (sexy) from you
#relationships #manstr