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2026-07-17 16:54:35 UTC

The third article.
Medium: https://medium.com/@sabokhid/on-early-marriages-4847744dc505
Nostur: https://damus.io/nevent1qqstp839me9ygp5gf05h3frg4k52k0szdqtgvc9e65t2mvjdll9l2ssyjuw6s
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2026-07-17 16:45:47 UTC

On Early Marriages.
Author: Creator of the ‘’Via Essentia’’ philosophy & ideology — sabokhid. 
Sweet young couples. Population growth. Rejuvenation of the nation. More responsible youth.
But at what cost will any nation that tries to promote early marriages receive all this?
Let’s start with the fact that we consider marriages where both partners are under 21 to be early. Jurisprudence disagrees with us. It believes that at 18 a person is already formed and is an adult.
But in practice, especially today, we see a completely different picture. At 18, school graduates most often don’t even know where to go next, don’t know their strengths, and have no goals in life.
Can we really consider them fully formed?
Let’s break down the pillars on which our criticism rests.
1. We let children give birth to children. As already mentioned, 18–19-year-old teenagers still don’t have a clear sense of self, their own views, or plans. They have no principles, no developed stress resistance, and no parenting skills. They don’t know how to speak in a way that people actually listen.
And all of the above are the most basic requirements for a parent who wants to raise a strong personality. So what exactly are they going to teach their child? To turn the other cheek after being slapped? To work hard to get rich and never drink alcohol or do drugs — because “it’s a sin”?
The reason for the absence of these qualities is obvious. Lack of life experience. Lack of time to seriously reflect on such matters.
2. The financial aspect. How many hours does our recent graduate need to work just to feed a family? It’s enough to look up the numbers online and compare them with their own salary. Lack of money means that quality healthcare, education, and useful connections remain out of reach for both the child and the parents themselves. And most importantly — there’s a high risk that after several years spent in a poor environment, the child will develop a poor mindset that will follow them to the grave. The cycle continues?!
3. Lack of attention. Work. Personal growth. Their own projects. When exactly are they supposed to raise the child? In the race for money, career, and everything else, our newlyweds will push the child down to third place in importance.
4. The era of superficial marriages and divorces. Peak energy in both sexes. When a couple of evenings at the cinema can push them toward thoughts of marriage, what conscious and careful approach are we even talking about? Lost young people seek out equally lost partners. No value system has been built, no goals for the marriage have been defined, compatibility hasn’t been studied. The marriage is vulnerable. It’s risky. There’s a high chance of divorce after the first serious fight. And that leads to broken destinies for the children. A broken family is one of the strongest blows to a child’s psyche.
How do parents who are for such marriages justify it? Their dream is to see their son in an expensive suit and throw the biggest, most expensive feast in the history of their town, or their beautiful daughter in a wedding dress that makes everyone “jealous.”
Our light-minded dreamer parents believe that one single argument covers all the weaknesses. It goes like this: “The couple grows together, they become stronger together, they become more and more similar and compatible.” They think their little boy is now a responsible adult ready to lead new offspring. Mission accomplished.
We notice an interesting phenomenon: some marry off their children partly out of fear that in a couple of years no one will choose their daughter or son anymore — because they’ll already be “old” and unwanted.
Our message to such parents is simple: Are you ready for divorce? Have you considered these outcomes?
Every couple that dreams of filling their inner emptiness with marriage at 18 must understand: they are now chained to their job, their city, and their partner (whom they still don’t really know — you haven’t had the time, you haven’t learned how to read people). You can no longer take risks, dream big, think about state politics, or engage in civic activity. There’s a family behind you. This burden will kill all the energy of your youth. And how bitter it will be years later when the children grow up as complete strangers to you.
You will be surprised and fail to understand that while you were busy “surviving” with your little family, the children were receiving their upbringing from movies, random people, teachers, and friends.
It’s a cocktail of their social environment and chance situations.
We advise both sides to imagine these outcomes before planning the wedding.
We hold this view: it is better for the nation to be many times smaller, but stronger. There will be fewer marriages, but they will be stronger. Love will be less about hormones and more about contract and partnership. Young people will spend years searching for themselves — but that is better than saddling them with a deadly burden.
It’s worth remembering: early marriages are the castration of a nation. A people busy with survival, debts, and family will not bother studying a new constitution, fighting for their rights, or being active in civic life. They have something to lose.

2026-07-17 06:38:20 UTC

What do we consider an “early marriage”?
If both are under 20–21 years old.
We still need to mention the advantages of early marriages. Population growth. Future workforce. Young people become more occupied and responsible.
But at what cost?
We allow children to give birth to children.

2026-07-17 06:05:00 UTC

Early marriages. Part 1. #socialproblems
https://video.nostr.build/35aa975bfc9ade230641f6696e651a1df2831bc0fe414b5f3040fbefbf3cfbd4.mov

2026-07-13 13:46:50 UTC

How do you overcome the need for validation?
— Remember: people don’t give a damn about you.
— Realize that you will never be happy.
— Your inner judgment must be completely independent.
— Talk to yourself. Be honest. Why do you need approval, praise, or someone else’s love?

2026-07-13 13:12:46 UTC

The need for validation. Part №3.
How do we overcome it? #psychology
https://video.nostr.build/78af682c879266235f8bcd0b7e157dc6bd7227a47bd262088090efe76be98e40.mp4

2026-07-12 17:39:45 UTC

https://youtu.be/BLVuWl2oKnw?si=pXyX-wlwIdFxt20W

2026-07-12 17:39:09 UTC

https://odysee.com/@via_essentia_en:b/earlymarriage1:2

2026-07-03 14:52:37 UTC

The harder a person tries to earn society’s approval and recognition, the more society pushes them away.
Fakeness, constant adjusting, the absence of an inner “Self”, the desperate search for love — it all shows.
You won’t last long playing this game.
The loss of respect is inevitable.

2026-07-03 13:34:52 UTC

On the Need for Validation. Part 2.
To earn validation, you must stop needing it. #psychology
https://video.nostr.build/0732b354ec6ff14db1fd7571453069c0dca1ebc9d706f4b63e7967e37858be2a.mp4

2026-06-28 10:46:18 UTC

Our second article.
https://medium.com/@sabokhid/on-the-dependency-on-recognition-0593ad419fa4
https://image.nostr.build/9bbd7fdcb712a5a075698f1b1b8dd042fb21397d5c00dc49abf204ea05af5ed0.jpg

2026-06-28 09:13:11 UTC

If a child from an early age was taught to beg for attention and love from his parents, this is the perfect breeding ground for forming a person who is dependent on recognition.
But if another child, on the contrary, received enough attention, care, and love, he lives in abundance. He will grow up confident.

2026-06-28 09:07:23 UTC

Where Does the Need for Validation Come From? Part 1. #psychology
https://video.nostr.build/f34159b45f96175058a03a6c561466976e9b0f3413dbbc36ec08d759822b842a.mov

2026-06-18 21:41:22 UTC

Our first article.
https://medium.com/@sabokhid/what-is-the-philosophy-via-essentia-what-goals-do-we-pursue-a43db2cc3a86
https://image.nostr.build/bbb6123718afad3a95d37b69ad4b19d507abb72a6c609202a18317b6ed6b00ef.jpg

2026-06-17 19:59:40 UTC

As long as the demand for jobs far exceeds the supply, businesses won't want to change. They have no reason to show respect. Cheap labor is always available.
There are only 2 solutions: people must demand better and stand up for their rights. And the state must enforce fairness.

2026-06-17 19:49:34 UTC

About Employees and Employers. Part 1. As long as there are far more people looking for work than there are jobs available, businesses won’t want to change. #socialissues
https://video.nostr.build/88d62d0af0a54ff202c5f9308d343ca9ba3b26c0a8f01da945bd8b72e872219b.mov

2026-06-12 09:40:29 UTC

Essentia Philosophy Base. Part №11.
When and how to cut ties. Energy of loneliness. #philosophy
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2026-06-10 13:26:07 UTC

An individual or a nation that cannot properly manage money and control its desires will never be truly free.
The absence of financial freedom is the absence of freedom itself.

2026-06-10 13:24:58 UTC

Financial Literacy. Part 5.
Without Financial Freedom, There Is No Real Freedom at All. #finances
https://video.nostr.build/f66d37c56d5ed265100c5bd7826c11bd2cf6390f4defe806fd0719ef2c54d919.mov

2026-06-05 15:31:36 UTC

Pay yourself first. No matter what kind of money flow is coming into your pocket.
Learn to set money aside for investments first, and only then pay your expenses.
Convince yourself that your salary has been cut and your income is lower — but take your share first.

2026-06-05 15:29:17 UTC

About Financial Literacy. Part 4. Principles of financial literacy. #finances
https://video.nostr.build/fd297e5ac9e54195744a95cbe5918bf8515c816df2670ddf5ca79957f94a3531.mov

2026-06-01 07:05:36 UTC

The Bucket Concept. Every source of income is water being poured into a bucket. Every expense is a hole in that bucket. Until people learn to patch those holes and maintain balance, the holes will continue to grow and multiply in proportion to the amount of water being poured into it.

2026-06-01 07:03:15 UTC

About Financial Literacy. Part 3. The Bucket Concept. About Saving Money. #finances
https://video.nostr.build/5d09b5d253673ce86ec3ac267279eea1d68af9a286598af43af96e1fe52f4346.mov

2026-05-28 05:26:04 UTC

https://odysee.com/@via_essentia_en:b/validation:0

2026-05-23 15:01:49 UTC

If a state is not insecure about its economy, it should introduce financial literacy lessons in schools.
And if the state introduces them but the people refuse to study them, it means the people are closing their own eyes and placing chains around their own necks.

2026-05-23 14:19:23 UTC

About Financial Literacy. Part 2. #finances
https://video.nostr.build/e8a756884a615b30f628800b82f8fc88cbe177106ebc2ee571e2c95d01ac9200.mov

2026-05-19 13:35:58 UTC

Financial literacy is the skill of managing money. It is your understanding of the nature of money and your knowledge of how to achieve financial freedom.
A population that does not understand the nature of money or basic economics is extremely convenient for countries where those in power depend on the blindness of the people.

2026-05-19 13:32:31 UTC

About Financial Literacy. Part 1.
https://video.nostr.build/fe13c1c6b170f105c52d5221943d6bb5840f0ef9bbf9c43398c1807e634695ed.mov