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Last Notes npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The start line of any area is always crowded. But make several steps forward and, as soon as it becomes hard, most people quit. You just need to keep moving. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon "Not everyone has a privilege to go to the gym. Not everyone has a privilege to learn. Not everyone has a privilege to start a business..." Ok. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon "You don't need a gym." Why tf it became a problem? Are you that incompetwnt that you can't organize your gym membership? Yes, there are circumstances sometimes. I've been training at home, and even used water bottles. But the gym is the most effective way of training. Stop thinking about problems that dont exist. Go to the gym! https://blossom.primal.net/3bc131bee2d54153db26f92b77179ae6c84566f71d80b71b86093abf33faf2da.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Unfortunately. Whatever we do is backward most of the time. Because of old genetic programming and modern parasitic brainwashing. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The Power of Detachment When a buyer desperately wants something but the seller doesn't care whether they sell it, a power imbalance is created. The buyer becomes emotionally attached to the outcome, while the seller has no such attachment. That gives the seller leverage and makes the buyer easier to pressure and exploit. The same thing happens when you see a woman and immediately want her because of her appearance. If you approach her already attached to the outcome, you create an imbalance. She may need time to decide whether she likes you. She may not be interested, she may be in a bad mood, or she may already be in a relationship. But you are already invested. If she rejects you, you feel like you have lost something you desperately wanted. Yet you never had her in the first place. That desperation creates pressure, and the pressure affects the way you communicate. She can feel it. A better approach is to treat every interaction as an experiment. Approach people because you are curious about what might happen, not because you have already decided that you need a particular outcome. She was never yours, so you can't lose her. And you can't truly know that you want her, because you don't know her yet. She may turn out to be wonderful, or completely incompatible with you. The same principle applies to almost any exchange or commercial interaction. If you desperately want a particular car, the seller has leverage over you. You become attached to that specific car, and you become willing to accept conditions you otherwise wouldn't. Instead, wander. Explore. Compare. Stay curious. No clinging. No desperation. Just curiosity and a willingness to discover what happens. https://blossom.primal.net/2cd2f7b1ada51e21d563b814606190db2fcc3ba2da630467b815078408f0ac15.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon – Can you do this? – Yes. – Can you do that? – Yes. – Even stuff you've never tried before? – Yes. – How do you know? – What does it depend on? What determines if I can do something or not? – There are many factors... – There's only one factor. My will. If I want something, I'll do it. All the other limiting factors are in our heads. Wana know what happened when I went to the dance floor for the first time in my life? I conquered it and shocked everyone. I've never danced before that. What happened when I played drums for the first time in my life? I surprised several pros. Many such examples. Everything is in your head. Pay attention to the world around you. https://blossom.primal.net/1dd0181abc3b1394ebb91242cdc02bbd8a921c01053c705faa067d3210d0c429.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The path of least resistance for the body is the state you are in right now. You are used to it, so it's effective, you're alive, so it's certainly safe, and it contains the minimum amount of risk. This is why the body loves it and marks it with comfort and pleasure. The most expansive state is change. It leads to risks, uncertainty, and ineffective actions. This is why the body hates it and marks it with discomfort and pain. These are the factory settings that were set up evolutionarily thousands of years ago. They can be retuned to meet modern demands. Retuning them makes an incredible difference. You should try it. Check out my courses on the Warrior's Path portal for more. https://blossom.primal.net/afe8cf6e2a715f8436db0482dfa4b21b344795ffac2e4aa6e39949f9dbc77992.mp4 npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Whatever happens, if you don't react and don't accept it, and if you understand human psychology and how the world works, you can always change the situation to your advantage. Always. You are the director of your life, don't allow others to enforce their scenarios on you. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The biggest money is in restricting. That is why everything is so regulated and restricted in the modern world. "But I am free!" For sure. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Imagine selling a product, and instead of making it great and delivering to target clients, stressing out about your existing clients being loyal to your brand and not looking elsewhere. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When you listen to people, if you pay attention, you can gain critical information that gives you leverage and can help to communicate and collaborate with them more effectively. Also, it builds an emotional connection. When you argue, it leads an opposite effect. Be smarter. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon She watches how easily you dominate the world. That tells her if you are her best option and determines how much she will be in love with you. https://npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd.blossom.band/7aacd2e874cec00be904eb9a2e2f407e4f14caa003a059ed483353eebd9cb3c2.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Freedom is achieved by restricting yourself. If you don't do it and just allow yourself to do whatever comes to your mind, you won't be able to do anything, as others will restrict you severely. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon This is how it goes: "You are behaving like a lazy child. I do everything, and you just chill all the time!" Here, you have two options. Accept her frame and start arguing, defending yourself, explaining that you are not lazy and do a lot. Or replying "I hear you. It is sad that it feels that way to you." If whatever she says offends you and elicits any emotion, there may be hidden childhood traumas deep inside, they need investigation. In a mature state, there is no reason to react defensively to such behaviors — she feels that way, it doesn't mean it is the reality. Also, it doesn't mean that she attacks you or tries to do anything negative. The effective way to process the situation is you calmly acknowledge her emotions, then show her that everything will be fine. If there is actually a problem, though, if you are actually lazy and fearful, and she actually does everything while you play video games, then you have immaturity issues and need to geow tf up. https://npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd.blossom.band/0b34d86eeb08d8f2a26e8bd43cd2d106683b6b87b34cdbf3350084de020c12eb.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Women are afraid of uncertainty and problems. They want stability, safety, and comfort. Men are bored by stability and comfort. Men want uncertainty, danger, and competition. Analyze your desires. What do you want? npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Brave vs coward is the real battle that is happening in the minds of all men. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When you make a mistake or fail, if you want to use that opportunity as a lesson, you need to try to feel as much pain as you can directly from the mistake. Only pain ingrains lessons into our psyche. If you avoid the pain, you will just waste the opportunity. Be smarter. Feel it. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Women will listen to a woman who promotes her crypto trading services and trust her, because she is a woman too. That is the level of woman logic. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon I love this guy sooo much. What an incredible chad. I have tears every time he starts screaming 😄 Unbelievable 💪🏼🔥🚀 He is on insta as lucaspopan https://npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd.blossom.band/1060c11c450b74fcd8a675270c386f094864a35ef783bd4bbe5cb0ed08b898c6.mp4 npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If you tell a dummy that he is dumb, he will be offended. A smart man won't be offended by that. If you tell a weak guy that he is weak, he will be offended. A strong man won't be offended by that. If you tell an unhealthy person that he is unhealthy, he will be offended. A healthy one won't be offended by that. They are defending their weakness, and that is the reason they will remain weak. What are you defending? https://npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd.blossom.band/b68c7f3c5003bfe266f48832f36c64a8e493353113cf48796000b9cd75eb5ee9.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon You can see who someone is by looking at what stresses him. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When your car gets damaged, you need to determine what is broken and focus on fixing exactly that. You don't start wandering trying to fix every problem your car has. You don't start imagining unrelated scenarios about crashes. That would exhaust you and distract from the issue. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If you are screaming at people, you need to grow up. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The trap designed to destroy the potential of men. https://blossom.primal.net/e2c8e833a8c4dc2a482625357a702874570ff8c69d84014ab33ee91ac7075744.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If there's a hillarious story you've heard online that got you emotional, it is most likely fake. They're monetizing your emotions. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Resentment? Envy? Anger? Fear? Shame? Guilt? Jealousy? Are we 10 years old? Where is our consciousness? Intellect? Class? npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon A guy "desperately" needed my help and wanted to join Warrior's Path portal to go through courses and change his life. He asked for the portal link. I suggested that he can find the link himself easily. He said he couldn't do it. And that is a problem. If you want to change your life there will be challenges. Finding a website link will be the simplest of these challenges. If you can't do it, nothing can save you. The guy disappeared. The world is a circus. https://blossom.primal.net/7582f997742d3361ac033beee47b4d6dfe5f4cec54e8451ef9edb72bc6acbd54.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Everything is experience. Every second of life. You can consciously experience every moment and incorporate it into your character. Or you can drift through life mindlessly. The choice is yours. https://blossom.primal.net/85142c0b82c3cb5838d9bdb31a56c0f294060733f96d407f88f5966bdcac1048.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon People are not interested to learn anything during communication. They just want to charge on someones energy and are searching for the most energetic person to start paying attention (connect and charge). npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon How do people determine who to listen? It's about energy. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The most enjoyment and satisfaction I get is from helping guys to man tf up and start conquering their lives. Especially in relationships domain, although all areas of life are connected to masculinity, and manning tf up fixes everything. I have already helped many and continue to help people. Join Warrior's Path portal if you are interested. There are several ways I can help you too. https://blossom.primal.net/05e797b8e8d1129a21719af3d143bc14c5193bc0f0859cb6fa15897270d4a13e.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon You need to be naive or simple-minded to be honest with people all the time. For me, honesty is the most precious trait and for me to be honest with someone they need to deserve it very much. A very few people in real life know the real me. But I am honest on X and my portal. https://blossom.primal.net/87a86257531b251deff5db66644a21343e897ce170c9f73f8919ae7a514100aa.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When you are a lemur in a zoo, you better believe in human kindness. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When you are very good at something, it becomes much harder to interact with people and create a connection. Sometimes it is necessary to simplify yourself to connect to people around you. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon THE UNIVERSE DISCOVERS ITSELF Discovery happens through experimentation. Nature creates endless variations, and reality tests them. Some work, some fail. Some survive, grow, and reproduce; others disappear. Through this endless process of trial and error, the universe gradually discovers what works. We are part of the same process. When we are born, we don't arrive as blank pages. Our genes give us certain qualities, tendencies, abilities, and limitations. But our potential is not something we can understand immediately. We have to discover it by interacting with the world. Imagine a car. A car may be designed for a particular purpose. You can use it in many different ways, but some uses will fit its design much better than others. If you force it into a role it wasn't suited for, it may still function, but it won't perform at its potential. Human beings are similar. We often try to decide in advance what our lives should look like. We choose one path, one profession, one environment, one identity — and then spend years trying to make ourselves fit into it. But perhaps this is backwards. Instead of deciding who we are supposed to be, we can explore. Try different things. Meet different people. Enter different environments. Build things. Fail. Start again. Follow curiosity. Pay attention to what makes us stronger, more capable, and more alive. Every experience becomes an experiment. Some things will resonate with us. We will discover that we are unusually good at certain things, that certain environments bring out our abilities, and that certain people and challenges make us grow. Other things will simply not work. We will fail, lose interest, become exhausted, or discover that we are not suited for them. That's not failure. That's information. The universe is constantly filtering possibilities through reality. We can participate in that process consciously by exposing ourselves to more possibilities instead of trying to control the outcome from the beginning. Perhaps this is what destiny really is. Not a predetermined path waiting for us somewhere in the future, but the path that emerges when we repeatedly interact with reality and allow reality to show us where we fit. If we stop limiting ourselves and explore openly, life will keep presenting us with possibilities. Some doors will close. Others will open. Some experiences will strengthen us. Others will teach us what to avoid. Little by little, we tune ourselves to the environments where our capabilities can be used most effectively. And eventually, we discover something that was there from the beginning: our potential. Purpose is not necessarily something we invent. Perhaps it is something we discover. And freedom is not necessarily doing whatever we want. Perhaps freedom is becoming what we are capable of becoming. https://blossom.primal.net/a7041063b019986f97e82a86d14cc315eceafa7471608bd63e4ed83472b00964.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Of you call your woman "partner", you are gay. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon I’ve spent years looking closely at the things that keep us feeling incomplete even when life looks fine from the outside. – The inner patterns that never fully grew up. – The missing sense of direction. – The quiet loops of distraction and hesitation. The mini-courses on Warrior’s Path came directly out of that process. They’re short, focused, and built around the exact work that helped me move through those places. If any of this feels familiar, check them out: https://warriorspath.club/mini-courses https://blossom.primal.net/3cdd4c95fffb8e424bed177b2f6ec781abc2c1b333600f9c0ba2eb77c4bb330a.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon A good way of changing your life for the better is trying something new. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The default defensive mechanism most people have turned on is rationalizing their state and everything they do. It was helping monkeys to survive in the past. This prevents growth and ensures stagnation. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Dumb people are succeeding in business, relationships, and life in general, because their brain is not capable of overthinking, and their body isn't capable of overreacting. They just float with the current, and sometimes it leads them to places. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon People love gossip and can listen to it for hours. People hate smart stories full of challenging ideas and complex concepts. This tells precisely why the world is where it is. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon There is a storm inside every woman. Whoever can handle it will conquer her heart. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Some people say that they are willing to die for their loved ones, family, or friends. Here's a question for you: Are you willing to live for them, be healthy and successful? npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Whatever happens, no matter the weather, you can always strive to do your best. This is how you build your world. Have you ever tried swimming in the sea during heavy rain? It is an incredible experience. https://blossom.primal.net/c85ce8d51c22d7b8cce8352a995c00a813c35c94eff534cb056eccf1d9dccb16.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Anything can be done easily as long as at least two conditions are met. First, it must be important, and you should understand how it affects your life. Second, everything must be broken down into simple steps that you can easily do. https://blossom.primal.net/6fdb52bef4870ed13b58a1510f9327fbbe275adb069d71d7f521481b7f9f1508.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When you react to something, you reveal your internal state, your beliefs, and your intentions. By reacting to people and events, you open up your cards and give away your power. But when you don't react, you remain a mystery. No one can predict your thoughts or actions, and therefore they are left frozen, waiting for your commands. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The purpose of training is to learn to do whatever you couldn't do before. You train by doing the things you can't do, not by doing the things you can do. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Everything that happens is actually natural. Even unnatural stuff you and everyone else is doing. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The problem is, the system convinced you that you just are a man. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The problem is, the system convinced you that women are adults. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If the gov could genetically modify you, what traits would they want? npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon What is true love? https://blossom.primal.net/87a655cab9e79d8664b76a95c080f9388925b2abec234b58bf4f59c5b6ea8f41.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If any criticism from anyone makes you nervous or affects you in any emotional way, you are stuck in an immature state and need to grow up. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Life may be incredibly complicated and hard sometimes. But there is always a choice — whatever happens, you can always choose to feel good. Don't allow anything to steal your precious time. https://blossom.primal.net/1d7f1d698e08c97c18afbf307e90e6ab00e9bc5f3c96a840d7785bf69402dae9.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Imagine you are handing out flyers on the street. You approach people and communicate with them, telling them about your product and giving them the flyers. Would you be disappointed if someone you approached "rejected" you, ignored you, behaved rudely, or did anything else? You understand that it is not you they are rejecting — they may not be in the right mood, or they may simply not want your product. But if the same thing happens when you approach a woman you like in your day-to-day life, you become sad and your self-esteem tanks. Have you ever thought about why? https://blossom.primal.net/8b471492cc2e5949214f507152ebdb94e80ca6a2b00b4d3b8d1cc3a01e045520.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If something is inevitable, no mater how bad it may seem, the only effective way to deal with it is acceptance and enjoyment. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Whenever you think or say "We built..." or "We did..." remember, there is no we, there are specific individuals or groups, and you most likely have nothing to do with them. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Consistency doesn't build amazing lives. Slaves were consistent. Prisoners are consistent. Lazy dorks are consistent. Brave curiocity does. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Sickness isn't an enemy — it is a sparring partner that allows you to operate at the necessary levels to survive and prosper. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon What is right and what is wrong? To answer this eternal question, you need to decide who is judging. Everyone has different incentives and perspectives, and the truth changes according to many factors. But there is an ultimate judge who doesn't change its perspective — the universe. In a sense, we can say that it is the one ultimate judge. The universe puts absolute limits on reality. Everything that is possible is right. https://blossom.primal.net/27ba4f4abed6f4b5ced7374ae14982d763c0f717d9443930a6c3ab506d75d54e.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon I can't take anyone seriously after they mention God. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When you are doubtful, inarticulate, indecisive, and lazy, no one will trust or listen to you, not even your brain and body. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Any establishment, ideology, organization, or any other grouping needs to have borders to defend itself. The defense become the reason the system dies. Because the world is changing and to survive you need to be evolving with it. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon There is a tactic predatory people use to dominate insecure ones: doubting. They doubt you, your abilities, your value, or anything else they notice you are insecure about. That opens your wound and makes you vulnerable, opening up a wide range of possibilities for exploitation. If you stutter when you talk about your service, they will openly doubt its value, and when you start doubting yourself, they will demand that you lower the price. If you understand your value and are not affected by their doubts, they will back off and may accept your conditions after some time, saying, "They need to think about it." Women use this tactic very often. Your job as a man is to do your best and reach your potential, which will give you an understanding that is impossible to manipulate. – You are childish! – I am the most mature man in the universe. – You are lazy! – There is no one in the world who can compete with me. I am efficiency itself. – Your product isn't the best and isn't even in the top 3. – It isn't in the top 3 because I am in a higher league. It is minus 1 — the defining example of quality. And of course, if you are lazy and your product sucks, you will be dumped soon. Work on yourself and reach your potential. https://blossom.primal.net/5b6547571cb3c6484777dbc2b4f7a37e605fd74225ebefa68f16a765b9fc29c8.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon She is not your soulmate, she is just a parasite. Treat her that way and your relationship will thrive. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon To preserve energy, we are trying to find and use shortcuts. But why do we do that? Evolutionarily, it was a survival competition, and whoever was more effective dominated and eliminated their enemies. It was what was driving survival. Nowadays, most people don't plan to dominate and eliminate enemies. Most people live their lives and pursue a variety of other goals. But that evolutionary efficiency instinct is there anyway, and it is guiding most of our decisions. We are avoiding life in order not to spend energy ineffectively. What if, instead, we aim at maximizing the experience? We work out in the gym, "wasting" energy ineffectively. We move by walking and running instead of driving. What if we seek inefficiency and choose the harder option when available? That will definitely maximize our experience and allow us to become stronger, smarter, and better in all other areas. https://blossom.primal.net/0ea78847ddc12a1050dda98abcfd81d2b1c21f6edf21bde4004d0e523d3fb08d.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The moment you become one with your woman, when you start understanding each other, agreeing, when there are no confusions and any problems, when your goals fully align, and when you both feel peace of mind, is the moment tension disappears and that's what destroys relationships. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon How to convince people to like what they hate? Name it as something they love. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When someone doubts you or has concerns about you, the most effective behavior is to allow them to speak freely and tell you what they think. Censoring or scaring them into silence will be the most inefficient way to handle the situation. It may seem that censorship is more effective because you won't need to address the problem now, effectively delaying or deleting the problem completely. But in reality, the problem will compound and build tension, eventually exploding. Listening, on the other hand, allows you to release the tension. You don't need to address the problem right away, most of the time. And sometimes, the problem doesn't even need any resolution at all — the pressure was the problem, and you fix it by listening and releasing the pressure. Sometimes people just need to talk. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The reason you are not successful is you chase comfort and pleasure instead of avoiding it, and you avoid discomfort and pain instead of loving it. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Don't be afraid to lose followers, customers, clients, friends, partners — if they are not headed in the same direction as you, they can do more damage than good. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If you can be described by one word — a rapper, a designer, a bodybuilder, an accountant, a comedian, or any other — I feel sad for you. The world is so much deeper and interesting. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon I can help you to solve any of your problems. But you won't ask me to. Because you don't want the problems to be solved. You want them to be an excuse for your cowardice. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If you have an option to be a dork, that is most likely what will happen. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The strangest and most bizarre realization I've had in my life is this: People are much more afraid of succeeding than they are of failing. They are so used to their way of life that they panic even when imagining a new life. They don't know how they will live it; there's too much uncertainty. The life they live now may be miserable, but it is familiar. Uncertainty is the scariest thing ever. And they sabotage themselves right before they succeed every time. People who enjoy their fantasy of a better life usually act on it and achieve it. https://blossom.primal.net/06df08761792ed3467030d058a59de7077c25ca5a4d7d8c24aa83e04fb3ebf84.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Some people dream about winning big in life. Some people do the work and actually build the lives they want. What are you doing? npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When you expect things to go a certain way, it guarantees that you will be disappointed because no one can perfectly predict the future, and things will go in unexpected ways. If instead you aim somewhere and then go with the process, enjoying whatever happens, it will guarantee great experiences along the way and success in the end. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon When a smart person says or does something stupid, instead of laughing and pointing it out, try to understand why do they do it. It may be not a random mistake. They are smart for a reason. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon There is evidence for everything in the modern world. If you follow it, you may end up in a very dark and ignorant place. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon You don't find the truth by analyzing evidence in the modern world. You find it by building a logical working simulation based on understanding. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon You can't give free access to a tool to all the monkeys. There needs to be a qualifying filter, otherwise it becomes meaningless. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The most calming and pleasant idea you can hear is that it is not your fault. But it is the most destructive one. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Children love fantasy. Men love reality. Children are naive and harmless. Men are competent and dangerous. Children are emotional and sentimental. Men are rational and conscious. Children want to be loved. Men want to build their worlds. Children have fears. Men are curious. It is the time to grow tf up already. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon It is not about how much money you have. It is about how well you understand how the world works. If you understand how the world works and can build businesses, you can make as much money as you want. If you don't understand it, no matter how much money you have, you can waste it all easily. This is what you should strive to learn, not chase riches. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The more complex the structure, the more potential and leverage it has. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Most people search for a problem in them when something goes wrong. And while that is an effective strategy most of the time, sometimes it is not about you, you may be driving on deflated tires. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If you learn about life online, your worldview will be disconnected from actual reality. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon I have seen everything in my life. The most boring thing I've experienced is comfort. https://blossom.primal.net/2253f67d60ea2a6b4501d1d9fb06860db3b8f84a678ff6cef74db565b41ea0c0.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Sure. I am selling courses to make money 😄🤦🏻♂️ npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Nature always balances everything out. Society reached the weakest and most ignorant state in the last decade. Progress made people absolutely dumb and pathetic. There had to be a global event that would separate the dummies from smart individuals. And there was. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon We all have an evolutionary desire to be important, respected, and receive attention from others. When we are young, we look around us and see all these rich celebrities surrounded by people and being praised, and we think that when we grow up, if we become rich, we will also be famous and praised. But that is a naive dream children have because they don't understand how the world works. These rich celebrities are popular and praised not because they're rich, but because they are media personalities and the system has spent massive resources making them popular. You, no matter how rich you become, won't get that kind of attention. This situation has become even worse in the last several years. Popular celebrities have become so cool and entertaining that we have almost no chance of competing with them for attention. The reality is that people are busy and distracted. If you find anyone who cares about you, that will already be very rare. Then you may understand that they care because they want something from you. I noticed this in my life and have also heard this sentiment many times from my rich friends. "No one cares, even my mother only calls me when she needs money." "I feel absolutely alone. When I start throwing money away, people assemble around me, but I know they care only about the money, not me." "I have done so much important stuff in my life. Now I often find myself sitting alone in my villa and experiencing the sad reality." And it is the sad reality. But do we actually need the attention and the praise? That was a good survival strategy in the past, but it is not necessary in the modern world anymore. What if we just pursue whatever interests us? What if we stop building walls to guard our comfort and fortune and just return to the state we were happiest in? The state of exploration and experimentation. That was when we interacted with people and when they cared. No one can care about you through the walls you have built to distance yourself from them. Come out of your castle. Life is beautiful outside. https://blossom.primal.net/bb57596e8e141f6f95c5e79abb39249b770b042f81a7fe9f40b8f9ffaa92fc06.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon If she feels happy, everything seems beautiful, even dirt under the feet. If she feels miserable, everything seems ugly, even the most beautiful clouds. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Normal people are normal. They are mediocre. Everything they believe in, all their habits, desires, thoughts, and fears — everything is tuned in a way that produces the mediocrity they are living in. If you plan to cooperate with people to build something exceptional, you will need to change their behavior heavily. That is a very hard task. You could also try to find already exceptional people, which is an even harder thing to do in the modern, delusional, comfortable world. And most exceptional people are already busy doing great things somewhere else and getting paid insane salaries. Another option is to build processes that don't require exceptionality from people — a semi-automated workflow that guides people and uses only their available capabilities. Anyway, when you try to build something exceptional, collaborating with people is very hard. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon The less you are affected by anything and the less reactive you are, the more women will respect you, and men too. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Most people don't know how to appreciate things or how to show gratitude. It doesn't mean they don't feel it. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Everyone receives not what they want, but what they are afraid of. Because whatever is in your mind becomes reality. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Why do you like women? https://blossom.primal.net/10ea1613aeae444f88f44597808b6c657a30c51528eb3a45311307492a828fc1.jpg npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon Men don't cry, immature boys do. "I am a man and I cry." Sure. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon A thief that is successful at stealing will never stop. npub1vqfwt6k4rtwwpt3wqkg6yxr4lzsflr9edx4ehgty5d4tz7hjpt9szmawwd Roman Simon People don't like helping weak people. People like serving strong people.