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Last Notes npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 FIRE is hiring! If you are passionate about free speech give this a look, would be great to get a Bitcoiner on their team Fire.org/careers npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 The US House of Representatives just re-authorized warrantless surveillance, find out how your representative voted: https://clerk.house.gov/Votes/2026142 #politics #privacy #surveillance #uspolitics #democrats #republicans npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 LSPs like Zeus and Phoenix are non-custodial, you are thinking of custodial wallets, those do add custodial risk. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Following npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 What are the best ways to automatically provision inbound liquidity in #LND? I'm aware of pool but read there's not many nodes that actually offer swaps via pool? And it has centralizion risk I see electrum has a way to get submarine swap providers via nostr, does LND support this too? #asknostr #bitcoin #lightningnetwork npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/8bf5e52fa1a4692bc2239a489e2bc84d1b426ea91a62d939a7ce2b081bb85beb.jpg npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 #freedomtech has long won the technical fight but lost the political war. How do we start actually WINNING? How do we start increasing privacy and access to it instead of fighting back the continuous erosion of it? How do we STRENGTHEN free speech laws to survive current challenges and make sure new tech doesn't mean less speech rights? How do we make sure everyone has the right to self-custody, to transact, and to freely associate? #bitcoin has to win. Hoping it doesn't isn't enough, it's enemies aren't so passive npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 The same US Congress that covered for Epstein for decades is now trying to require KYC to use an AI chatbot under the pretense that it's to "protect children". Tell them you oppose this and you vote. Freedom tech has a long history of winning the technical battle but losing the political one. Let's change that. https://act.eff.org/action/tell-congress-oppose-the-guard-act #privacy #ai #vibecoding #kyc #politics npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Just wanted to report a bug that just started happening with the newest version: when trying to zap from amethyst (nwc not configured) I get the "open with" prompt and choose Zeus. Zeus starts up but never gets to the payment screen, just stays on the main screen. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Shopstr npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 40 years ago today, the Chernobyl nuclear disaster happened (USSR, now Ukraine). The cleanup and disaster mitigation involved exposing HALF A MILLION people to radiation, potentially many more. These people, called liquidators, risked their lives to protect us all, and many of them paid the ultimate price either in the immediate aftermath or years down the line due to increased rates of cancer and other ailments. Many never received their promised pensions and healthcare after the fall of the Soviet Union since the government guaranteeing such benefits no longer existed. There is a memorial to the liquidators pictured below with has a simple inscription: "To those who saved the world". A potent example of our power and the responsibility that comes with it. We stand on the shoulders of giants who risked everything to ensure a future for humanity. An opportunity for us to do better and go farther than they did. And a reminder of what we can accomplish when we work together. We only get one earth. https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/f3eeea5eb4bb0ff781d3c3b907ed6b50f83252cdc8888b4fbb4e3264c29b652e.jpg https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/de6db427f71480633858beea2455443f928ef919702e14202d5cded2aba0b122.jpg If this topic is of interest to you, you can learn about the liquidators in the USSR and Japan in this very well done video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eF-KSUfnbhg #onthisday #ussr #ukraine #nuclear #history npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Handsomest nostr user confirmed npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 App called super productivity, good for scheduling time and keeping on track npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 You're missing marshmallow spread npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Today 🫡 npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Highly recommend getting the steak OR the shake. I tried doing both at the same time my body was not ready 😅 npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 TIL an albatross can fly for weeks without flapping it's wings. WEEKS. #til #nature #ornithology npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/8f7adb3609bbc3925471672e89f0d497be0a55e75c87d5f85c0bd69f64c62159.gif npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Warrantless surveillance in the US is up for renewal, ask your reps to stop it. #restorethefourth #privacy #politics Restorethefourth.org https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/d805396608c48c07311b60acfb424c0b9129838525af20b56454d7cbdd971c96.jpg npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Believe it or not, informants actually have to participate in the organizations they're informing on to gain trust and access to information. Are you saying the indictment is legit because someone... *Checks notes* planned a political rally? YIKES npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 This is not indictment worthy at all, we should be terrified that the DoJ feels empowered to go after civil organizations because they disagree with the.. Like them or not, SPLCs stated mission was to investigate "extremism" according to their definition of it. They solicited donations for that purpose, paying informants for those investigations clearly falls within that scope. Our liberty and rights die when we accept violations of them because it's politically convenient and happening to the "other side" or "bad guys". Do better. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 This is not indictment worthy at all, we should be terrified that the DoJ feels empowered to go after civil organizations because they disagree with the.. Like them or not, SPLCs stated mission was to investigate "extremism" according to their definition of it. They solicited donations for that purpose, paying informants for those investigations clearly falls within that scope. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Everyone talking about Mac minis and laptops for AI development, but the real ones know the dell optiplex series is the true OG of homelab. #development #programming #ai npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Oh I just assumed they did but you are right I don't see nostr mentioned there npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 He needs to be told he is more handsome than Derek Ross npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 When nostr clients finally implement a "top 8" feature, Derek Ross needs to be the default top one just like Tom was on Myspace #grownostr #nostrdev npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Would love to see a PAC formed for privacy, it's one of the few political issues we don't have a good bipartisan PAC for. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 The biggest project I know along these lines is Gridcoin, they started around the the time ethereum did. DeSci is the term to search for, lots of projects in that space. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Unable to zap you but love this npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Shopstr npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 #memestr #postivity #newsisntreal #photography https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/bf89a09493c89f3202397c8781084fa4669d6b51c0487a77243f8e8747f2358d.jpg npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Nostr finally has a meetup killer: even to. Thanks to HRF for turning me onto this! https://evento.so/ #naddr1qq…gl89 npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Exactly. The same way we've gotten all the best pro Bitcoin legislation so far: not because they did it from the goodness of their hearts, but because their self interest aligned with Bitcoins. And because Bitcoiners spent big on lobbying, which is something we need to continue to do. He who writes the checks writes the laws. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Because as Bitcoin becomes the global currency, states which keep capital gains tax on Bitcoin will become economically uncompetitive. They can't compete with nations that pay next to nothing in fees for instant secure transactions. Some nation states have already dropped cap gains tax, more will follow suit. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 When my friend is mad about the other side in the culture/gender/whatever war and im like "the other people don't really think that" https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/8f65efa5bff6cf348cace367ad3f11095a47c9099ebbd68592f78df881f403d6.jpg " npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 When my friend is mad about something (usually politics) and I try to respond with nuance https://npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy.blossom.band/8f65efa5bff6cf348cace367ad3f11095a47c9099ebbd68592f78df881f403d6.jpg npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Excuse me sir but slop is not allowed to be this good 😡 npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Bitcoin optech newsletter is great for tech stuff. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Definitely use keys. You may want sepperate keys for each endpoint npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 https://github.com/vitorpamplona/amethyst Yes, nip13 Acceptance criteria is working code submitted as a PR and accepted or rejected (for reasons aside from functionality or code quality) by main dev Victor. Feature should enable user to set default pow to place on all notes in settings, with per-note pow configurable when making a note (slider). npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 65 years ago today Yuri Gagarin of the USSR ⚒️ became the first human in space. Fearing the loss of a national hero, he was banned from further space flight, only to die years later in a terrestrial MiG-15 flight. No matter how far you fly, you may be grounded by something mundane. A MiG-15 flight may not be mundane to you and I, but it sure was for Yuri. For you, it may be a bacterial infection, a car crash, a bridge failure, or simply tripping and hitting your head on the concrete. The human body is resilient, but also incredibly fragile when hit in just the right ways. Live and love accordingly. We remember you Yuri 🫡, thank you for inspiring a generation. #space #onthisday npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 #nevent1q…ggve npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 I would like to see PoW notes added to #amethyst, I'll pay 10,000 sats to anyone who builds this feature. If you want to add to this bounty, comment below. Bounty expires 60 days from today. Anybody want to get it done? #asknostr #workforbitcoin #gigs #bounty npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 All the pouw systems I've seen rely on some degree of centralization. For the world's currency, that's a problem, for spam filtering? That's a tradeoff id be willing to make in exchange for PoW going to, for example, a volunteer computing project designing new cancer drugs (BOINC, folding@home, etc) npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Agreed, id much prefer wider PoW adoption in nostr. Waiting 30 seconds for my post to go through in the background is no big deal if it helps eliminate spam. I wonder if there's some way to do PoW where the PoW actually helps a mining pool somehow? npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 #nevent1q…lwja npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Bro to bro, if you pull away during the kiss and she doesn't come back with "nothing stops this train", she ain't the one npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Namecheap, they take BTC npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 #nevent1q…y8mc npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Fedimint really solves a lot of problems I hope this protocol gets off the ground npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 You can get USDT via lightning on boltz npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Any publicity is good publicity 🤔🤔 npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Closing my coin base account this week, fuck coinbase for this npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Help me out nostr fam. Trying to figure out payment flow for a client who can't handle much exchange risk (BTC vs USD value). I understand USDT can be sent/received over lightning now. Do the major exchanges actually support receiving USDT over lightning? Is there an easy way to get a LNURL/lightning address which can receive USDT? If a lightning channel with USDT is closed, do they somehow receive that USDT on chain? #asknostr #bitcoin npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 You can just use Zeus and connect it to a random cashu mint. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Shopstr npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Phoenix or Zeus, both support lightning, Zeus gives you a lot more control. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Crazy idea it will never work npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Haven't used blixt but Phoenix is a great first wallet. You'll experience lower fees and more control with Zeus. Zeus also supports cashu, your own channels (don't have to use their lsp if you don't want) etc You do not need your own lightning node to use Zeus, it comes with its own built in. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Tried to zap your comment but looks like you don't have zaps setup npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Wanting your man to just "listen" and "validate" but not "offer solutions" is like taking your grocery list to the hardware store. It's like getting mad that every time you go to the Subaru dealership, they don't try to sell you a Toyota. When I want emotional insight? I talk with women, because they tend to be better at listening, validating, and helping me understand what I feel. When I want solutions? I ask men. Don't ask people for things they are innately not good at providing and then get frustrated when they can't. I don't ask my mechanic friend about my taxes, and I don't ask my tax guy about my dating life. Play to your respective strengths and you'll have a prosperous, mutually beneficial relationship. Insist the other person act exactly as you would and at best you will get someone who can do what you do, but not quite as well. The therapy industry, which is compromised almost entirely of women, and which in many cases offers the service of "validating but not solving", unsurprisingly tells women that their men should do this as well. They say that this feminine form of listening is the "right" way. And when male partners don't listen the "right" way, their female partners get frustrated, which means more listening work for the therapist. Outside of having a diagnosable reason why you should need it on an ongoing basis, therapy should be something you enroll in for a limited period of time to help you gain better insight and coping skills for navigating everyday life and difficult transitions. Yet I know many people, mostly women, who are in "forever" relationships with their therapists with no end in sight. And take a cocktail of antidepressants and anti anxiety meds as well (1 in 5 women). The antidote to anxiety is ACTION. You gain confidence by DOING and surviving and knowing you will survive the next challenge. Talking about it should be the preparatory stage, not the ultimate one. Listening without solving has its virtue, but in the long run, someone who endlessly validates you while not holding you accountable or asking why you don't eliminate a persistent stressor in your life which has obvious solutions isn't someone being helpful, it's them enabling behavior patterns that are harmful to your well being and causing you recurring stress. Real love means wanting the best for someone and asking why they don't reach for it. It's asking hard questions. It's holding them accountable. It's not enabling. Listening and validating without challenge on a recurring basis is enabling. #relationships #dating #anxiety #therapy #growth npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Bitcart supports lightning but you must manually manage liquidity and it doesn't give you a lnurl npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Zeus npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Powerful speech on Iran from 11 years ago from now Secretary of State Marco Rubio. #politics #iran https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_UHgUlLKAgU npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 I personally also don't worry about this, if they leave then probably wasn't anything I coulda done about it. I just be myself and if that isn't a compatible enough match then obv it wasn't meant to me npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Sounds like you are very secure in your relationships which is a great thing, many of the people I've dated have this anxiety. Though the ones with the highest levels of this anxiety I notice tend to be the monogamous types npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 🤔 Who are they texting? 🤔 Who is this friend of the opposite sex they have? 🤔 What about that one at work who they seem to be getting a little too friendly with? 🤔 Is their behavior crossing the line into "technically" cheating? Am I crazy for being worried about it? Maybe it's "micro-cheating". 💝Monogamy sells us a story that it is valuable because it quells the anxiety that our partner may leave. But all it does is push that anxiety to another place. ⏩Instead of worrying about how you compare to their other partners or options they're interacting with, you worry about whether they're cheating 🚨And if you ask them? Your relationship structure incentivizes them to lie about it, which gives you even more good reason to worry. Instead of an honest answer, which they could give in a polyamorous context, they now may act weird even if nothing weird is going on simply because they worry you're going to interpret it wrong. 🎯In polyamory, you worry your partner may leave you for a better option. In monogamy, you worry your partner may leave you for a better option and lie to you the entire time about it before they actually do. It's clear to me which of those is worse. 😎Your anxieties and insecurities are the problem, not the relationship structure. Choosing monogamy over polyamory to solve your anxieties is no more effective than insisting you can go through your partner's phone, it gives you a very temporary feeling of control but ultimately will likely only end up fueling your anxieties in the long run and doesn't solve the root issue. A partner who knows their phone gets looked through likely isn't going to let themselves get caught cheating this way, but what is likely to happen is for you to see a text your anxiety can latch onto and spiral with. 😘 Real security comes from recognizing and fighting your own anxieties and choosing partners who demonstrate security and commitment on a regular basis. It comes from being the best partner you can be so that your partner never wants to leave. People who put energy there instead of into anxiety have much happier relationships and reduce the chance of cheating in the first place. 🔐 Security also comes from acknowledging that most relationships are temporary, so we should enjoy them while we have them, and that some day we probably, statistically, will be replaced. Or at the very least, even if we stay together, the person we know now will not exist in ten years because they will have changed, loss is inevitable. #relationships #monogamy #polyamory #dating #anxiety npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Doesn't support lightning npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 They said the privacy functions were nice but that all the normal day to day stuff worked as normal npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 I haven't gone down the setup route, that's just the answer I got when asking someone I knew who runs graphene npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 My answer from asking someone else this same question this week is "yes, you'll just have to click accept on permission prompts as they happen and it's all fairly graceful" npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 It's like a square, but smoother and more enjoyable to touch npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Tbh could easily be half the people I've met on nostr npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Just zapped ya npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Apologies for the slow response, yes embedded LND. I only have one. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 The new ones may too, idk. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 All the nostr dm protocols encrypt content, older ones leaked metadata. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Of all the services we use, email is the last one I want to self host lol. Deliverability is key for us and I don't want the headaches on that end. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 What's the proton news this week? npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Oh cool, I've heard about your project before actually! In the age of AI driven spam, gates like this are going to be crucial. I like to keep my nostr and work identity separate, but broadly speak I'm working in the Bitcoin dev space. I have the sysadmin skills but the time tradeoff just isn't worth it, I have other things I want to do aside from manage a hundred different docker containers just so I can have a shared notes app that talks to our password app that talks to our spreadsheet repo. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Thanks for the response, very insightful! Business, just trying to go as oss/private/sovereign as we can without sacrificing significant usability or requiring a bunch of sysadmin overhead. Tried to zap ya but no zaps setup npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Interested to hear from people who have gone all in on the proton stack vs Google for business. Particularly interested in how sheets functionality and email deliverability compare? #proton #privacy #google #asknostr npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 You should be concerned about the soda for non-cholesterol reasons. Of all the higher cholesterol foods, eggs have actually been studied a lot in isolation and seem to have no meaningful effect on cholesterol. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Proton seems to give up on 90% of their projects one year post launch. They get the product 80% of the way there feature wise and then just stop. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Ultimately routing fees are determined by who you have channels open with. Some wallets force you to open a channel to their node and charge more routing fees (like Phoenix). But other like Zeus do not, even if they do offer their own node/lsp as an option. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Open a channel: same cost as an on chain transaction so.. ten cents US. Make lightning transactions using channels: limitless transactions back and forth at 0-1%, sometimes literally zero. Close a channel: on chain tx, another ten cents npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 No, put it on different hardware or in a VM. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 My understanding (in case of activation without chain split) is that the technical risk is shutting out some use cases which are in current or planned use such as BitVM. Im not knowledgeable enough to say feature x or y won't work, but generally, if we want more complex scripting abilities, limiting the place that information can live will limit that ability. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 I bought Bitcoin in 2026, I won't need to make money in 20 years. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 For anyone on Linux who wants a good desktop #bitcoin #lightning wallet and has been frustrated that there were one, electrum just got an upgrade that makes lightning work way better than before. It was literally unusable before due to routing failures, now it at least works. Still crazy that it's the only viable option for desktop users. Though if you can run waydroid and run Zeus in it, that's still your best bet. #zeus #waydroid npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Just wanted to report a bug, I'm on this version from play store. Idk if this was happening before but I just noticed this week. I don't see any transactions since Feb 28 in the activity window, though I know I've sent a couple thousand sats in a couple different transactions. I wonder if I've hit some kind of limit because I've been using this wallet for 1+ year w at least one zap a day. So there's a lot of history. Lightning channel balances seem correct, just seems to be an issue with the tx list. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Thank you! npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Are there any decent LLMs for coding that can be run entirely local on a consumer grade GPU? #asknostr #vibecoding npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Strike offers this and also offers flexible lines of credit starting next month. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 There aren't really best practices yet aside from isolate as much as you can to prevent against prompt injections/bad results npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 We can't seem to convince many of these countries to take back their own citizens, their descendants are a non-starter. If you think birthright citizenship is bad, the place to prevent it is at the border, not at the birth end. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Logistical reality matters more here than philosophy. Even if birthright citizenship was dumb and we didn't want it, what are we going to do with those people? We can't deport them, no other country wants them either, especially since they're not from any country except for this one. We could pay another country to keep them as prisoners, that raises obvious ethical issues as well as economic ones, isn't it better to roll the dice that they might contribute to GDP instead of guaranteeing they're a net negative on it? Worst case scenario, they end up being bad citizens and then we can pay ourselves or someone else to jail them. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 I feel conflicted about voting/donating strategy in my area (US) and would appreciate some outside perspective. One party here is absolutely dominant, regularly winning with 70%+ of the vote and one or nobody running against them. They occasionally have completive primaries. I am currently registered with this party so I can vote in their primaries since the primaries essentially determine the outcome of general elections. I don't like the other big party here either. They don't have competitive primaries at all, and whoever wins the primary has no chance of winning in the generals. There is a third party I like a lot more, but has the same problems to an even greater degree. I feel most aligned with this party, both of the two major parties feel pretty equally aligned/misaligned with this party. I would register with this third party, but doing so would prevent me from voting in the primary for the dominant party. I have no desire to donate to the main political party or the second, but donating to the third feels like pissing in the wind. I could see donating to primary candidates or maybe it makes more sense just to donate to causes/PACs around specific issues instead of candidates. Which primary would you vote to participate in? How would you vote in the generals and how would you decide who to donate to? Give me your perspective #asknostr npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Most hardcore privacy security/privacy features disappearing in 3..2.. npub1hce578d83hff5c594p2pysunkhw24k3z7lj5czkd2vafs04y6v8q9ayrcy 21_21_21 Can definitely be done diy, just be smart about it. Traps are best unless you want to risk your house smelling like decaying mouse for six months. They also eliminate the risk of poisoning wildlife. No eaty the poopy 🧠💪